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Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Nobody: 12:05pm On Aug 17, 2015
Like I said, person no dey put mouth for this kind matter even if the person be your brother or sister!

your bringing them together is a great ideal but bro, that should be the limit of your interference in their issues. You can lock them in a room self, make them agree or disagree but for the love of yourself, dont tell your friend what to do or what to say. You dont know where he will discuss your matter. Your best friend also have a best friend.!

proxillin:


I do ...

I could have advised the guy to quit. But I didnt. He might end up marrying the girl and I will turn to their enemy.

Instead, I called the 2 of them for reconciliation meeting.

We all know the truth is to cancel the wedding. But I will never let it out.

At times its not a sin to lie
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by starwar(m): 12:06pm On Aug 17, 2015
afolwalex20:
He should cancel d wedding sad
Am d dj grin
Beg dj back off na....you want make money when I use buy suit waste ni.....men in suit things
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Elvis506(m): 12:06pm On Aug 17, 2015
Eberex:


hmm....so far you have succeeded. Lets hope and pray it continues. But be sure to always have it at the back of ya mind that '' a woman with a mission cannot be found out even by the FBI''. grin
thanks bro, my new stats on my whatsapp profile...FBI things
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by 2muchopoTBdope(m): 12:07pm On Aug 17, 2015
Oyind17:
Men can be jealous
I hope ur Dad is a Man too?
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by lexy2014: 12:07pm On Aug 17, 2015
Oyind17:
Men can be jealous
and i guess women cant b jealous
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Nobody: 12:08pm On Aug 17, 2015
I am going to tell you to follow your heart! I will never tell you to dump or marry him/her. If you believe you can cope with him/her, i will accept your decision!

Chikina!


Eberex:


I still don't understand. Lets pretend i am the groom and you my friend. And i asked you for advice, what would your reply be? oya!!!
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by starwar(m): 12:09pm On Aug 17, 2015
naijaboiy:

I guess you just want to comment because what you have posted here does not in anyway relate to the topic and will not help the person in question.

Next time learn to sit back,,relax and look at your screen,,scrolling through the comments when you have nothing reasonable to post.

It will do you a whole lot of good. undecided
seconded
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Nobody: 12:09pm On Aug 17, 2015
2muchopoTBdope:
I hope ur Dad is a Man too?










You chop craze? why involve my dad in this baseless argument?
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Elvis506(m): 12:09pm On Aug 17, 2015
lexy2014:
and i guess women cant b jealous
pls dude make una just shun dis oyind17, she's just here to create awareness or be popular at our own expenses.
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Patented: 12:09pm On Aug 17, 2015
says a lot about the value she places on the sanctity of marriage. this is not an old friend ooo, na DJ wey suppose play for her wedding, she wan do last play

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Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by lexy2014: 12:10pm On Aug 17, 2015
Oyind17:




I went through the ops post all I see is a jealous lover.
y shouldnt d guy not b jealous?
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Eberex(m): 12:10pm On Aug 17, 2015
Lizabeth25:
I am going to tell you to follow your heart! I will never tell you to dump or marry him/her. If you believe you can cope with him/her, i will accept your decision!

Chikina!



And if My reply is: Follow my heart? but my heart is shattered. Why do you think i came to you for advise? Aint you suppose to be my boy?
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by olayinkaj2(m): 12:10pm On Aug 17, 2015
He is going to spend the rest of his life with lady so, he should be jealous and probe her for more explanation. How can she say its just for seeing sake and nothing was going to happen, how is she sure that the dj was not going to use anything within his power to have his way. What is bad is bad. The time to sort it out is now!
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Bollove: 12:11pm On Aug 17, 2015
Elvis506:
bros u finish work on here....if I must get married I would certainly not marry for love...just find one bae both of u can undstnd each other, just like a business associates or colleagues
Marriage is business my brother .... You must always sleep with one eye opened as a Business man and that is what should be done in marriage .... Don't be caught unaware ... Don't let one lady ruin your heritage only to claim "na devil" grin ... Love is business too ... You love me I love you, you stop loving me, I quit and move on !!!

Life itself is Business ... Heaven na profit, hell na loss cheesy

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Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Nobody: 12:11pm On Aug 17, 2015
proxillin:



Please read the story line. And my story line suggests I am speaking for him.

Yes I am speaking for him. Infact I am speaking for him.
if you love this family like you said, dont even think of initiating a meeting with them except you are ready to always do that, am seeing a same repeating. Just advice your friend to set a trap for her, she is a social media freek as I noticed, she will fall in for the game, that is the time to strike.
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Nobody: 12:11pm On Aug 17, 2015
proxillin:


I will get to the root of the matter after the peace meeting.










You've not hold the peace meeting yet and u opened a thread. na wa o
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by lexy2014: 12:12pm On Aug 17, 2015
Oyind17:












You chop craze? why involve my dad in this baseless argument?
i think its a valid question devoid of any insult except maybe your statement about men being jealous wasnt in good faith
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by proxillin(m): 12:12pm On Aug 17, 2015
Oyind17:


You said Men. Your dad is not an exception na. Or your dad na woman?

