maiahsaiah:


Because he was looking 4 d virtuous woman he wrote about in proverbs but ended up with ecclesiastes vanity upon vanity all is vanity

Solomon Married den because he was not fit for war so he had to marry the daughters of his enemies to maintain peace.

PunkyVeer:


Just curious, how would it make you feel if she is?

Mine is just an Orente too, I love her so much, lemme tell u wat has been helping me.

1. I love her so much I had to curse myself not to cheat no matter how tempted I am

2. The fact that I wouldn't want another man to sleep with her is one good reason I try to stay faithful.

3. I avoid getting too close to other girls, when girls come around to visit me at times, I give them less attention, I do this with joy, thinking about my Orente.

4. I'm not perfect, I like good looking girls buh I just feel girls can't be different from my own, I mean, I met her a virgin, she's beautiful, lovely and very sweet, what else and why do I need to keep anoda or look for anoda pvssy to straff.

These are the major reasons I've been able to cope and stay faithful to my woman, she's my everything, there's nothing special about sleeping around, too much wahala and drama.

ilobasama:
Brother you dont love your lady. If you do you wont cheat on her.

And NO, not all men cheat. Only weak and irresponsible men do that.

Once again, you dont love her, you can never love someone and cheat on them

This is a politically correct answer that is far from the truth.


You can love your partner and yet still lust after another individual.

Lasgidy1:

Hmmm. Are u suggesting she might be cheating as well since she doesn't see anything wrong in me cheating?

a bad turn deserves another

nickkylawve:
some guys r polygamous in nature,it is normal nd abnormal bt u cn still help ursef my BF doesn't cheat,

thts y I love him sincerely,

in ur case, u need the apc slongan, do sumfin fast abt it b4 u gt married thts my advice tho

Make you dey deceive ya self, na people like u dey get heart attach when u here say your man don give Ngozi belle....

Chelseafan1:

Mine is just an Orente too, I love her so much, lemme tell u wat has been helping me.

1. I love her so much I had to curse myself not to cheat no matter how tempted I am

2. The fact that I wouldn't want another man to sleep with her if one good reason I try to stay faithful.

3. I avoid getting too close to other girls, when girls come around to visit me at times, I give them less attention, I do this with joy, thinking about my Orente.

4. I'm not perfect, I like good looking girls buh I just feel girls can't be different from my own, I mean, I met her a virgin, she's beautiful, lovely and very sweet, what else and why do I need to keep anoda or look for anoda pvssy to straff.

These are the major reasons I've been able to cope and stay faithful to my woman, she's my everything, there's nothing special about sleeping around, too much wahala and drama.

Awwwwwwww. That sounds so sweet. Good for you!

pet4ril:
not really sure about that, but she might just be observing to be sure n please don't let her catch you because I can't even tell what you will be facing.., when women are quiet, there might be something wrong dat dey don't want to say at the main time just for peace to reign n you won't believe dem when dey ve had it upto their neck

But you guys should know that you can only love one person no matter what, even d lady you are seeing outside might not be loved. Lust is not love oh, so cheating is when you claim to love one meanwhile you don't , somehow my guy z actually cheating on the girl outside not inside, cos if the two were to be in his presence he will even choose is orente over d oda lady in her presence, so what are we all saying?

Cheating is the name used to demonize what is primordial to man; from the beginning of time man, even the Gods, had concubines, it's hard wired in our gene.


Once upon a time a wealthy man was known by the number of his concubines, ask King Solomon in the Bible.

It's on record that "variety is the spice of life", were they referring to variety of soups

Societal norms won't stop some men from being themselves. if society of today accepts this fact there will be less marital tsunamis and divorces. IMO.

Like seriously, when ppl begin 2 say "cheating is in every man's DNA" "Men are naturally adventurous" "Men are polygamous by nature," I get really disgusted...That's all balderdash!!...Men say that 2 justify their weaknesses nd this is simply bcoz it has bcum d trend and common place behaviour.Too many men cheat, so d next man only needs d slightest inclination 2 join d bandwagon...What ever happened 2 discipline and self-control?

Like seriously, when ppl begin 2 say "cheating is in every man's DNA" "Men are naturally adventurous" "Men are polygamous by nature," I get really disgusted...That's all balderdash!!...Men say that 2 justify their weaknesses nd this is simply bcoz it has bcum d trend and common place behaviour.Too many men cheat, so d next man only needs d slightest inclination 2 join d bandwagon...What ever happened 2 discipline and self-control?
My dear,OP,pls stop professing love...U wudnt cheat so petulantly and with such impunity if yhu truly luv ur gf..

PunkyVeer:

Awwwwwwww. That sounds so sweet. Good for you!

*smiling*....don't crush on me ...lol *just kidding* tnx sweetheart.
Sweet girls deserve the best of men.

U aint trust worthy,so stp assuming everyone is like you

Ibadanchief:




Make you dey deceive ya self, na people like u dey get heart attach when u here say your man don give Ngozi belle....

abegiiii
undisputable facts!!!!


Attraction is the drive to want something
Attraction can be many different types
Sexual Attraction......
Attraction based on some values etc similar values or someone you admire having qualities/values that draw you closer to him

Infatuation is a feeling developed based as a result of one form of attraction
Lust is another feeling based on another form of attraction as a result of biological drive and preference ie homosexuality/straight........
Love is a feeling developed based on and created as a result of another form of attraction.......

sometimes we can feel Infatuation, lust and love for the same person.......


