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Learn To Love And Forgive. by shumuel(m): 11:29am On Aug 17, 2015 |
It was their anniversary and Funke was
waiting for her husband, Kunle to show up.
Things had changed since their marriage;
the once cute couldn't-live-without-each-oth
er couple had turned to bitter fighting-over-
every-little-thing fellas. Both didn't like the
way things had changed. Funke was waiting
to see if Kunle had remembered that it was
their anniversary. Just as the door bell rang,
she ran to find her husband wet and smiling
with a bunch of flowers in his hand. The
two started re-living the good old days.
Making up for fights, then was the plan for
champagne, light music as it was raining. It
was perfect timing for real intimacy which
had been dead between them for far too
long. However, the romantic moment was
paused when the phone in the bedroom
rang. Funke went to pick up and it was a
man who spoke. "Hello ma'am, I'm calling
from the police station. Is this Mr, Kunle
Adeoye's residence?" Yes it is, she
answered. "I'm sorry ma'am but there was
an accident and a man died. We got this
number from his wallet and we need you to
come by to identify his lifeless body."
Funke's heart sank in profound fear!!! She
was shell-shocked! "But my husband is here
with me" she tearfully blurted out. "Sorry
ma'am, but the incident took place at 2pm,
when he was boarding the train. Funke was
about to lose her mind. How could this
happen? She had heard about the soul of a
person coming to meet a loved one before
an eventual departure for eternity. She ran
into the other room. He was not there. It
was true! Kunle had left her for good! Oh
God! She would have died for another
chance to settle every little fight! To retrace
every wrong step taken. To undo her every
misdeed. She rolled on the floor in insane
agony. She had lost her chance! And forever
too, to her mind!
Suddenly there was a noise from the
bathroom. The door opened and Kunle came
out and said to Funke, "Darling, I forgot to
tell you my wallet was stolen today". No
doubt, the couple availed themselves of
every teensy-weensy bit of the second
chance given to them to mend their ways.
Didn't mean to bore you with that harangue
but it must be pointed up that LIFE MIGHT
NOT GIVE YOU A SECOND BITE AT THE CHERRY
AS IT DID THAT COUPLE. SO NEVER WASTE A
MOMENT TO MAKE UP FOR YOUR WRONGS.
Please make amends with parents, siblings,
friends and many others whom you have
offended or who may have offended you.
Jimi Hendrix quipped: When the power of
love overcomes the love of power and ego,
the world will know peace. Avoid the song,
"WOULDA, COULDA, SHOULDA" as you have
the chance to make the best use of today to
make necessary amends. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Learn To Love And Forgive. by FavourAngel(f): 11:36am On Aug 17, 2015 |
My boyfriend is cheating on me,how can I forgive him? |
Re: Learn To Love And Forgive. by shumuel(m): 11:42am On Aug 17, 2015 |
FavourAngel: Lol, the first question you should ask yourself is ' Have i ever cheated on him or anyone' then you can procede to 'Have i ever lied to or cheated anyone' if you can ask yourself these questions, honestly you would learn to forgive easily. But when you forgive and he keeps repeating the act is when you should raise eye brows . |
Re: Learn To Love And Forgive. by Nobody: 12:43pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
We do forgive wrongs done to us but to forget those pains of betrayal is difficult cause something will always stir up those emotions. |
Re: Learn To Love And Forgive. by Nobody: 5:36pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Forgiving is easy, but forgetting, hmmmmmm that's a long walk |
Re: Learn To Love And Forgive. by shumuel(m): 7:05pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Aisha95: Yeah(Smiles) we do use to forgive but to forget... Now thats the biggie... Its never easy, Lol |
Re: Learn To Love And Forgive. by shumuel(m): 7:11pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Re: Learn To Love And Forgive. by Nobody: 7:15pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
I don't get hurt or offended in the first place. |
Re: Learn To Love And Forgive. by shumuel(m): 7:18pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
starlingslimnet: I find that hard to believe, i think you just know how to control your anger. |
Re: Learn To Love And Forgive. by Nobody: 7:22pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
shumuel: |
Re: Learn To Love And Forgive. by Nobody: 7:36pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
shumuel:If you put it that way you are right. |
Re: Learn To Love And Forgive. by shumuel(m): 7:40pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
starlingslimnet: Yeah thats just it because every human is prone to anger one way or the other, but thats nice. |
Re: Learn To Love And Forgive. by Nobody: 9:02pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
shumuel:Gone were the days when men are helpless in regard to flesh desires, but these days God has given us freedom from flesh which enslave us to obey his passion...and today I Live my life without a feeling of hurt or getting offended.... |
Re: Learn To Love And Forgive. by shumuel(m): 12:21pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
starlingslimnet: Yeah, thats maturity |
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