izzieman:
Just like @lestat , one of the best things I ever did was the two years I lived with my late wife before we got married. We went through the lovin' lovin' syndrome, the club scene, meeting her family as we were far from mine, meeting and bonding with each other's friends, pretend husband/wife and of course, arguments, disagreements, complaints, criticisms fights(Not physical, mind you) and best of all, make up sex.

At the end of the two years, we both agreed that we might as well get married as we were already everything but Certificated spouses to each other. My advice, try it out, make an agreement that if things do not work out after a set amount of time, you would both respectfully call it quits or try a different relationship arrangement. If most people did this, there would be less divorce and less misery in marriage.

The only thing you must remember is that problems will crop up and you must not take flight at the first sign of trouble. You are getting into the big league kiddo!

Good luck!

thanks too kiddo!

Osisie:


Other games? Are u a hunter? Since u've got other games, then u're really into the bleeping process already. Would have reminded u not to see a girl's panties unless u paid her father for the sole rights.

PS, DON'T LET HER IN.

Marry her first.

I understand how hard it is to stay celibate esp with all these tempting tempters everywhere, but Help still comes from above for every willing heart.

PEACE! Stay Blessed, Hommie.

stay blessed too bro!

Moana:
god will provide you don't worry

oinnn. What about u na

jonaifame22:
don't u have an idea?

I do, jst wanted to be certain, but you don't need such games again nah, when you have a gf already

jonaifame22:
but bros,I'm still very young na! Just graduted from uni in 2010 and I'n still tryin to find my feet,wth the barning salon and decoration thing when I dey do,I neva get plenty money to keep up wth family responsibility

This is why i won't stop writing articles on romance.

Please read this because if she knew all these and still wants to move in with you then you are one of the few blessed guys on earth.
https://www.nairaland.com/2477159/why-nigerian-ladies-myopic

shizzy7:
Don't allow her,, and WHAT other games will be checkmated

my other ladiy friends na

favoured234:


Let my pastor not catch hear that you call me Hajjia..
Relationship is just too big that one size does not fit 2 talk more of all.... I am More on the indifferent side than the concerned side

OOps sorry taught that is an hijjab

shizzy7:
Footing the bill or the girl risking not being able to give birth again....

Its Not all about the money

well.........

favoured234:


Let my pastor not catch hear that you call me Hajjia..
Relationship is just too big that one size does not fit 2 talk more of all.... I am More on the indifferent side than the concerned side

You sure look like an hajia

solodox:

The spanish matadors would testify!

I swear they have no idea

Luckygurl:



Lol!! But her moving in still doesn't gurantee he wouldn't leave her in the future if he wishes to, does it??

She is hoping to transform the cohabitation into marriage.. But it is not a 100 percent conversion.

Though pushing away such lady when she has gained stronghold will be hard. Since everyone will be blaming the guy for being wicked. .

pumpstroke:


• It's wrong for both of you to stay together because you are not husband and wife.
• Is there anyway both of you will stay together without engaging in sexual misconduct? 1corinthians 6:18 says flee from fornication
• Will you allow a place in your heart for what God hate? Read James 4:8
• 1corinthians 13:5 says love does not behave indecently. If you truly love her as you said then get married to her legally, if you are not ready then exercise self control which is a fruitage of the spirit. If you truly love her and God then hate what's bad.

thank you pastor

jonaifame22:
Would it be wise as we are not married yet to each other, and also my other games will be checkmated by her dwelling with me.

Please, advice me, I love her very much but.......

omo if u r independent and u love her for wife then drop d games let her come in but be fast about the marriage plans or b4 u no it like 5 kids will calling dad dad!!
And if u don't want her just sweet talk her carefully d implications of living together b4 marriage just cook ur stories.

Toks2008:

OOps sorry taught that is an hijjab

Omotayor123:

You sure look like an hajia

LOL When we chop dog leg, na so we dey enter everywhere
It was an event appropriate dressing

Franchise21:
So if it mistakenly happens, u would opt for abortion?? SMH

did I say so?

jonaifame22:
I swear they have no idea

LOBATAN!

SUGARBEE:


No pee... You would be my ball boy

C'mon....I'm better than that

PunkyVeer:


But seriously though, you claim to "love" her, so why do you then have "other games" ? This I do not understand about some guys.

Its genetic

BraniacX:



Its genetic

Mcheew

PunkyVeer:


Never been with two men at the same time in my life. I wouldn't know how to handle them. One I must be lying to & that to me is a waste of time. I can't be rehearsing a script for somebody. Too much energy. I like being real with a capital R.

chai,u've won my heart,how do I mail my heart to u,where ever u are?

kentochi:
hope you are ready to settle down meaning you are ready to marry if not don't let her park in. mine park in with me 2013 now we are married with baby.

aiit,thank u

jonaifame22:
why u go ask dat kind queshion are u a teacher?

If you said so.

Toks2008:


Lets face it.

The act of philandering is demonic and not just a sinful act.

For crying out loud its the same hole but different casing.

Just as i love the samsung TV as a means of watching aired programs same way another man will prefer lg,or panasonic.

I have my preferred casing for the hole which is all the same and that is WHY I WILL RATHER REMAIN SINGLE THAN SETTLE FOR LESS.

Some guys love slender chics that has a hole while another love big chics that has same hole so for me if my casing is not pleasing to my eyes, i fear that if i try to manage any casing out of desperation, if i ever set my eyes on my preferred casing,i will take a sneak peak.

No be person dey marry all those gorgeous hotties we see? abeg i must get my choice by fire by force.

receive ur choice in jesus name,take it

Loooool......una do well


Mover and Movee

freeage7:


Sorry bro, I never meant any harm, am just saying it as it is. If your girl friend is cohabiting with you and you are convinced you need her in your life. My brother please do the needful, but if you are waiting to make money like me, sorry, I mean like Dangote, you might wait forever oh "Abuja marriage" is sometimes dangerous. God will help you to do the rightful.

amen

Moana:
it wasnt small when you were bending, flipping and twisting her over the weekends but the thought of her being there more often has suddenly made the room too small abi she has caught you


Personally i wouldn't let anyone live with me (as a single woman) i love my space and i dont like sharing my toothpaste

LWKMD!
Chai, I tot my ex was d funniest chick ever.

DROGON:
C'mon....I'm better than that

Ok what you wanna be?

deleskizy:
Bad idea, Consider your freedom gone with the wind. Although, some responsibilities will be off your shoulder

I'll slay Godzilla for my freedom,I love my freedom

Demigods:


Picture or adonbilivit.

u wanna prey ur hawkful eyes on my chick right,no way!

lol, seriously, find out why she really wants to come aside form staying with u.
Ur the man remember u make the rules

PunkyVeer:


Well it's totally unacceptable. Only a woman with low self esteem would allow that to happen. Just stick to one, the one you claim to love. How do you even sleep with someone you have no feelings for? That's gross. I know there are men who value themselves more & wouldn't be sticking it in anywhere unless they're invested in the person. The side game thing just sounds like a monumental waste of time. I assume you have to fake care in order for them to give it all up to you, etc. Ain't nobody have time for that!!!!!

common lady,there are some ladies that just don't care,all they just want his d adventure.Did i lie!!! so that makes it easy for guys to mess with them comfortable

UyaiHarley:
I don't think that's a nice idea. You would offend yourself, your friends who come around before may not do so often anymore. Have u thought of your family members who visit too, like your mom? In the long run, you both will end up hurting yourselves. If you ask me, I don't like that idea...one bit.

infact I've considered all of these