Dear People,

This 'letter' has two purposes: To Warn and to Advice.

The Warning Part
A friend once told me of how a guy was pestering her life with all manner of suggestive texts and suspicious gestures, trying to FORCE her into an unscrupulous relationship.

I was pissed because my dear was being threatened and more pissed because he was ignorantly stubborn hoping he could date someone like my friend- who's got morals.

Some guys of today, go around with the malicious mindset that the size of their manhood can substitute the size of their "mindhood". Simply put: Don't build your life around No girl- It's not worth it. Build around a worthy goal and all these other things shall be added unto you It's plain illiteracy to go after a girl that way!


The ADVICE Part

This is like the body of this thread; REASONS YOU SHOULD NEVER FORCE YOURSELF ON ANY GIRL, in view of a relationship.

Quickly, let's see a few:

1. All ladies are the same

I'm not on the contrary... You see, it beats my imagination how guys move from one girl to another, does she have a different 'privy part' from the other girl? Because, that's the major reasons guys cheat. Don't FORCE yourself on any girl because there is so much more than meets the eye, so carefully take note of the nuances and unspoken words, body movements and gestures. Break Up is an unnecessary evil.


2. We are told to Approach and not to Encroach

In my little time around ladies, whether friends or crushes; I've discovered that you could actually be encroaching thinking you are approaching. Before getting too involved, be sure it's not in vain. "Years Of Friendzoning Makes A Guy Look Like He's Been Duped"
Approach her if you like her. When you discover her heart is elsewhere, dump her.


3. Girls Need Guys More Than Guys Need Them

Am I quoting Scriptures here? Before someone calls me a chauvinist, the Bible spoke about, in the ET, it will be seven ladies to just one guy. Take it or leave it, girls wish they could ask guys out . For many reasons; Protection, Financial assistance, Warmth, Leadership, Companionship etc. Guys, don't FORCE yourself on any lady, whosoever please.


4. It Sends The Wrong Signal

Trying to get her to like you in a short period of time sends the opposite message. Good intention, yea, but it sends a "Desperate Call" to her. Not FORCING yourself on any accords you some form of honour and avoid insults too.


5. The "You Forced Me Into This Relationship" Speech May Surface.

If you didn't understand the rest points, at least grasp this point, don't FORCE a girl into your life and family. If you FORCE her to come, you'll do same to get her to stay. Fine or Average-looking, they're the same; same sexual parts! In fact, let her make the choice of choosing you without any coercion from anyone.


Forcing a girl into a relationship with you is plain stupidity. Who says you can approach?
You can but don't use the law of Force saying, "If I don't have you, I'll die"--- Lielie, is your name Laila?

To me, state your aim for getting close to her, watch her reaction for days. React based on those figures.

Gn'yt

Am I a bad person for wanting to fry u alive in hot groundnut oil??
anyways, I'll comment fully well when I wake up.

[email][/email] reason i usually tell them whilst toasting, take a good look @ me, if i aint ur kinda man please dont accept


i nor dey for "ur persuasion was too strong so i had to accept"
talk

Spot-on, OP:

They need us like the sun needs the moon.

They need us like May needs June.



They need us like the mouth needs the spoon.


They need us like the morning needs the high noon.

But we know exactly what we are - tycoons.

They probably just need us for our silver spoons.



And not a moment too soon, we see right through the facade and go: "Hold up, girl!!!

Then busted, they make funny faces like animated cartoons.

And there goes the boom!!! In yo face!!!

Na play I dey play o.

Vinshu:
Girls need guys more than guys need them. Really?

Is that what you tell yourself? Lol

I remember a man who said this in front of me back in 2010 and I slit his throat. He had to undergo surgery to repair that part. Though I was arrested but I claimed "Sexual assault, self defence" and I was free. Then he was charged €120 fine.

I wish you were in my front op. Silly thread.

go sit down one place

slit his throat my a$$


even the ones that are scared to slit the throat of chicken are here acting tough

Okay

Vinshu:
Girls need guys more than guys need them. Really?

Is that what you tell yourself? Lol

I remember a man who said this in front of me back in 2010 and I slit his throat. He had to undergo surgery to repair that part. Though I was arrested but I claimed "Sexual assault, self defence" and I was free. Then he was charged €120 fine.

I wish you were in my front op. Silly thread.

