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majestique:
hi all, I really need your wise counsel on this issue bugging me for sometime now.

in a few days time I will be 28yrs and I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy who is a year plus older than me and is currently in nysc camp.

truth is, even though he has almost everything i want in a man, I find my almost one year relationship very boring due to the following reasons:

he never replies my texts, acknowledges or even sends me texts even in emergency situations.

I call 90% of the time and sometimes send him airtime so he can call or chat.

sometimes he goes days even weeks without talking to me whenever I offend him though he has never shouted at me before.

he finds it difficult expressing his affection towards me. he just does not know when or how to compliment a lady neither does he know what button to press to make me happy. at first i was all over him until i discovered i was beginning to sound desperate. in fact i told him once that the way he is going we will end up being just good friends and not lovers.

he hardly initiates a chat and when I do he doesn't seem interested. he goes k, ya, morning, night etc

since we met I've been the one asking questions to get to know him better but he doesn't even know my favorite food.

lastly there is another guy who is all over me. he is 3 years older and from every indication is ready for marriage. he likes me a lot and may soon ask me out but right now I don't know what to think anymore. the problem with my current relationship is that it lacks hope, promise, progression. we are still where we started from but I can't deny the fact that he is very religious and gentle. I have called it off twice but he apologized and promised to change. I need advice please...thanks y'all.

PuciPrince:

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majestique:
hi all, I really need your wise counsel on this issue bugging me for sometime now.

in a few days time I will be 28yrs and I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy who is a year plus older than me and is currently in nysc camp.

truth is, even though he has almost everything i want in a man, I find my almost one year relationship very boring due to the following reasons:

You ain't in a relationship...

he never replies my texts, acknowledges or even sends me texts even in emergency situations.

I call 90% of the time and sometimes send him airtime so he can call or chat.

sometimes he goes days even weeks without talking to me whenever I offend him though he has never shouted at me before.

he finds it difficult expressing his affection towards me. he just does not know when or how to compliment a lady neither does he know what button to press to make me happy. at first i was all over him until i discovered i was beginning to sound desperate. in fact i told him once that the way he is going we will end up being just good friends and not lovers.

he hardly initiates a chat and when I do he doesn't seem interested. he goes k, ya, morning, night etc

since we met I've been the one asking questions to get to know him better but he doesn't even know my favorite food.

lastly there is another guy who is all over me. he is 3 years older and from every indication is ready for marriage. he likes me a lot and may soon ask me out but right now I don't know what to think anymore. the problem with my current relationship is that it lacks hope, promise, progression. we are still where we started from but I can't deny the fact that he is very religious and gentle. I have called it off twice but he apologized and promised to change. I need advice please...thanks y'all.

pinceprinz:
You needa chill first sis, this's a long distance relationship and yh, those enumerated are the shortcomings.

However, its like d dude ain't really into u. I don't blame him tho for hes miles away and wouldn't wanna commit too deep so he doesn't risk getting shattered heart broken as a result.

For the dude showing green light, well, hold him on pause till u preferably getu HV ur dude around and see him for who he really is y'know.


I'm ur current dudes typa guy , for I don't giv my LNG dist rel much consideration so, hold on

majestique:
thank you all so much for your sound advice. I'll call him up and explain why I can't continue with him.

Oyind17:
I'll advice you to give sometime.
Is he a born-again Christian?

Eyekandi:



I don't get tho! Why won't you give your long distance relationship the much much needed attention
Its so wrong cos' you are "playing" someone

@op, forget that guy asap, I get you love him but you really seem desperate,

Why are you even calling him to tell him off again, just ignore him and when he comes back for you again then you can tell him off.

The guy doesn't dig you one bit. Be wise sister, no time for nonsense these days. Good luck.

majestique:


he's very religious which is one reason why I love him.

Estharfabian:
hmmmmmm...…

Uh...Did I read right?? You send him Airtime?? What girl does that? U Initiate chats? Uh...Ewww! He doesn't show Affections? Arrrrrrgh!! u call 90% of the time?? Blah! God!

Girl, that's An obvious Red-Light..."" dump His Ass...And look for A Nicer Nigga, More Romantic one with A smoking 12-pack..

Life's way too short to date An Unrepentant dickhead...!!!

Hazardd:


what's wrong with her initiating chats with him, huh? You must be can of a boring girl

pinceprinz:




bitcheeees dey para .