ArabianPrince:
Am shocked at all the parochial advice am reading. I reserve my comment though.
My only worries is when the chips are down ...I do hope all the advisors will be able to provide sustainable support morally,financially and otherwise for the lady in question with her kids.

@Eminya. Please get in touch.

So what's your point?
Isn't it someone that is alive that will need sustainable support morally and financially?

Google dr Thomas Hestia or titi arowolo that's just two of the many cases

Who is offering 'mothering' support to their kids now that they are dead?

Abeg

soonest:

You can now. Any 3D ultrasound center will readily determine the sex of your baby

Soonest are you in Lagos? If yes, can you give please me an hospital name, address and phone number of where I can get a 3D scan done? Thanks.

Sharon6:


Senior Lovinam, it's DH o, you need to hear how disappointed he sounded on the phone when I called to tell him. Me, I'm ready to take anyone that God gives to me but then shopping for baby clothes without knowing the sex is so not fun. I don buy unisex clothes tire.

Shopping baby's cloth shudnt b an issue ryt nw. Since u hav shopped unisex den shop for guys wear because baby gals can wear guys wear n u dnt need 2 much cloths nw because u neva can tell how fast ur baby will outgrown dem in size. Afta birth u go 4 more cloths according 2 size n sex.

@missmalachi. You are free to deduce what you like about my person. So if someone doesn't agree with your ideology, It implies that the person is enjoying the beating or a wife beater. Your kettle logic and way of reasoning is appalling.

@favoredgal. Dr Hestia Thomas use to be my classmate and colleague. Do you know the true circumstances leading to her death before listing her as victim of domestic violence? Everyone's situation is different in their homes. That doesn't give me the audacity to give illicit advice and the onus is on the victim to act accordingly. Have I made any statement that supports wife battering or domestic violence? Have I asked her to stay with her abusive husband?

Instead of people giving illicit advice like selling the car and escalating issues etc. Why don't you address the concerns I have raised in my comment which I suppose are the concerns of the lady in question (Support) rather than attacking my person.

If am to reason like those quoting me....am sure some here are enduring domestic violence, they wouldn't do anything about their own situation, but they are ever ready to act as domestic e-warriors for others. smbh.

ahnie:
And they are still sending the hate mails......please n please,dont force me to mention your moniker(s)thank you. Anyways blessedtwins...haw far?

Please mention their monikers! Lets shame them! Bunch of no good hypocritical ass wipes ....

Sharon6:


Soonest are you in Lagos? If yes, can you give please me an hospital name, address and phone number of where I can get a 3D scan done? Thanks.

swethrt also be ready for nt finding out till d day of delivery, cos I witnessed my sister's own her 2nd son never opened leg in scan till birth she went to all d scan she knew but baby didnt show sex. This happens to male children mostly cos dey lazy It was d day she delivered she knew wat she was carrying for 9 mths

ArabianPrince:
@missmalachi. You are free to deduce what you like about my person. So if someone doesn't agree with your ideology, It implies that the person is enjoying the beating or a wife beater. Your kettle logic and way of reasoning is appalling.

@favoredgal. Dr Hestia Thomas use to be my classmate and colleague. Do you know the true circumstances leading to her death before listing her as victim of domestic violence? Everyone's situation is different in their homes. That doesn't give me the audacity to give illicit advice and the onus is on the victim to act accordingly. Have I made any statement that supports wife battering or domestic violence? Have I asked her to stay with her abusive husband?

Instead of people giving illicit advice like selling the car and escalating issues etc. Why don't you address the concerns I have raised in my comment which I suppose are the concerns of the lady in question (Support) rather than attacking my person.

If am to reason like those quoting me....am sure some here are enduring domestic violence, they wouldn't do anything about their own situation, but they are ever ready to act as domestic e-warriors for others. smbh.

but oga why don't u air ur views so we can pick sm points/ideas. who knws, there cld b an other side 2d coin in dis case too

ArabianPrince:

Still no point made..... Did you mobilize a fund for her and people did not contribute?

