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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by ronald4lif(m): 4:04pm On Jun 14, 2015
MrsChima:


May I kiss you freely?

Don't tempt me, woman. wink
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by SemuhleB(f): 4:06pm On Jun 14, 2015
ronald4lif:


Don't tempt me, woman. wink
Where are you from? I always see your comments and they are so sensible and unbiased. I can just tell you are a different breed of man smiley
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 4:10pm On Jun 14, 2015
ronald4lif:


Oga, just a quick question. Have you ever beaten a woman in the States and would you ever whoop a woman ass there or you're talking about Nigeria?.
I haven't both at naija and in the states and why because when they start their drama and I try to be reasonable with them they tend to reciprocate and the issue is resolved. my point is this 99percent of ladies no I mean bitches ( a lady knows and respects herself) who got their azz whooped played a big role in it mostly with their foul mouth. i hate violence of any kind and haven't beaten any female in my lifetime and don't intend to but from few that I've seen you cant put the whole blame on the guy. there's limit to endurance.

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by ronald4lif(m): 4:11pm On Jun 14, 2015
SemuhleB:
Where are you from? I always see your comments and they are so sensible and unbiased. I can just tell you are a different breed of man smiley

I take that as a compliment and thanks for the notch. I'm a Nigerian. smiley
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by SemuhleB(f): 4:15pm On Jun 14, 2015
icedbeatz:

I haven't both at naija and in the states and why because when they start their drama and I try to be reasonable with them they tend to reciprocate and the issue is resolved. my point is this 99percent of ladies no I mean bitches ( a lady knows and respects herself) who got their azz whooped played a big role in it mostly with their foul mouth. i hate violence of any kind and haven't beaten any female in my lifetime and don't intend to but from few that I've seen you cant put the whole blame on the guy. there's limit to endurance.
This is nonsense. Why can't the guy walk away or leave her if she has a bad mouth or why are you dating a bitch to start of with. Not all women who are abused contribute towards it. I know a lady who got beaten because her bf was upset that she came home at 8pm yet there was a strike and she had to wait long for transport to get home. Even when she goes and visits her friends he beats her. So this 99 percent ish is all in your head. I can see you have the potential to be a woman beater if you have not already even started. Smdh

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by SemuhleB(f): 4:17pm On Jun 14, 2015
ronald4lif:


I take that as a compliment and thanks for the notch. I'm a Nigerian. smiley
it is a compliment and I know you are a Nigerian. When I said where are you from it was more of 'where are you from cos there are hardly any men like you around kinda thing'. Don't change. It's very refreshing
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by ronald4lif(m): 4:20pm On Jun 14, 2015
icedbeatz:

I haven't both at naija and in the states and why because when they start their drama and I try to be reasonable with them they tend to reciprocate and the issue is resolved. my point is this 99percent of ladies no I mean bitches ( a lady knows and respects herself) who got their azz whooped played a big role in it mostly with their foul mouth. i hate violence of any kind and haven't beaten any female in my lifetime and don't intend to but from few that I've seen you cant put the whole blame on the guy. there's limit to endurance.

Okay, I get it now. Just wanted to be sure you haven't indulge in assaulting a woman in U.S. and wanted to know what the outcome was, for I'm sure the retribution would be severe. We're all aware that some women can be very annoying sometimes but like you said one can address it in a more acceptable manner than resorting to violence, notwithstanding the temptation to whoop them.

The reason why domestic abuse is prevalent in Nigeria is because there are no strict laws to combat the act. When there are laws in place there will be some constrain in assaulting women. To me, my best weapon is to ignore whenever a woman is all out on a verbal attack and it's been proven very effective.

