If Emeka Ike has truly been using her as a punching bag then abeg she should stay put wherever she is.

Guys, I don't understand why you are asking her to go back to the husband...

A wife beater doesn't change, and manipulates psychologically the wife to get her back, and then beats her again.

I know this because in my country we hear in the news all the time women beaten up by their spouses, and how the wives forgive them when they apologiZe, the woman goes back to him believing he's a good man, and the next thing, the woman is dead...

so, who takes the blame?

APC or PDP?

Since that is the trend here on NL

SlimBrawnie:
A wise woman builds her home...

Emeka Ike should admit his mistakes and do everything it takes to get his wife back, at least for the sake of his children. His wife would'nt deliberately accuse him of using her as a punching bag.

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..My children are my assets, I don’t mess with them or their mother for any reason because they have to be rightly protected.

And you still beat your wife, you f*ucking st*upid as*shole!
I wish your wife will divorce and sue your abusive as*s! You don't deserve to be loved by any woman.

I hate abusive id*iots who beat women!

Ola17:
Madam please Emeka misses you so much. Go back home

The id*iot is missing beating her.

NobleG1:


And you still beat your wife, you f*ucking st*upid as*shole!
I wish your wife will divorce and sue your abusive as*s! You don't deserve to be loved by any woman.

I hate abusive id*iots who beat women!

hmm. Do you know him personally?

You seem pretty convinced.

themonk:

pls read the post first.

I did o. Then the last paragraph struck me. He said " anybody that sees her should tell her to return to us that the kids need her". But sometime ago, he said he wasn't having issues with his wife.

From the above, she has left her home and is wanted. Well, that was where I based my initial comment on.

Thank you.

Sharp212:
He only said that he never laid his hands on his wife that even his son can attest to it, I listened to his life chat with love FM

Ok. My comment was based on the fact that sometime earlier, he said his marriage was intact. That was why I said he was denying it not about the wife battery aspect.

MemphisDepay:
I want you to win the contest. Check the third post for results

Lol... You see why I like nairaland?

kreamidiva:


I did o. Then the last paragraph struck me. He said " anybody that sees her should tell her to return to us that the kids need her". But sometime ago, he said he wasn't having issues with his wife.

From the above, she has left her home and is wanted. Well, that was where I based my initial comment on.

Thank you.

lol, i didnt know prior to this he said they werent having issues. thank you for the info
how are you this morning?

kreamidiva:


Ok. My comment was based on the fact that sometime earlier, he said his marriage was intact. That was why I said he was denying it not about the wife battery aspect.

Alrit

themonk:

lol, i didnt know prior to this he said they werent having issues. thank you for the info
how are you this morning?

We dey o. Trying to make ends meet once and for all so that my generation won't suffer. hope you good too.

kreamidiva:



We dey o. Trying to make ends meet once and for all so that my generation won't suffer. hope you good too.

i dey ooo,
me too, hustle na my best frnd now.
your type of woman go make sense oo, u no dey wait for boyfriend or husband to give u, you just dey hustle for yaself. na im make sense pass o, if every woman fit reason like that.

themonk:

i dey ooo,
me too, hustle na my best frnd now.
your type of woman go make sense oo, u no dey wait for boyfriend or husband to give u, you just dey hustle for yaself. na im make sense pass o, if every woman fit reason like that.

Most ladies are no longer sitting at home waiting for hubby to give them. We want to change the world.

kreamidiva:



Most ladies are no longer sitting at home waiting for hubby to give them. We want to change the world.

ThankGod for civilisation and enlightenment. Women should take up every opportunity they get, use the best of their talent. All hands should be on deck.

kreamidiva:


Lol... You see why I like nairaland?

looolzZzz.. I guess you didn't win. Better luck next time dear. You are a wiNner In your own right

Good morning Candyrain

I sighteth u in another thread. How are u doing sweetheart?

Rose2014:
Good morning Candyrain
I sighteth u in another thread. How are u doing sweetheart?

I'm doing great. Been a while, where have you been? Kinda missed you sweet.

Candyrain:


I'm doing great. Been a while, where have you been? Kinda missed you sweet.

Mine is not 'kinda'
I missed u. Too many distractions when I come online from enemies of progress

How are u feeling this morning? Hope better

Rose2014:


Mine is not 'kinda'
I missed u. Too many distractions when I come online from enemies of progress

How are u feeling this morning? Hope better

Lolzz... Yea many enemies of progress but God is greater than them all.

I'm feeling much stronger and better. How's the day going?

Jj222:
pls forgive him for the last time. just go back because of ur kids. n next time u r leaving pls go wit ur kids.

Me think the woman is seeing another man already.

skyfullofstars:
Guys, I don't understand why you are asking her to go back to the husband...

A wife beater doesn't change, and manipulates psychologically the wife to get her back, and then beats her again.

I know this because in my country we hear in the news all the time women beaten up by their spouses, and how the wives forgive them when they apologiZe, the woman goes back to him believing he's a good man, and the next thing, the woman is dead...

she left the house without her kids, me think she is seeing another man already.

kreamidiva:


I did o. Then the last paragraph struck me. He said " anybody that sees her should tell her to return to us that the kids need her". But sometime ago, he said he wasn't having issues with his wife.

From the above, she has left her home and is wanted. Well, that was where I based my initial comment on.

Thank you.

She left without the kids, me think she is seeing another man already.

MemphisDepay:
looolzZzz.. I guess you didn't win. Better luck next time dear. You are a wiNner In your own right

Lol... Thank you. I guess I will win next time.

hensben:
She left without the kids, me think she is seeing another man already.

Hian! I don't speculate. I make statements of fact.

kreamidiva:


Lol... Thank you. I guess I will win next time.

I really do hope so. Lol

SlimBrawnie:
A wise woman builds her home...

may you marry an abusive husband and may you continue to build such a home.
A wise woman knows when to run for a her life when it has been endangered by her own husband.

MarryMeee:
may you marry an abusive husband and may you continue to build such a home.
A wise woman knows when to run for a her life when it has been endangered by her own husband.

...and a wise woman also comes out to wash her very dirty lining in public hehehe...too late to wish me such dear.

SlimBrawnie:

...and a wise woman also comes out to wash her very dirty lining in public hehehe...too late to wish me such dear.

stop being foolish,no problem can ever be fixed alone because no man is an island. There is nothing wrong in admitting you have a problem and seeking different opnions.

Its her life and if she decides to raise awareness of abuse she can do so. She is a human being with a right to dignity and secrurity before she is a wife.

Why should a person suffer in silence because she is a woman who is meant to keep violence against her a secret?

You are the same people that will get killed ny abusive husbands all because u mistaken _stupidity for being a good wife. Of what use will keeping your issues secretly when you are in a coffin?