Its just logic.

No need to take offense











You chop craze? why involve my dad in this baseless argument?
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Elvis506(m): 12:13pm On Aug 17, 2015
Bollove:
Marriage is business my brother .... You must always sleep with one eye opened as a Business man and that is what should be done in marriage .... Don't be caught unaware ... Don't let one lady ruin your heritage only to claim devil grin ... Love is business too ... You love me I love you, you stop loving me, I quit and move on !!!

Life itself is Business ... Heaven na profit, hell na loss cheesy
gbaam! Mission accomplished...full stop.... grin
Bollove:
Marriage is business my brother .... You must always sleep with one eye opened as a Business man and that is what should be done in marriage .... Don't be caught unaware ... Don't let one lady ruin your heritage only to claim devil grin ... Love is business too ... You love me I love you, you stop loving me, I quit and move on !!!

Life itself is Business ... Heaven na profit, hell na loss cheesy
gbaam! Mission accomplished...full stop....

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Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Bollove: 12:13pm On Aug 17, 2015
Eberex:

hmm....so far you have succeeded. Lets hope and pray it continues. But be sure to always have it at the back of ya mind that '' a woman with a mission cannot be found out even by the FBI''. grin
Na lie my brother
as far as Your brain think for you not your Dick, you will always be successful in this regard !!!
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by nnamdiosu(m): 12:14pm On Aug 17, 2015
proxillin:
My friend’s wedding is coming up by next month. I am to be one of his men in suit.

I noticed they are quarreling recently. He opened up to me yesterday.

They are looking for a DJ to play at their reception, so his wifeToBe got a number of one DJ, added him on whatsap and they started chatting. My guy trusted the lady that she is just doing business chat with the DJ.

One day, my friend was going through her whatsapp chat with the DJ. The WifeTB told the DJ that she needs the service of the DJ for her friend’s wedding. She didn’t tell the DJ she is actually the one wedding.

The DJ started asking her out for date. She agreed to meet the DJ for a date somewhere.

My guy saw all that, yet he kept quiet and didn’t want to raise the issue with the lady as their wedding is close, before people start saying he is jealous, he is spying on his girl blahblah.

But my friend could not endure the whole thing again when the DJ started calling her repeatedly. They engage in confidential phone calls. She will be laughing…all Yes No Yes No Ok.. Ok hmmmm conversation, so that someone nearby will not understand what they are saying. At times she excuses my guy to go and pick the DJ’s call.
My guy finally confronted her, why all conversations with the DJ are not business and formal. Why is she hiding things from him?

The wifetobe went mad she alleged my guy is jealous, wrongly suspecting her.

My friend told her, he actually read their chats where they agreed to go out on a date.
That’s when she admitted that he actually asked her to meet him somewhere for a hangout.
She said she had nothing in mind for him. She is only going to meet him as friend at a restaurant. Nothing is going to happen. It’s just a harmless date.

My friend opened up to me that he regretted making decision to marry her. He told me a lot of things that he can’t cancel the wedding again. He will be part of the wedding, but after the wedding, he will start f***cking girls. He will make life difficult for her.

I told him, it’s better to remain single than to go into a hateful marriage.
Deep down in me, I can’t advise him to cancel the wedding.
I have summoned them for a meeting to discuss it and settle it. But that lady can be arrogant at times. My peace meeting may or may not be successful.

Is it normal for a lady to go out on a date with another guy just a month to her wedding?



I feel so sorry for the dj ( wen the husband catches him), for ur friend (after the marriage , and ESP wen be carries out his plan and catches aids. ), for the woman (who is confused and is a harlot), and you who will settle enough marital quarrels wen they marry)

this is a matter that is clear enough. ur friend knows the truth but doesnt want to do the needful.

my advice for ur friend......marriage is life sentence choose your co prisoner carefully.
my advice for you....start reading books on how to settle other people's marriage issues.
as for the woman and uncle DJ.........john 3:16.
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Eberex(m): 12:14pm On Aug 17, 2015
Elvis506:
gbaam! Mission accomplished...full stop.... grin gbaam! Mission accomplished...full stop....

ta! which kin mission? If na that kin philosophy our mama and papa dem bin use during their own days, wetin you think for dey happen today??
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Nobody: 12:15pm On Aug 17, 2015
Seriously I dont understand you. Which side of the story are you looking for. He confronted her then she denied it at first, he then told her about the watsapp messages and she admitted it. This said lady left her her fiancé to receive private calls. You are here talking about jealousy and side of the story
Oyind17:




You are taking sides with your friend. if the lady is doing all that, why is your friend hell bent on marrying this lady? I wish I can hear the Lady's side of this story. My man was angry cos I didn't pick his call, my phone was on silent and he sent an annoying msg to me. If he opens a thread on Nl I know the kind of advice people will give him.
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Nobody: 12:16pm On Aug 17, 2015
Elvis506:
pls dude make una just shun dis oyind17, she's just here to create awareness or be popular at our own expenses.









