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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by ayrahmon: 11:01pm On Sep 05, 2015
what did mean by "if she is a christian". if she is a muslim nko

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by mysteryman2014: 11:02pm On Sep 05, 2015
raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

The bible does not condemn or approve of masturbation.

For all of you metioning me... Guess what, I MASTURBATE and I dont give two flying pigs.

Let me be sad sad

Baby u bad o

For the ladies.. Lie down on your bed tonight and spread those legs (sorry if you are on your period tongue).
Use your fingers to find the spot.. (once you find it u will know).
Now stroke it in circular motions..
Keep going, it feels like you want to pee, just keep going.
You will get to that sweet sweet land....

You're welcome wink
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by danduj(m): 11:02pm On Sep 05, 2015
chichriso:
it is sin to do ''self service'' otherwise known as MASTURBATION, God frowns at it, therefore it is better that the couple stay together at all times to avoid the anger of God in such marriage .
give me a scripture in d bible dat condemns it

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 11:04pm On Sep 05, 2015
raayah:


Lol... im ashamed of myself


I'm the Op of this thread and I tell you: Don't be.
At least, you didn't wear the hat of an hypocrite.

I love your type. It's your type that easily come out of it stresslessly.

Don't feel condemned!

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Burgain(m): 11:04pm On Sep 05, 2015
Smiles... May God help us all. One thing i c baot dis tin s dat it is a sin. I av come to realize in christian faith s dat it s convinent to live a sinful life dn a godly 1 and proverb 14:12 say "there is a way which seems right to man buh d end thereof destruction" buh u knw wat i pray God open our eyes of understanding cos d bible also says "happy is he that has no reason to judge imsef for wat he approves or belives in romans 14:22-23.. So if u feel its rigght continue buh i pray God opens your eyes buh as for me i knw more than say masturbatn s nt a sin IT IS A SIN AS IT COMES 4RM THE LUST OF D MIND #GODBLESSUSALL #SHALOM!

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by 6fit(f): 11:05pm On Sep 05, 2015
raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

The bible does not condemn or approve of masturbation.

For all of you metioning me... Guess what, I MASTURBATE and I dont give two flying pigs.

Let me be sad sad

For the ladies.. Lie down on your bed tonight and spread those legs (sorry if you are on your period tongue).
Use your fingers to find the spot.. (once you find it u will know).
Now stroke it in circular motions..
Keep going, it feels like you want to pee, just keep going.
You will get to that sweet sweet land....

You're welcome wink

if u mastubate, ko kan aye now. Anyway, i pitty d married women whose husbby is away for greener pasture in diaspora..... What they go thru is better imergined. I think self servise is better than adultery. Though seek d consent of yur man bfor using self-servise
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by danduj(m): 11:05pm On Sep 05, 2015
BrainnewsNg:

Thank you! Mrs
you also masturbate
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Sep 05, 2015
danduj:
you also masturbate
Behave mature na! You go arrest her?

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 11:07pm On Sep 05, 2015
raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

The bible does not condemn or approve of masturbation.

For all of you metioning me... Guess what, I MASTURBATE and I dont give two flying pigs.

Let me be sad sad

For the ladies.. Lie down on your bed tonight and spread those legs (sorry if you are on your period tongue).
Use your fingers to find the spot.. (once you find it u will know).
Now stroke it in circular motions..
Keep going, it feels like you want to pee, just keep going.
You will get to that sweet sweet land....

You're welcome wink

Chai!!

THIS IS A DEMONIC DECEPTION!!!

LET THE DEMONIZED FELLOWS WHO DON'T MIND A DUPLEX IN HELLFIRE KEEP APPLAUDING YOU - FOR BEING "REAL"

You had better repent. You only read your Bible upside down abi?

The sin of every man starts from their thoughts - don't be deceived.

And to think you'll be bold enough to admit such disgusting act publicly speaks volume of your morals.

#deceived

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by handsomeyitayo(m): 11:08pm On Sep 05, 2015
raayah:


No ...
Do u derive satisfaction 4rm doing it..it lik punishin yah self..hw do u feel?
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Sacramento4real(m): 11:09pm On Sep 05, 2015
iliyande:


Prayers take away every temptation
prayer does not answer to Konji.
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by raayah(f): 11:09pm On Sep 05, 2015
GlorifiedTunde:


Chai!!

THIS IS A DEMONIC DECEPTION!!!

LET THE DEMONIZED FELLOWS WHO DON'T MIND A DUPLEX KEEP APPLAUDING YOU - FOR BEING "REAL"

You had better repent. You only read your Bible upside down abi?

