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Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by suzzy16(f): 5:46am On Oct 21, 2015 |
anigbajumo:lol |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by Toks2008(m): 5:52am On Oct 21, 2015 |
repogirl: I appreciat your stand view but in my opinion,this is an undiluted BALDADASH. Only in Nigeria can this epistle according to be read. Naija grls are the most redundant in the world.Only in Nigeria we will see a lady urging her man to get a 8 to 8 job even if it brings home just 50k rathr than pursuee a vision that could bring home millions. Im sure when the likes of olamide,psquare,dbanj,don jazzy were hustling i guess you wont even take a second look at them if you were wooed by them. Only in Nigeria that we will see this materialistic money mongering mentality. When patoranking was selling rat poison he had no job but today he is made so lts assume he woos a certain lady then and she turned him down,will he ever value such lady today. Many naija ladies are pathethic and i keep asking watever happened to loving a man for the sake of love? So a typical naija girl would prefer to marry a man who does not value her cos he has a job leaving a man who cherishes are cos he is still hustling..now i now why the likes of mikel went for a foreign chic. Very soon many naija ladies will go on jumai,olx and konga to advertise thmselves when they grow too old in the bid to get a man with a job that is non existent. 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by Temysteve(m): 5:53am On Oct 21, 2015 |
pinkiberry:hmmm, u wey dey crush anyman dat come ur way! |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by Naff24(f): 5:53am On Oct 21, 2015 |
dharay99: Naso oooooo, I don't know why some of us always want to reap what we don't sow I met my fiance when he has nothing but I saw d real potentials in him, now am enjoying my endurance and perseverance when God has blessed him with cool job nd mouth watering salary Surulere for real.. If u can't endure, den u cant enjoy good things. To my fellow ladies...Never aspire to be with already made man... Cz behind a successful man, there must be a Good woman I knw some gold diggers will really love to wail... Oya kontunu If I see any of u clinching with my guy.. Chai, ur generation go suffer for it.. #Fact 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by darlingnuel(m): 5:55am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Effects, consequences & vicious cycle of abysmal poverty and mass unemployment in Nigeria!!! 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by adbokus(m): 5:58am On Oct 21, 2015 |
[quote author=dyungmaestro post=39187646]Gone are the days when good women of virtue and true love existed,these days the kind of ladies we have around r sluts,hungry gold diggers who would always stick out their heads to reap where did not sow....#truthisbitter hey miss u r looking for a ready made man who already has a good job and a car to jump on abi?do u tink such a man would abandon the lady who was there for him while he was jobless and was a nobody to come for u because u av just one pussyone hole close to d anus...cmon guys r wiser now love me for who i am and not wot i have and u would rule my world and stop parading yourselves as greedy hungry golddiggers lookin for men to decieve...such men dont exist anymore...u get a job first and looking for men with jobs to perch on...money spent on ladies of nowadays is witout gratitude and mosts times ends up being a waste......] LOOK, YOU HAVE MADE IT IN LIFE! ANY GUY WHO SPENDS ON THOSE BITCHES IS A BASTARD! USELESS DOMESTIC WHORES!... 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by adbokus(m): 6:03am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Naff24: CAN I BUY YOU ISIEWU PLEASE? YOU MORE THAN DESERVE TO SPEND MY MONEY! WAA SHEE IRE..AWON ALALEE AA GBE EE... 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by Salazer017: 6:05am On Oct 21, 2015 |
StephanieEzeh:
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Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by Toks2008(m): 6:05am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Naff24: As iinsightful as this sound,i still have my reservations.. So what if that vision driven guy you married is still jobless? Why do you see your staying with him when he was still hustling as perserverance rather than you just following your heart? Do you think he owe you because you stayedd with him while he had nothing? What happened to loving a man and staying with a man because you want him and he wants you? Ii still believe naija ladies need to change their orientation. iin Benin rep,ladies marry thir husband because they love that man yet amazingly they remain financially independent and work so hard as if they have no husband and same goes for togolese and ghanian ladies but why is this mentality of leeching on a man prevalent in Nigeria? why does a lay believe he is doing a guy a hug favour by loving him and staying by him in his hustling days? i kp saying it,many naija ladies will end up remaining single for life. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by SkinnyDude(m): 6:06am On Oct 21, 2015 |
