Pls Nairalanders help!!

I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC) in Imo State in 2013. She accepted to date me on one condition (NO SEX before marriage). I gladly accepted. Our love was a major gist in town because she is a beauty queen. I so much loved her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so much respected her for that...I spent 75% of my allowee on her in addition with my personal savings...

On several ocassions, she lost control of herself during romance but as a gentleman, I kept my promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit.. Her love for me grew stronger because of my self control. After NYSC, I relocated to Lagos in search of greener pasture. Things got tougher because jobs were extremely scarce. Still,I struggled to send her some money through her father's first bank account (she was 18yrs then).

Once in a month, I travelled from Lagos to Owerri just to see her....Our love was so strong..But since inception of this year, things got pretty bad that I could not meet up with my routine travels to see her. After 3yrs, I got a job few days ago in an oil company and I was so enthusiastic to relay the good news to her....But to my greatest shock ever...She sent me an apology sms that she will be getting married next week...I was preparing for sunday service but the news automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up and feeling abnormal...She is calling but I can't imagine myself taking the calls...Pls I need your pool of unalloyed advice...

Pls save a soul today and God will bless you..Thanks

HE FELL ASLEEP WHEN HE HEARD ABOUT THE WEDDING

NO NO DATS NOT ME...U DON LEARN UR LESSON, MAKE SURE U NACK YOUR NEXT TARGET AFTER SECOND DATE.

Kpele

Ghen ghen... My advice, focus on ur new job or u gonna lost it soon

lmfao @ spending 75 percent of your wages on her. Smdh

Your lost bro but life goes on, when she told you she does not want sex until.marriage did you try to have it with her, when talking about sex did you study her body language? Most times when girls says NO they actually means YES.

macroscopic:
Pls Nairalanders help!!
I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC) in Imo State in 2013.She accepted to date me on one condition(NO SEX before marriage). I gladly accepted.Our love was a major gist in town because she is a beauty queen.I so much loved her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so much respected her for that...I spent 75% of my allowee on her in addition with my personal savings...On several ocassions,she lost control of herself during romance but as a gentleman,I kept my promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit..Her love for me grew stronger because of my self control.After NYSC,I relocated to Lagos in search of greener pasture.Things got tougher because jobs were extremely scarce.Still,I struggle to send her some money through her father first bank account(she was 18yrs then).Once in a month,I travelled from Lagos to Owerri just to see her....Our love was so strong..But since inception of this year,things got pretty bad that I could not meet up with my routine travels to see her.After 3yrs,I got a job few days ago in an oil company and I was so euthusiastic to relay the goodnews to her....But to my greatest shock ever...She sent me an apology sms that she will be getting married next week... I was preparing for sunday service but the news automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up and feeling abnormal...She is calling but I can't imagine myself taking the calls...Pls I need your pool of unalloyed advice...Pls save a soul today and God will bless u...Thanks

just ad to lol at dat bolded prt,

but u sud gather som strength nd find out y she did wat she did b4 u kill ursef over it. she mite jus av a fullish genuie reason fr her hoeish attitude

Bad market!

Wow ......I don't knw wat to say....am so so soooorrry...

avasweet:
Wow

d tin shok u
u sef wow at hw a lady can b so wicked

another maga...too bad

Why must u send her money always even when things are rough 4 u, are u her father? Anyways I think u r lying

adedayourt:


d tin shok u
u sef wow at hw a lady can b so wicked

Yes nah...imagine I get a man who agrees to no marriage no sex objectives and he spend dis much on me, my dear WTF do I want again....plus the fact he helps to control our degree during rromance, mehhnnn....some lady sha...smh

Don't know where to classify you

brother what can i say? well there is nothing u can do abt it, how do u know she was a virgin when uve not slept with her? d truth is that she was never a virgin, now this is one of d reason why a guy should not date a girl 4rm a poverty stricken family, bcaus when a richer guy comes the parents will give her hand in marriage to d richer guy and that is what has just happened to you, bcaus her dad must have been aware about her new marriage bcaus u use to send money through his bank account to her, so bro there is nothing u can do, just take heart and stand up like the man that u are and move on, showing weakness will be giving ur enemy a chance over u, learn ur lesson and move on with ur life, thank GOD that u even get to c her other side, what if after marriage and child birth, she then left u 4 anoda man? so take it as a blessing and move on, GOD will give you a better, more beautiful and GOD fearing lady. 'just forgive her and leave the rest for GOD.

Life goes on

shits happens buh in all life still goes on
It hurts,its gona be tough buh u hv to
Let go n move on....

Bro the good part is, she'll forever respect you, but it's sad, I mean she left som1 who respects her for another she barely knows..

God has seen ur kind act and he will bring to u som1 that will head in the same direction as u, be patient, that's how life is..

avasweet:


Yes nah...imagine I get a man who agrees to no marriage no sex objectives and he spend dis much on me, my dear WTF do I want again....plus the fact he helps to control our degree during rromance, mehhnnn....some lady sha...smh

wat else does a lady want.

well its unfortunate d lady aint here to balance d story

midehi2:
another maga...too bad

u mean

adedayourt:
HE FELL ASLEEP WHEN HE HEARD ABOUT THE WEDDING

Others could have fainted right away, he was probably mulling over it in his mind when sleep took over.

Bros OP, if you are near to PH, locate me, make we wash over your sorrow with some bottles.
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I didn't know some guys are still falling for that no sex stuff and still spending heavily at the same time.

I can only agree to no sex on three conditions
1. I am fully ready and capable of marrying in the next 6 months
2. You are a virgin
3. You have the womanly characters that I need

So this still happens,guy move on,if she was worth u she wud have waited.

ITbomb:

Others could have fainted right away, he was probably mulling over it in his mind when sleep took over.

Bros OP, if you are near to PH, locate me, make we wash over your sorrow with some bottles.
I didn't know some guys are still falling for that no sex stuff and still spending heavily at the same time.

I can only agree to no sex on three conditions
1. I am fully ready and capable of marrying in the next 6 months
2. You are a virgin
3. You have the womanly characters that I need

badt guy

Stanleyafam:
Bro the good part is, she'll forever respect you, but it's sad, I mean she left som1 who respects her for another she barely knows..

God has seen ur kind act and he will bring to u som1 that will head in the same direction as u, be patient, that's how life is..

Someone she barely knows? I wouldn't be suprised if 1)she's a fake virgin
2)she's been sleeping with the dude she's marrying because she actually loves him & only using the OP as her gullible cash cow.

avasweet:
Wow ......I don't knw wat to say....am so so soooorrry...

Hello

quiinnBee:

Hello

Hi

Some girls sha
My dear"move on" is d word
Shits do happen, buh in all,Life goes on..
It hurts yeah,its nt gona be easy getting past this
Buh u hv to try,see it as one of those dark sides of life

Sleeping Tablet NEWS the news was mixed with Cypron and Super Apetti hahahahahahaha
On a more serious note you have to move on with ur life,.
Thank God u didnt get the news while u were driving

This just goes to show you that Mother Nature is bleeped up!!! Some girls need a guy like you in their lives buh instead they get someone like vizkiz no offence o, I'm just a troublemaker

But you sef, you bee Mumu+Maga+Jona Bravery

some girls are mean sha if it was a guy that did this to a girl now, we wont hear word.