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Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by BlackrulesDworld(m): 7:57pm On Oct 09, 2015
Oliviaarims:

U saying there aren't faithful girls, anymore?... Or do u mean the word "date" in its most literal sense of meeting up with sb @a specific place and time?








#Philosopher Quëën#


Same rule goes for guys that are in a serious relationship that could eventually leads to marriage.

Bitches can't be trusted!
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Nobody: 7:58pm On Oct 09, 2015
Cutehector:
u r just d only lady in dis thread dat has sense.. D odas are just a bunch of jealous fowls... No offense to dem....


OMG!!! sad fowls? shocked You don't say! offense Taken actually...shocked You don't get the point...Be inna Relationship and You'd understand..... ''D'' probably? maybe? eventually?
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Johnnoah1st: 8:04pm On Oct 09, 2015
JENMAUCY:
I totally agree with you, it has been an issue in my relationship, I simply tell my lover that I love my privacy, it's just my life but he don't seem to get it until I ignored him for 2wks. He complained that I don't check his phone,i don't ask him who he talked to and so. If I don't trust you,what am I still doing with you?
WHAT THE FUCCK? am sure dat ur lover is one of the dummy woman wrapper guy u gat in that nigeria, how would i called someone my lover and we wont be able to see each other privacy? then why are we lovers? if i just want to use the girl as mere fucckmate i wont even bother to knw anything about her, but my wife or wife to be? heck no! u cant be my wife if i cant knw ur privacy.
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by ronald4lif(m): 8:05pm On Oct 09, 2015
fantazia:
on a brighter and a normal note, a lady in a relationship aint suppose to flirt with a man, its not culturally right, but d case of a man is different, we can and its allowed bt not in d presence of his girlfriend, so what im saying is that a guy can check his girlfriend's phone but the girlfriend cant do that to him.

I can't wrap my head around what you're saying. Please what culture states that a man can flirt but a woman can't and since when has this culture been in force? Seems I'm too victorian and not in tune with 'modern' lifestyle.

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Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Cutehector(m): 8:05pm On Oct 09, 2015
Oliviaarims:

Well,it could hurt...buh 4 me,I've got no qualms. with it. U can check whatever u want....but supposing ur actions are not enuf 4 her? supposing she's just curious to know the kinda conversations u have with other girls?
she should do it playfully.. Ah mean, cheesy it all depends on a matter of approach.. She may be like, hey come her stud, look at how handsome u r in ur pic, I knw most girls will be eyeing u ryt nw... Leme see hw "celeb" u hav become.. Playfully, she will just gv me dat play eye and I will just smile and gv her my fone.. Cuz I knw I hav nothn to hide, frm thr she can divert and be checkn my conversations.. I won't mind....



Dats hw things are done.. I dnt support her snoopin at my fone behind me ....
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Nobody: 8:10pm On Oct 09, 2015
ronald4lif:


I can't wrap my head around what you're saying. Please what culture states that a man can flirt but a woman can't and since when has this culture been in force? Seems I'm too victorian and not in tune with 'modern' lifestyle.
well on a normal scenero, a lady already in a relationship aint suppose to flirt
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Cutehector(m): 8:14pm On Oct 09, 2015
Estharfabian:
We ain't talking about snooping nah...shocked

just being free with Bae...with Everything You got...embarassed if You've got Nothing to hide.....then, You should trust her with Everything... Including your fb passwords...Security codes..WiFi passwords...Everything...embarassed
chei.. U dis girl eh... Oya tell me, mrs freedom, wat is ur nairaland password
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Adaeze003(f): 8:16pm On Oct 09, 2015
fantazia:
on a brighter and a normal note, a lady in a relationship aint suppose to flirt with a man, its not culturally right, but d case of a man is different, we can and its allowed bt not in d presence of his girlfriend, so what im saying is that a guy can check his girlfriend's phone but the girlfriend cant do that to him.

Now isn't this rii here the biggest pile of shyt...

But what do I know rii? Smh.

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Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by ronald4lif(m): 8:25pm On Oct 09, 2015
Adaeze003:


Now isn't this rii here the biggest pile of shyt...

But what do I know rii? Smh.

