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Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by redcliff: 11:39pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Poseidon000: Its obvious you are not married... smh. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by debaj10: 11:41pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
I'm sure most of us on this forum are now aware of the state of our economy. I would've expected all our focus to have shifted from by-gone politics to the abyss we're about to fall into. We know people in government read these threads so when do all you PDP/APC sychophants plan to start giving constructive advice/criticism to this government on economic issues? We're in a sinking ship and still playing the blame game instead of desperately searching for ways to save OURSELVES from drowning! Isn't that the epitome of foolishness?!? Please, copy and paste in other threads. Enough with the childish wranglings. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Poseidon000: 11:41pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
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Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by onoja12: 11:44pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Gbam,i always tell guys this.if you get girl friend you want to marry form broke for 1 year,if she stay with you na your wife if not.,guy run richommie: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by ronald4lif(m): 11:44pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Let her get her ass off the upholstery and get herself a job. She can't be a liability and make a ruse at same time. You're a husband, not her dependant. What insolence. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by LordTrezy(m): 11:44pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Cutesexy1:bed of roses... You are damn cute. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Nobody: 11:45pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Didn't read, just the title. Never be broke. Shikena. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by gaburiel(m): 11:46pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
There is but one path, don't ever get broke again. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by awesomesossy(f): 11:46pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
bettercreature:Yeah I know...I was just kidding anyway... but if I was to really advice I ll say he should minimize how much he spends on her wen he has so much.....i think dat way she ll learn not to complain or she ll complain all d tym till she eventually gets tired of complaining...den maybe later after OP is sure she has changed....he can den start spending normally like he used tooo......well am not married sha...so really dnt know how my advice sounds 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by tsdarkside(m): 11:47pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
welcome to the club.......na you sabi,to make such matter to a thread.....you have no fantasy....goood night..... |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by slimmyjimmy(m): 11:50pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
yanabasee:You fvcking inspire me ! Op take this advice nigga |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Nobody: 11:50pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
I do not think any unmarried person here has the moral high ground to advise BRAVAGAD0O. Marriage is beyond your chewing gum sexual semesters in blue rooms. BRAVAGAD0O, most women nag when the liquidity dries up. It doesnt mean they are bad people, it actually what makes married people more financial savvy than most singles. The demands of your wife should make you, not break you. You can not chicken out of marriage because your wife treats you differently when you are broke. I believe a strong man will work harder to keep a happy wife instead of complaining about her nagging attitude. Let me give you an advise: 1. Stop being in charge of spending at home. Sit your wife down and both of you should calculate feeding allowance commensurate with the size of your young family. calculate the electricity bill. Calculate the petrol bill for generator and calculate her monthly allowance then sum it and know that it is your responsibility to provide that to your family. 2. Make your wife the custodian of the funds above, and make sure you keep some money for your beer, cos you will need it. 3. Work smart enough to provide 2. above in 3 months installments and you will have peace of mind. When you follow this guideline for about a year, trust me, your wife will tell you she doesnt wanna control expenses again, cos when she sees 3 months allowance at once, she will spend more than necessary, and start managing when she realizes you are broke and she has collected what is due for the home. It works for me, it should work for you. I usually pay mine 6 months ahead. But I plan to be making it annual payments soon. As I dey so, me and my home boys have excessive cash to spend on beer, after madam has receive a couple of millions to run the home for the whole year. Whatever I make is none of her business. I go home and my food is smoking on the dining table and no one sees me spending money at home. The woman manages the home, men manage the house. 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by miky(m): 11:52pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
i think thats a woman behaviour in general.. Just pray you dont have rich friends who are male, then she would start comparing you... Grind down ,know yourself as a man and prosper.. Does she work? if not she needs to find one asap. Better sort it out before you die too early 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Toks2008(m): 11:52pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
BRAVAGAD0O: Hmmm this reminds me of my case 3years ago when i had issues with my business and in my own case she just woke up one day and said she will leave when she clocks 30 and stagnancy remains and guess what,she did lol! and that was after 11years of union and 5years of marriage and i begin to wonder if nah sin to face financial hardship but i guess its more of the Nigerian factor thing because in all honestly if my ex had something really doing that brings home money for her maybe she would have endured because been broke is very temporary for a very hard working man. So in your case bro i guess you should try your best to get something for her to do or she should try to make some money herself so that in such occasions when you are on a tight budget,she can help the home-front and that is the essence of marriage anyways. Please take it easy with her,some ladies are not too tolerant with financial lack and im beginning also to wonder how you met her,how long you dated her and your words to her regarding your financial state. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by millhouse: 11:52pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Kai |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by vRendoh(m): 11:52pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