Lust almost certainly can lead to sex. at its height it can lead to sexual addiction
Love does not necessarily lead to sex thats why normal people dont f@...ck their relatives, they can love them but not feel lust.

so it is possible to love someone and f@...ck someone else........
thats why you have poligamy, polyandry etc.

Women just want to be the only person a man loves and lusts after at the same time......
i have got news for you women........
its really really reallly really hard to love and lust after a woman after a long time. most men just aren't built that way!!!!!!!

Chelseafan1:

Mine is just an Orente too, I love her so much, lemme tell u wat has been helping me.

1. I love her so much I had to curse myself not to cheat no matter how tempted I am

2. The fact that I wouldn't want another man to sleep with her is one good reason I try to stay faithful.

3. I avoid getting too close to other girls, when girls come around to visit me at times, I give them less attention, I do this with joy, thinking about my Orente.

4. I'm not perfect, I like good looking girls buh I just feel girls can't be different from my own, I mean, I met her a virgin, she's beautiful, lovely and very sweet, what else and why do I need to keep anoda or look for anoda pvssy to straff.

These are the major reasons I've been able to cope and stay faithful to my woman, she's my everything, there's nothing special about sleeping around, too much wahala and drama.

Wow...ur gf would so luv 2 hear yhu say these 2 her.I hope u let her know how special she is 2 yhu..

Lasgidy1:
I'm deeply in love with my orente. She means so much to me and I hold her in high esteem. I can't do without hearing from her at least 3 times daily despite my schedule at work on all days but I've come to realize that despite my unfailing love for her, I still cheat on her. Though, once she caught me cheating on her but she won't walk away. I believe she's forced to assume now that cheating is in the DNA of most men.

To the guys here, is it really possible to love your wife or babe so dearly and cheat on her? When you cheat on her, is it still fair to boast of your love for her? Also, why do most men cheat? Is it really true that cheating is in the DNA of men? Should we conclude its as a result of rampant moral decadence? Is there a way to stop it?
Cc: mods please do the needful

In theory, No. But in practical, yes.

POSSIBILITARIAN. EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE. YES IT'S.

For me na kongi dey cause am and girls of now adays are more tempting so you can't resist

Oliviaarims:

Wow...ur gf would so luv 2 hear yhu say these 2 her.I hope u let her know how special she is 2 yhu..

Yes o, I let her know, her friends know this too, it has somehow helped her trust and love me even more, I mean that girl practically worships me, I'm not one to pretend or hide my love for u, cos I wouldn't want u to have any trust issues whatsoever, I can't afford to break up or hurt ds kinda girl, it would do a lot of damage to her person and her relationship with men.

Cheating has never been a problem for me, I have a bigger problem I do pray everyday and hope it won't raise its head in this relationship of mine.

I have left 2 amazing girls just because of this same problem.

Uw dear

canDy4eva:
u rili droped it hot! Tnkx bro!

Am not arguing that it is impossible

My point is if you that it, then you actually don't love your partner

Politics/logics is far different from the truth sir

MadCow1:



This is a politically correct answer that is far from the truth.


You can love your partner and yet still lust after another individual.

I swear na only ladies like ds ur post! ........stop deceiving them!

ZaraBrains:


Its 100% posible, more reason I dnt take relationships so serious cos anything can happen. When it happens, I do overlook them

Wetin you go talk before
What happened to commitment?

akinsmyk:


Same as me, the worst I would want happen to me iis that she catches me. I swear with ma life, I love her 100%, we're good, gonna marry her. So proud of her, showed her to the world....but I find out that I flirt with oda ladies...don't know y coz ma lady is way better than dx chickz. When I was a li2 younger, I do blv that its nt possible to love nd still cheat. Now, its possible though we knew it doesn't worth it. I dnt agree with those saying its not true love....u need to blv that it is...u knew it from ur heart that u'll trade no oda lady foh her...nd nothing could separate u...u're responsible to her nd u've always got her back but yet you still cheat. Maybe spiritual, I dnt knw. Finally to answer d OP, its very possible

Truth is what you said up there, maybe it's imbedded in our DNA

ilobasama:
Am not arguing that it is impossible

My point is if you that it, then you actually don't love your partner

Politics/logics is far different from the truth sir

The truth is that their is a big line between Love and Lust so trying to say one nullifies the other is just not true.

Again you can love an individual and still lust after another. Does not affect the love you have for the other.

It's discipline that keeps a Man faithful, not love.

PLEASE I BEG YOU TO REPENT AND LOVE THIS GIRL ALONE OK?

TokenWhiteGuy:
Short answer: No
Long answer: No way bro

u hear am ba: two answer for you, choose one...

TokenWhiteGuy:
Short answer: No
Long answer: No way bro

u hear am ba: two answer for you, choose one...

There's a question no one has asked.......What drives you to cheat on her?

What's the reason? Till you find the reason, you aren't making any headway.

And yes......people can cheat on who they love, don't mind all these unrealistic dudes forming saint, whilst their soap don chop from masturbation.

Its iresponsible man that cheat on his spouse in other hand it depend on the hormone. But in a relationship understanding realy matters. ;DIts iresponsible man that cheat on his spouse in other hand it depend on the hormone. But in a relationship understanding realy matters.

Singing.... Enjoy yourself Baby boo, Because even your boo get a boo.

If u never listen to dat song by. Harrysong Ft. Kcee, Olamide, Iyanya & Orezi, go grap ur copy now... or better still download am.

As for me NO coz u can't claim to love me and still be cheating on me.

Once u love and respect someone you would never cheat on dat person
love alone is not enough respect for thew feelings of the person too is important
my 2cent