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When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by MojiDelano(f): 8:54am On May 07, 2015 |
My very intimate friend was recently at the rough end of a physical assault from her husband. This has been going on for a while and as usual she found it very difficult to tell me because she knows I won't take it well. Her hubby was due to travel back to NIGERIA from the UK and as usual he was packing her designer bags as gifts to his younger sister who by the way was not on speaking terms with my friend. Her mild rejection of his plan which was all the more insulting since he did not take permission from her before just invading her closet got him mad and the beating and blows commenced. She said this time, she was sure that he meant to kill her. He grabbed tight her throat, planning to choke her, scratched at her face all the while raining blows on her repeatedly screaming, the intervention of her kids and her father could not save her from this hell. When he was done, he left her utterly humiliated and headed for the airport. To make matters worse, her parents not wanting the humiliation of a divorce are insisting that she should remain a good wife and even go and apologise to the beast for verbally and physically assaulting her. I love her and remain deeply helpless as I see that this will not end. So I ask, when is it justifiable to beat up a woman or is it ever justifiable to do that? What advise can I give her. I plan to rescue her but would she be alive by the time I am ready? I am afraid. http://josephedgarng..com/2015/05/when-is-it-justifiable-to-beat-woman.html Seun Ishilove TheRealMrStan, Lalasticlala 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by godoluwa(m): 8:57am On May 07, 2015 |
It's absolutely wrong for a man to beat his wife no matter whatever. ***FTC*** Dedicated to all men that will never beat their wife 94 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by agarawu23(m): 8:59am On May 07, 2015 |
never!!! modified:- the surprising aspect is the lady will later open her legs for the man who nearly took her life with beating some hours ago. hmmmmm! marriage is strong and "third" party is not allowed. beating your wife is totally wrong, they are other ways you can deal with her. 7 Likes |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Bevy12(f): 9:01am On May 07, 2015 |
So wrong and there is absolutely no reason to beat a woman even if she offends you. 7 Likes |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Young03(m): 9:02am On May 07, 2015 |
too bad not good to beat a wife Bt e good to beat a girl when she did wrong 4 Likes |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Young03(m): 9:02am On May 07, 2015 |
too bad not good to beat a wife Bt e good to beat a girl when she did qrong 1 Like |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by falconey(m): 9:03am On May 07, 2015 |
it is so wrong, I did it 4times. 10 Likes |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by tosyne2much(m): 9:04am On May 07, 2015 |
I just smh each time I see people talking aggressively and raining curses on guys each time a topic like this arises Not every guy who lay hands on ladies is happy doing it. Sometimes it just happens unconsciously which might later put you in deep regrets Sometimes, my mom can be so annoying that she stretches my tolerance to the end point that I feel like engaging in a physical combat with her, just that it's not just possible I have never lay hands on ladies and I will never but I think it can be justifiable depending on the context or situation Personally, it's very evident to me that many ladies seem to take advantage of the fact that the society kicks against a guy beating a lady, therefore, they ride on you and even do nasty things that warrant beating cos they know that people will rebuke you if you dare try that My elder brother told me that during his 100L, a lady has once registered a slap on his face in the lecture room just because he missed his steps and accidentally stepped on her sandal. She added another slap even when he said "sorry"... in that case, if he retaliated, would you call him a misogynist ? 98 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Nobody: 9:06am On May 07, 2015 |
falconey: So ur woman beater .. I go divorce u ohh lol 1 Like |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by loomer: 9:08am On May 07, 2015 |
The moment u de ready to go jail 2 Likes |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Iaz93: 9:08am On May 07, 2015 |
The only reason you should have for laying your hands on your woman is if she attacks you. Or if your babe carry your school fee go make her hair. Any other reason is not acceptable. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Nobody: 9:11am On May 07, 2015 |
loomer: Lol innit But it doesnt apply to nigerians .. No law .. So no jail 1 Like |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by loomer: 9:13am On May 07, 2015 |
Lala247: That's the sad part of it all. But until such laws are put in place and implemented, it will always be a gud day to beat a woman 2 Likes |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Nobody: 9:15am On May 07, 2015 |
If she deserve beating. I will not think twice to give her the thing. no time to play. There is no point in reserving something someone deserves. 46 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by OohMpa: 9:16am On May 07, 2015 |
There are only 2 instances you have to beat women or you not a man 1) When she giving you the double jerk and suck combination and you got one eye closed and the other looking ceiling and floor same time. You come dey viblate like Nokia 3310 about to lerease akamu and she remove mouth The black eye must be veli veli permanent 2) When she on top riding with that big batty. You beat nyash, left right, left right. Yummmm Yummm 37 Likes |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by dejt4u(m): 9:17am On May 07, 2015 |
falconey:pls neva do it again.. 4 Likes |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Nobody: 9:17am On May 07, 2015 |
The woman believes she is a good wife by chopping nonsense, obeying her parents. How can you be good to others and bad to yourself? I guess spanking is ok if the woman likes it. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by dejt4u(m): 9:19am On May 07, 2015 |
tosyne2much:lol @ d bolded. 2 Likes |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Nobody: 9:20am On May 07, 2015 |
loomer: Before that type of law would happen .. First running tap water, electricity, good roads... They wont think women getting beat up is top on that list so i doubt it . 3 Likes |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by loomer: 9:22am On May 07, 2015 |
Lala247: Lol, that is if they even have a list self 1 Like |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Nobody: 9:23am On May 07, 2015 |
Bevy12:may i know why? 1 Like |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Nobody: 9:29am On May 07, 2015 |
loomer: Lol i tire for our ppl sha |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by loomer: 9:31am On May 07, 2015 |
Lala247: Anyway, I no see reason why a man should hit a woman. While growing up, I no ever see my papa hit my mama no matter the provocation, and me don ask God to give me the grace nevr to hit a woman. 1 Like |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by TheSonOfMark(m): 9:33am On May 07, 2015 |
Bevy12: Miss, for all the chivalrous attributes I possess, if a woman hits me first I'll hit her back in the same way she did to me. No apologies whatsoever. 30 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Nobody: 9:37am On May 07, 2015 |
MojiDelano:when she stops being a woman |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by falconey(m): 9:39am On May 07, 2015 |
Lala247: I was. No be only you get nyash and breast.........my market go sell. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by Nobody: 9:39am On May 07, 2015 |
When it is justifiable to beat your MOTHER!!!! 13 Likes |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by DonaldGenes(m): 9:39am On May 07, 2015 |
...When she you cums before you twice 5 Likes |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by sammieguze(m): 9:39am On May 07, 2015 |
Self defense only. IMO 1 Like |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by kayboy4y(m): 9:40am On May 07, 2015 |
It's not justifiable at all. Beating your wife is a sign of irresponsibility. #NOTOBEATINGWOMEN 4 Likes |
Re: When Is It Justifiable To Beat A Woman? by WisdomCanada(m): 9:40am On May 07, 2015 |
No time 1 Like |
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