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ArabianPrince, why dont you give the woman in question your advice. That is what she came on here for, instead of directing your comments to those who did.


@ Blessedtwins...my Aunt in-law always says one thing."Hold on to marriage as long as your life isnt threatened. Bear anything, believe it will get better but once your partner comes close to hurting you so bad that you feel like dying, get out."
Nothing is worth dying for.

ArabianPrince:
@missmalachi. You are free to deduce what you like about my person. So if someone doesn't agree with your ideology, It implies that the person is enjoying the beating or a wife beater. Your kettle logic and way of reasoning is appalling.

@favoredgal. Dr Hestia Thomas use to be my classmate and colleague. Do you know the true circumstances leading to her death before listing her as victim of domestic violence? Everyone's situation is different in their homes. That doesn't give me the audacity to give illicit advice and the onus is on the victim to act accordingly. Have I made any statement that supports wife battering or domestic violence? Have I asked her to stay with her abusive husband?

Instead of people giving illicit advice like selling the car and escalating issues etc. Why don't you address the concerns I have raised in my comment which I suppose are the concerns of the lady in question (Support) rather than attacking my person.

If am to reason like those quoting me....am sure some here are enduring domestic violence, they wouldn't do anything about their own situation, but they are ever ready to act as domestic e-warriors for others. smbh.

It is what it is, pot logic kor, and every person with contrary ideology is illicit and escalating issue.

Then you evaded Titi arowolo that didnt die of domestic violence too, why dont you who knows, tell us what led to Dr. Thomas death?

I would have thought you would make the first donation, you have not and you neither support wife battery nor her remaining in abusive house, why dont you state clearly your support that is her concern since our's is not?

Btw, have you supported the motherless kid's of Dr. Thomas your classmate or your support is restricted to abused mothers?

Good morning beautiful mommas. Beautiful day to us all. Teammates, how are we today. I ve bn feeling so weak lately. Just don't kno y. my last pcv was 35%. I really can't wait for Jan o. lol. God will mk it easy for us. Amen!

@Blessedtwins, i am still very new on this thread and didnt want to post any comment regarding this issue, i had a question yesterday but after i saw the mood i decided to keep my question back but this morning i saw some comments and decided to go back and read your post.........firstly, i and dh paid one guy a visit on monday and the guy said something, that when he was in the state house of Assembly, that he was doing his laundry one morning and his friend came to meet him cos they were supposed to go out together and his wife said "honey please help wash this T shirt for me" and he collected the shirt and washed but his friend was really upset and said how dare you wash your wife's shirt! it is an insult to your office and to you as a man! and he was like its just one shirt she doesnt do this regularly and that made him very embarrassed, days later he went to his friend's house unannounced and met him whistling and washing his wife's pants and he was like oboy what are you doing and the guy said his wife is ill and he noticed the pants has been soaked for a long time so he decided to wash it......just bear it in mind that most people offer the kind of advise they dont practice.

the bible says as much as it lieth within thy power live at peace with all men.....My advise is that if you want your daughter to be healthy and not fall ill again try and create an atmosphere of peace in your home, look for a way and apologize to your husband today, send him a text that you are sorry for what happened, ask for his forgiveness, call his friend to help beg him and let his mind calm down, keep your family and friends out of this, liase with his friend so you can go back home and try as much as you can to be at peace with him and give your self few months you will notice that your daughter will not fall ill again.

there is an under lying reason for his anger, a man cannot just lock the door and start beating you when he knows his daughter is ill, maybe you are taking your father's word more than his own, maybe you dont show regard for him and he feels disrespected, if its you, i bet you will be upset if he listens to his mother's suggestions more than yours......if you know the kind of shit people take from their spouses and still come out to pretend you will be in shock.....some husband's get home at 3am and their wife will open the door and even serve them food and when you see them driving out and smiling you think all is well and such women might even say they dont take shit from men! some even have mentally ill husband's and they manage them in peace cos over time they have learnt what triggers their reactions and avoid them.

