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Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 6:39am On Sep 16, 2015 |
maiahsaiah: Solomon Married den because he was not fit for war so he had to marry the daughters of his enemies to maintain peace. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Chelseafan1: 6:40am On Sep 16, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:Mine is just an Orente too, I love her so much, lemme tell u wat has been helping me. 1. I love her so much I had to curse myself not to cheat no matter how tempted I am 2. The fact that I wouldn't want another man to sleep with her is one good reason I try to stay faithful. 3. I avoid getting too close to other girls, when girls come around to visit me at times, I give them less attention, I do this with joy, thinking about my Orente. 4. I'm not perfect, I like good looking girls buh I just feel girls can't be different from my own, I mean, I met her a virgin, she's beautiful, lovely and very sweet, what else and why do I need to keep anoda or look for anoda pvssy to straff. These are the major reasons I've been able to cope and stay faithful to my woman, she's my everything, there's nothing special about sleeping around, too much wahala and drama. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by MadCow1: 6:41am On Sep 16, 2015 |
ilobasama: This is a politically correct answer that is far from the truth. You can love your partner and yet still lust after another individual. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by EMEKA1MILLION(m): 6:41am On Sep 16, 2015 |
Lasgidy1:a bad turn deserves another |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Ibadanchief(m): 6:42am On Sep 16, 2015 |
nickkylawve: Make you dey deceive ya self, na people like u dey get heart attach when u here say your man don give Ngozi belle.... |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 6:46am On Sep 16, 2015 |
Chelseafan1: Awwwwwwww. That sounds so sweet. Good for you! |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Ibadanchief(m): 6:47am On Sep 16, 2015 |
pet4ril: But you guys should know that you can only love one person no matter what, even d lady you are seeing outside might not be loved. Lust is not love oh, so cheating is when you claim to love one meanwhile you don't , somehow my guy z actually cheating on the girl outside not inside, cos if the two were to be in his presence he will even choose is orente over d oda lady in her presence, so what are we all saying ![]() |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by menxer: 6:49am On Sep 16, 2015 |
Cheating is the name used to demonize what is primordial to man; from the beginning of time man, even the Gods, had concubines, it's hard wired in our gene. Once upon a time a wealthy man was known by the number of his concubines, ask King Solomon in the Bible. ![]() It's on record that "variety is the spice of life", were they referring to variety of soups ![]() Societal norms won't stop some men from being themselves. if society of today accepts this fact there will be less marital tsunamis and divorces. IMO. ![]() |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 6:51am On Sep 16, 2015 |
Like seriously, when ppl begin 2 say "cheating is in every man's DNA" "Men are naturally adventurous" "Men are polygamous by nature," I get really disgusted...That's all balderdash!!...Men say that 2 justify their weaknesses nd this is simply bcoz it has bcum d trend and common place behaviour.Too many men cheat, so d next man only needs d slightest inclination 2 join d bandwagon...What ever happened 2 discipline and self-control? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 6:52am On Sep 16, 2015 |
Like seriously, when ppl begin 2 say "cheating is in every man's DNA" "Men are naturally adventurous" "Men are polygamous by nature," I get really disgusted...That's all balderdash!!...Men say that 2 justify their weaknesses nd this is simply bcoz it has bcum d trend and common place behaviour.Too many men cheat, so d next man only needs d slightest inclination 2 join d bandwagon...What ever happened 2 discipline and self-control? My dear,OP,pls stop professing love...U wudnt cheat so petulantly and with such impunity if yhu truly luv ur gf.. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Chelseafan1: 6:52am On Sep 16, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:*smiling*....don't crush on me ...lol *just kidding* tnx sweetheart. Sweet girls deserve the best of men. |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 6:53am On Sep 16, 2015 |
U aint trust worthy,so stp assuming everyone is like you Ibadanchief: |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by eroticboy: 6:54am On Sep 16, 2015 |
