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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by ChynoBEATS: 5:07am On Sep 06, 2015
emusmith:

Sub- Topic :How do married women whose husbands are in diaspora cope sexually?

Having heard how some women lament how their husbands have been in diaspora for years, I feel compassion for them and to think that they are not better than widows beat my imagination.

The average married women rather die than cheat especially if she is Christian and wouldn't give in to adultery.

This is quite logical, spiritual and emotional. Is there an exception to them?

What do you think? (Mature Contributions)

It has no excuse !its a sin to do such
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by wcurtis76(m): 5:16am On Sep 06, 2015
Women can do and undo so speak for you self and not for others

undecided
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by chemsie: 5:27am On Sep 06, 2015
hello,its sunday...are you going to church today?
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Adesiji77: 5:28am On Sep 06, 2015
emusmith:

So, she should pray-out loneliness?

Question of "Laif" lipsrsealed
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by KelvinC1(m): 5:31am On Sep 06, 2015
You mean I should ping out my pri.ck, erect it and start Jerking it until I come.? Haba Common am too busy for that brother and sister.. I rather pay for sex every minute or every day rather than to do that brain draining thing called SELF-SERVICING..
whether single or MARRIED.. brother and sister, E NO GOOD.. If you get addicted to it, your name na SORRY.. See Jos-PLATEAU wey cold dey 24/7 and wey fine fine BEROM GIRLS yakpa sweet everyTIME, then I go come the knack myself by myself Just only me.? If I come, who I go tell say I don come.? No way.. MA.TURBATION no good.. That girl far far above me advising and practically teaching other girls to ma.turbate is to me SEXUALLY UGLY and SEXUALLY ROTTEN..


na me Abramkelvin #ADOYII
That sharp guy From Jos city..
The BENUE-IDOMA breed..
it's weekEND, lets chat whatsapp
please no gay bro
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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by alausaone(m): 5:41am On Sep 06, 2015
initiator001:
Pls can i ask us dis question? If ur ill, i mean ur suspecting u have low sperm count or urinary problem n ur doctor ask for ur sperm for test n ur not married. Also, knowing too well dat it against ur believe as a Christian. What do u do?


Answer to your question above.............If you are suspecting of having a low sperm count , sure the doctor or nurse on duty will give you a container and take the person to a special room called SALLE DE BAINE......there you have to rub the cream and jerk yourself till you cum......th is medically accepted either as a christian or Muslim it has nothing to do with your believe but your health life.

But talking about Masturbation the real one just as the case of the doctor requesting you for a laboratory test meaning there was a reason for it, so masturbation alone without the doctor asking you definitely there was a force behind the and what is the force, idleness and from doing it ,it might go beyond masturbation the person might begins to feel like having the real sex and if such a person is single and doesn't have a means of satisfying his real desire they lost sense of thinking and that is where cases of Rape and defiling minor or neighbor arises .....take example at time we read about people defile minor whom they lived in the same compound it wasn't the people or sexual look of such minor that atract the rapist but they must have been doing something to there self indoor before committing such atrocity
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Rhea(f): 5:48am On Sep 06, 2015
[size=38pt]Na sin oo[/size]

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by unmask: 5:51am On Sep 06, 2015
some have heads but cannot think......Adam and eve were created naked for a reason......wearing clothes is the first child of the first sin.

now some people are trying to erase that sin by going back to the way we were created.....yet some bothers and sisters somewhere will call them useless......even though they know we were created naked
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Rotimi47: 5:52am On Sep 06, 2015
raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

For all of you metioning me... Guess what, I MASTURBATE and I dont give two flying pigs.

Let me be sad sad

For the ladies.. Lie down on your bed tonight and spread those legs (sorry if you are on your period tongue).
Use your fingers to find the spot.. (once you find it u will know).
Now stroke it in circular motions..
Keep going, it feels like you want to pee, just keep going.
You will get to that sweet sweet land....

