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Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by whitec: 6:32am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Good morning Nlanders. please i have an issue that is bothering me for some time now. There is a lady i mate recently, she is currently serving around my place. l have being observing her and she seems to be a good lady and i'm thinking of taking a step further; like knowing her more and eventually propose to her God's will, but the issue now is she is older than me. In fact she is 32 and i'm 30. Please is it right and advisable for me to marry her? |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by Tallesty1(m): 6:40am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Not advisable. |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by buzquet(m): 6:42am On Jul 12, 2015 |
U wi neva knw d repercussion nw, wait until 5 to 10yrs nw, dats wen u will knw u don marry ur boss |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by Nobody: 6:42am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Just 2 yrs? Have you heard the story about Peter and lola? 2 yrs small nna.Wife her if she is the type that respects. Simples! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by Nobody: 6:42am On Jul 12, 2015 |
buzquet: How you take know that one? My mama senior my papa and my dad is still the BOSS |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by Nobody: 6:44am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Tallesty1: And why is that? |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by Joromi1: 6:49am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Sorry, but that doesn't work in Nigeria |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by Hazardd(m): 6:50am On Jul 12, 2015 |
EggovinMma:sister, what of if it is your mama that pay her pride price by herself..agreement must be in place before such happens lol |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by Yustash001(m): 6:54am On Jul 12, 2015 |
There's no big deal...go for her if you truly love her..BTW 2 years difference isn't much... |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by Nobody: 6:55am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Hazardd: And if it happens is it bad? Look around you, some ladies help their men out during weddings, it doesn't matter who is older or younger. you can still marry a younger wife and she still may not respect you. Since he said the girl seemed wifely, so na 2 yrs gap kon be the main obstacle ? What a flimsy excuse! 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by ibkgab001: 6:57am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Is INTROVERT here |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by INTROVERT(f): 7:00am On Jul 12, 2015 |
ibkgab001: That's your own comment abi. If you love her and she agree and you are fully aware of the disadvantages and still wish to proceed. Then I say carry on. |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by ibkgab001: 7:02am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Wow wwwwww Laughing out louder |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by 5minsmadness: 7:16am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Not a good idea. |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by onyekachee(f): 7:18am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Of course I can,there is nothing wrong in having a boy toy |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by fatdon2(m): 7:26am On Jul 12, 2015 |
It doesnt matter |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by whitec: 7:28am On Jul 12, 2015 |
INTROVERT, what are the " disadvantages"? |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by Artistree: 7:50am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Op, it doesn't matter dear. A younger but more disrespectful lady is no better, is it? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by whitec: 11:20am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Youngr and disrespectful is worst 1 Like |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by crackhaus: 11:45am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Why don't you get to know her more before thinking of marrying her... Where are you running to? 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by Hazardd(m): 12:19pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
EggovinMma:some girls normally degrees their age, who know iof she is using like 10years to senior the young guy... the awkward moment is when you are with your girl and your friends will come and ask '' bros is this your mother or abi your anty'' |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by Jorussia(m): 1:46pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Forget about the girl,go for the ones younger than you.There is nothing good about marrying a lady that is older than you. |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by efemenaslectura: 2:07pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Age is just a number. It's about what you want |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by Nobody: 2:28pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Respect is the key word.. Older,younger... I think what matters is how much she's willing to respect you. And you willing to love her... If she's respectful then it's okay. Just take it one step at a time. |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by Nobody: 2:38pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Hazardd: But no be for two yrs gap. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by cococandy(f): 2:48pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
She's even two yrs older. I thought it's a matter of 7-10yrs. I don't see any reason why you should be concerned as long as you see great qualities in her. It's not like you're a baby yourself. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by Hazardd(m): 2:51pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
EggovinMma:is not right.. Well sha they said, love is blind...but not to my side |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by Nobody: 2:56pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Hazardd: Well, I think the age gap is too little to be ggiven a thought sef. |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by Isaacmacdon(m): 3:15pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
cococandy:Gbam!!!!! I wonder y in our society today... Marrying a lady older dan u(2yrs at most) is kinda rare... To me I feel dating a girl older dan my age is quite cool(lol tho m 74 sha.. as per nairaland).... Interesting let me brandish it dat way.... I feel nd love d maturity... a lady who knows how to carry herself,take care of herself.. |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by cococandy(f): 3:18pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Isaacmacdon:good |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by DonTim1: 3:50pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
If she respects u If you aren't after beauty If you will take ur time to know eachother before even thinking mariage, by all means. But as som1 who's experienced both side of the coin, .....(U just read my mind ) 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Lady Who Is Older By Age? by whitec: 4:48pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
she is my kind of woman. The major concearn both of us is age. She is even willing and ready to go with me. Very humble person i must say 2 Likes |
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