suzzy16:my good friend. i sight you too. guess you are having fun 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by kilokeys(m): 6:07am On Oct 21, 2015 |
I work, I earn.. And i have a good girl.. She is 20... Doesn't need my money.. I give whatever I feel. I am so lucky.. Advice for guys... Abeg.. don't date a girl of marriageable age if u don't have the means Haba.. U could actually, groom ur flower urself. She should be planted in her father's house (don't make her ur responsibility yet cos she would feel she owes u and she'll feel less luggage if she dumps ur sorry arse. ) U r d Gardener ( waters her from time to time with gift, cash and love) Leave all these old trees alone Advice for the aunties What d heck were u looking for before u clocked 30.. Hope u have found it? If u haven't.. Register in a foundation class in any good Bible Church Learn to keep ur mouth shut ( i too know) Be humble Be spontaneous ( when u see a guy u like, act ur age, walk up to him.. Dont behave like a shy 16 yr old) And look for older single guys ( no games, let everything u want be understood by both of u) If ur rose is in bloom ( mid 20's) Learn to shut the fvk up U were smarter than guys ur age when u were teens.. It doesn't continue that way.. Focus on love and career ( don't ignore one for another) Leave post- teenage-comb-carrying-lips-licking boys alone.. Look for vision.. If he cares with the little he has.. Then he really cares If u are a teenager Keep watching nickelodeon and reading Nora roberts and Danielle Steele o U better wake up, ignore ur mates still fighting over games and look for a serious minded non-sexual relationship with an older guy... He will teach u the ropes, ull wake up from ur fantasies and learn to accept that love is hardwork.. Then ull be better for it when u r ready to tie the knot.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by donttouch: 6:09am On Oct 21, 2015 |
StephanieEzeh: It is more annoying when the lady they are wooing is also jobless. They should woo society ladies that can help get job for them through their contacts. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by repogirl(f): 6:10am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Toks2008:LMAO, coming from a divorcee who couldn't make his own marriage work? Please tell us how many years your marriage to your 'virgin' wife lasted? From your track record, your opinions on this forum hold no water... So am I bothered with what your small mind thinks? Umm...not exactly. |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by goodgate: 6:10am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Randyhot:That's if she has one. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by adbokus(m): 6:12am On Oct 21, 2015 |
StephanieEzeh:I KNOW, ONLY A IGBO GAL HAS THE INFERNAL GUTS TO COME TO A SOCIAL DOMAIN SUCH AS THIS AND SMEAR IT WITH HER VOMITUS! LADIES LIKE YOU ARE THE TYPES THAT END UP BEING PHENOTYPICAL FEMALES WITH VAGINA&BREAST BUT NO WOMB TO BOOT! IDIOT! IT PAINS ME TOO THAT MOST PEOPLE LIKE YOU ACTUALLY EMANATE FROM PØOR&PUTRID BACKGROUNDS AND THEN YOU'LL COME HERE TO TELL HOW YOUR PROGENITORS LIVE CLOSE TO LARRY ALLISON AND HOW YOU WORK WITH SHELL WHEN ACTUALLY YOU bleeped YOUR WAY TO THAT JOB YOU HAVE NOW! BUFFOON... 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by maryhaam(f): 6:15am On Oct 21, 2015 |
dharay99:she didn't speak for us,that her own opinion. |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by momove4real25(f): 6:18am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Guys u are yet to kW difrnces btwn God n Human. We are caprecious in nature. Some guys pass gold digger they will drain u once they realized u are working n u earn gud chnge. But its not all of dem. Same we ladies some of us if seen that a guy works n he set his room well u will see how they will be running after him. Just to drain d guy. I will only ask God to guide me in dis kind of situation bcs av experienced jobless guy that wana drain me bfre simply BKS he kws am a civil servant earning sth |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by deb(m): 6:18am On Oct 21, 2015 |
dharay99: You also want love without capacity to make a woman happy. A lady asking a guy to get a job is a very sensible thing to say. She doesn't want a man who cannot call her because he has no money for recharge cards. Even guys don't fancy jobless ladies anymore. There has to be something she is coming to offer. So asking anyone to get a job before going to relationship is not all about seeking your money. You just need to be responsible enough to take care of yourself before asking another person to join you in a relationship. You cannot be living with your parents cause you are broke then you want a babe to stick with you. No privacy nothing. Get a life jobless guys. Only a lazy man is jobless & without skill. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by victorazy(m): 6:19am On Oct 21, 2015 |
StephanieEzeh: Poverty is written all over u baby 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by nwadiuko1(m): 6:20am On Oct 21, 2015 |
