therevelation2:
My cursed mother will die a miserable death.

abbey621:
I can't really blame the man, no man would witness such horror and be in his right mind! Now unless they are both willing to go for counseling both spiritual and mental, they won't survive. Time is the greatest factor in this situation, time will either heal the wound or make it worse but either way it will have a strong influence. Now to my final point, a lot of robberies in Nigeria can completely be avoided if we all learn to be security conscious! We see people building houses of 50million or more and they are not able to invest in security. I'm not talking about gateman but a combination of technology and an escape route. Invest in guns, teach your wife and children how to shoot, little things like these can save lives!

Omotayor123:
This is serious! But what kind of a man does that He should blame himself for not able to protect his wife and having to stand there like a dummy and watch the whole show. Why does he have to put his wife into emotional trauma? Why does she have to bell the cat

Men and their Useless Ego.
I have heard of cases where robbers made tenants of a compound *sleep* with the wife of one another. That kind case nko


God save Women. I feel sorry for the poor woman. After going through rape her husband is still making making her feel miserable.

Manager123:
This happened to my Big Sis. (though not blood related) she's a Sister to me. I was one of her bridal train.

After four years of marriage with a child(3 years) armed robbers came to their home. They loot away all of their valuables and raped her (three of them). Her husband was made to watch the whole show.
.
She was taken to the hospital and properly treated. And she was back to normal, No STDs.
But ever since, (it's been over 6 months now) her husband have refused to 'Touch' her.
When he was confronted, he said he couldn't bear to sleep with her after having to watch another man Making love to her. The family had set in but all to no avail.

Now, she's feeling miserable and even wish the robbers had killed her. I feel very upset and sorry for her.
Mummys and Daddys in the house, any advice on how to overcome this
Has anyone experience such
Please help, your advice are needed.

Cc. Lalasticlala, Dominique Abeg do the needful.

galadima77:

I tell u guy wit all anger! Either i die or somebody dies

Omotayor123:
This is serious! But what kind of a man does that He should blame himself for not able to protect his wife and having to stand there like a dummy and watch the whole show. Why does he have to put his wife into emotional trauma? Why does she have to bell the cat

Men and their Useless Ego.
I have heard of cases where robbers made tenants of a compound *sleep* with the wife of one another. That kind case nko


God save Women. I feel sorry for the poor woman. After going through rape her husband is still making making her feel miserable.

Oyind17:

See your teeth, where u hide since

Manager123:
This happened to my Big Sis. (though not blood related) she's a Sister to me. I was one of her bridal train.

After four years of marriage with a child(3 years) armed robbers came to their home. They loot away all of their valuables and raped her (three of them). Her husband was made to watch the whole show.
.
She was taken to the hospital and properly treated. And she was back to normal, No STDs.
But ever since, (it's been over 6 months now) her husband have refused to 'Touch' her.
When he was confronted, he said he couldn't bear to sleep with her after having to watch another man Making love to her. The family had set in but all to no avail.

Now, she's feeling miserable and even wish the robbers had killed her. I feel very upset and sorry for her.
Mummys and Daddys in the house, any advice on how to overcome this
Has anyone experience such
Please help, your advice are needed.

Cc. Lalasticlala, Dominique Abeg do the needful.

MrMbaM:
My cursed mother will die a miserable death.

lordfalcao:
see wetin person pikin write , this is not Hollywood where actor go begin fight person wey hold gun.

Manager123:
This happened to my Big Sis. (though not blood related) she's a Sister to me. I was one of her bridal train.

After four years of marriage with a child(3 years) armed robbers came to their home. They loot away all of their valuables and raped her (three of them). Her husband was made to watch the whole show.
.
She was taken to the hospital and properly treated. And she was back to normal, No STDs.
But ever since, (it's been over 6 months now) her husband have refused to 'Touch' her.
When he was confronted, he said he couldn't bear to sleep with her after having to watch another man Making love to her. The family had set in but all to no avail.

Now, she's feeling miserable and even wish the robbers had killed her. I feel very upset and sorry for her.
Mummys and Daddys in the house, any advice on how to overcome this
Has anyone experience such
Please help, your advice are needed.

Cc. Lalasticlala, Dominique Abeg do the needful.

Omotayor123:
This isAfter going through rape her husband is still making making her feel miserable.

focus7:
Let her leave the marriage, change location preferably to a city where no one knows about robbery incident and start a new life.

Icecream4U:
The woman should start dressing provocatively, the man no go know when him insert his bulging and drooling prick inside her thing sef.

Mologi:
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48noble:
He is cheating on her
And d woman should step up her game by dressing n looking sexy around d house and hence try to ignore her konji @ d moment. By treating him as if they just met n no sex.

He will soon try to rape u too

msbbash:

u try nw ! u bring nigerian Nollywood film come here. u com dey lie say na ur sister ?
there's God oooo

Teempakguy:
in situations like this, i do put myself in such a position.

so, i ask myself, what if i was with my wife and five armed men arrived and requested that i watched while they raped her?
otherwise, they were going to kill me.

well, fantasy aside, i would. because the fact is, the chances of beating three armed men is almost nil. even if you have prior knowledge in martial arts. fighting is futile as you will indeed die and they will rape her anyway.

so, what after? after medical action and the likes, what would i do?

first off, i would suffer post traumatic stress DISORDER.
without therapy, i would never recover. seeing her would make me full regrets and heartbreaks. i would relive the experience everyday of my life. every hour . . . thinking of what i could have done. i should have fought . . . i should have died for her . . . i should . . .

having sex with her would be the last thing on my mind. it's not worth it. I'm a man, damn it. i don't deserve to sleep with a woman if i cannot properly guard her. my ego would have shattered and without ego . . . it is kind of hard for men to go sexual.

this is why i don't blame the man at all. he is suffering from PTSD. he needs medical attention. he is dying inside.
sex is like . . . not even an issue at all here. he blames himself for a lot of things. he probably sees himself as a failure and as unworthy.

medical therapy, guys. yeah.

Teempakguy:
in situations like this, i do put myself in such a position.

so, i ask myself, what if i was with my wife and five armed men arrived and requested that i watched while they raped her?
otherwise, they were going to kill me.

well, fantasy aside, i would. because the fact is, the chances of beating three armed men is almost nil. even if you have prior knowledge in martial arts. fighting is futile as you will indeed die and they will rape her anyway.

so, what after? after medical action and the likes, what would i do?

first off, i would suffer post traumatic stress DISORDER.
without therapy, i would never recover. seeing her would make me full regrets and heartbreaks. i would relive the experience everyday of my life. every hour . . . thinking of what i could have done. i should have fought . . . i should have died for her . . . i should . . .

having sex with her would be the last thing on my mind. it's not worth it. I'm a man, damn it. i don't deserve to sleep with a woman if i cannot properly guard her. my ego would have shattered and without ego . . . it is kind of hard for men to go sexual.

this is why i don't blame the man at all. he is suffering from PTSD. he needs medical attention. he is dying inside.
sex is like . . . not even an issue at all here. he blames himself for a lot of things. he probably sees himself as a failure and as unworthy.

medical therapy, guys. yeah.