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Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by bukatyne(f): 4:24pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
BRAVAGAD0O: OP, this woman claims to be your wife. Is this the truth? PhillyBrav0: |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Ewuro4: 4:28pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Hmmm she no get work? What does she bring to the table herself Abi na gimmegimme kinda contract you signed? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Nobody: 4:40pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
What you get when you used Money to Marry a bi*ch. Advice: Never be broke at any cost. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by faithbibi(f): 4:48pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Marriage is not for kids, it's for matured minds. You know why? You tend to go through lots of things. Inshort, I define marriage as an unfinished course. You don't have to bring your marriage here to seek for advice. I believe you are a man, to prove that, you have to learn how to manage your home. It's just like you managing a very big organisation, and it's about to liquidate, what will you do? Even if you need to seek advice as a manager, will you run to public? Please be wise and don't allow people insult your wife here. Your marriage is just 10 months. You can make it perfect |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by thelish(f): 4:49pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Poseidon000:It seems u know d woman more than her husband ooo. U never see person once, just with this little information about her, you have written her biography, whether true or not. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by PhillyBrav0(f): 4:51pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
faithbibi: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by thelish(f): 5:05pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
What was d foundation of ur relationship like? I know a friend who entice a girl with money, He can even borrow just to impress d girl, I warned him dat u don't front money as a basis for a girl to accept u, talk to her as u are, becos wen u can't meet up anymore with dis ur cheerful giver attitude, she will surely leave u. Woman wey love u in poverty will love u more in riches not d other way round. Finally they broke up, cos bros couldn't meet up anymore. its now he knows d babe is extravagant. I just hope ur case didn't start like this. Give her the feeding money to manage, so dat wen e finish, she will know how come. Na pikin wey dey thief for house, mama dey give her money hold. Also allow her get a job, so she can know d value of each cash she is spending. She might feel like taking cornflakes every morning, but d moment she start hustle, she go substitute to garri n milk. By then, she sees d two as same. God will give u both wisdom to run ur home successfully. Also, don't allow her have gbogbo bigs girls kinda friends o. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by thelish(f): 5:09pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
cococandy:Cococandy has spoken. lol@ if she doesn't cook for three days. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by thelish(f): 5:18pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Its on thread like this, u see most nairaland men display intelligence in writing. Some have condemned d woman already without a second thought. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by harveyspec: 6:02pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
BRAVAGAD0O: I have some questions, cos your post is inadequate to proffer solution Q1.did you give her the impression that you were loaded before marriage Q2.did you always meet her every need & demands before marriage Q3. Whenever u were low on cash, did she nag before marriage Q4. Is she the type that naturally likes money, good things, good life? If the answer to all my questions is a resounding YES, then my advice is bro "CARRY YOUR CROSS" There is little you can do, even to bring God into this picture, it will take a lot of faith & patience on your part. You have moulded her into this, there is a saying "don't start what you can't finish" The courtship period is the period to lay boundaries & mould your partner into what u want or desire with compromises atimes. BUT if the answers to my above questions is NO, then check her friends or the persons who are advising her!! Most likely a newly found friendship or acquaintance If you find any, ensure you Cut her off from them Then a heart to heart communication with her & begin a deliberate & conscious effort to retrain her!! It will take patience on ur part!! Men hate emasculation alot, hope u don't degenerate into beating!!! |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by SAMBARRY: 6:04pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
ibk4luv:no woman nags for nothing. Any woman who nags for nothing is an attention seeking mad woman. Quote me anywhere. I said so |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Roadmap27(m): 6:34pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
I bet it that is not wife for a man who is keen for better marital future, most men die @ 45, 50 for this reason! Kind of woman that love to pressurize their husband to make provision @ all cost. My broda u will too gentle to keep her n it bigger risk for ur future. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Aude(f): 8:14pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Abbey2sam: The correct expression is "It boils down ..." |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Abbey2sam(m): 9:14pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Aude: That was what I meant to write sha |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Nobody: 9:48pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