The sin of every man starts from their thoughts - don't be deceived.

And to think you'll be bold enough to admit such disgusting act publicly speaks volume of your morals.

#deceived

What if im not a christain?

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 11:10pm On Sep 05, 2015
raayah:


Lol... im ashamed of myself
Only guys are allowed to masturbate, because sometimes when konji strikes, there may be no willing kitties, but girls share, dem no get excuse undecided
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by therapistmrs: 11:10pm On Sep 05, 2015
please for once lets put aside bible and address the main issue.my opinion is that there is nothing wrong in self servicing yourself when your spouse is far away in another country, body no bi wood.trust me better that than cheating on your spouse.it's not easy
therapistmrs.blogspt.com
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 11:11pm On Sep 05, 2015
raayah:


What if im not a christain?

YOUR LOSS!!!

Thought you had a deeper life background. WHATEVER!
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by rallymento(m): 11:11pm On Sep 05, 2015
cbrass:


Its a lie pls. Because you don't people to do something doesn't give you the reason to tell lies

It is true Google "dangers of masturbation" and meet write ur own report...cheers
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by danduj(m): 11:12pm On Sep 05, 2015
emusmith:
Behave mature na! You go arrest her?
na question ah ask na
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by pelumi224(f): 11:12pm On Sep 05, 2015
iliyande:


Prayers take away every temptation
gbam !!! plus keeping d mind busy
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Toks2008(m): 11:12pm On Sep 05, 2015
emusmith:

Sub- Topic :How do married women whose husbands are in diaspora cope sexually?

Having heard how some women lament how their husbands have been in diaspora for years, I feel compassion for them and to think that they are not better than widows beat my imagination.

The average married women rather die than cheat especially if she is Christian and wouldn't give in to adultery.

This is quite logical, spiritual and emotional. Is there an exception to them?

What do you think? (Mature Contributions)


Self servicing is a rather complex matter.

The Bible is totally silent about this matter but then I always ask; when you masturbate, what do you think about? This is where the complexity sets in.

I really don’t think a single man or woman wil be thinking about a football game or a tractor when self servicing but probably about someone who he or she is not really married to which makes it lusting which translates to sin..

Married people who self service thinking about their hubby or wives may really be practicing a sinless act but I believe it will be unwholesome to self service thinking about an illicit sexual act.

Nevertheless, this subject remains one with strong debate where some believe that as long as actual sexual intercourse is not involved, it is sinless and harmless but this is my take on the matter.

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by raayah(f): 11:13pm On Sep 05, 2015
ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

Only guys are allowed to masturbate, because sometimes when konji strikes, there may be no willing kitties, but girls share, dem no get excuse undecided

Haha.. what about ugly girls like me that dont have plenty choices.

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by 6fit(f): 11:13pm On Sep 05, 2015
iliyande:
One of the major sexual issues discussed throughout scripture is lust. Jesus condemned lust in the heart as adultery in Matthew. While most advertising, television shows, movies, magazines, and more promote lust, the New Testament describes it as a sin. masturbation as a form of lust, if your lust is causing you to masturbate.


abeg park well jare...una don come again all these fake christein wey don abuse their punna finish for youth. Can u point out d word Mastubation in d bible?? Miss Holier than thou......professional self-servicer...abeg go preach to d birds
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 11:15pm On Sep 05, 2015
GlorifiedTunde:


Chai!!

THIS IS A DEMONIC DECEPTION!!!

LET THE DEMONIZED FELLOWS WHO DON'T MIND A DUPLEX IN HELLFIRE KEEP APPLAUDING YOU - FOR BEING "REAL"

You had better repent. You only read your Bible upside down abi?

The sin of every man starts from their thoughts - don't be deceived.

And to think you'll be bold enough to admit such disgusting act publicly speaks volume of your morals.

#deceived


Those not declaring their own thinking none is seeing them are committing equal evil, you know.

Everything is not DEMON. So, a lady comes to you with this kinda problem and you spew all these?

Maybe, you're just what you call them. Jesus never condemned any. His love won them.

Raayah, one more time, I love your sincerity. If you desire to snap out, you will and can.
.
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 11:17pm On Sep 05, 2015
therapistmrs:
please for once lets put aside bible and address the main issue.my opinion is that there is nothing wrong in self servicing yourself when your spouse is far away in another country, body no bi wood.trust me better that than cheating on your spouse.it's not easy
therapistmrs.blogspt.com
keep putting the Bible aside till you land in hell!

You all definitely don't understand God's principle of marriage.

For.no reason should a couple be distant from each other to the point of temptation. WHY MARRY IN THE FIRST PLACE THEN?

