all4naija:

I heard South African men are likely to abuse their women more than any other Africans.

MrsChima:


But you don't ignore me.

SemuhleB:
My dear I make my own money and do not rely on a man for such. Whatever I want I buy myself..it's those type of ladies who depend on men for every little thing that usually get treated like a dustbin cos he knows no matter what he does the lady will not go anywhere. Besides I am very picky when it comes to who I date. I don't just date anybody and there are signs trust me

SemuhleB:
you can have him but be careful mrchima does not beat you

ronald4lif:


The emboldened should settle it. I'd rather not be in a relationship than get involve with some crazy woman who may end up insulting and dragging my family into our differences. I spot such women even with a blind on me.

SemuhleB:
Sweetheart it has not come to that. Everything now is xenophobia. I simply asked a simple question

MrsChima:


Awwww sh1t! I see a feminist in the making!

Go girl!

SemuhleB:
lol you are too much. So you can suddenly judge on looks whether a person is strong or not. That's the mistake most of you men make. Don't judge a book by its cover. You don't need to be big to appear strong. Likely I said I have had years of training and I know how to defend myself.

ronald4lif:


No, I'll never be aloof on your case until you surrender your arms on your pro-feminism crusade. Deal?

MrsChima:


And where did you hear that bullshit?

GodMode:
Only SemuhleB can create such topic :x

lefulefu:

ok u seem like a nice lady...
anyway to answer your question....well some nigerian guys no matter the advice u give them they will still beat their women but then there are also some guys that get beaten up by their wives or girlfriends.for example there is this my neighbour whose wife is almost seven feet tall and huge.she always beating this my neighbour when they are having an argument and most times he will come to my room and hide.so nigerian guys also suffer domestic abuse from naija ladies but nobody says anything about it .
'in between'
nice dp u got

all4naija:

The benefits are not all about money. Look at it this way. He shows you to his friends, family and people you come to love with time. Then he treats you to steamy bed time that you keep thinking about him at random and gives you gifts that make you feel attached to him, etc.

You seem to be going about what people used to accuse women of when talking about their fickle love for men. That is not what I am talking about.

A picky person is sometime likely to fall for the wrong guy. You might think he is perfect through you scrutiny, test and shenanigans through out your dating time only to find out that what women often say about men can rare its ugly head at times, that is, 'all men are the same' - which, I disagree with in most cases.

This is not about cheating but about things which are dear to women, the inconsequential things I listed earlier in my post. Otherwise, you are boasting as usual! Bwahaha...

ronald4lif:

MrsChima:


True...there are some that do not beat their wives but will fvck her senseless!

Ipledge2:

lefulefu:

ok u seem like a nice lady...
anyway to answer your question....well some nigerian guys no matter the advice u give them they will still beat their women but then there are also some guys that get beaten up by their wives or girlfriends.for example there is this my neighbour whose wife is almost seven feet tall and huge.she always beating this my neighbour when they are having an argument and most times he will come to my room and hide.so nigerian guys also suffer domestic abuse from naija ladies but nobody says anything about it .
'in between'
nice dp u got

ronald4lif:


Oga, you dey vex oo. Have you'd an encounter with a lady that got on your nerves in the past or just from your acquaintance experience?.

all4naija:
From news and people. Why do you want to know anyway?

MrsChima:


I knew you would cone!

Hey boo!

SemuhleB:
Where are you from? I always see your comments and they are so sensible and unbiased. I can just tell you are a different breed of man

all4naija:

Some women like to boast in front of men and I don't know what that does for them. It is like a tranquilizer for them or something. You aren't helping with this your bragging here. You can't stand me in a fight in whatever way, be it using gun, pepper stray or taser gun, etc I will be able to beat you and get away with it freely. Bwahaha... Just admit it for once. Jeez!

SemuhleB:
I luv ya too

all4naija:
I hope the dude should be very watchful of something what you find in him. There is something you want from him to support your agenda. Bwahaha... I am neutral and I will always be.

He is not a new breed he is just a typical Nigerian with civilized perspective like me. Maybe he is emulating my footstep.

MrsChima:


Awwww sh1t! I see a feminist in the making!

Go girl!

all4naija:
I hope the dude should be very watchful of something what you find in him. There is something you want from him to support your agenda. Bwahaha... I am neutral and I will always be.

He is not a new breed he is just a typical Nigerian with civilized perspective like me. Maybe he is emulating my footstep.

icedbeatz:

yes, avoiding the probability of such happenings is the best but what of guys who never saw it coming? I know it's bad to beat a female but it's really rare to see a good, respectable lady who knows her place getting an azz whooping unless she's dating a mentally unstable guy just like the good guys dating unstable bitcches.
the problem with most females is that the only see problems but will never analyze that problem I'm order to know the reason, why, how or what leads or can result to so and so things and best the solution to avoiding or stopping the thing. most of them prefer to move on with reality check of what Anni doing wrong? how did this happen? why would a guy who is reasonable lose his mind and beat a female? these are questions most shallow females would never think of rather they will jump to this stupid rant abi motto of A MAN SHOULD NEVER LAY HANDS ON A WOMAN trash.
life is simple but we tend to complicate issues for ourselves, when you shout, rant, rain insults, shove a guy around with the intent of HURTING him or bringing the beast in him( Every human being has a beast IN them that the lock away till someone breaks the beast out) then when the guy loses control and REACTS TO YOUR ACTIONS you become disappointed and call him all sorts of craps? how can you put your hands in the fire and expect it not to burn your hands?! is that not the peak of foolishnesssss.s

ronald4lif:


The emboldened should settle it. I'd rather not be in a relationship than get involve with some crazy woman who may end up insulting and dragging my family into our differences. I spot such women even with a blind on me.

MrsChima:


Awwww sh1t! I see a feminist in the making!

Go girl!

GodMode:


SemuhleB is no feminist... She's just a woman who wants to see herself as superior to men instead of equal to men