Are you joking or what? I don't like aggressive lady. I don't believe you.

"you have gotten what you wanted abi??" statement might surface too

@OP. You nailed it.

all4naija:
Are you joking or what? I don't like aggressive lady. I don't believe you.

Oh I'm serious and I'm not aggressive. I am actually gentle and reserved but hate when men feel important.

rawpadgin:
go sit down one place

slit his throat my a$$

It's not by force to comment you are so angry. Here is the gist, I hate men when they make it seem like they are doing women a favor or trying to play king. So yes I would do it over and over even to you if needed.

u dont have the balls to slit anybody's throat miss vinshu

have seen ya type on numerous occasion

The last time I checked, 3 beautiful ladies have asked me out. So why do I have to force myself on any lady.

They don't even worth it.

rawpadgin:
u dont have the balls to slit anybody's throat

have seen ya type on numerous occasion

she's trying too hard ....... But dude this is nairaland just enjoy the fun

You just said the truth@op

5. The "You Forced Me Into This Relationship" Speech May Surface.

I was once guilty of this some years back... since then I don learn

Nice one OP

[quote author=emusmith post=38768025]Dear People,

This 'letter' has two purposes: To Warn and to Advice.

The Warning Part
A friend once told me of how a guy was pestering her life with all manner of suggestive texts and suspicious gestures, trying to FORCE her into an unscrupulous relationship.

I was pissed because my dear was being threatened and more pissed because he was ignorantly stubborn hoping he could date someone like my friend- who's got morals.

Some guys of today, go around with the malicious mindset that the size of their manhood can substitute the size of their "mindhood". Simply put: Don't build your life around No girl- It's not worth it. Build around a worthy goal and all these other things shall be added unto you It's plain illiteracy to go after a girl that way!


The ADVICE Part

This is like the body of this thread; REASONS YOU SHOULD NEVER FORCE YOURSELF ON ANY GIRL, in view of a relationship.

Quickly, let's see a few:

1. All ladies are the same

I'm not on the contrary... You see, it bits my imagination how guys move from one girl to another, does she have a different 'privy part' from the other girl? Because, that's the major reasons guys cheat. Don't FORCE yourself on any girl because there is so much more than meets the eye, so carefully take note of the nuances and unspoken words, body movements and gestures. Break Up is an unnecessary evil.


2. We are told to Approach and not to Encroach

In my little time around ladies, whether friends or crushes; I've discovered that you could actually be encroaching thinking you are approaching. Before getting too involved, be sure it's not in vain. "Years Of Friendzoning Makes A Guy Look Like He's Been Duped"
Approach her if you like her. When you discover her heart is elsewhere, dump her.


3. Girls Need Guys More Than Guys Need Them

Am I quoting Scriptures here? Before someone calls me a chauvinist, the Bible spoke about, in the ET, it will be seven ladies to just one guy. Take it or leave it, girls wish they could ask guys out . For many reasons; Protection, Financial assistance, Warmth, Leadership, Companionship etc. Guys, don't FORCE yourself on any lady, whosoever please.Ish 4v1

After wailing on NL, they still pvssies in real life so... no sweat...

Girls need guys more than guys need them. Really? Is that what you tell yourself? Lol
I remember a man who said this in front of me back
in 2010 and I slit his throat. He had to undergo
surgery to repair that part. Though I was arrested but
I claimed "Sexual assault, self defence" and I was
free. Then he was charged €120 fine.
I wish you were in my front op. Silly thread.

Miss feminist, I hope you know that you don't have to roar before you can fight for this gender equality you are agitating for


There are subtle ways to go about it rather than being arrogant and insultive

naijaboiy:

That one na feminist abi na just comedian wey dey deceive herself?

that one na feminist in Papa Ajasco clothing. Roflwkmd

tosyne2much:
that one na feminist in Papa Ajasco clothing. Roflwkmd

some mumu guys will not still learn.

EroticAngelina:
Am I a bad person for wanting to fry u alive in hot groundnut oil??

anyways, I'll comment fully well when I wake up.

Like how you've frying those guys' pockets and hearts right?

ilo04:
some mumu guys will not still learn.

as in enh

Let her want the relationship as you do too...

tosyne2much:
that one na feminist in Papa Ajasco clothing. Roflwkmd

haha

[quote author=Vinshu post=38768256][/quote] Hmm...how the truth hurts!