tammyloreoluwa:


chie chie i haf suffered ooo did i hear u say no class kaptain when me dey here inshort i don fine u so... just hands up where u dey so.. so u be part of those way never pay money to me ba.. ok wait make i spit first..

Ahh, me paid to our able zaynie mama, cos she was up to d task

sexymum1:
Sloppy kiss from Baby Favour

I don book baby flavour ooooo. Oyinbo pepper

zaynie:
GHoJes pls lets die the matter.

And who is that wikkid someborri that liked the post......when fight start now na you go first wear helmet.

For this matured answer, your probation is hereby lifted. On this thread, we might have different opinions on issues, but we remain united. And what pregnancy thread has joined together, let no man put asunder
Once upon a time, Modath and I used to tear our clothes in agbero style on this thread o but now, if I don't call her name in one day, I am unable to sleep see gobe

@all - if I understand Arabianprince well, I guess his emphasis was on support. It's not enough to advise a woman to leave her abusive husband, but there is always the need to go the extra mile to ensure if they have the support system to make it on their own. Else, one will just be jumping from frying pan to fire. There is this story of a single hardworking father living somewhere in Agege who would leave his two young daughters, (both below age 4) with his co-workers and sometimes security men. Apparently, they are all working for the same pure water company and living in the company's accommodation. Long and short of the story is that everyone who was helping this young man take care of his daughters was sexually molesting them and he didn't know. Not until the youngest daughter came to complain to him of pain in her privates and the older daughter spilled the story of what had been happening. His world came crashing down. After reading the story, I pondered over it for a long time and asked myself some pertinent questions - where is the mother in all of this. Probably separated or divorced. And what's her situation and her testimony right now - that she now has her freedom and living life happily maybe? Again I thought to myself, would she be stupid to have stayed for her children's sake? And be the bigger person in the marriage? Is this what some women mean when they say they are staying for the children?

I definitely don't have the answers to all these questions I asked myself, it's almost like choosing between the devil and the deep blue sea hence a woman or a man has to do all in his/her power to make the marriage work and where he/she is not able, she can then strategically make her exit. It's not a decision you take in the spur of the moment or induced to take take especially where you don't have the support system or earning adequate income. The reason why I kept emphasizing on Blessed giving us a shout if she needed any help. I didn't even realize then that it was someone whose story I was familiar with. But after going back to read her earlier posts, I may conclude she has thought about it hard enough and has come to the best decision for herself and her baby.

But pls, we shouldn't be too quick to castigate those who advise others to strive to make their marriages work as much as lieth in them. And when anyone has made a decision to leave, after careful consideration, their decisions should also be respected.

@lovinam - In Blessed's case, while I also don't also agree she should beg her husband based on her previous posts, I wouldn't castigate anyone who advises her to consider that option. What if that is what will make her home peaceful? It's the end that matters, right? There is no one formula in marriage, and what works for A might not necessarily work for B. To each his own.

@ahnie - you have made your decision to stay and I believe you have put some things in place to ensure relative peace in your home, pls do not be bullied into doing anything contrary to what you believe. It's your marriage, your life, your husband and your child. Take the best decision for yourself putting your everything else into consideration. And ask for grace and wisdom from God, and take each day as it comes. In all, pls be happy, make yourself happy. Find something doing that keeps you fulfilled.

In conclusion, I go with that saying from zaynie' aunty - if your life is threatened in any way and you are unable to control it, please look for a safe haven. He who lives to fight and run away, lives to fight another day.

Keji3:
Meet My precious cookie

Kisses from Aunty G. To u darling. See kissing lips. Fyn hair ban.

Chei oya I don rush come. See fine fine babies o. Beedam see my son inlaw as he cute o. Meanwhile thanks for keeping to ur word. I don finish so hand no go pain u. Lol

My Lil pumpkin
#threadcuties

beedam:
Kimoni, I sight you. Hope your phone is fully charged?

Looool, sorry I was busy typing one yeye epistle like that.

