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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by MrsChima(f): 5:25pm On Jun 14, 2015
GodMode:


SemuhleB is no feminist... She's just a woman who wants to see herself as superior to men instead of equal to menangryangry

I said feminist in the making...not graduated Feminist. undecided
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 5:26pm On Jun 14, 2015
MrsChima:


True...there are some that do not beat their wives but will fvck her senseless! cry cry cry cry
hahahahhaa! grin grin grin
but the lady would prefer to be fvcked senseless na grin grin.after all if the guy fck her senseless she will revenge and frck the guy senseless back till im cap for im thing start to dey pain am grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by francizy(m): 5:27pm On Jun 14, 2015
MrsChima:
Francizy . .I see you woman beater. angry

So if I get married to you or am dating you, then as a woman you are allowed to physically assault me?

What da hell?

Don't even go there.. undecided
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 5:27pm On Jun 14, 2015
MrsChima:


Because it is hogwash.
Hehehe... You are possibly asking for sources which I don't have that specifically say so. But, there are evidence from sources South African men are likely to abuse their women more than other African men.
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by MrsChima(f): 5:28pm On Jun 14, 2015
ronald4lif:


Sorry but I fail to see the justification of whooping a woman because she was on a verbal assault and displayed an appalling behaviour. One can easily walk out of the relationship than resorting to violence. The excuse that a woman was acting b1tchy and should be whooped isn't rational and would never deter a woman from verbally attacking the man again. It's akin to making up excuses why girls get raped or why armed robbers rob. One cannot justify a wrongdoing.

Even if a woman behaved appallingly, she does not deserve to be beaten. Violence and intimidation are not acceptable ways to solve conflict in a relationship.

Your reasons are pedestal and a draconian concept of making excuses for the abuser’s behaviour. It only allows a violent man to avoid responsibility for his actions. Gladly, there's a thing called separation and divorce, it's a very easy route to ply.

Somebody get Ronald...I am about to rape him! angry wink
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jun 14, 2015
SemuhleB:
lol I am against physical abuse from both genders. Thanks smiley
ya welli cum cheesy
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 5:29pm On Jun 14, 2015
MrsChima:


True...there are some that do not beat their wives but will fvck her senseless! cry cry cry cry
Wait a sec! Are you saying women don't like to be f**ked really good? I don't understand what you are talking about though.
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Notyourb1tch(f): 5:31pm On Jun 14, 2015
MrsChima:


Somebody get Ronald...I am about to rape him! angry wink
Bish stay away from him. He is already taken. Tell her Ronaldo kiss kiss

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 5:31pm On Jun 14, 2015
SemuhleB:
when I say walk away I mean leave her for good. It's better than physically abusing her. Lol @ bitcch like me. Mister am not the type of lady that sits around for men like you to continue to beat me. Once a man lays his hands on me. That's it. I walk away. Will never entertain such rubbish nor do I want to end up 6 feet under.
if you have dated a man like me your outlook about men will definitely change because you would find it amazing how loving,kind, sweet and caring we can be so my dear I don't think you have sat around men like me. It's good my dear, don't condone being whooped in anyway but ensure the fault is not from you because a bad character is like a flat tire/fked up wheel and you can't get to any where with it. Some reality check can help you on this.

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 5:32pm On Jun 14, 2015
MrsChima:


Somebody get Ronald...I am about to rape him! angry wink
Bwahaha... What do you now say about SamuhleB who is trained to beat men?
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by MrsChima(f): 5:33pm On Jun 14, 2015
francizy:


So if I get married to you or am dating you, then as a woman you are allowed to physically assault me?

What da hell?

Don't even go there.. undecided

What are you going to do give me the Igbo Village beating? undecided grin

I don't put my hands on people unless in self defense. I have never hit Chima beside in bed...he was a bit aggressive I had to shake him out of his madness. grin

I don't believe in hitting people unless self defense.

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by ronald4lif(m): 5:33pm On Jun 14, 2015
francizy:


Yeah.. That's the CoCo..