my pastor went to the US and one family came to meet him for prayer cos their baby was seriously ill, so my pastor prayed and did all he could but the child didnt recover and my pastor is a man that God uses to do a lot of re-creative miracles but in this case he tried all he knows but nothing happened, later on when he came back to Nigeria they told him the baby finally died and he was wondering why his prayers didnt work, one day he met someone that knows the couple and the guy told him that they divorce after they lost their baby and he asked how? so the guy said they were having issues and were in the process of divorce when their child fell ill and becos they heard my pastor was around they had to come together and bring the baby for prayers....so when there is a problem btw couples it is the baby's health that suffers...

another of my female leader had a quarrel with her husband and by the time she went upstairs, her son was convulsing so she immediately rushed the boy to the hospital and on her way she remembered what my pastor use to say and she immediately called her husband and started apologizing even though she was right and her husband was wrong and as soon as her husband forgave her the child became normal...

another pastor had a child who was sickly and they were always in and out of hospital so one day he went to meet my pastor for prayers and he told him that he should go and live in peace with his wife that it is because of him that their child falls ill always and he did, in our last couple's meeting he testified that if his 5years old daughter knocks your head you will mistake it for an adult's hand and that was the child he assumed was a sickler not knowing the sickness was due to their incessant quarrel

lastly, most pregnant women can testify that when they have a quarrel with their spouses it use to affect the baby in the womb and that is to confirm that a child's health sometimes depend on the atmosphere in the house.

your husband is the best for you, you need to see him as your all, a man will leave father and mother and cleave to his wife, a woman will forget her people and her father's house and so will her king have great delight in her.....if not for the wisdom i applied in my home we would have separated the same month we got married but i dont take people's advise, if there is a quarel i am usually the first to apologize for peace to reign and i pray a lot cos i know the spiritual realm is the causative realm and the physical realm is the effect, to see peace pray for it and God will grant you your desires and you will start experiencing it physically.

Dear, I would advice you not to bother with more scans. I have my reasons. The only scan you should go for at this stage is to know baby's positions etc and it should be recomended by your doctor. Have fun bumping! Ehen! Go easy on the clothes, you can never tell how fast or big your baby will grow. A few body suits will do just fine

Sharon6:


Senior Lovinam, it's DH o, you need to hear how disappointed he sounded on the phone when I called to tell him. Me, I'm ready to take anyone that God gives to me but then shopping for baby clothes without knowing the sex is so not fun. I don buy unisex clothes tire.

ifyjip:
swethrt also be ready for nt finding out till d day of delivery, cos I witnessed my sister's own her 2nd son never opened leg in scan till birth she went to all d scan she knew but baby didnt show sex. This happens to male children mostly cos dey lazy It was d day she delivered she knew wat she was carrying for 9 mths

Interesting......

I thought it was girls that used to hide. They usually say boys are the easiest to see with scan

blessedtwins:
I have reached out to church but they are seeking for mediation which doesn't tally.

this is very important, you need the church to talk to him afterwards go back home and practice love and advance forgiveness and God will restore your baby's health, God honor's the prayers of a couple, and once there is peace the devil will know he is defeated.

dont do what you will end up regretting in few months, even a wild beast can be tamed talk more of a human being......

tchiwinnie:
Good morning beautiful mommas. Beautiful day to us all. Teammates, how are we today. I ve bn feeling so weak lately. Just don't kno y. my last pcv was 35%. I really can't wait for Jan o. lol. God will mk it easy for us. Amen!