You're welcome wink
Chisos!
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by 1miccza: 6:17am On Sep 06, 2015
ladyF:
Hmmm.....I really feel for them o. Body no b wood. Maybe they will buy toys and maybe Skype their spouse while they are at it? grin Idk sha. ....lemme join 1miccza and continue reading comments from others *spreads mat*

Ehheeenn!!! Dusts mat my co partner is here i don move,join me and let's read these comments together..
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by chikejude(m): 6:26am On Sep 06, 2015
The question the Op is asking is in relation to couples. I don't get the scriptural quotes.it should be a sin to lust after a spouse.
Burgain:
Smiles... May God help us all. One thing i c baot dis tin s dat it is a sin. I av come to realize in christian faith s dat it s convinent to live a sinful life dn a godly 1 and proverb 14:12 say "there is a way which seems right to man buh d end thereof destruction" buh u knw wat i pray God open our eyes of understanding cos d bible also says "happy is he that has no reason to judge imsef for wat he approves or belives in romans 14:22-23.. So if u feel its rigght continue buh i pray God opens your eyes buh as for me i knw more than say masturbatn s nt a sin IT IS A SIN AS IT COMES 4RM THE LUST OF D MIND #GODBLESSUSALL #SHALOM!
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by femi4: 6:29am On Sep 06, 2015
raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

For all of you metioning me... Guess what, I MASTURBATE and I dont give two flying pigs.

Let me be sad sad

For the ladies.. Lie down on your bed tonight and spread those legs (sorry if you are on your period tongue).
Use your fingers to find the spot.. (once you find it u will know).
Now stroke it in circular motions..
Keep going, it feels like you want to pee, just keep going.
You will get to that sweet sweet land....

You're welcome wink
The dangerous aspect is that when you get used to it, your satisfaction from engaging in sex will reduce drastically.
Its either you no longer enjoy sex or no matter how great the sex is, you wont be satisfy unless you masturbate

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by StevenJay01(m): 6:48am On Sep 06, 2015
Badt gurl. U are a really badt gurl and I like u for that fact.hope I really get to know the badt gurl more cos I am d badt guy u have been missing.



raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

For all of you metioning me... Guess what, I MASTURBATE and I dont give two flying pigs.

Let me be sad sad

For the ladies.. Lie down on your bed tonight and spread those legs (sorry if you are on your period tongue).
Use your fingers to find the spot.. (once you find it u will know).
Now stroke it in circular motions..
Keep going, it feels like you want to pee, just keep going.
You will get to that sweet sweet land....

You're welcome wink
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by mentorken05(m): 6:51am On Sep 06, 2015
Sochukwuma
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by chichriso: 6:54am On Sep 06, 2015
This thread making a front page again in two weeks? Kai, there are other things to attend to naah!

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Mrjosaphat: 7:00am On Sep 06, 2015
raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

For all of you metioning me... Guess what, I MASTURBATE and I dont give two flying pigs.

Let me be sad sad

For the ladies.. Lie down on your bed tonight and spread those legs (sorry if you are on your period tongue).
Use your fingers to find the spot.. (once you find it u will know).
Now stroke it in circular motions..
Keep going, it feels like you want to pee, just keep going.
You will get to that sweet sweet land.... A SMALL GAL OF UR AGE HAVE ALREADY KNEW WHAT MASTURBATION IS ALL ABOUT?, NAWAO, ANYWAY HOW OLD ARE YOU, AND IS DAT REALLY UR SKIN COLOUR , COS I GUESS,, U FELLED INSIDE A PIT OF BLACK COAL

You're welcome wink
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by solonazzy: 7:03am On Sep 06, 2015
iliyande:
One of the major sexual issues discussed throughout scripture is lust. Jesus condemned lust in the heart as adultery in Matthew. While most advertising, television shows, movies, magazines, and more promote lust, the New Testament describes it as a sin. masturbation as a form of lust, if your lust is causing you to masturbate.
Lust for missing her husband beside her?..... Wetin Dis 1 dey talk

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by iliyande(m): 7:13am On Sep 06, 2015
solonazzy:

Lust for missing her husband beside her?..... Wetin Dis 1 dey talk
having a very strong sexual desire for someone.
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Blazingsun: 7:14am On Sep 06, 2015
emusmith:

Sub- Topic :How do married women whose husbands are in diaspora cope sexually?

Having heard how some women lament how their husbands have been in diaspora for years, I feel compassion for them and to think that they are not better than widows beat my imagination.

The average married women rather die than cheat especially if she is Christian and wouldn't give in to adultery.

This is quite logical, spiritual and emotional. Is there an exception to them?