Shhh, you don't call it sh1t. You see, we're Africans and we men can do whatever we like and get away with it. Flirt, bang and have multiple girlfriends/wives but a lady can't dare talk to another guy when in a relationship/marriage. I mean she shouldn't even think of saying hi to a guy. We'd call her a hoe and ashawo make she try am. We were brought up with the alpha male attitude and you Adaeze and your likes can't do nada, zilch. wink tongue
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Nobody: 8:26pm On Oct 09, 2015
Adaeze003:

Now isn't this rii here the biggest pile of shyt...
But what do I know rii? Smh.
huh? hw is it a shit?
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Nobody: 8:32pm On Oct 09, 2015
Cutehector:
she should do it playfully.. Ah mean, cheesy it all depends on a matter of approach.. She may be like, hey come her stud, look at how handsome u r in ur pic, I knw most girls will be eyeing u ryt nw... Leme see hw "celeb" u hav become.. Playfully, she will just gv me dat play eye and I will just smile and gv her my fone.. Cuz I knw I hav nothn to hide, frm thr she can divert and be checkn my conversations.. I won't mind....



Dats hw things are done.. I dnt support her snoopin at my fone behind me ....
Lol...Ayyt...
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Nobody: 8:35pm On Oct 09, 2015
fantazia:
im a revrend father, i dnt have a girlfriend. just wanted to comment
Ohhh...Very well,then..
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Nobody: 8:37pm On Oct 09, 2015
Oliviaarims:

Ohhh...Very well,then..
but since i saw ur dp i have been having second thought
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Adaeze003(f): 8:37pm On Oct 09, 2015
ronald4lif:


Shhh, you don't call it sh1t. You see, we're Africans and we men can do whatever we like and get away with it. Flirt, bang and have multiple girlfriends/wives but a lady can't dare talk to another guy when in a relationship/marriage. I mean she shouldn't even think of saying hi to a guy. We'd call her a hoe and ashawo make she try am. We were brought up with the alpha male attitude and you Adaeze and your likes can't do nada, zilch. wink tongue

I really hate to be seen as someone without a sense of humor coz on one hand, I detect sarcasm, on the other, mockery. So until I'm clear on which it is... uhh... I'll be a good girl cool

Btw, "and your likes"? You nigga must have me confused... there ain't no "likes", just one.
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by ronald4lif(m): 8:41pm On Oct 09, 2015
Adaeze003:


I really hate to be seen as someone without a sense of humor coz on one hand, I detect sarcasm, on the other, mockery. So until I'm clear on which it is... uhh... I'll be a good girl cool

Losen up a bit, breathe deep and read again you'd figure. It's friday night no time to be tensed. By your likes I meant women generally.
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Adaeze003(f): 8:47pm On Oct 09, 2015
ronald4lif:


Losen up a bit, breathe deep and read again you'd figure. It's friday night no time to be tensed. By your likes I meant women generally.

I feel victorious rii now, I almost went all tigress... lol

Yeah it's a Friday, why aren't you turning up somewhere?
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by 2dice(m): 8:53pm On Oct 09, 2015
BlackrulesDworld:
Yes, if she is your wife but No if she is just a lover.

Only a stupid guy will go through a woman inbox and react negatively on what he sees. You don't need to go through a woman's inbox before you know whether she is cheating on you or not.

Relationship rule one: never believe your bae is dating you alone.
U massacred diss Man
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Oct 09, 2015
fantazia:
but since i saw ur dp i have been having second thought
Lol.."Dear Rev Father...."
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Oct 09, 2015
Oliviaarims:
Lol.."Dear Rev Father...."
pls can i b ur friend?
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Cutehector(m): 9:11pm On Oct 09, 2015
Estharfabian:



OMG!!! sad fowls? shocked You don't say! offense Taken actually...shocked You don't get the point...Be inna Relationship and You'd understand..... ''D'' probably? maybe? eventually?
hahahaha am tired of bein in relationships. Doesn't lead anywhr.. Leme try bein single for a while..
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Nobody: 9:32pm On Oct 09, 2015
Cutehector:
chei.. U dis girl eh... Oya tell me, mrs freedom, wat is ur nairaland password
like You don't know? shocked I feel betrayed.....embarassed