Pele team mate... You are almost there

Hope you are taking fruits and vegetables? The Lord is your strength

@mumihaja. What did I just read?? Women have suffered. You might say I'm in my home and want to destroy another, far from it. Do you know what it takes forr one to just die? It doesn't take much, just a fall on the wrong side could lead to death. Your epistle is just so wrong. Each marriage has its own unique challenge but once it comes to violence I'm out!!! I will not die when I've not fulfilled my destiny. Na who go train my kids? Who will go for omugwo?
Her husband should be the one to apologise not the other way round. This lady has complained her about her husband and she actually put him up for sale. Yea that bad!
Please if you cook ur ogas best dish after treating u like a punch bag, abeg don't advice another woman to do so cos she might lose her life in the process.
WOMEN!!

beedam:
Good morning ever beautiful and ever radiant mamas. Today is Threadcuties day. Hope we are all ready to feed our eyes with the wonderful babies pictures that will be displayed tonight.

NB: to those who miss when we agreed on the above,the is what is happening tonight.
We have decided to display the pictures of our beautiful gifts from God between the hours of [b]8pm and 9pm today. [/b]So if you are interested, you can join too.

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favoredgal:


Pele team mate... You are almost there

Hope you are taking fruits and vegetables? The Lord is your strength

Thanks teamie. I must confess I ve nt bn taking d fruits and veggies judiciously, I guess I ll hv to increase my intake of those. Its really not easy taking care of a toddler, dh plus preggy, wt no nanny/house help. Smtyms no strength to go to mkt or cook sef. Bt dh has bn supportive in his way, tho he nt really d cooking type. Its well wt us all o.

My darling, what's up? Pls take things easy and ensure you eat well. I know work can be stressful but you gorra take ya break sometimes. Hugs

tchiwinnie:
Good morning beautiful mommas. Beautiful day to us all. Teammates, how are we today. I ve bn feeling so weak lately. Just don't kno y. my last pcv was 35%. I really can't wait for Jan o. lol. God will mk it easy for us. Amen!

To all of those attacking my person. I have nothing to say to you all. Bring it On.

To those asking me to start donations to the lady in question. Still got nothing to say to you all as well.

To those asking if I have donated to my colleagues family....I have no reply for your likes.

Am already playing my part in the society and still same reason why I visit the section to help those who need it. Don't need your opinions on how I play my role. Just be Thankful, Drink Plenty Water and Mind Your Businesses.

@Blessedtwins. Be careful of all the advices you receive here. Apply wisdom in all your dealings with your husband. Most of them are toxic and coming from rebellious women.

I mean women with recalcitrant attitude. Women who are suffering the same situation as you...buy they remain in their husband's home, do nothing about their situation. Only to vent their anger on anyone who doesn't reason like them...Like am the reason why their home is not settled.

lovinam:
@mumihaja. What did I just read?? Women have suffered. You might say I'm in my home and want to destroy another, far from it. Do you know what it takes forr one to just die? It doesn't take much, just a fall on the wrong side could lead to death. Your epistle is just so wrong. Each marriage has its own unique challenge but once it comes to violence I'm out!!! I will not die when I've not fulfilled my destiny. Na who go train my kids? Who will go for omugwo?
Her husband should be the one to apologise not the other way round. This lady has complained her about her husband and she actually put him up for sale. Yea that bad!
Please if you cook ur ogas best dish after treating u like a punch bag, abeg don't advice another woman to do so cos she might lose her life in the process.
WOMEN!!

Her epistle isn't completely wrong o. I rmbr Beauty's story in this thread last yr, how she was able to tame her husband wt love dat appeared fooliah at tym. I m nt outrightly in support of a woman remaining in an abusive marriage till she dies, Mba. Bt as mumihajia said, wot has she done so far to restore d marriage? Any xter adjustment on her part? If she has really tried and d man still no gree change, then biko she shld carry her bag and her dota to her parent's house and b doing d negotiation from there.

lovinam:
My darling, what's up? Pls take things easy and ensure you eat well. I know work can be stressful but you gorra take ya break sometimes. Hugs

Thanks plenty.