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 4:26pm On Jun 14, 2015
SemuhleB:
This is nonsense. Why can't the guy walk away or leave her if she has a bad mouth or why are you dating a bitch to start of with. Not all women who are abused contribute towards it. I know a lady who got beaten because her bf was upset that she came home at 8pm yet there was a strike and she had to wait long for transport to get home. Even when she goes and visits her friends he beats her. So this 99 percent ish is all in your head. I can see you have the potential to be a woman beater if you have not already even started. Smdh
you can type all the crap you want idgaf so frankly fk you very much. your friends bf deserves an azz whooping for doing such to a lady who didn't do such ( though if investigated one can realize there's a story your friend isn't telling).
walk away?! how many times?! so that a bitcch like you can pick that as an advantage or manipulation to make him go away? Hahshahahahahahahahaha bitcch puhlease

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by ronald4lif(m): 4:29pm On Jun 14, 2015
SemuhleB:
it is a compliment and I know you are a Nigerian. When I said where are you from it was more of 'where are you from cos there are hardly any men like you around kinda thing'. Don't change. It's very refreshing

You seem to know a lot about Nigerians. Presently or in the past been enamoured or beguiled by one of us?. cheesy
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Notyourb1tch(f): 4:30pm On Jun 14, 2015
MrsChima:


May I kiss you freely?
Seconded. You can say that again and again kiss kiss@ Ronald4lif
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Notyourb1tch(f): 4:31pm On Jun 14, 2015
No man has the right to beat a lady. Is she your child? If her own parents don't beat her what gives you the right to beat her. It's very easy to spot women beaters. I stay as far away from them as possible. Disgusting animals!

Women are really suffering cry

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by ronald4lif(m): 4:33pm On Jun 14, 2015
Notyourb1tch:
Seconded. You can say that again and again kiss kiss@ Ronald 4lif

Lol! You lots are tempting me, mademoiselle. I hold no prisoner when I'm tempted like this and can be very aggressive in such game. grin
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 4:34pm On Jun 14, 2015
ronald4lif:


Okay, I get it now. Just wanted to be sure you haven't indulge in assaulting a woman in U.S. and wanted to know what the outcome was for I'm sure the retribution would be severe. We're all aware that some women can be very annoying sometimes but like you said one can address it in a more acceptable manner than resorting to beating, notwithstanding the temptation to whoop them.

The reason why domestic abuse is prevalent in Nigeria is because there are no strict laws to combat the act. When there are laws in place there will be some constrain in assaulting women. To me, my best weapon is to ignore whenever a woman is all out on a verbal attack and it's proven very effective.
I agree with you bro but there are different crazy bitcches out there that goes beyond just yapping their foul mouth, what if they shove you around? Hahshahahahahahahahaha bro my guys ex gf made life hell for him I'm talking about the things I've witnessed not heard and stuff. Even when the guy tries to bounce out or ignore her this bitcch would shove him around and be all up in his face, cursing his mom, dad and fams. Believe its easy to type I can never lay a hand on a lady till the situation arises that's why I don't date crazy bitches cos I might lose my cool.
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America got strict laws on that but just ask yourself why are guys still whooping their azz? are they not afraid of being dealt with?! the law here somehow is unfair to guys. If a female takes away a guy's most precious need which is his peace of mind anything can happen ( haven't you read about hubbies killing the wife they once loved with all they got?) that's what suppressed anger can lead to, yeah there are very very stupidd unreasonable guys but from what I've witnessed the bitches got it coming. I bet since your stay in states you have witnessed how arrogant, disgraceful and unreasonable some bitcches can be haven't you? Ladies guys loves you all but please easy on the crazy attitudes but for the imps who think a man should always walk away whenever they're displaying their stupidityy and ignorance may you be repaid in your own coins.

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 4:35pm On Jun 14, 2015
SemuhleB:
Okay so here goes. I have a few Nigerian male friends and a couple of days ago this is what one of them said to me " Here in South Africa you women are too free". Every little beating then you call the police. In Nigeria if a police came the first thing they would ask you is what is your relationship between the lady, and if it's your Gf/wife the police would leave you to continue. Beatings is how you keep women in check.

