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Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Nobody: 10:22am On Aug 17, 2015 |
proxillin: He should call off the wedding if he's convince she's cheating on him or will cheat on him |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Bigcake: 10:23am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Some girls are so low in mentality. Imagine promising a girl marriage and yet she still goes around guys in the name of harmless date. If i were in your shoes, that wedding would be cancelled. Let her go and marry the DJ. I hate cheating alot and cant stand it. 10 Likes |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by proxillin(m): 10:23am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Oyind17: Well i might be taking side. I have summoned them for a meeting. He was hell bent to marry until last week when the shiiit hit the fan. Why is the lady not opening up to the DJ that she is wedding? Is there a shame in getting married? So many questions that requires answer 3 Likes |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Kx: 10:26am On Aug 17, 2015 |
He has seen all the signs yet he is insisting on going on with the marriage with the intention of paying his wife back after the marriage by fu---cking other girls. This marriage will end they way they always end: https://www.nairaland.com/246156/divorce-proceedings-2-months-into 2 Likes |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by agarawu23(m): 10:27am On Aug 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy:still on my point, The lady left her conversations because her mind is clean. we are only reading the guys part of the story without hearing from the lady so we can't just jump into conclusion. she told the DJ the wedding is for her friend doesn't mean she wants something from him, she might just wanna be free to beat the charging price and moreover that's not q big deal on the issue on ground. I may have money to buy a car and when I get to the dealer, I can tell him I am buying it for my friend and he doesn't have much money cos I am the one lending him just to get get it at cheaper price. She isn't picking the dj's call in the guy present doesn't mean things are going on between them. We are talking about marriage and not bf and gf issue o because I still blv the guy has a lot of choices before he chooses to end up with the girl. If he doesn't trust the girl, he won't have wanna marry her so therefore he should hold his trust and tell the lady to end all conversation with DJ. The guy way know pure cos he has already made up his mind flirting around after marriage that means even if this issue didn't come up, he will still fvck around. we shouldnt trust the guy that much jare. though ladies aren't to be trusted too but this issue isn't what "WE" think 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by hotwax: 10:27am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Chaiii...its not always easy to cancel a wedding few days to go. The cancellation news will not even circulate in time. many people will come/travel to the venue before knowing its cancelled. It easier said than done. God will help that guy. The lady should be thinking about her wedding logistics not a stewpid harmless date with a DJ. Whats the purpose of that date? Abi witches they follow the girl ni ? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by agarawu23(m): 10:28am On Aug 17, 2015 |
proxillin:you are him then |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Moana(f): 10:28am On Aug 17, 2015 |
I dont think it makes sense to just assume something and act on it immediately. They need to sit down have a serious talk about this. If it means including the DJ and clearing things out just to be sure of whats really going on, then taking proper action after that. 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by peeparty(m): 10:28am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Anybabe wey dey form anger when you catch am for something wey she do just knw say,na one chance you enter. I will never pretend it all good when am actually suppose to sit you up,and speak glaring truth into your'EYES'. 3 Likes |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by hotwax: 10:29am On Aug 17, 2015 |
agarawu23: She isnt picking the call infront of her life partner. In marriage, 2 becomes 1. And afterall its the guy to pay for the DJ service. Habbaa...Listen to yourself. All these are just feminist cover excuse 6 Likes |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by naijaboiy: 10:29am On Aug 17, 2015 |
proxillin:Lol,,it's not like they can't understand. They simply don't want to understand. Many Nairalanders are like that. When they see a threads topic they already have what they want to comment in their minds before even reading the original post. And even when they read it,,they are still bent on posting that same myopic view of theirs that first came to their mind. No amount of argument will change their view. That's why sometimes you open a thread and see some comments you'll be like "Did this one read the story at all?" 7 Likes |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Nobody: 10:29am On Aug 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy: There's nothing wrong in been jealous. but for him to say he'll be having gfs is wrong . it'll be better he call off the wedding |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by naijaboiy: 10:32am On Aug 17, 2015 |
agarawu23:So why on earth will she agree to go on a date with the DJ? In your opinion,,she's not flirting. Agreed. Now why did she agree to go out on a date with him? Or you didn't read that part too? 2 Likes |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by proxillin(m): 10:33am On Aug 17, 2015 |
agarawu23: Yes I am him because I will be one of his men in suit. I summoned him (myself) and her for peace meeting. So I am summoning myself. You deserve a medal in logic 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by agarawu23(m): 10:33am On Aug 17, 2015 |