Well, sometimes some women deserve flogging tho.. Especially those ones that take advantage of their guys calmness.. I can't imagine why a Lady would child on to the fact that her man don't beat her and go to the extent of insulting the man's mum, dad, family members, or even hit the man in question.

The main reason I hated Jay Z was because of how he played the perfect fuul while Beyonce's sister pumped him up. I will respect a woman as much as I can but not to the point of letting her lay a finger on, whether her papa na billionaire or not.

The main reason I walk away from arguments involving the opposite sex is so that I don't get the argument to the point where I'd receive insults. But even if I receive insults, I'll walk away so that I don't get hit. If trouble come push am to go lock door, I will still keep quiet so that I don't get hit. But if devil come push am hit me... Na there she go kill gentleman way dey inside me and na beast go emerge..

Respect is reciprocal..

You see, we all agree that there are times a man will get pushed to the extreme by a woman and would be tempted to resorting to violence. But the issue is attempting to justify the act of violence. I may insult someone out of anger or provocation but at the end of the day I'll admit I was wrong. I might not admit my fault openly but deep in my conscience I'll know what I did was unmerited. That's the issue here.

I think we should differentiate what his wrong from right and not justify an aberration because someone attacked us verbally. Should the beating of a woman result to irredeemabilities the courts or tribunals would not entertain any excuse of a verbal attack from the abuser.

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 5:34pm On Jun 14, 2015
Notyourb1tch:
Bish stay away from him. He is already taken. Tell her Ronaldo kiss kiss
I feel sorry for the dude! He is going to be used to clean the house and watch plates by all of you! Smh...!
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by MrsChima(f): 5:35pm On Jun 14, 2015
all4naija:
Bwahaha... What do you now say about SamuhleB who is trained to beat men?

She is smart to get trained so if she have to defend herself..she can. wink

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by MrsChima(f): 5:36pm On Jun 14, 2015
Notyourb1tch:
Bish stay away from him. He is already taken. Tell her Ronaldo kiss kiss

I will fight you for that virgin Igbo dick! cheesy grin angry
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 5:36pm On Jun 14, 2015
icedbeatz:

if you have dated a man like me your outlook about men will definitely change because you would find it amazing how loving,kind, sweet and caring we can be so my dear I don't think you have sat around men like me. It's good my dear, don't condone being whooped in anyway but ensure the fault is not from you because a bad character is like a flat tire/fked up wheel and you can't get to any where with it. Some reality check can help you on this.
You are saying that just to get into her pants! Jeez! I can spot your deceitful plan even when I am not a woman. No smart lady is going to succumb to that any way.

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by ronald4lif(m): 5:37pm On Jun 14, 2015
MrsChima:

.Issue boo? undecided

Biko, can you shove your feminism views away for now. We're addressing an important issue. We say no to feminism in Naija. grin

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by GodMode: 5:38pm On Jun 14, 2015
SemuhleB:
Stop hating now boo. I don't see myself superior to men. But as equals. In fact I love strong black manly men who take charge and can lead
Am not looking to be a man or replace a man but there is no ways I will support women beating. It just ain't right

Some women beat some EASY GOING men black and blue...

Some wives have almost killed their husbands.

You talk like its only women that are victims..

Feminists always like to play the victim..
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by MrsChima(f): 5:38pm On Jun 14, 2015
all4naija:
Wait a sec! Are you saying women don't like to be f**ked really good? I don't understand what you are talking about though.

There is a huge difference between the pair. Senseless is traumatic.
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 5:40pm On Jun 14, 2015
MrsChima:


There is a huge difference between the pair. Senseless is traumatic.
Please, I would like you to be a bit explicit about it. What is not senseless about steamy s e x? In fact, it is all madness. grin cheesy cool
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by MrsChima(f): 5:40pm On Jun 14, 2015
ronald4lif:


Biko, can you shove your feminism views away for now. We're addressing an important issue. We say no to feminism in Naija. grin

Feminism is needed in Naija! angry
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by MrsChima(f): 5:47pm On Jun 14, 2015
all4naija:
Please, I would like you to be a bit explicit about it. What is not senseless about steamy s e x? In fact, it is all madness. grin cheesy cool