Lolz, what will I do with online popularity?
I only say what I feel like saying
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Elvis506(m): 12:16pm On Aug 17, 2015
Eberex:


ta! which kin mission? If na that kin philosophy our mama and papa dem bin use during their own days, wetin you think for dey happen today??
that was then bro wen love still exist...
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by harry509: 12:16pm On Aug 17, 2015
proxillin:
My friend’s wedding is coming up by next month. I am to be one of his men in suit.

I noticed they are quarreling recently. He opened up to me yesterday.

They are looking for a DJ to play at their reception, so his wifeToBe got a number of one DJ, added him on whatsap and they started chatting. My guy trusted the lady that she is just doing business chat with the DJ.

One day, my friend was going through her whatsapp chat with the DJ. The WifeTB told the DJ that she needs the service of the DJ for her friend’s wedding. She didn’t tell the DJ she is actually the one wedding.

The DJ started asking her out for date. She agreed to meet the DJ for a date somewhere.

My guy saw all that, yet he kept quiet and didn’t want to raise the issue with the lady as their wedding is close, before people start saying he is jealous, he is spying on his girl blahblah.

But my friend could not endure the whole thing again when the DJ started calling her repeatedly. They engage in confidential phone calls. She will be laughing…all Yes No Yes No Ok.. Ok hmmmm conversation, so that someone nearby will not understand what they are saying. At times she excuses my guy to go and pick the DJ’s call.
My guy finally confronted her, why all conversations with the DJ are not business and formal. Why is she hiding things from him?

The wifetobe went mad she alleged my guy is jealous, wrongly suspecting her.

My friend told her, he actually read their chats where they agreed to go out on a date.
That’s when she admitted that he actually asked her to meet him somewhere for a hangout.
She said she had nothing in mind for him. She is only going to meet him as friend at a restaurant. Nothing is going to happen. It’s just a harmless date.

My friend opened up to me that he regretted making decision to marry her. He told me a lot of things that he can’t cancel the wedding again. He will be part of the wedding, but after the wedding, he will start f***cking girls. He will make life difficult for her.

I told him, it’s better to remain single than to go into a hateful marriage.
Deep down in me, I can’t advise him to cancel the wedding.
I have summoned them for a meeting to discuss it and settle it. But that lady can be arrogant at times. My peace meeting may or may not be successful.

Is it normal for a lady to go out on a date with another guy just a month to her wedding?

pls advice ur frind, if he is nt confortable wit d lady 2 b his wife. He shud better cancel d weddn now ooh, nt afta d weddn, argurmnt , fight, confusion and hatred b4 u kw it divorce wil take place. Ur frind shudt go abt sleepn wit diff girls bcus his wife 2 b, mayb he is suspctn her n dj goin out 2gada. Bcus if he dos dat 2 himslf, he is jst causing more harm's 2 himslf. Women!!! Hmmm! Most of dem has be dangerious since days of creation of heaven n earth.
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by 2muchopoTBdope(m): 12:17pm On Aug 17, 2015
Oyind17:












You chop craze? why involve my dad in this baseless argument?
Lmao...hw people get too serious here ehhhh... hahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahaha, no go hug barb wire oh abeg hahahhahahahahahahah...
For your info..I chop Craze and I Neva even bellefull!!! lwkmd!
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Eberex(m): 12:17pm On Aug 17, 2015
Bollove:
Na lie my brother
as far as Your brain think for you not your Dick, you will always be successful in this regard !!!

hmm........See my guy, don't be too sure of yourself. The bad thing is, when it eventually happens to you......the effect of it would look like that of ''Goliath's stare at little david when he was about to chop his head off''
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Elvis506(m): 12:18pm On Aug 17, 2015
Oyind17:










Lolz, what will I do with online popularity?
I only say what I feel like saying
and u practically wanna be on the other side of the judgement, a true jealous lover would never wait to that extend before reacting..
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by agitator: 12:18pm On Aug 17, 2015
agarawu23:
The girl left her conversations with the DJ on her phone until the husband to be saw it ? we shouldn't rush into conclusion that the lady is trying to fvck the DJ.

They have been together for so long before planning to get married, and the guy never complained about the girl trying to cheat or flirt. if he hasn't, we shouldn't think what we are thinking.

But if the guy knows the lady for flirting around, he should end the wedding once and for all instead of planning to fvck around after the wedding because it will only shorten his life.

proxillin:


My friend opened up to me that he regretted making decision to marry her. He told me a lot of things that he can’t cancel the wedding again.

People with comprehension issues always quick to comment on nairaland.
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Kolade354(m): 12:19pm On Aug 17, 2015
Oyind17:











kids , we know them by their comments
Daft gurl we know ya type........you don't av to comment when you know you av noting in ya brain.
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Nobody: 12:19pm On Aug 17, 2015
2muchopoTBdope:

Lmao...hw people get too serious here ehhhh... hahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahaha, no go hug barb wire oh abeg hahahhahahahahahahah...
For your info..I chop Craze and I Neva even bellefull!!! lwkmd!









it's cos u mention my old man. he's no more

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