BUTCHCASSIDY:if he wants to yes thats better than jus complaining about her complaining.... i like action not pointless words |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by xtervaganza(m): 10:24pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
BRAVAGAD0O:bros, i sh1t you not, you dont have a wife you married the wrong woman |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Nobody: 10:47pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
I'm sure u ggot her from one lokah village in Igboland and u now base in lagos. Guys, pls b careful of who u marry. Avoid marrying an undergraduate cos most of them don't let sch pass thru them. I swear, this my guy don go marry stack illiterate. I wish it was possible to revoke marriage vows, but...oboi! This is no going back! Straighten up and do ur best, she's a wife and she shud help with the rest. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Joy1706(f): 11:56pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Flashh:Lol. If u want |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Joy1706(f): 11:57pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
vani86:She contributes to the welfare at the home front e.g cooking good food. You lazy ass men should handle the finances. After all you're the 'head' of the home ba? Abi na jst 4 mouth 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by JumiaQuickSales(f): 12:03am On Sep 10, 2015 |
Why wont she nag in marriage, money is to a woman what food is to a man! if she doesnt cook, will you applaud her everybody is here now criticizing her because its a woman. if it was her who is failing in her duty now, she will still be the one to be condemned. now, everyone expects her to manage with you. oga, get off nairaland and go and make money to make your wife comfortable jare. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Aude(f): 12:30am On Sep 10, 2015 |
Joy1706: I can't believe that in this day and age women still reason like this. So how do you buy the food to cook? What if a husband loses his job or worse dies, how would the wife take care of the family? Instead of watching Telemundo and nollywood movies, a woman can go to work and help support the family. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by DOMAN: 3:09am On Sep 10, 2015 |
PhillyBrav0: Is that true?!! Is her side of the story is correct? !! I advised you to walk away; divorse her depending on your story, assuming you was honest enough to tell the truth. You be not worked for 6 months out of10 months marriage, she works and supports the family and you still have the guts to complain?!! Are you nut Either your head is not correct or the whole story is BLOODY FAKE from a jobless |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by vani86: 7:01am On Sep 10, 2015 |
Joy1706: See your pea brain. Cooking food is contributing to the family. I will go on 100 days fasting not to meet girls that are not ambitious like you. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Joy1706(f): 9:50am On Sep 10, 2015 |
vani86:Lmao! Na u get pea brain. If it's not contribution, why do you nag about women cooking good food. Abi u think it's easy? Whether I'm ambitious or not, providing for the family is the MAN'S responsibility. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Joy1706(f): 9:59am On Sep 10, 2015 |
Aude:Why should she work and then come back home to the stress of cooking and house keeping? Is she the 'head' of the home? Husbands and Wives are not partners na. Each person should carry out his or her duties. He should sit up and be the MAN |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by freshvine(f): 10:20am On Sep 10, 2015 |
Op it natural for some women to behave that way. The moment they realize it's paycheck day the began to "honey, darling, sweetheart" their men and loving increase until when the salary wind down due to their extravagant demands. During the lack period you will notice some attitude that will "shock" you and make you question if she ever loved you. My dear a lot of ladies nowadays marry for FINANCIAL SECURITY and not love. Where you work or the job you do determine if a lady will say Yes to your proposal. Imagine the frustration telling her story that the windfall she had hoped and pray for is just trickling. Men should as a matter of necessity marry only working class ladies. I don't get it when a young man set for marriage will look for an undergraduate or a jobless woman. How do you intend to run your home in this harsh economy because this is no longer the 60s or 70s. You will end up having no savings or getting your own property. The remedy to this nonsense is to marry a working class woman or set up business for her to inject into the family instead of being a leakage. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by vani86: 2:12pm On Sep 10, 2015 |
Joy1706: now, did you ever hear me say it is not a man's job to provide for the family, in this day and age, women contribute to the upkeep of the family, my mum has her own company and contributes her quota to the family, now will you tell me my dad is a lazy man, a suregeon with his own hospital. it is wrong when only the man works and provide and when things aint going well for him, his wife whose ass has been home all day gossiping start nagging. pls how will the nagging help the situation |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by vani86: 2:14pm On Sep 10, 2015 |
Aude: dude, dont waste your time with madam joy, i am sure thats what she will like to be called. from her conversations, you can easily conclude that she has planned a life of being a house wife that nags the husby when pepper no rest and bleep the houseboy |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Aude(f): 3:01pm On Sep 10, 2015 |
vani86: Thanks Vani for the heads up. Actually I am female, so I have updated my profile to reflect that. |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:09pm On Sep 11, 2015 |
Joy1706: You are funny |
Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:11pm On Sep 11, 2015 |
vani86: She is being sarcastic. |
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