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Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by Nobody: 10:51am On Jul 01, 2015 |
freecocoa: What a grave wish! Time would certainly expose you the frailty of your unhealthy wish. Children come and go, madam. And when they are gone, you are left alone with your spouse to continue the love tour. What happens if your children left with the love that existed between you two before they came in? |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by freecocoa(f): 10:53am On Jul 01, 2015 |
PastorJohnny:Are you well at all? So a man loves his wife the same way he loves his kids? Is it now kids that keep couples together? Are you like for serious? Sick. 1 Like |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by jaybee3(m): 10:54am On Jul 01, 2015 |
She is wrong for introducing unhealthy competition between herself and the daughter The only perfect way to reassure her is by using the obvious lines of: “I love you both differently” |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by eagleccentric(m): 10:55am On Jul 01, 2015 |
OP, dont worry about this, you've done nothing wrong at all, and women sometimes take this issue of attention way too far. Truth is, what you're facing now is a phase every marriage must pass thru. Before i got married i used to laugh at my friends when they bring issues like this to the table, but it also got to my turn. So all NL guys yet to get hooked, your own is coming.. Your wife will eventually come around, but still talk to her. Babies need more care and attention. For example, your wife needs to make her hair and the baby milk is finished, which will you do first?? Of course it has to be the baby's milk!!! When dat happens, there's the tendency for her to think you're placing baby before her, so just talk and make her know no one can take her place, its just for now, that baby needs more than her.. Cheers bro, and welcome to the club |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by PROPHETmichael: 10:55am On Jul 01, 2015 |
tolu4you: "You are not married to your Children. Therefore, if your children suddenly become more important to you than your husband/wife, you need prayers" Dr. Uma Ukpai 1 Like |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by freecocoa(f): 10:59am On Jul 01, 2015 |
eagleccentric:Seriously what are you on about? How can it ever be sane to put your wife's hairdo before a baby's food? Did you read yourself? |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by Lyly0(f): 11:01am On Jul 01, 2015 |
Daughters especially the first ones has a way of bonding with their daddy thereby taking their daddy's attention from whomever that is arround their mums inclusive. Daddies on the other hand don't help issue, all they care is "has my daughter eaten? Has my daughter this, has my daughter that" they most times fget the existence of the wife whenever the daughter is in the room. And for a young mum that isn't used to sharing her husband's attention with anyone, it can be challenging. As weird or odd as d question might seem, I understand her feeling. All she needs a reasurance both by words and actions that she is still ur number one love, afterall before ur daughter she was there....... What can we do? We are still women if we don't show jelousy over our man who will? |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by bibiking7(m): 11:01am On Jul 01, 2015 |
1. Do you watch "who on earth did I marry?" 2. Does the child look like you? 3. Why did she ask if you love tolu more and not if you love our daughter more, first name basis rivalry is pretty . For rivalry to start at this early stage, Sounds creepy. I wonder what will happen during the oedipus complex phase. I have heard women say that they stick with their husband because of the children. To show you how much women love their kids. I think she is supposed to love the girl more than you do. Atleast, she met the girl first and they had 9 months to bond. Butttt, what do I know, I think too much of investigation discovery is starting to affect moi. |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by southernbelle(f): 11:06am On Jul 01, 2015 |
arabianights:i found the issue a bit strange though, and yea, i agree that he handles it wisely for his baby's sake. 1 Like |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by Badgers14: 11:06am On Jul 01, 2015 |
snakebeat: She probably need the response in writing, as evidence perhaps |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by southernbelle(f): 11:08am On Jul 01, 2015 |
zeusdgrt:thanks |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by mubarak001(m): 11:11am On Jul 01, 2015 |
This question has become the order of the day with women competing with their wards especially daughters... Anyways; make una hear the latest gist for town. Meanwhile, in Port Harcourt... Order for your fingerlings , fish pond construction with tarpaulin... And also, for your private tutor in science subjects, training on AutoCAD, archicad, artlantis studio, and chess game. Contact; renadox@yahoo.com |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by Omotayor123(f): 11:13am On Jul 01, 2015 |
tolu4you:is she not the biological mother |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by Nobody: 11:14am On Jul 01, 2015 |
thorpido: pardon me but this sounds soo explicit,i just have a rotten mind no vex |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by airlord2020: 11:15am On Jul 01, 2015 |
The love for a wife is different from the love you have for your daughter. You love them both but in different ways |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by Nobody: 11:16am On Jul 01, 2015 |
so if you answer yes what is she going to do? After having children, i believe you move to a different stage of life so your wife might be in need of a reality Check. My advice is, you guys should try and love your child together. i.e if your playing with her, do it with your wife, taking her out? do it with your wife. Don't isolate your wife while you are with your daughter but i don't think you need to start buying them things equally and trying to show them the same amount of attention, that is ridiculous and condescending if you ask me. |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by Nobody: 11:20am On Jul 01, 2015 |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by femi4: 11:24am On Jul 01, 2015 |
tolu4you:Is your name Tolu? You love your daughter so much that you use her name as your moniker |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by Nobody: 11:28am On Jul 01, 2015 |
tolu4you: The way you love your mum is different from the way you love your child, its true love mixed with care for your baby nd love mixed with respect for your mom.... Just let your wife know you love her in every single sense of the word i.e respect, care, romantic, erotic etc. Its cute that your wife can open up to you on such issue, means you are doing things right... |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by thorpido(m): 11:28am On Jul 01, 2015 |
youmour:You just said it. |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by dotune(m): 11:30am On Jul 01, 2015 |
Lol. @op u even have tolu's name as ur moniker.., why won't Momy Tolu ask u Na. My regards to Tolu jare. |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by tolu4you: 11:30am On Jul 01, 2015 |
Teempakguy:Im Tolulope and my daughter is Toluwalase 1 Like |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by noblegrex: 11:31am On Jul 01, 2015 |
This aint confusion, tell her straight. U love her more than your daughter ah! ah!!. I mean while should your children b jeolous if you love your wife/their mum more, Does it make sence. Bt wife do get jelous n I can't fault them.despite that u love your children more. Don't show it even though its bound to happen even among d children if u have more than 1 u don't show u love 1 more than d other bt who will complain if u love your wife more, I mean she, your daughter is whatching and she's learning. |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by SirLegal(m): 11:35am On Jul 01, 2015 |
That does not matter. whether the man loves his child more compared to his wife but nevertheless, that was a good reply from the man. #Humour |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by Nuella222(f): 11:37am On Jul 01, 2015 |
See question o...and u gave her d right answer meeehn! 95percent of women love their children more, is a fact. |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by Ab025(m): 11:38am On Jul 01, 2015 |
400billionman: Lol, don't get me wrong o, I didn't mean her IQ, I meant her "Q".... as in, Question. |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by Nobody: 11:39am On Jul 01, 2015 |
arabianights:am surprised already..... but na wa ooo |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by eagleccentric(m): 11:44am On Jul 01, 2015 |
freecocoa: I take it that this thread is for mature minds 1 Like |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by sweatlana: 11:48am On Jul 01, 2015 |
Daughters can be husband snatchers sharr. Lol |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by hibbayueei(m): 11:56am On Jul 01, 2015 |
think she need more love and care from you. |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by Ishilove: 12:01pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Silly, immature question. |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by freecocoa(f): 12:04pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
eagleccentric:Please, i'd like to know what's mature about comparing baby food to hair do. |
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