*sighs* my Nairaland password is "Cutehector" sad
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by JENMAUCY(f): 9:41pm On Oct 09, 2015
Johnnoah1st:
WHAT THE FUCCK? am sure dat ur lover is one of the dummy woman wrapper guy u gat in that nigeria, how would i called someone my lover and we wont be able to see each other privacy? then why are we lovers? if i just want to use the girl as mere fucckmate i wont even bother to knw anything about her, but my wife or wife to be? heck no! u cant be my wife if i cant knw ur privacy.
with due respect, please don't insult my lover please,you are entitled to your opinion so do I, it rocks our boat so let us be. You and your lover can switch sims so that you will make sure she is faithful.
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by ronald4lif(m): 9:47pm On Oct 09, 2015
Adaeze003:


I feel victorious rii now, I almost went all tigress... lol

Yeah it's a Friday, why aren't you turning up somewhere?

Nah, not heading out tonight. I'm engaged tomorrow so have to be up early for work. You out grooving already?
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Adaeze003(f): 9:49pm On Oct 09, 2015
ronald4lif:


Nah, not heading out tonight. I'm engaged tomorrow so have to be up early for work. You out grooving already?

Nah... today is "lights out and on the bed" day...
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Cutehector(m): 10:17pm On Oct 09, 2015
Estharfabian:
like You don't know? shocked I feel betrayed.....embarassed

*sighs* my Nairaland password is "Cutehector" sad
gawd!!!!!!! Am falling for this babe already.. Her sense of humor fascinates me!

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Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Nobody: 10:24pm On Oct 09, 2015
Cutehector:
gawd!!!!!!! Am falling for this babe already.. Her sense of humor fascinates me!
embarassed Be wHining me o! shocked LoL! Ah wasn't even trying..sad

uhm...*in other news* I'm thinking of Opening a diary Onhere...."grin" Cutehector's advice needed...embarassed
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Oct 09, 2015
Cutehector:
hahahaha am tired of bein in relationships. Doesn't lead anywhr.. Leme try bein single for a while..
Tayad of being inna relationship? lipsrsealed shocked. just how many girls broke Your heart? undecided
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Cutehector(m): 10:27pm On Oct 09, 2015
Estharfabian:
embarassed Be wHining me o! shocked LoL! Ah wasn't even trying..sad

uhm...*in other news* I'm thinking of Opening a diary Onhere...."grin" Cutehector's advice needed...embarassed
lol u dnt even need to try.... I"m tripping already...


Lol a diary would be a great idea... Like I"d be following it badly...
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Cutehector(m): 10:30pm On Oct 09, 2015
Estharfabian:
Tayad of being inna relationship? lipsrsealed shocked. just how many girls broke Your heart? undecided
lol its nad abt the heart breaks. Some girls r just hypocrites. Dey tend to act holy in my frnt while dey r bad outside.
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Nobody: 10:31pm On Oct 09, 2015
Cutehector:
lol u dnt even need to try.... I"m tripping already...


Lol a diary would be a great idea... Like I"d be following it badly...
undecided LoL! thanks for the vote of confidence!! badly needed someone's opinion... embarassed errrm...I write really badly , ya know? sad :-p

biko...bia... why ain't you sleeping sef? lipsrsealed
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Nobody: 10:33pm On Oct 09, 2015
Cutehector:
lol its nad abt the heart breaks. Some girls r just hypocrites. Dey tend to act holy in my frnt while dey r bad outside.
hehehehehehehe...Girls are Evil..steer clear from Us! embarassed LoL...Anyways...it's cool tho....I respect your decision...

so! No Relationships till when? when you're 56 huh!? lipsrsealed
Re: Is It right To Read Private Conversations Of Your Lover On Her Phone? by Cutehector(m): 10:34pm On Oct 09, 2015
Estharfabian:
undecided LoL! thanks for the vote of confidence!! badly needed someone's opinion... embarassed errrm...I write really badly , ya know? sad :-p

biko...bia... why ain't you sleeping sef? lipsrsealed
I like d way u rite ya knw embarassed tongue


Lol its not yet my bed time. grin

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