Condition doesn't matter

Only God knows the answer to that.

emusmith:

Sub- Topic :How do married women whose husbands are in diaspora cope sexually?

Having heard how some women lament how their husbands have been in diaspora for years, I feel compassion for them and to think that they are not better than widows beat my imagination.

The average married women rather die than cheat especially if she is Christian and wouldn't give in to adultery.

This is quite logical, spiritual and emotional. Is there an exception to them?

What do you think? (Mature Contributions)

Nigga ur in for a long thing

Modified: My advice is that after cooking with pepper expecially Cameroon Pepper,
abeg try wash ur hand very well before committing Self Servicing,... suicide. God Punish Devil

hehehe. .....someone should congratulate me cos I just made fp for the 1st tym. back to the topic, What is self service? lemme go and read comments and reinforce to comment.

C full stops everywer.. Space bookers... Finally i agree there are no jobs in nigeria, its actually reflecting on nairaland.

It's a terrible sin

Lemme park here and learn..

raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

Generally, I dont think masturbation is a sin.

Thank you! Mrs

Nice topic though bitter

Ilekeh:
Why are Nigerians so backwards like this?

Kilo ti e de gan? Ta ni a se? Ta lo n binu si wa?

Anyway, where in your bible did God mention "self-service"? Who told you Jesus didn't jerk off when Jazabel denied him Mouth Gig?

Did you read the emboldened in the same bible everybody reads? I'd be careful so not to blaspheme.

raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

Generally, I dont think masturbation is a sin.

MASTURBATION IS A SIN!!!!!!!!!!!!

emusmith:

Sub- Topic :How do married women whose husbands are in diaspora cope sexually?

Having heard how some women lament how their husbands have been in diaspora for years, I feel compassion for them and to think that they are not better than widows beat my imagination.

The average married women rather die than cheat especially if she is Christian and wouldn't give in to adultery.

This is quite logical, spiritual and emotional. Is there an exception to them?

What do you think? (Mature Contributions)

lol...religion and crappy beliefs
if sexual urge is not a sin,how can self service be a sin?..
body na firewood?
u asked a person not to commit adultery because its bad
u now say a person should not self service again
u can't have it both ways.
sexual urge is a strong and intense natural feeling,and self service is probably the safest way to avoid adultery.

ladyF:
Tricky one...lemme read comments

me too

only in naija u can hear Dis kind question...... am celebrating LTC. last to comment Dis night.

emusmith:

Sub- Topic :How do married women whose husbands are in diaspora cope sexually?

Having heard how some women lament how their husbands have been in diaspora for years, I feel compassion for them and to think that they are not better than widows beat my imagination.

The average married women rather die than cheat especially if she is Christian and wouldn't give in to adultery.

This is quite logical, spiritual and emotional. Is there an exception to them?

What do you think? (Mature Contributions)

I don't even kw wat 2 comment ryte now.

If you ask me. na who I go ask

It is a sin but it is generally better than adultery and fornication saves you a lot of unwanted drama,STIs, etc..

Who r u?

It's not a SIN, fornication and adultery is
Moreover, there's no place in the Bible it was condemned

neweraomo:
Masturbation is not a sin I guess

MASTURBATION IS A SIN!!!!!!!!

Self service in a restaurant? Oh, my bad.

emusmith:

Sub- Topic :How do married women whose husbands are in diaspora cope sexually?

Having heard how some women lament how their husbands have been in diaspora for years, I feel compassion for them and to think that they are not better than widows beat my imagination.

The average married women rather die than cheat especially if she is Christian and wouldn't give in to adultery.

This is quite logical, spiritual and emotional. Is there an exception to them?

What do you think? (Mature Contributions)

The embolden is false. Married women do play outside games on a near equal scale like the men. You think conji respects gender?

The question is not all encompassing. It should have been how do distance couple cope. The diaspora married men whose spouse are in Nigeria should have been included too. Wanna know how 'we' cope?

How long have you been on it?

emusmith:

Sub- Topic :How do married women whose husbands are in diaspora cope sexually?

Having heard how some women lament how their husbands have been in diaspora for years, I feel compassion for them and to think that they are not better than widows beat my imagination.

The average married women rather die than cheat especially if she is Christian and wouldn't give in to adultery.

This is quite logical, spiritual and emotional. Is there an exception to them?

What do you think? (Mature Contributions)

missKiffy:
A sin is a sin, no excuses. Not judging tho

Hmmm!

how long have you been doing it? go to catholic church to confess

Self control is a virtue...

My bf is a corporate wanderer so to maintain my sexual sanity I masturbate a lot and he is cool with it.

I can't cheat on him so I watch porn and stay with BoB = Battery-operated Buddy.

Wat I call sin is wen u go against ur CONSCIENCE.


BTW, masturbation is not a sin. Especially one dat z not based on lust.

What if a woman's husband is sick as a result can't perform and the woman is still young what would you have do? I think it's better to do self servicing than to commit adultery.

sin na sin

chichriso:
it is sin to do ''self service'' otherwise known as MASTURBATION, God frowns at it, therefore it is better that the couple stay together at all times to avoid the anger of God in such marriage .

. "God frowns at it" how u take know ? Abi u don see God b4 ?

ladyF:
Hmmm.....I really feel for them o. Body no b wood. Maybe they will buy toys and maybe Skype their spouse while they are at it? Idk sha. ....lemme join 1miccza and continue reading comments from others *spreads mat*

You won't kill me with laff o. you are commenting yet na comment you come read. I will seize that mat now