My eyes don clear now sha, lovely babies everywhere. Thumbs up to you Beedam for this wonderful idea

favoredgal:
O what beautiful babies a million kisses to each of you

You will fulfill purpose, your life and destiny will not be cut short

You will bring joy to your parent, your peers and God almighty

You will marry good husband and wives and give birth to responsible children

Your future is secured

Where they are calling riffraffs, wayward children, armed robbers, prostitutes, wife beaters, etc you will not be found

Y'all are covered with the blood of Jesus

Amen and Amen IJN

ginababy:

Kisses from Aunty G. To u darling. See kissing lips. Fyn hair ban.

Thanks Aunty G (((((hugs))))))

beedam:


LBK always on point . Where is my baby's recent photo

That boy doesn't stay still for more than a few seconds so most of our pictures are MOTION.. & i don't want to put up sleeping pictures..

Next week i promise to get updated pix here...

mytestimony:
Chei oya I don rush come. See fine fine babies o. Beedam see my son inlaw as he cute o. Meanwhile thanks for keeping to ur word. I don finish so hand no go pain u. Lol

I don plan to call you till you have low battery sef.
So you still do am. You and oga dey vex oooo.

Oya,bring out my wife now! now!! now!!!

modath:




Senior boy, i see you... GOD will take you to places far & beyond your parents' dreams & aspiration.....Blessed you will always be..







This LBK pix is old, took it when he was two months...

#threadcuties

Old or new, LBK is a cutie. God bless him

beedam:


I don book baby flavour ooooo. Oyinbo pepper

well baby favour will tink about it

Bebe zino

Keji3:
Meet My precious cookie

Precious cookie indeed, lovely lips

Choiii see cuties oooooo,Kant wait anymore to pop mine out....God bless u all

#teamAPRIL4ease#

beedam:
J

Finest,can my baby see you in camera?

Lol pick the time and place and we can start negotiations

Beryl15:
My current favorite picture
#threadcuties

Ewoooo ur baby girl is a PRETTY girl

sheweezy:
My Lil pumpkin
#threadcuties

See my baby. I missed your naming ceremony. Big boy.

beedam:


I don book baby flavour ooooo. Oyinbo pepper

What!!! I thought we had something going already

sexymum1:
Sloppy kiss from Baby Favour

Another Oyinbo baby! favour is FINE

beedam:


I don plan to call you till you have low battery sef.
So you still do am. You and oga dey vex oooo.

Oya,bring out my wife now! now!! now!!!

Beedam will not kee me o

See queshion, make she no do ni?

#Threadcuties let roll it on yessssssssssssssss ooooooooooooo@Beryl15,modath,Gaily04,beedam,sexymum1, keji3,sheweezy.......still counting handson and beautiful cuties

Kimoni:


Looool, sorry I was busy typing one yeye epistle like that.

My eyes don clear now sha, lovely babies everywhere. Thumbs up to you Beedam for this wonderful idea

I saw the epistle. It's all for sake of peace jare.

Hello everyone, i hope i'm not derailing. I got a major scare today o. Was lying down peacefully when i felt this rush of blood and before i got to the bathroom, i already stained myself. Bright red blood was flowing down my legs. It was so so scary. Dh was at work, no one at home. Had to walk slowly to the hospital since its closeby and i was given progesterone starter shot immediately. Doc told me to do a scan and he said there was a ruptured cyst or sth. I nor remember the many grammer again.
I've been placed on bed rest for one week. But i'm just wondering if there is anything i could have done to cause the bleeding. I have been resting o. Not stressing myself. Anyone had similar experience? Make una torchlight my matter small abeg. I really don't want to spoil the mood but I'm worried

Keji3:
Meet My precious cookie

Choco choco choco milo! Cookie is FINE

beedam:


I don plan to call you till you have low battery sef.
So you still do am. You and oga dey vex oooo.

Oya,bring out my wife now! now!! now!!!

If to say u de jos u go understand

My princess

beedam:


See my baby. I missed your naming ceremony. Big boy.

Senior beedam, yelso and e haff big now
God bless and keep them all.

Beryl15:

What!!! I thought we had something going already

Busted

Beryl15:

What!!! I thought we had something going already

Busted

Hi kimoni! I feel you!
Zaynie wia u de? Abeg go gate de collect fee o. See all the people veiwiing the thread!

Cute cute over cute babies!