You can have hot sex without the porn effect and some men thinks pounding harshly is good sex.
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 5:47pm On Jun 14, 2015
SemuhleB:
blablabla that's not going to stop me from whipping your ass cheesy. Just let me know when you are ready cos I know you are living in SA grin
You wish you were. Seriously, I am afraid of that society.
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by ronald4lif(m): 5:48pm On Jun 14, 2015
all4naija:

I feel sorry for the dude! He is going to be used to clean the house and watch plates by all of you! Smh...!

cheesy grin
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 5:49pm On Jun 14, 2015
MrsChima:


You can have hot sex without the porn effect and some men thinks pounding harshly is good sex.
Well,with the term like 'pounding harshly' I don't know what next to write. Let's get back to topic though.
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by ronald4lif(m): 5:50pm On Jun 14, 2015
MrsChima:


Feminism is needed in Naija! angry

What we need in Naija is equality, not feminism. Feminist are seeking to have extra privileges and an edge over men. There's a difference, boo.

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by MrsChima(f): 5:51pm On Jun 14, 2015
all4naija:
Well,with the term like 'pounding harshly' I don't know what next to write. Let's get back to topic though.

You were the one that went off course pervert. grin
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by MrsChima(f): 5:52pm On Jun 14, 2015
Chiam55...I see you heffa. What say you? tongue
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 5:52pm On Jun 14, 2015
ronald4lif:


Sorry but I fail to see the justification of whooping a woman because she was on a verbal assault and displayed an appalling behaviour. One can easily walk out of the relationship than resorting to violence. The excuse that a woman was acting b1tchy and should be whooped isn't rational and would never deter a woman from verbally attacking the man again. It's akin to making up excuses why girls get raped or why armed robbers rob. One cannot justify a wrongdoing.

Even if a woman behaved appallingly, she does not deserve to be beaten. Violence and intimidation are not acceptable ways to solve conflict in a relationship.

Your reasons are pedestal and a draconian concept of making excuses for the abuser’s behaviour. It only allows a violent man to avoid responsibility for his actions. Gladly, there's a thing called separation and divorce, it's a very easy route to ply.
what of the bitches that gets more than verbal? physical and whatnot?
you don't need to be sorry bro, I'm not making excuses rather I'm pointing out what you might have overlooked which is losing control of one's self. Every human being has limits of endurance and can be recognized by a human being who's still in control of his or her mind (human psych not excuses) but when this control is lost the sense of reasonable reason is lost that when that beast breaks loose, why do we all do somethings in certain situations and later regret? why do loving husbands and wives murder the one person they swore to love knowing that are not going Scot free and that the law is going to execute them too? why do some people shoot others and regret later? why? mostly because they LOST CONTROL of themselves and it happened. It takes great skills to control ones emotions and you know that if you can remember the last time you were mad about something be it football match lost or noisy neighbours or whatever pissed you off.
just for a moment take it out of the contest of chauvinists or woman or man beater and stuff. there is always a reason for things that happen, one thing I know is that we're directly or indirectly responsible for things that happened to us.
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Finally it's easy for us all to have opinions about things and what we can do and our capabilities but when we find ourselves in the situation it might turn out terrible that we might be surprised at ourselves that's why I avoid crazy bitcches like a plaque, once I observe a feature of bitchiness I'm gone cos I can't handle the situation but if it's my wife Hahahahahaha the lord will direct me.

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Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by logica(m): 5:53pm On Jun 14, 2015
SemuhleB:
I have a few Nigerian male friends and a couple of days ago this is what one of them said to me " Here in South Africa you women are too free". Every little beating then you call the police. In Nigeria if a police came the first thing they would ask you is what is your relationship between the lady, and if it's your Gf/wife the police would leave you to continue. Beatings is how you keep women in check.
What part of Nigeria are these your "Nigerian" friends from?
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jun 14, 2015
MrsChima:
Chia.m55...I see you heffa. What say you? tongue

This feminist heffa ain't saying nuffin lipsrsealed
Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jun 14, 2015
i always dey fear feminist angry
anytime a guy wan claim im right dem go wan use broom stick shook im eye angry

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