ireke:
I'll rather not get married than begin to plan how to hurt the woman I'm supposed to protect. If my Wife-to-be is exposing herself to this kind of temptation and is not remorseful, then I'll rather not get yoked with such a fellow

misspicy:
Hmmmm,now am confused,she is arrogant?
seriously sometimes,women cause most heartache they experience in marriage...
Op advice your friend to wear his usain bolt snickers and run,if not,dat marriage will be a sham....him sleeping around and she going on a date around...
Its d children they will have that wilk suffer the effect of a bad marriage.

agarawu23:
The girl left her conversations with the DJ on her phone until the husband to be saw it ? we shouldn't rush into conclusion that the lady is trying to fvck the DJ.

They have been together for so long before planning to get married, and the guy never complained about the girl trying to cheat of flirt. if he hasn't, we shouldn't think what we are thinking.

But if the guy knows the lady for flirting around, he should end the wedding once and for all instead of planning to fvck around after the wedding because it will only shorten his life.

So in essence he should think nothing is going on between his fiance and the DJ?

Someone who has already been having scintillating conversations with him and has even agreed to go out on a date with the DJ?

Obviously she has already cheated on him emotionally and it's just a matter of time before she proceeds to the physical stage.

A woman who is getting married in a few months should be more concerned with her wedding plans and not the next guy to flirt around with.

That's a very Big Red Flag

naijaboiy:

So in essence he should think nothing is going on between his fiance and the DJ?

Someone who has already been in scintillating conversations with him and has even agreed to go out on a date with the DJ?

Obviously she has already cheated on him emotionally and it's just a matter of time before she proceeds to the physical stage.

A woman who is getting married in few months time should be more concerned with her wedding plans and not the next guy to flirt around with.

Oyind17:
Men can be jealous

I guess you just want to comment because what you have posted here does not in anyway relate to the topic and will not help the person in question.

Next time learn to sit back,,relax and look at your screen,,scrolling through the comments when you have nothing reasonable to post.

It will do you a whole lot of good.

naijaboiy:

I guess you just want to comment because what you have posted here does not in anyway relate to the topic and will not help the person in question.

Next time learn to sit back,,relax and look at your screen,,scrolling through the comments when you have nothing reasonable to post.

It will do you a whole lot of good.

agarawu23:
The girl left her conversations with the DJ on her phone until the husband to be saw it ? we shouldn't rush into conclusion that the lady is trying to fvck the DJ.

They have been together for so long before planning to get married, and the guy never complained about the girl trying to cheat of flirt. if he hasn't, we shouldn't think what we are thinking.

But if the guy knows the lady for flirting around, he should end the wedding once and for all instead of planning to fvck around after the wedding because it will only shorten his life.

proxillin:


When a husband start misbehaving in a marriage, people start seeing him as bad. The lady will become a saint and start going to church to pray with pastor so God can touch the heart of the wayward husband.

Pastors fails to ask those women what they did to the guy before wedding.

Oyind17:
Men can be jealous

proxillin:


First, the lady was denying and was on the offensive when my guy confronted her that her conversations with the DJ were not business.
Secondly, she excuse my guy to go pick the DJ's call in isolation.
Why keeping her chat with the DJ confidential ?

And my guy will be the one to pay for the DJ service.

Your excuses are not logical

agarawu23:
No evidence to prove she is flirting with the DJ and I don't blv a lady can be so stupiid to leave a flirting conversation for her 'husband to be' to see.

We guys think negatively especially we the flirting ones. we assume what isn't possible.

if the lady is a flirt, the guy wouldn't have made up his mind to marry her.

we shouldn't judge so easily

[b]We are all commenting based on the story line given to us.

This is not a case of thinking out the box sir.

And don't tell me you don't know that anybody can pretend or hide their true character when it comes to getting what they want from someone. You can't know the true character of everyone before getting close to them. In fact,, it is 85% of the time highly impossible.

And just so you know the best way to hide something from someone is to leave it open. She obviously didn't hide her chats with the DJ so that her fiance will not suspect something fishy. And it was when they started speaking on phone that he suspected something.

She collected his phone number for strictly business and didn't even inform him that it was her own wedding but a friend. If the DJ should call,,their phone conversations should be strictly for business and nothing else.

There are a lot of evidences. How about her countenance whenever the DJ calls and the fiance is present? She acts strange and sometimes excuses herself just to speak with him.

If you are in his shoe and at that point you are still giving her the benefit of doubt then i'm sorry you are really in for the shocker of your life.

You don't need to catch her red handed,,pants down in bed with the DJ before you call it an evidence. [/b]

agarawu23:
stop speaking for him as if you were there

if you are the real person, let us know.

just answer this question

CAN YOU MAKE UP YOUR MIND TO MARRY A FLIRT ?

if the girl is a flirt, he won't wanna marry her.

agarawu23:
stop speaking for him as if you were there

if you are the real person, let us know.

just answer this question

CAN YOU MAKE UP YOUR MIND TO MARRY A FLIRT ?

if the girl is a flirt, he won't wanna marry her.

proxillin:


First, the lady was denying and was on the offensive when my guy confronted her that her conversations with the DJ were not business.
Secondly, she excuse my guy to go pick the DJ's call in isolation.
Why keeping her chat with the DJ confidential ?

And my guy will be the one to pay for the DJ service.

Your excuses are not logical

naijaboiy:

[b]We are all commenting based on the story line given to us.

This is not a case of thinking out the box sir.

And don't tell me you don't know that anybody can pretend or hide their true character when it comes to getting what they want from someone. You can't know the true character of everyone before getting close to them. In fact,, it is 85% of the time highly impossible.

And just so you know the best way to hide something from someone is to leave it open. She obviously didn't hide her chats with the DJ so that her fiance will not suspect something fishy. And it was when they started speaking on phone that he suspected something.

She collected his phone number for strictly business and didn't even inform him that it was her own wedding but a friend. If the DJ should call,,their phone conversations should be strictly for business and nothing else.

There are a lot of evidences. How about her countenance whenever the DJ calls and the fiance is present? She acts strange and sometimes excuses herself just to speak with him.

If you are in his shoe and at that point you are still giving her the benefit of doubt then i'm sorry you are really in for the shocker of your life.

You don't need to catch her red handed,,pants down in bed with the DJ before you call it an evidence. [/b]

Oyind17:










I went through the ops post all I see is a jealous lover.

There is a difference between getting jealous and being suspicious of your partner.

Jealousy leads to suspicions but one can be suspicious without getting jealous.

And let's agree with you that the Op's friend is jealous are you insinuating that it's wrong for him to get jealous?

Are you saying it's right for his fiance to flirt with other guys few months just before her marriage?

You have been married once i'm sure you didn't condone your husband flirting before or even after marriage.