The kinda guys who comes for you is the exact mirror of who you are..... Damn! Gold diggers everywhere 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by maryhaam(f): 6:20am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Internet a place where people type the opposite and do the needfull,you better don't be misled, stick wif him when it's sunny,he will stick when is raining too. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by hisawesomeness(m): 6:26am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Funny thing is its fugly girls that make such shakara 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by abdultek: 6:27am On Oct 21, 2015 |
he is using one stone to kill to birds... don't I think before he comes back u are married to someone else already. |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by marwanafrica: 6:27am On Oct 21, 2015 |
StephanieEzeh: In civilised world money is least inportant in a relationshp, but in nigeria where abt 90% of ladies are synonymous to beggers money is d major tin nd d 1st quality dey look up to in a guy. IDIOT BITCHES. IF U humilate a guy today becouse of his joblessnes or lack of money who knows tomorow he might become d governor or president of ur state and u d half ashawo gyal wil stil b serching for so call guy dat has money 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by hisawesomeness(m): 6:29am On Oct 21, 2015 |
StephanieEzeh:he meant working guys aint even gonna come ur way. No fetty wap in naija. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by adbokus(m): 6:31am On Oct 21, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:YOU HAVE DÖNE A MASTERPIECE OF A POEM HAVEN'T YOU?! MINX! FOR GALS LIKE YOU WHAT IT ALWAYS TURNS OUT TO BE IS THAT THE ONLY WORTHWHILE ASPECT ABOUT YOU IS THAT VAGINA AND TWO BREASTS, NOTHING ELSE! NO VIRTUES, NO SENSE OF COURTESY OR ELEGANCE, JUST A WIDELY TRAVELLED, HEAVILY POUNDED, GONORHOEA INFESTED VJAY AND SAGGY BREASTS! OW! PLUS A MASSIVELY COSMETIC FACE... 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by hisawesomeness(m): 6:33am On Oct 21, 2015 |
StephanieEzeh:i hope ur brothers have job. Cos they dare not come near my sisters if they don't. Look ur time is running out get u man. Or wait for the MD of GTB to come get ur fugly ass. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by tiwasiaife(m): 6:34am On Oct 21, 2015 |
[quote author=StephanieEzeh post=38716693]What's your take? Some jobless guys can be so annoying! Instead of concerning themselves with their life and financial condition, they end up chasing women anyhow as if it's a paid job! . Sending rubbish romantic texts and initiating boring conversations on phone. Go get a job first and come for the girl later. She would appreciate you better. [/quote Look at what u have done to urself in the name of posting on nairaland. Guys are wiser now. u don't reap were u never planted 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by MbashrexBashir(m): 6:34am On Oct 21, 2015 |
StephanieEzeh: Thats how people pretends to b rich in ur presence, borrow there brothers car when visiting you. And the long run they end up using u for ritual. All is not abt job but the intellectual nd determination of the guy. But trust mi ur typ are always use nd dump matetials. If guyz realise this what you whant nd de will be willing to give at the expence of your body in return. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by marwanafrica: 6:34am On Oct 21, 2015 |
maryhaam: I love d way u reason maryam, ladies of ur typ end up marrying a gud husband, I pray to Almighty Allah to give you a well established and stable man that wil take care of you than himself |
Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by Nobody: 6:36am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Im not being bias when I say this but there's some truth in what the op is saying. It can be annoying at times, hearing all that lovey dovey talk day n day out, weeks after weeks sometimes even months, and that all it eventuates too, just talk no action. I'll give an example, there's this Yoruba guy who keeps blowing up my phone, day n day out same stuff he in love with me, I had to get call blocker on my prev phone which broke, since he disturbed me day n night, even though he knows Im a taken woman, he still calls, I ignored him for 2 months, yet he still rings my phone. Anyways got a new phone didn't download the call blocker app yet n his calls came flooding in, even woke me up from sleep. I live abroad overseas and he in Naija lasgidi, he not jobless at 34 but with all the calling for months and dedication he puts in to ringing he should at least save that money n come see me if he was real serious. It just annoying at times having to tell a grown man off, it shouldn't be by force to be this dedicated. I dunno just answered his call today and told him again to stop with the love messages n harassing my phone, would think he drake singing hotline the way he blows my line. But on the real if he was serious could of used that money he spends on the phone towards saving for a ticket overseas, but instead rather drown me in loves obsessive equation chai. 1 Like 1 Share |
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