Its.not by force to marry oo!

God creatwd marriage for three main reasons:
1) Companionship
2) To prevent sexual sins
3) Procreation

Why must you be distant from each other?

Even the Bible says ...give no place to the devil.

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 11:22pm On Sep 05, 2015
emusmith:


Those not declaring their own thinking none is seeing them are committing equal evil, you know.

Everything is not DEMON. So, a lady comes to you with this kinda problem and you spew all these?

Maybe, you're just what you call them. Jesus never condemned any. His love won them.

Raayah, one more time, I love your sincerity. If you desire to snap out, you will and can.
.

See yourself?

When you say a thinking is demonized, it means it is a lie. Concocted by the satanic world to brainwash humans.

You cannot tell me about masturba.tion bro. I didn't start my life as a saint - I had a past too.

BUT STOP MAKING A SIN LOOK RIGHT.

I am not judging her, I'm not God!

I'm.telling her the PLAIN TRUTH! Period!
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 11:23pm On Sep 05, 2015
GlorifiedTunde:
keep putting the Bible aside till you land in hell!

You all definitely don't understand God's principle of marriage.

For.no reason should a couple be distant from each other to the point of temptation. WHY MARRY IN THE FIRST PLACE THEN?

Its.not by force to marry oo!

God creatwd marriage for three main reasons:
1) Companionship
2) To prevent sexual sins
3) Procreation

Why must you be distant from each other?

Even the Bible says ...give no place to the devil.


Don't you think we know all that before asking this?

Haven't you met women whose husbands work abroad? They're many.

If the couple, while looking for money separates... What happens? Pls, answer discretively or don't reply at all. Thnx
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Smartlife(m): 11:25pm On Sep 05, 2015
We just have to do what will give us happiness
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by 6fit(f): 11:27pm On Sep 05, 2015
GlorifiedTunde:


Chai!!

THIS IS A DEMONIC DECEPTION!!!

LET THE DEMONIZED FELLOWS WHO DON'T MIND A DUPLEX IN HELLFIRE KEEP APPLAUDING YOU - FOR BEING "REAL"

You had better repent. You only read your Bible upside down abi?

The sin of every man starts from their thoughts - don't be deceived.

And to think you'll be bold enough to admit such disgusting act publicly speaks volume of your morals.

#deceived


God looks at d motive and not d action....not all dat call me father, will enter my father kingdom...so dont b suprise to c those aplauding d laddy who is been sincere in heaven and u judging them in opposite of heaven.....even yur tongue can pronounce statement dat will land u in hell..so watch yur staatement
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 11:28pm On Sep 05, 2015
raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

The bible does not condemn or approve of masturbation.

For all of you metioning me... Guess what, I MASTURBATE and I dont give two flying pigs.

Let me be sad sad

For the ladies.. Lie down on your bed tonight and spread those legs (sorry if you are on your period tongue).
Use your fingers to find the spot.. (once you find it u will know).
Now stroke it in circular motions..
Keep going, it feels like you want to pee, just keep going.
You will get to that sweet sweet land....

You're welcome wink
you are a sexxxxx machine
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by pinkygee1: 11:29pm On Sep 05, 2015
SIN-OOOO be warn
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by dokunbam(m): 11:31pm On Sep 05, 2015
I need advice too undecided
And I need to advice someone
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 11:34pm On Sep 05, 2015
GlorifiedTunde:


See yourself?

When you say a thinking is demonized, it means it is a lie. Concocted by the satanic world to brainwash humans.

You cannot tell me about masturba.tion bro. I didn't start my life as a saint - I had a past too.

BUT STOP MAKING A SIN LOOK RIGHT.

I am not judging her, I'm not God!

I'm.telling her the PLAIN TRUTH! Period!



1. See myself? You see, that's an insult. I'm sure you do more. I respect all. Don't prove otherwise.

2. You didnt start your life as a saint? Who cares? Lol, flatter yourself more, I don't even know you... How would i call you a saint?...For childishly "condemning" someone whom you've not even listen to if she believes in your religion?

3. You think Jesus didn't know the PLAIN TRUTH before asking the "far to see" and the "sad to see" if they were sinless, they could throw a stone? He knew the TRUTH, yet waited, in love! The result was outstanding.

Love conquers all
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by ExtraUniqueGuy(m): 11:35pm On Sep 05, 2015
dapsonlou:


Masturbation is better than Cheating, Feeling Self pleasure is not a Sin, it's your body. You might feel dirty at 1st, but you will get use to it. Buy a Love Machine or a Cucumber, Same result
your body is a holy temple to your God

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