Bro is best you discuss it with a reliable colleague of yours first, then give it some time but if it persist I would advise you report her cos if anything should go wrong, they will say you rape her oooooo., you know naija.

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Mr teacher, start teaching her reproduction in biology

Don't report her to anyone you'll just get her into trouble with her parents and then she'll hate you.

Be a responsible adult and talk to her and also don't stay alone in a room with her.
OP God is watching o

Some people sha... How on earth will I quit my job or reporting an innocent bae because she is in love with me Its crazy man! Maybe u don't want d gal to confirm that ure impotent

obum88:


That's what you get from Southwest half baked graduates

u r an idiot. can u highlight just a sentence that is wrong please. the story is well constructed devoid of any iota of error. nonsense!

obum88:


That's what you get from Southwest half baked graduates

CAN YOU SPEAK BETTER THAN HE?

kazolad:
Hello nairalanders, I am a graduate but I am yet to be mobilized for service. In order not to be idle, I took up a teaching job in one of the private secondary schools in my area.

There is a girl in my class who has being acting somehow since my first day in the school. I found out that she always gives me lustful facial expression in the class. Sometimes, she will come to my office and asked me to teach her some topics in physics which i will explain to her. This continued until last week when i received a call from her ( i don't know how she got my number) and told me she is in love with me. I was shocked because i didn't expect to hear that from her. I told her from that point that it can never be possible but since then, she has being disturbing me with calls and messages. Should i report her to the management or quit the job?

That's a tip of the iceberg compared to what u'll see in nysc esp in d public sch u'll be immobilized to.

End Time!

kazolad:
Hello nairalanders, I am a graduate but I am yet to be mobilized for service. In order not to be idle, I took up a teaching job in one of the private secondary schools in my area.

There is a girl in my class who has being acting somehow since my first day in the school. I found out that she always gives me lustful facial expression in the class. Sometimes, she will come to my office and asked me to teach her some topics in physics which i will explain to her. This continued until last week when i received a call from her ( i don't know how she got my number) and told me she is in love with me. I was shocked because i didn't expect to hear that from her. I told her from that point that it can never be possible but since then, she has being disturbing me with calls and messages. Should i report her to the management or quit the job?

Tell her that if she falls in love with physics, you'll be all hers. Give her a condition; that you'll sleep with her only if she can score @least 95% in physics. After that, make sure no student would be able to score up to 95% in physics. It will solve your problem and make her work harder. #iamspeakingfromexperience.

Afeezoladapo:
OP. just talk senses to her head & DAT will settle everything. She's a small girl.
u don't need to report her or leave d sch.

This is the best approach.

ademo1:

u r an idiot. can u highlight just a sentence that is wrong please. the story is well constructed devoid of any iota of error. nonsense!

You are minding the ignoramus. Professor of English Language at the university of Biafra.

Temysteve:
so he shld die in silence?

are u trying to tell me a graduate doesn't know how to handle a sec skul girl? if he lyk make he die in silence or in noise...

Thank God for your moral soundness,use the opportunity to teach her moral doctrines ...You are a teacher & her professional guardian hence it would amount to total betrayal of trust and confidence to mess up with her on the platform of lust & carnal malady ..People like you are needed in our nation to lift up societal values . Indeed you are going places in life. God bless u

Listen, this is not about choice. This is about the right thing to do, and about the law.
1. It is against the law to have sex with a minor
2. She is your student, so, for that fact, even if she is over 18, it is against the law, and it is morally bad. The courts will interpret it as undue influence, duress. You are more experienced, and have an advatage over her.
3. I will recommed you just block her number. She will surely call with another number. Once you hear her voice, cut off, and block the new number. She will certainly get tired.
4. If you are concerned about her future, seek to talk to the parents. If she is from a good home and her parents are good, that will be a good idea. But note that that is tricky, as some parents will blame you, or be too tough on the girl and make her do worse things.
5. If there is a counsellor, or parental figure teacher (a motherlike or fatherlike staff) in your school that is well respected by students, that might be your best bet. Such a person will be able to talk sense into her, without demonising her, or putting her up for ridicle.

Good luck with your decision. But whatever happens, dont give in to her

Love her back gentle und jeje

Thats a kokolet in need of the KOKO. Bro, give her the KOKO but no make am turn mamalet o

If I were you, I would invite her to my apartment and have a mature conversation with her. Try to make her see reasons why she shouldn't engage in such activity with you. Who knows you might save her a lifetime of trouble and regrets!

Give me her number,i will warn her for you....

op b prepared, cos u will face more of this during your service year, writing from experience

I was also victim of such ....dat is hw dis female student kept coming 2 my class every break time...I did undastand her body language but I prretended because I hv to respect myself and d school lay down rules..until one day I was trecking home frm skool dis girl and her friend follow me witout my knowldedge wen I was lyk approaching my house..I suddenly turn back andi saw dis girl and her friend, I ask her where to, she boldy said she want to follow me home....na so i look around carry cane flog her wit her friend na so dem run go bak....but she still no giveup.... I no try any nonsense wit her......my advise No do No do....

kazolad:
Hello nairalanders, I am a graduate but I am yet to be mobilized for service. In order not to be idle, I took up a teaching job in one of the private secondary schools in my area.

