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Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 8:31am On Aug 30, 2015

Sub- Topic :How do married women whose husbands are in diaspora cope sexually?

Having heard how some women lament how their husbands have been in diaspora for years, I feel compassion for them and to think that they are not better than widows beat my imagination.

The average married women rather die than cheat especially if she is Christian and wouldn't give in to adultery.

This is quite logical, spiritual and emotional. Is there an exception to them?

What do you think? (Mature Contributions)

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by ladyF(f): 8:33am On Aug 30, 2015
Tricky one...lemme read comments

It's [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again grin grin grin

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by raayah(f): 8:37am On Aug 30, 2015
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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by 1miccza: 8:37am On Aug 30, 2015
let me read comments with Lady F *spreads mat*

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by menesheh(m): 8:46am On Aug 30, 2015
There is nothing sinful there. Just do it yourself.

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by iliyande(m): 8:55am On Aug 30, 2015
One of the major sexual issues discussed throughout scripture is lust. Jesus condemned lust in the heart as adultery in Matthew. While most advertising, television shows, movies, magazines, and more promote lust, the New Testament describes it as a sin. masturbation as a form of lust, if your lust is causing you to masturbate.

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 9:37am On Aug 30, 2015
iliyande:
One of the major sexual issues discussed throughout scripture is lust. Jesus condemned lust in the heart as adultery in Matthew. While most advertising, television shows, movies, magazines, and more promote lust, the New Testament describes it as a sin. masturbation as a form of lust, if your lust is causing you to masturbate.
Hmm yea...So, how do they cope?

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 9:46am On Aug 30, 2015
undecided they told you; if you Bleep a pretty young lady with firm big breasts it's a sin. But if you put a ring on her finger before fucking her it's a holy Bleep.

Now just look at the question a young black man is asking...

Wtf is sin anyway?

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by chichriso: 9:51am On Aug 30, 2015
it is sin to do ''self service'' otherwise known as MASTURBATION, God frowns at it, therefore it is better that the couple stay together at all times to avoid the anger of God in such marriage .

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by iliyande(m): 9:57am On Aug 30, 2015
emusmith:

Hmm yea...So, how do they cope?

Prayers takes away every temptation

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 9:59am On Aug 30, 2015
chichriso:
it is sin to do ''self service'' otherwise known as MASTURBATION, God frowns at it, therefore it is better that the couple stay together at all times to avoid the anger of God in such marriage .


Hmm

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 10:00am On Aug 30, 2015
iliyande:


Prayers take away every temptation

So, she should pray-out loneliness?

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Joniboi(m): 9:43pm On Sep 05, 2015
Nooo! How can it be a sin? See question ooh.

I self service most times when am away from my partner cos its better to self service than to go after prostitutes and some cheap girls and get infected with some deadly disease on infection which in turn will be passed onto your partner.

All them hypocrites in the house, make una begin bash me oooh! The truth is that 90% of men self service and 75% of women self service...Oti kpariii! lipsrsealed

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by LatestTrend: 9:43pm On Sep 05, 2015
That's bushhsiit baby. Masturbation is not good. tongue

Without having sexual thoughts, the feeling can't be developed into urge.

Control your mind before it starts controlling you. grin

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by NaLaugh: 9:43pm On Sep 05, 2015
Who decides what "sin" is? undecided

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Ilekeh(f): 9:43pm On Sep 05, 2015
Why are Nigerians so backwards like this?

Kilo ti e de gan? Ta ni a se? Ta lo n binu si wa? embarassed embarassed

Anyway, where in your bible did God mention "self-service"? Who told you Jesus didn't jerk off when Jazabel denied him Mouth Gig?

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by slimmyjimmy(m): 9:43pm On Sep 05, 2015
Na u get ur tin na

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by YerYer: 9:44pm On Sep 05, 2015
Self servicing isn't a sin, although overdoing it in men can lead to blindness. Thanks to modern technology, long distance relationships are a little but more manageable, couples can have phone intimacy or Skype sex. They can sext as well via text messages and what'sapp.

Of course there's nothing like the real thing, but self servicing along with their partners overseas can be enjoyable and help with relieving stress.

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by ladyF(f): 9:44pm On Sep 05, 2015
Hmmm.....I really feel for them o. Body no b wood. Maybe they will buy toys and maybe Skype their spouse while they are at it? grin Idk sha. ....lemme join 1miccza and continue reading comments from others *spreads mat*

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by viktor01(m): 9:44pm On Sep 05, 2015
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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by neweraomo: 9:44pm On Sep 05, 2015
Masturbation is not a sin I guess
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by lonelydora: 9:44pm On Sep 05, 2015
I have been waiting for topics like this. Had a very hot argument with my friends on this. Let me read comments before calling them.

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by rallymento(m): 9:44pm On Sep 05, 2015
Masturbation damages the sexual organs, why damage ur body....

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by jamex93(m): 9:45pm On Sep 05, 2015
Waiting u con marry 4 if u go still dey do dat nonsense

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by whyx06(m): 9:45pm On Sep 05, 2015
Oi
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by zangiff(m): 9:45pm On Sep 05, 2015
such person is gonna cope
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by wristbangle: 9:45pm On Sep 05, 2015
raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

Generally, I dont think masturbation is a sin.

Generally and spiritually speaking masturbation is a SIN.

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 9:45pm On Sep 05, 2015
emusmith:

Sub- Topic :How do married women whose husbands are in diaspora cope sexually?

Having heard how some women lament how their husbands have been in diaspora for years, I feel compassion for them and to think that they are not better than widows beat my imagination.

The average married women rather die than cheat especially if she is Christian and wouldn't give in to adultery.

This is quite logical, spiritual and emotional. Is there an exception to them?

What do you think? (Mature Contributions)
leave me alone! I don't know

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by missKiffy(f): 9:46pm On Sep 05, 2015
A sin is a sin, no excuses. Not judging tho

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by CandyBar: 9:46pm On Sep 05, 2015
#Consulting the Oracles
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by strawb(f): 9:46pm On Sep 05, 2015
Yess masturbation is sinful. Its the work of the flesh.

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by ttemmi(m): 9:47pm On Sep 05, 2015
lol

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