hotwax:was the guy blind when the lady started the conversation with the DJ ? I think I have share my own view, you can share yours too. |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by agarawu23(m): 10:36am On Aug 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy:she agreed on a date with him? accepted. can't you make a decision without taking step? she might just wanna make story short with her conclusion, ladies are like that. I will keep shut only if the husband can tell us the lady has been flirting around before. |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by hotwax: 10:37am On Aug 17, 2015 |
agarawu23: So its a mistake for the guy to trust the lady with the DJ. So it means, the guy should not assign a male driver to her, else mummy will be fcking drivers. A wife you can't trust a male with is not a wife. She is Olosho...no other name Houseboy, electrical boy, gardener LOL I actually respect your opinion no matter how lopsided it is 2 Likes |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by peeparty(m): 10:38am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Moana: who and who to sit down?you referring to the DJ and the husband? for the babe to even give room for that discussion alone#itnotokey.for whatever reason she won't have said the wedding is for my friend, if the purpose was to reduce the price mhn that funny,DJ will still give her his price and eventually they will still negociate.so telling him it for your friends is stupidity.. it something she did not handle well as a matured woman. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by agarawu23(m): 10:40am On Aug 17, 2015 |
hotwax:now you are talking about "trust" , can you make up your mind to marry a lady you don't trust The guy is a flirt himself with negative mind. his thinking might not be real. don't forget he has already made up his mind to start fvcking around after marriage. from that statement , you will get my point |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Nobody: 10:42am On Aug 17, 2015 |
proxillin: Were they having problems in their relationship before this incident? Call off the wedding if she's cheating. No too much talk |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by proxillin(m): 10:43am On Aug 17, 2015 |
agarawu23: This issue is more than what you saying. The guy cried over this issue. He is regretting his decision. He is fraustrated, he said if he ever goes into the marriage, he will play games too. He will make the marriage a hell for her. Dont you get it? He spoke out of frustration. 3 Likes |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by agarawu23(m): 10:44am On Aug 17, 2015 |
proxillin:okay , since you are close to the couple to be, can you tell us the kind of Lady she is ? at least you will know her and I blv your friend will have been gisting you na. so tell us make we hear 2 Likes |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by proxillin(m): 10:47am On Aug 17, 2015 |
agarawu23: Seriously, I dont want to offend God. I dont know her much. But I have seen her engaging in a public brawl before. Thats why I said she is arrogant. It doesnt mean she is a flirt. May be she is a flirt. You know one thing about people's affair, he might not want to tell me everything about her. He only opened up to me when I pestered him on what is going on. |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by agarawu23(m): 10:47am On Aug 17, 2015 |
proxillin:in conclusion as I already said in my first comment, he should end the wedding if he knows the girl to be a flirt. that's all. I personally can't cope with a cheating wife. |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by peeparty(m): 10:48am On Aug 17, 2015 |
hotwax: This lady just acted out who the real being is.... pple don't get it the first conversation brought this whole issue out...everything you need to understand about this story originated from the lady conversation with d DJ. whatever happen after that it not my concern this doesn't mean am taking side on this story.. 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by peeparty(m): 10:50am On Aug 17, 2015 |
proxillin: public brawl? please explain in details maybe it might help others. proxillin: public brawl? please explain in details maybe it might help others. |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by naijaboiy: 10:51am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Oyind17:Thank you. Nobody is advising him to start flirting with girls when he gets married because it won't solve the problem. And i'm sure that's why the op created this thread for solutions. 6 Likes |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by agarawu23(m): 10:52am On Aug 17, 2015 |
proxillin:hmmm!!! The guy is talking as if he met the lady a week to their wedding. she is arrogant doesn't mean that character can make her do anything. everybody get for body. If you guys are 100% sure the Lady is a flirt, nothing bad if you guys can end the wedding. BUT your evidence must be solid. 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by naijaboiy: 10:54am On Aug 17, 2015 |
agarawu23:You are just going around in circles man. The evidence is there clearly for you to see. You are waiting for the husband to come here and tell you if she has been flirting before. In other words you are trying to blame him for his fiance's bad deeds. Okay,,keep waiting. 6 Likes |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by proxillin(m): 10:56am On Aug 17, 2015 |
peeparty: We attended a friends party. On our way back, one danfo drove dirty so we stopped to challenge the driver. This WifeToBe went gaga and started exchanging words with the agbero, she went to the extent of calling the agbero names, she even locked his shirt and daring the agbero to touch her. The whole show happened in-front of us (Guys) . Her fiancee could not do anything but embarrassed. Thats when I concluded she is arrogant |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Crysallis(m): 10:56am On Aug 17, 2015 |
If I am d guy, i wil cancel immediately. they dont hav a future together. Any lady rushing you into marriage isnt worth marrying 4 Likes |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by proxillin(m): 10:58am On Aug 17, 2015 |
agarawu23: I said she is arrogant because I invited them for a peace meeting, who knows the meeting will be truncated when she start showing me her attitude. because I dont have time for nagging lady. I will just walk out of the meeting. |
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