After hearing this I was appalled but then I began to understand why a lot of Nigerian men beat their girlfriends and wife's here. So is it really a cultural thing, that it is okay for men to beat women? Do the police really not do anything about this?
hehehe una dey look for reason to dey fuel una xenophobia cheesy

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Notyourb1tch(f): 4:38pm On Jun 14, 2015
ronald4lif:


Lol! You lots are tempting me, mademoiselle. I hold no prisoner when I'm tempted like this and can be very aggressive in such game. grin
Lmao maybe I like aggressive tongue but seriously you are a darling.

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by ronald4lif(m): 4:41pm On Jun 14, 2015
icedbeatz:

I agree with you bro but there are different crazy bitcches out there that goes beyond just yapping their foul mouth, what if they shove you around? Hahshahahahahahahahaha bro my guys ex gf made life hell for him I'm talking about the things I've witnessed not heard and stuff. Even when the guy tries to bounce out or ignore her this bitcch would shove him around and be all up in his face, cursing his mom, dad and fams. Believe its easy to type I can never lay a hand on a lady till the situation arises that's why I don't date crazy bitches cos I might lose my cool. America got strict laws on that but why don't you ask yourself why are guys still whooping their azz? yeah there are very very stupidd unreasonable guys but from what I've witnessed the bitches got it coming.

The emboldened should settle it. I'd rather not be in a relationship than get involve with some crazy woman who may end up insulting and dragging my family into our differences. I spot such women even with a blind on me.

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 4:42pm On Jun 14, 2015
Trendy247:

you're beautiful


Correct man

Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by SemuhleB(f): 4:42pm On Jun 14, 2015
icedbeatz:

you can type all the crap you want idgaf so frankly fk you very much. your friends bf deserves an azz whooping for doing such to a lady who didn't do such ( though if investigated one can realize there's a story your friend isn't telling).
walk away?! how many times?! so that a bitcch like you can pick that as an advantage or manipulation to make him go away? Hahshahahahahahahahaha bitcch puhlease
when I say walk away I mean leave her for good. It's better than physically abusing her. Lol @ bitcch like me. Mister am not the type of lady that sits around for men like you to continue to beat me. Once a man lays his hands on me. That's it. I walk away. Will never entertain such rubbish nor do I want to end up 6 feet under.

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 4:44pm On Jun 14, 2015
SemuhleB:
Lol I knew you would be here. Mister you can't beat me and get away with it. South Africa is not a banana republic besides I know how to defend myself trust me. Have been taking classes since I was 15. You will get your ass whipped by me cheesy
Let's leave the standard of countries out of it. I train too, and I know how to beat you. tongue

It is clear you are just boasting, lady.Merely looking at your profile image proves that you are not physically strong. Aren't you a South African? You know what I am talking about! Calm down. I am not trying to intimidate you 'cause you are already shaking! Hehehe... grin cheesy cool
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by SemuhleB(f): 4:44pm On Jun 14, 2015
lefulefu:

hehehe una dey look for reason to dey fuel una xenophobia cheesy
Sweetheart it has not come to that. Everything now is xenophobia. I simply asked a simple question
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by MrsChima(f): 4:46pm On Jun 14, 2015
ronald4lif:


Don't tempt me, woman. wink

Hmmm. Did you smile?
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 4:46pm On Jun 14, 2015
SemuhleB:
when I say walk away I mean leave her for good. It's better than physically abusing her. Lol @ bitcch like me. Mister am not the type of lady that sits around for men like you to continue to beat me. Once a man lays his hands on me. That's it. I walk away. Will never entertain such rubbish nor do I want to end up 6 feet under.
It is easier said than done! Would you walk away from all the benefits he provides you with? tongue

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by ronald4lif(m): 4:46pm On Jun 14, 2015
icedbeatz:

you can type all the crap you want idgaf so frankly fk you very much. your friends bf deserves an azz whooping for doing such to a lady who didn't do such ( though if investigated one can realize there's a story your friend isn't telling).
walk away?! how many times?! so that a bitcch like you can pick that as an advantage or manipulation to make him go away? Hahshahahahahahahahaha bitcch puhlease

Oga, you dey vex oo. Have you'd an encounter with a lady that got on your nerves in the past or just from your acquaintance experience?.

