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My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by Cutehector(m): 8:28am On Aug 24, 2015 |
It's as if social media is the modern day version of courtship. People put their best selves up on display for the whole world to see. We even get anxious if something that wouldn't seem publicly appealing was to be posted against your initial request. It makes men lazy and it makes women lazy when it comes to finding a decent spouse these days. We all stop trying. We begin to appreciate the people that we see on a daily basis less and rather admire some intangible being that probably isn't nearly as identical to his/her social media profile like we think they are. We become discouraged, but also find new and more obnoxious ways to compete for the attention of 95% of followers that aren't nearly as close to who they are vs their social media accounts. It's almost as if we've become less personable and more whimsical believing all of our fantasies of the perfect soulmate can be real. We have a new level of approval based off material wants and needs dedicated to the taste of others... People that shouldn't matter more than even the mailman that youve come in contact with over the course of 6years or so. Anyways, that's why I feel like it's a lot harder to date in the year 2015 vs 1915 cause we project our thoughts and ideas a lot more to grasp the attention of the majority due to the concept of the media. We always feel like we need to be on trend with the things other people are doing. But the grass isn't always greener elsewhere..sometimes you could be stepping on the greenest part. Idk it's just weird. What do u think? Cc: lalasticlala |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by agarawu23(m): 8:29am On Aug 24, 2015 |
There is nothing bad in online date it's working for some people and it's a disaster for some. It depends on the person you are dealing with |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by heayey(m): 8:32am On Aug 24, 2015 |
Truetalk... |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by misspicy(f): 8:33am On Aug 24, 2015 |
Its cool if its just a fling |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by afolwalex20(m): 8:34am On Aug 24, 2015 |
What do I think ![]() online dating is great but I love d ones I c everyday more ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by falconey(m): 8:35am On Aug 24, 2015 |
online or no online......relationship is complicated, I've had lots of date, just one online which lasted for 5month, we broke up 3weeks after we met.√ |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by Omotayor123(f): 8:36am On Aug 24, 2015 |
Why social media relationship ![]() ![]() Save yourself from Unnecessary Heart break! |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by HDee(m): 8:38am On Aug 24, 2015 |
Its something actually, we know there are risks in online dating, but we can't because of that say its not good, in fact, people find their life partner through it. It has merits and demerits, we can't totally condemn it. |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by agarawu23(m): 8:40am On Aug 24, 2015 |
Omotayor123:even the ones you see with your korokoro eyes will still break your heart so what's the difference? 1 Like |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by afolwalex20(m): 8:45am On Aug 24, 2015 |
Omotayor123:Are u trynna show us dat u r single & available @ profile pics ![]() |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by HDee(m): 8:49am On Aug 24, 2015 |
Sexologist:And also, we have those that can operate in the two worlds excellently, bro, it has two sides. We can't just conclude. |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by Nobody: 8:53am On Aug 24, 2015 |
whatever floats ur boat, u ride on dat wave. |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by agarawu23(m): 8:56am On Aug 24, 2015 |
Sexologist:that's the fact bro ![]() |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by jmoore(m): 9:10am On Aug 24, 2015 |
Folks online and offline are same human-beings. You can be deceived by the girl next door, same as online. Social media has come to stay, and more folks will be getting married with the aid of social media connection. We do business online, study online etc. Relationship can't be an exception. I don't get this statement "What about girls near you". Must one date/marry the girl next door, huh? I can remember vividly how a girl refused to give a cashier her phone number in the bank. Enough 'shakara' dey offline. Not all guys can cope with such. Go with what suits you. Offline or online, just make sure you shine your eyes very very well. 1 Like |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by datyrone(m): 9:12am On Aug 24, 2015 |
social media profiles are most times filled with illusions.. |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by 2dice(m): 9:39am On Aug 24, 2015 |
misspicy:abeggi where is diss Bar-Man Give her 50 Packs Condom... Bills on the Op ![]() |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by 2dice(m): 9:43am On Aug 24, 2015 |
Online... Offline different Shii Same Suckaway |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by Omotayor123(f): 11:17am On Aug 24, 2015 |
agarawu23:It's different At least there won't be physical appearance scam plus you get to see, watch, feel and touch. No shady business.. The heartbreak will depend on your personality or differences in opinions or views. |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by Omotayor123(f): 11:18am On Aug 24, 2015 |
afolwalex20:Chai... You like Amebo ooo ![]() |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by Nobody: 11:27am On Aug 24, 2015 |
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Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by afolwalex20(m): 11:36am On Aug 24, 2015 |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by Nobody: 12:33pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
U right OP
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Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by Cutehector(m): 1:22pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Omotayor123:omotayo, I neva said I was in any form of online rship, try to read d passage and understand.. I was only airing my opinions concernin social media relationships and hw ppo behave towards it.... Hian.. Una sef |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by Cutehector(m): 1:24pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
2dice:rapid banging ![]() |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by Omotayor123(f): 1:31pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Cutehector:I understand your write up perfectly... I'm just saying though, that why go into it for those who do! |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by Cutehector(m): 1:35pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Omotayor123:lol.. Alryt.. I laffed wen I saw ur profile pic ![]() |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by Nobody: 1:42pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Problem is most young people see online relationship as a joke and just a medium for fun and quick wins. That's diabolical and myopic but It's the way it is. If It's seen from a serious and honest perspective then I don't think the debacle that greets it today will still be a problem. 1 Like |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by BANGERLEE1(m): 1:46pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
See as for me o.. Online dating has its own bad and good side ... But if u guys think of it online dating is equal to blind dating not now that those girls will filte*r and p-imp thr pics and u will ridicule the ones u see physically... And later be disappointed with ur e-girlfriend...I think I prefer the ones I see.. because u get to know them without hiding behind any account* u see their capabilities.. |
Re: My Thoughts On Social Media Relationships. by Omotayor123(f): 1:48pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
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