#Team nov where una dey o? Or should team January come and take over this thread

I miss #TeamOct

I suggest people open personal thread about personal problems going forward

Pls let's get back on track this is thread is about PREGNANCY

I understand you perfectly but telling her to go apologise after that dangerous episode Nah!! Even if na tiff she be sef, she no deserve that kain treatment. Someone you chaik finish, marry am finish, kpekus am finish. Na d same woman u de panel beat like nama!! E just no work. Negotiations should be done from a very very far place.

tchiwinnie:
Her epistle isn't completely wrong o. I rmbr Beauty's story in this thread last yr, how she was able to tame her husband wt love dat appeared fooliah at tym. I m nt outrightly in support of a woman remaining in an abusive marriage till she dies, Mba. Bt as mumihajia said, wot has she done so far to restore d marriage? Any xter adjustment on her part? If she has really tried and d man still no gree change, then biko she shld carry her bag and her dota to her parent's house and b doing d negotiation from there.

@lovinam, i dont speak like a woman that watches home movies and reenact what she sees on TV in her home.....you dont turn your marriage to Holly wood marriage that expires the day the man does something wrong, i speak like a woman that knows what the bible says about divorce or separation "God hates divorce" God hates when another married woman encourages another woman to pack her things and leave home cos of something that can be handled amicably, God has given every man and every woman the ability to make her marriage work here on earth cos there is no marriage in heaven, the bible says submit to your husband and satan says be rebellious to your husband and from the bible it was rebellion that made lucifer fall from his place and became satan, rebellion doesnt pay, if something goes wrong in your home, you as the wife apologize to your husband and let peace reign when the atmosphere is calm you can tell him what he did wrong....if her church wants to settle them let her go for the meeting we are not just talking about who is right or wrong, it is only a strong and wise person that apologizes when things go wrong to maintain peace and serenity.

some men can apologize and others dont know how to say sorry but buy gifts when they feel sorry for what they did so you cant insist that her husband must apologize, her baby's health is at stake so she has to do it asap and bring back harmony to her home.

ArabianPrince:
Am shocked at all the parochial advice am reading. I reserve my comment though.
My only worries is when the chips are down ...I do hope all the advisors will be able to provide sustainable support morally,financially and otherwise for the lady in question with her kids.

@Eminya. Please get in touch.

She should stay and die in the marriage and leave her children for who to take care of?

keep being shocked.

[quote author=lovinam post=39936945][/quote]
Can you please stop responding to a lost course let the thread go back to its former baby beauty.

For a man that r@pes his wife only when she is asleep to the point that she never knows until after the act, does she even know who or what is sleeping with her? Damn that looks occultic.

@blessedtwins how are you today? How are ur babies faring?

All yea advising her to stay, i shake my head for you maybe u to click on her profile and read some of her past post. Even my father who i'll forever be his little girl even as old as i am will not raise his hands to beat me not to talk who is suppose to be my husband! Olorun maje! Blessedtwins please think about all this very well and make the best decision for yourself and ur babies. #my2cents #goldorsliverihavenot

Back to other matters #threadcuties on my mind.

brokewaist:


She should stay and die in the marriage and leave her children for who to take care of?

keep being shocked.

Have you asked what she did that made her husband to beat and refused his sick baby from getting medical attention? I am not justifying domestic violence.In fact it is wrong for a man to beat his wife, but there are some women that pushes their husbands to behave like an animal.

Blessedtwins will not and never tell us what she did to her husband. No man, i repeat,no sane man will deny his child medical care unless something terrible had been done to that man.let me tell you,if blessed twin's husband comes here and relate his own part of the story,you all will be amazed.So my dear don't give advice when you haven't hear both sides of the story.

E no get wetin I no go read 4 dis thread! Women don hear am...As if men re doing us a favour by marrying us....mtchewww! Abeg make I pass joor....




Hello my correct mamas,make we no 4get 2nite o.... Na operation!!! #Threadcuties