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Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Nobody: 1:33pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
I know a man whose wife broke his head with a lamp stand days to their wedding,Infact she was always fighting him even thou she was much younger. Friends advised him to call off the wedding but he kept saying 'what about the expenses made so far?' I have paid for the venue decoration and we are already married traditionally'. Well, in such cases,I leave the advising to his male friends or else people will misinterprete it that I don't want my fellow woman to marry. But,if he is my brother, that wedding is a no no. Marriage is not a child's play that is why most people are scared to go into it. I once had that fear. You should be prepared,with the right person thou no one is perfect but physical abuse and cheating should not be tolerated. 2 Likes |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Nobody: 1:34pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
proxillin: Thank you for admitting she has not cheated on the guy. Don't blast her, let her know she's wrong by not telling the DJ she is about to marr. It may be a harmless date but we no longer have trust in our relationships these days. Please don't take side when you hold your meeting. Good luck! |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by liveyourlife: 1:34pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
proxillin: pls, don't advise your friend wrongly. The girl is probably a nice person. what's happening is called Cold feet. its normal before the wedding date. just help her get over it. She still loves her guy dearly. |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Nobody: 1:42pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
tsdarkside:..... Proverb 26.4 |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by proxillin(m): 1:47pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Oyind17: I will take side the moment she mentioned "I am going out on a harmless date" |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Nobody: 1:50pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
proxillin: Lolzz, you're not ready to help them out |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by proxillin(m): 1:53pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Oyind17: Trust me...I am ready to help. If she is still on going out on a date, then I am sorry. My hands will be tied. I will just tell my guy to allow her go, but he should do whatever his mind says. I will never advise him on what to do. Its a trap for me. 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by chetaraph(m): 1:54pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
agarawu23: Lemme agree that I oblige to agree with ur arguments Now what do u have to say about going on a date with deir proposed dj without d fiancée knowledge before and after d date? Why wait for her to b confronted about the date before she open up. Now that is enuf to nail the gal for having another motive. She is a big FLIRT. and the guy is a big COWARD with that motive he got in his skull after wedding d gal. It seems dere is a financial benefit attached to marrying d gal cos I dnt see any reason insisting on marrying the gal other than that 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Eberex(m): 1:55pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
i ask again. HOW OLD IS SHE? |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Nobody: 2:01pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
proxillin: Haba!! na wa for this lady, is she the one sponsoring the wedding? show your guy comments from Nl . that lady no be here 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by afolwalex20(m): 2:01pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
starwar: Ok.. make I dig d gal only once na! |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by ogbonoeba: 2:02pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
There's only way to solve this situation. The guy should ask his girlfriend if he can accompany her on any occasion she is meeting with her new male friend. Her reaction should will determine 3 possible courses of action. 1. Go ahead and marry the girl 2. Don't marry, but don't break up 3. End the relationship Machiavelli, the father of street smarts, says there are 2 ways of fighting. 1. Like a lion 2. Like a fox Better to fight like a fox at all times. 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by allcomage: 2:02pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
proxillin: BE A FRIEND INDEED,STAND FIRM AND BE COURAGEOUS, TELL HIM TO CANCEL THE WEEDING.IT HAPPENED TO MY FRIEND,I TOLD HIM BUT HE WENT AHEAD AS YOUR FRIEND IS INSISTING.3YEARS DOWN THE LINE THEY SEPARATED IN JUNE WITH HEAVY LOSS ON MY FRIEND EMOTIONALLY AND FINANCIALLY.THE LADY INTO OTHER MEN ALREADY HAVING FUN WHILE MY FRIEND MAY NOT RECOVER IN THE NEXT 3 YEARS THE HE FEELS.A STITCH IN TIME SAVES NINE. |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by IdJack(m): 2:14pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
[size=15pt]hmmmm....stories we hear this days.. tell your friend to keep clam. there is nothing he can do for now...He should not have intention of sleeping around ooo...REMEMBER HIV/AIDS is Very REAL[/size] |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by onelife97: 2:19pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
proxillin: Why can't ur guy cancel the wedding completely and permanently delete the b.itch from his life. I just had a bitter experience with a 9ja girl after spending around 4 million naira with her in just a couple of months,she lastly told it's over that she won't be able to continue with me.....with a very flimsy excuse because I have been cutting my spending on her due to her behaviours caused by lack of communication and all. My guy no matter how much ur paddy don spend on that biatch,TELL ME TO FORGET HER AND CANCEL THE WEDDING sharpaly sharpaly. Let him discuss with any of his family members like mum,dad,borther or sister if they won't force him to cancel the wedding. The b.iatch don't worth the pain that will arise after the said wedding.And your guy won't probably trust the ho again. I am very allergic to pple that I don't trust around me most especially a ho. |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by erumena(m): 2:20pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
proxillin: A disaster waiting to happen, is what this is! |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Bonapart(m): 2:26pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
afolwalex20:i gat a sniper behind you, above you, ahead of you.... can't tell you to watch your back cos I gat a sniper there too mr DJ |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Democrata: 2:33pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Don't marry her |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by afolwalex20(m): 2:35pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Bonapart: Are u threatening me |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by naijaboiy: 2:36pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
DrGroove:Wretched whóre! |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Eberex(m): 2:36pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
afolwalex20:
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Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by kurupt1: 2:40pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
I feel bad for ur friend.but tell him the truth about what you think!if he is a wise man he would appreciate what you say and value your friendship more. |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by etimoz: 2:40pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Oyind17: I AM JUST GOING TO SAY IT AS IT IS I know almost everyone that read this post and your comments would clearly see that you are dumb/foolish. Women like you destroy the image of womanhood, and it's obvious you can not keep a marriage because you completely lack common sense. You seem like the type of woman that would keep calling her ex bf's in presence of her husband, and think it's right and normal. |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by afolwalex20(m): 2:41pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by success10(m): 2:48pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
agarawu23:ladies are devilish.. My closest phrend fucke.d a wifetobe on friday in name of "I wanna buy this and that in the market" and the wedding holds on saturday the following day.. How will u classify this case?.. Dont trust ladies of nowadays. |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Eberex(m): 2:54pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
afolwalex20:
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Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Eberex(m): 2:55pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
success10:
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Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Youngpo413: 2:56pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Oyind17:b!tches are not loyal anymore,so men should be extra alert. |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by bigpsalmy(m): 3:00pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
ireke: This is the best thing to do. #Gbam# |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by Youngpo413: 3:00pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Oyind17:the man is dulling,a real man would cancel the wedding and dump the b!tch. |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by etimoz: 3:06pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
OP: If I were you I'd done same thing you did which is not to advice my friend to call off the wedding but I'll inform him I created a thread on Nairaland and I'll ask him to view the thread. It's left for him to decide. But if your friend was my brother I'd advised him not to marry her. |
Re: A Lady Going Out On A Date With Another Guy Few Days To Her Wedding by loswhite(m): 3:07pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Oyind17:Was it d first time u didn't pick his call or sumtin u do regularly? Most men get angry because even when u don't pick you won't return the call even after seeing 12 miss calls...lol |
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