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by SemuhleB(f): 4:47pm On Jun 14, 2015
all4naija:
Let's leave the standard of countries out of it. I train too, and I know how to beat you. tongue

It is clear you are just boasting, lady.Merely looking at your profile image proves that you are not physically strong. Aren't you a South African? You know what I am talking about! Calm down. I am not trying to intimidate you 'cause you are already shaking! Hehehe... grin cheesy cool
lol you are too much. So you can suddenly judge on looks whether a person is strong or not. That's the mistake most of you men make. Don't judge a book by its cover. You don't need to be big to appear strong. Likely I said I have had years of training and I know how to defend myself.
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by ronald4lif(m): 4:48pm On Jun 14, 2015
MrsChima:


Hmmm. Did you smile?

Quite so.
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 4:49pm On Jun 14, 2015
SemuhleB:
Sweetheart it has not come to that. Everything now is xenophobia. I simply asked a simple question
I heard South African men are likely to abuse their women more than any other Africans. lipsrsealed

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by SemuhleB(f): 4:49pm On Jun 14, 2015
all4naija:
It is easier said than done! Would you walk away from all the benefits he provides you with? tongue
My dear I make my own money and do not rely on a man for such. Whatever I want I buy myself..it's those type of ladies who depend on men for every little thing that usually get treated like a dustbin cos he knows no matter what he does the lady will not go anywhere. Besides I am very picky when it comes to who I date. I don't just date anybody and there are signs trust me
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by MrsChima(f): 4:51pm On Jun 14, 2015
SemuhleB:
Where are you from? I always see your comments and they are so sensible and unbiased. I can just tell you are a different breed of man smiley

Get back hussy! He is taken! angry
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by SemuhleB(f): 4:52pm On Jun 14, 2015
MrsChima:


Get back hussy! He is taken! angry
grin grin you can have him but be careful mrchima does not beat you tongue
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by MrsChima(f): 4:55pm On Jun 14, 2015
ronald4lif:


Okay, I get it now. Just wanted to be sure you haven't indulge in assaulting a woman in U.S. and wanted to know what the outcome was for I'm sure the retribution would be severe. We're all aware that some women can be very annoying sometimes but like you said one can address it in a more acceptable manner than resorting to beating, notwithstanding the temptation to whoop them.

The reason why domestic abuse is prevalent in Nigeria is because there are no strict laws to combat the act. When there are laws in place there will be some constrain in assaulting women. To me, my best weapon is to ignore whenever a woman is all out on a verbal attack and it's been proven very effective.

But you don't ignore me. tongue
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by MrsChima(f): 4:56pm On Jun 14, 2015
ronald4lif:


Lol! You lots are tempting me, mademoiselle. I hold no prisoner when I'm tempted like this and can be very aggressive in such game. grin

Aggressive in what way virgin?
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 4:58pm On Jun 14, 2015
SemuhleB:
My dear I make my own money and do not rely on a man for such. Whatever I want I buy myself..it's those type of ladies who depend on men for every little thing that usually get treated like a dustbin cos he knows no matter what he does the lady will not go anywhere. Besides I am very picky when it comes to who I date. I don't just date anybody and there are signs trust me
The benefits are not all about money. Look at it this way. He shows you to his friends, family and people you come to love with time. Then he treats you to steamy bed time that you keep thinking about him at random and gives you gifts that make you feel attached to him, etc.

You seem to be going about what people used to accuse women of when talking about their fickle love for men. That is not what I am talking about.

A picky person is sometime likely to fall for the wrong guy. You might think he is perfect through you scrutiny, test and shenanigans through out your dating time only to find out that what women often say about men can rare its ugly head at times, that is, 'all men are the same' - which, I disagree with in most cases.

This is not about cheating but about things which are dear to women, the inconsequential things I listed earlier in my post. Otherwise, you are boasting as usual! Bwahaha...

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