abegiiii undisputable facts!!!! Attraction is the drive to want something Attraction can be many different types Sexual Attraction...... Attraction based on some values etc similar values or someone you admire having qualities/values that draw you closer to him Infatuation is a feeling developed based as a result of one form of attraction Lust is another feeling based on another form of attraction as a result of biological drive and preference ie homosexuality/straight........ Love is a feeling developed based on and created as a result of another form of attraction....... sometimes we can feel Infatuation, lust and love for the same person....... Lust almost certainly can lead to sex. at its height it can lead to sexual addiction Love does not necessarily lead to sex thats why normal people dont f@...ck their relatives, they can love them but not feel lust. so it is possible to love someone and f@...ck someone else........ thats why you have poligamy, polyandry etc. Women just want to be the only person a man loves and lusts after at the same time...... i have got news for you women........ its really really reallly really hard to love and lust after a woman after a long time. most men just aren't built that way!!!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 6:56am On Sep 16, 2015 |
Chelseafan1:Wow...ur gf would so luv 2 hear yhu say these 2 her.I hope u let her know how special she is 2 yhu.. |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Praktikals(m): 6:56am On Sep 16, 2015 |
Lasgidy1:In theory, No. But in practical, yes. |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by evjblizee: 6:56am On Sep 16, 2015 |
POSSIBILITARIAN. EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE. YES IT'S. |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Gguy4real: 6:58am On Sep 16, 2015 |
For me na kongi dey cause am and girls of now adays are more tempting so you can't resist |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Chelseafan1: 7:02am On Sep 16, 2015 |
Oliviaarims: Yes o, I let her know, her friends know this too, it has somehow helped her trust and love me even more, I mean that girl practically worships me, I'm not one to pretend or hide my love for u, cos I wouldn't want u to have any trust issues whatsoever, I can't afford to break up or hurt ds kinda girl, it would do a lot of damage to her person and her relationship with men. Cheating has never been a problem for me, I have a bigger problem I do pray everyday and hope it won't raise its head in this relationship of mine. I have left 2 amazing girls just because of this same problem. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 7:13am On Sep 16, 2015 |
Uw dear canDy4eva: |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 7:15am On Sep 16, 2015 |
Am not arguing that it is impossible My point is if you that it, then you actually don't love your partner Politics/logics is far different from the truth sir MadCow1: |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by utenwuson: 7:15am On Sep 16, 2015 |
I swear na only ladies like ds ur post! ........stop deceiving them! |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by whizqueen(f): 7:16am On Sep 16, 2015 |
ZaraBrains:Wetin you go talk before ![]() What happened to commitment? |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Vock(m): 7:17am On Sep 16, 2015 |
akinsmyk: Truth is what you said up there, maybe it's imbedded in our DNA |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by MadCow1: 7:21am On Sep 16, 2015 |
ilobasama: The truth is that their is a big line between Love and Lust so trying to say one nullifies the other is just not true. Again you can love an individual and still lust after another. Does not affect the love you have for the other. It's discipline that keeps a Man faithful, not love. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by FRANKOXY(m): 7:21am On Sep 16, 2015 |
PLEASE I BEG YOU TO REPENT AND LOVE THIS GIRL ALONE OK? |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by J4Jenom(m): 7:23am On Sep 16, 2015 |
TokenWhiteGuy:u hear am ba: two answer for you, choose one... |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by J4Jenom(m): 7:23am On Sep 16, 2015 |
TokenWhiteGuy:u hear am ba: two answer for you, choose one... |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by CandyBar: 7:25am On Sep 16, 2015 |
There's a question no one has asked.......What drives you to cheat on her? What's the reason? Till you find the reason, you aren't making any headway. And yes......people can cheat on who they love, don't mind all these unrealistic dudes forming saint, whilst their soap don chop from masturbation. |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by lexy2920(m): 7:28am On Sep 16, 2015 |
Its iresponsible man that cheat on his spouse in other hand it depend on the hormone. But in a relationship understanding realy matters. ;DIts iresponsible man that cheat on his spouse in other hand it depend on the hormone. But in a relationship understanding realy matters. |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by kennyrony(m): 7:35am On Sep 16, 2015 |
Singing.... Enjoy yourself Baby boo, Because even your boo get a boo. If u never listen to dat song by. Harrysong Ft. Kcee, Olamide, Iyanya & Orezi, go grap ur copy now... or better still download am. |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Holuwakemmy16(f): 7:36am On Sep 16, 2015 |
As for me NO coz u can't claim to love me and still be cheating on me. |
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by obiak4(m): 7:40am On Sep 16, 2015 |
Once u love and respect someone you would never cheat on dat person love alone is not enough respect for thew feelings of the person too is important my 2cent |
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