There is a girl in my class who has[size=18pt] being [/size]acting somehow since my first day in the school. I found out that she always gives me lustful facial expression in the class. Sometimes, she will come to my office and asked me to teach her some topics in physics which i will explain to her. This continued until last week when i received a call from her ( i don't know how she got my number) and told me she is in love with me. I was shocked because i didn't expect to hear that from her. I told her from that point that it can never be possible but since then, she has [size=18pt]being [/size]disturbing me with calls and messages. Should i report her to the management or quit the job?

[size=18pt]OP, where did you study?
Are you a graduate of a public secondary school, because your bastardization of English grammar is terrible even for a secondary school student?
How were you employed?
By re-tarded employers?
PLEASE, STOP DISGRACING YOURSELF AND GO BACK TO A GOOD SECONDARY SCHOOL.[/size]

Young man, it's a real dilemma, do not report her yet, she is young and naive, she may be expressing her sincere feeling. Try and talk reason to her in a gentle way, and don't threaten her, that may backfire. If you report her too, it may bounce back in a way you never imagine. If talking sense into her fails, the best option is consider quitting the job, after all it's a temporary one not a permanent job. This will save not only you but also the girl from serious embarrassment which may affect your career and her education. Reporting her will do serious harm to both of you. No one will believe you are telling whole truth. Finally pray about it seriously. I repeat, don't report her yet, you may meet in future. May God help you.

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jamst2:
Wow! Same thing happen to me in one secondary school.i noticed when am in this girl class,she always stare at me very disturbingly that i will try to avoid eye contact with her.so,one day she ask where i am leaving & i asked her why she wants to come to my house,did you know her response to me(which shock me to the bone marrow) was,uncle; i want to come & do biology with you(coded sex).But i told her am not her biology teacher,she said & what

I thought that was just a play/joke untill one friday b4 closing hour,i went to their class to give them english language assisgnment.after i finished writing their work,i promise that i would reward the person wit the highest mark.then,this girl said; i should give her 'a baby' as a reward if she got the highest mark.i was like in my mind 'a baby',her female classmates also support her too.but what surprised me most was when one of the female teachers came to the classroom & heard about this issue,she reply with...uncle; if she want 'a baby',give her 'a baby'
When i heard this i nearly faint...and this girl in question is the head girl.

... that got me rotflmao

Pls let me have the name of the girl and her phone number. I need to preach to her for the salvation of her soul

Immediately I saw the topic,I was vexed...report her to the school authority for what? Who"s supposed to be the more mature one between the both of u? U already told her nothing can be possible b/w the both of u...Fine and thank u for that. There's not much left for u to do. Don't indulge her and she'll stay on her own...Get strict with her if u have to...but do not for any reason allow her wrongly think u're interested in her.

She's young and naive..there's nothing to be reporting to the school authority... and as for quitting ur job,I'll pretend I didn't see that.

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The solution here isn't like solving Calculus.

No need to report her to anybody.

Simply tell her off in a blunt or subtle manner and continue your role as a teacher.

Sleeping with her is like a dog eating the bone entrusted in it's care.

And you will lose your respect with her.

MrsPhyno:
Don't report her to anyone you'll just get her into trouble with her parents and then she'll hate you.

Be a responsible adult and talk to her and also don't stay alone in a room with her.
OP God is watching o

Many hormonal teens are not in full control of their impulses and emotions so it is important to guide them through this phase so they go on and become well-adjusted adults living meanigful lives. By the same token, you can easily destroy her self-confidence and totally compromise her future without knowing it by not handling it sensitively.

So, and yes, and the best way to talk to her is by making positive observations before and after asking her to not project her romantic infatuations on you ... eg,

"Laide, you are one of the most conscientious students here and you are helping me develop my career by challenging me to help you with your physics assignments. It is motivating me to become a better Teacher. I am grateful you are in my class."

"I think you have a tremendous future if you continue applying that thirst for knowledge, heaven knows Nigeria needs many bright female role models in future and yours is very bright indeed, I can see"

"It would be shame to jeopardize all of that for any romantic involvement between us even though I am honored by your affections but we both know you need to concentrate more on your studies and how I can help you achieve your goals."

"Let us set a target to make sure you get that A in Physics. Oya, let's roll our sleeves. Are you with me? No wahala."


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My brother. This is private school with a main motive of making profit. Telling the school authority sounds like in matured and incomplete decision.. My advice is for you to act and stand mature. Let your decision sounds louder than ur voice to her.

She is just being infatuated, help her understand that it's a normal feeling she will out grow.

I once felt that way about my fine arts teacher, and she was truly a masterpiece , though I didn't have the morale to approach her in that regard, (then, Dem no born you well )