ideyhere:


Okay...but just don't take too long. Because we might just have upgraded to helicopters by the time you get back from your car hustling
#team girls are not smiling ;P

Acidosis:


Let me know when you upgrade so I can take you as my sugar mummy

Gaidenk:

In laymans (streetwise) language... "I aint saying she's a gold digger,but she aint messing with no broke n**gers"

ideyhere:


Wouldn't it be better for you to take me now as I am? Why wait till I've upgraded And yet only girls like better thing

halfrica:



wish all ur sisters same!


anyways u pained nd hurt


Chai u just exhibited characters every girl world wide hate nigerian men for

IzonOwei:
....preye ooo... ...tubara...this one you torch light me like this...ermm...I would say no girl wants to suffer which I can understand...but I respect girls who would want to love a guy for who he is, knowing he's got good prospects and a hard worker,not because he is driving a car..there might be no car tomorrow..what would she do then?...run away?...my babe presently gives me every reason to believe not all girls fall under this materialistic wahala...

Preye I don talk my own finish o...egberi fa...

dearpreye:
My brother, it's indeed a shameful trend. I think a lot of factors are responsible for this behaviour. So lemme give them some slack. LOL!

Somehow it's a societal issue. We have a society that has come to idolise ostentation of affluence- especially things like cars. We're a pretty poor nation, looking from the GDP angle; hence anyone with a car can be quickly adjudged as being wealthy. I doubt I can do sufficient justice to this issue at hand. Poverty is high in Nigeria. The average woman doesn't want to be too close to someone who appears to be struggling financially. SMH! Some in laws treat guys with cars better. I believe the ladies are naturally responding to OUR society's expectations and values.

Background. I think this also has a lot to do with this issue. I had a very close female friend back at the higher Institution days. She's one of the most serene, mature, focused and responsible ladies I've met. Even when I showed up with my ride after I got a job, she didn't come any inch closer; she simply remained herself. Even when others within that our cycle of friends were visibly excited for me, she still remained herself. My woman and her siblings also fall in this category of proper family values and discipline. They're hardly moved by any material show from men. So, to a large extent, family values and upbringing are also responsible.

The lady's Personal Values. There are still thousands of ladies with some sense of discipline, though a lot more are on the opposite side. A lot of them don't even know who they are, their values, their limits of tolerance, their beliefs; almost anything goes. The issue is rather complex.

All in all, women are so wired uniquely with such complexities that us men can't fully grasp them. Even them are sometimes confused as to their true identities. LOL!

kunleajao:
Yea, it common among this girls I don't know there problem meanwhile sum of then their papa and mama no even get bicycle.
There was one time I went to pharmacy to buy drugs when I got there I met this lady after I finshed buying my drugs I was like trying to get her attention what is your name stuff like that but I tell you this lady no give me attention @ all. The 3rd day I drove in a 406 car tite Ac I stopped beside her office and buy some stuff she then saw I didn't say anything. So there was another time I went to that her office this time am not buying anything so when I got there I ask her wot up she gave me attention all what I ask her she responded to it. The funnest part of the whole story the car is not mine @ all but cos she saw me in the car she believe the car belong to me. Most of then have shallow thinking they don't care how you get it.

Djicemob:
Am not here to bash any girl or anything but with personal experiences here and there, Inoticed my assertion above can be nothing far from truth. Some of these girls actually quantify the riches or standard of a guy with the car he drives... Or if he even has one at all. A guy with a car has half of the "toasting" job pretty much done easy for him cos of his car.

ONE OF MY MANY EXPERIENCES:
I was at a garden around my neighborhood having drinks with friends when i saw this beautiful girl walked in,i called on her in the most respectful way i can but she acted like no one was talking to her,i stood up and walked up to her trying to spark up a convo but again she snubbed me(almost giving me the "talk to the hand" thingy,while looking at me head to toe).I left her site back to a round of mockery and laughter by my tipsy friends.I took the shame thinking "what went wrong", "Am i not handsome,charming or articulate enough"?.I noticed her friends came later on and it was excitement and laughter from them,whilst occasionally pointing towards our direction and the loser(Probably me)...I don die!

To my surprise,days after,i was 'driving' out of my hood when i saw that same girl,i honked my horn and parked right beside her.Before i could whisper to myself 'pls no more embarrassment from this girl!'...she stopped and was actually looking excited,she greeted me "Good afternoon" more than twice when i pretended like i didn't hear her the first two times.More surprising was,before i could say a word she immediately asked me(with a wide grin) "am i not the guy from the other day,the guy from the garden?" And am like "yea" next thing she started apologizing like her life depended on it. Damn! Magic! I thought to myself.

Note:I got to know this girl very well afterwards,she is 20 and by all standards not a runs girl.

I probably wouldn't have gotten her attention if it wasn't for the car.Smh!

Such a turn-off!

bigass123:
I was actually thinking about that oh...
Where are the ladies in the house..
Dem don go "solo mode"
A close female friend of mine once confessed that they (women) are so complex that they sometimes don't understand themselves.
The car attraction thing is not peculiar to 9ja women.. Its everywhere in Africa. And globally women flock around you if you got a loaded account. From Addis-Abbaba to New York to Quebec to even Vienna.. Women will worship you like a god if you're rich.
So, abeg make una leave my 9ja cuties alone.. Who want suffer?
Op, if na you nko?

I swear na true

If you get money ehn, na you go dey run from kitty-cat

Yomieluv:
they love sitting at the other seat blushing their teeth like a burnt goat oppressing the other lady.


a cousin and I were driving his car, and honked a lady, without knowing us from Adams,she entered the AC tite car,I was like she didn't even fear for her life at all.



simple truth,most are gold digger.

Acidosis:


Which side are you..?

Car-conscious?

artisticallyart:
Girls and material things...... smh.
I had the opportunity of being a driver, my brothers...... I banged girls like there was no tomorrow..... Especially the so called classic chicks and most a times I give them #500naira or drop them at b/stop close to their house. I snapped with my boss car and posted on some social media.... The most asked question was are are you the owner of the car and because they like matching words with action.... I take them out with the car and spend less than 200........

Slimzjoe:
They want an Easy Life...that's Just it


And why did you try to get her attention Again after being embarrassed before

EgunMogaji:

kcid:
Many girls are foolish(offense intended). Many girls are foolish(offense intended).

Rosejefrey:
Nigerian guys always looking 4 a girl DAT would love them the way they are,so a girl should not have a choice? after a guy has wasted his youthful life gallivanting,at the end of the day he want a girl to love his poor ass.hmmmmm

artisticallyart:
Girls and material things...... smh.
I had the opportunity of being a driver, my brothers...... I banged girls like there was no tomorrow..... Especially the so called classic chicks and most a times I give them #500naira or drop them at b/stop close to their house. I snapped with my boss car and posted on some social media.... The most asked question was are are you the owner of the car and because they like matching words with action.... I take them out with the car and spend less than 200........

ollah1:


You need an English tutor. Don't take it personal personally