What do you think? (Mature Contributions)
if watching porn is a sin the maturbating is also a sin

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by uzolexis(f): 7:21am On Sep 06, 2015
Tjayjosh:

“Do you not know that your body
is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who
is in you, whom you have
received from God? You are not
your own; you were bought at a
price. Therefore honor God with
your body” ( 1 Corinthians
6:19-20). This great truth should
have a real bearing on what we
do with our bodies. In light of
these principles, the conclusion
that masturbation is a sin is
biblical. Clearly, masturbation is
not glorifying to God; it does not
avoid the appearance of
immorality, nor does it pass the
test of God’s having ownership
over our bodies.

how did u come to this conclusion that it's not glorifying God N u even said clearly, it's not clearly explained cos I don't see it on this ur bible quotation. Pls expantiate.
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by solonazzy: 7:22am On Sep 06, 2015
iliyande:

having a very strong sexual desire for someone.
Concentrate on the thread.... Hw can it b said dat 1 is lusting after her husband....... C Pls Dnt turn Christianity to somethn else... U r taking Dis way cos u hav nt been in dat position
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nandipha(f): 7:29am On Sep 06, 2015
It release stress
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by tete7000(m): 7:33am On Sep 06, 2015
emrain:
undecided they told you; if you Bleep a pretty young lady with firm big breasts it's a sin. But if you put a ring on her finger before fucking her it's a holy Bleep.

Now just look at the question a young black man is asking...

Wtf is sin anyway?

Sin is disobedience to God's commandments. Commandments without which a man/woman is unable to find lasting happiness but will simply confine him/herself to life of sadness and misery.
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Mcslize: 7:35am On Sep 06, 2015
It is a big sin from God stand point. Can't be justified
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by handsomeyitayo(m): 7:41am On Sep 06, 2015
raayah:

No ...
raayah whr ar u frm?
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by refreshrate: 7:42am On Sep 06, 2015
chichriso:
it is sin to do ''self service'' otherwise known as MASTURBATION, God frowns at it, therefore it is better that the couple stay together at all times to avoid the anger of God in such marriage .

So you believe the couple staying apart for some reason or the other prayed to be away from each other?

Who did this to you?
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 7:54am On Sep 06, 2015
emusmith:

Sub- Topic :How do married women whose husbands are in diaspora cope sexually?

Having heard how some women lament how their husbands have been in diaspora for years, I feel compassion for them and to think that they are not better than widows beat my imagination.

[s] The average married women rather die than cheat especially if she is Christian and wouldn't give in to adultery. [/s]

This is quite logical, spiritual and emotional. Is there an exception to them?

What do you think? (Mature Contributions)
Ode
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by KelvinC1(m): 7:55am On Sep 06, 2015
raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

For all of you metioning me... Guess what, I MASTURBATE and I dont give two flying pigs.

Let me be sad sad

For the ladies.. Lie down on your bed tonight and spread those legs (sorry if you are on your period tongue).
Use your fingers to find the spot.. (once you find it u will know).
Now stroke it in circular motions..
Keep going, it feels like you want to pee, just keep going.
You will get to that sweet sweet land....

You're welcome wink


99 Likes.?
That means in every 10 group of people or friends you see, 9 of them are addictive ma.sturbators..
"GOD" this is really bad.. People are Just dying gradually withOUT knowing.. No wonder, we hardly produce any good thing scientifically and technologically because MA.STURBATIOS has damaged the BRAIN PRODUCTIVE ORGANS.. #ADOYII..

You will thank me, whenever you STOP MA.STURBATING.. Believe me..

WHY will your LiFE be Just to sit, eat and ma.sturbate.. Haba you can do more than this na..

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by misterjosh(m): 7:57am On Sep 06, 2015
raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

For all of you metioning me... Guess what, I MASTURBATE and I dont give two flying pigs.

Let me be sad sad

For the ladies.. Lie down on your bed tonight and spread those legs (sorry if you are on your period tongue).
Use your fingers to find the spot.. (once you find it u will know).
Now stroke it in circular motions..
Keep going, it feels like you want to pee, just keep going.
You will get to that sweet sweet land....

You're welcome wink
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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 7:58am On Sep 06, 2015
chichriso:
it is sin to do ''self service'' otherwise known as MASTURBATION, [s] God frowns [/u] at it, therefore it is better that the couple stay together at all times to avoid the anger of God in such marriage .
Dem say dem say undecided
You see God face
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Haychay(m): 8:01am On Sep 06, 2015
Who self-service help, raise yr hand grin grin

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