STOP GOING BROKE MY GUY END OF THE STORY! |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Rhea(f): 11:53pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
[size=18pt]Stop being broke then[/size] |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by winny4u: 11:54pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
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Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Sultanchidi(m): 11:55pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Must u share everything on NL |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by idupaul: 11:56pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Poseidon000: This person don talk am all ..OP if U are wise you should take his advise 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by bettercreature(m): 11:57pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
awesomesossy:Don't mind the OP,i dont think its as serious as the way he wrote it here,most ladies nag when their husband is broke,some men are even worse exp me who is typing this,i always switched off totally when am broke 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by AmasB(f): 12:00am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Wa ho that is life for you sat her dwan let her know your pains |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by MrBasketball: 12:01am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by winny4u: 12:03am On Sep 09, 2015 |
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Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:03am On Sep 09, 2015 |
@ OP Bwahaha... I almost spill my milk for the title of the thread! Make sure you always have money. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by deebrain(m): 12:03am On Sep 09, 2015 |
bjprodint: You are wrong. It is entease. That is Trick somebody. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by edward1984(m): 12:05am On Sep 09, 2015 |
bjprodint: Aunty na C no be S ( Entice ) . Op whenever she nags tell her " Until Death Do Us Path " shey na path or part ? This is the secret of marriage, when you marry that's when the true color comes out, you have to learn to live with it. 10 months is still a fresh marriage. Talk to her and make her know she makes you feel less a man. Be a man and good luck to your marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:06am On Sep 09, 2015 |
MrBasketball:I knew someone would quote me...... Leave me alone. If he can't live with his wife nagging, he should know what to do. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by kinibigdeal(m): 12:06am On Sep 09, 2015 |
BRAVAGAD0O: Proverb 31:10-12 Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband does safely trust in her, so that he shall have no lack of gain. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. Vs 26 She opens her mouth with wisdom; and on her tongue is the law of kindness. Points The point is either of you are not Godly. Your wife might have been mislead by some friends or either way round. There might have been some external influence threatening your marriage that you don't know. Some underground comparism might be ongoing. You need to be sensitive before it goes out of hand. Nagging in marriage is normal, but consistent nagging is dangerous. Let me draw your attention to what Albert Einstein said "Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. Meaning you might have notice some of these attributes during your courtship or dating which you ignored. Also. Kinnan Rawling quote that "A woman never forgets the men she could have had, a man, the woman he wouldn't. If your present is nothing comparable to the guy she snub at first, she will keep nagging until you are left with loopholes of evidence, and that can only happen with ladies that are never contented or promiscuously nervous about what their friends will say about them. I just hope you were not forced into the marriage at the first place |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by ronlyp: 12:07am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Tell her to Bleep off ur life,that's all ,no hard feeling just being real n honest |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Bhanjea: 12:07am On Sep 09, 2015 |
There is one basic relationship rule and dat is: Never patch up ur relationship..the lady must av been lyk dat since wen u av been courting her and u bliv u can make it work eida by working hard or thinking she will change wen u marry her,bros u re wrong.........But having married her there are 4 solutions I will profer 1. The lady seems to be jobless,why don't u get her a job or biz and let her know u guys are to complement each oda..(But if she gets a job without YOUR input,u go smell hell) 2. If u don't want her to work,den u will av to double up ur effort and avoid being broke,so dat u will av less issue 3. A nagging wife intends to frustrate you,u just av to be more than a man that u av been before and shld she push u too hard,plz don't complicate ur life by beating her,just walk away 4. Pray to God to bless u and also take a good control of ur home But bros, I bliv u slept during the courtship days,u must av seen traces of this attitude in her |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by janefrancisca(f): 12:08am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Poseidon000:jeez Are you for real? if you were to be a marriage counselor, i swear 80% of your clients will be separated in just a week after their wedding. This marriage is not up to a year for Christ's sake, its something that can be fixed.I will advice him to talk to her about how irritated he is about her nagging attitude. 2 stop being broke too often, maybe you should try to cut some unnecessary expenses down. Besides what is she bringing to the table as a woman?...that is why am against full time housewives. She should get a job...its useful in cases like this. at least when her hubby is broke, she should step in and cater for the family and herself. for those saying any unmarried person shouldn't advice, it should not be so. We may not be married but then our parents, siblings or folks are married and we av their experiences and lessons with us, besides some issues require common sense to resolve. |
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