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Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by joanana(f): 10:59am On Nov 19, 2015 |
Good evening everyone, I am officially new to BellaNaija. I love this and this article " Olajumoke Awosemo: When Sex Walks Away From Your Matrimonial Bedroom" /touched me and the comments were wow. No need to hide, in my marriage, I am experiencing such now. I know sex before marriage is bad, but while I was dating my wife, we collaboed some times and she was the one asking for it and reluctantly I give in as I love her so much. Okay we got married and have kids and its 7 years now, from the 3rd year, its been a lot of ‘black out’, she doesn’t fancy sex. I know we are busy and we have to work to keep two kids going but I feel we can’t forget we married each other. I have spoken to her several times on this topic, but no changes. I cheated once, in the course of the marriage, how it happened was still a mystery. I felt the attention I lacked at home but I know I don’t love that woman. During the sex, I felt so bad as I know I was not suppose to do it. I retraced my steps and from the 4th year I have kept on and remained faithful. But I am so frustrated as our sex life hasn’t improved. Social life also dead. I felt I was just a means to an end, just to achieve the marriage status for wifey. I have spoken to her on this topic, no improvement. Hence I have ignored it as it always leads to a quarrel. So a young man is living like an old man and I am determined not to cheat again after I did it once, knowing I was starved of affection. What do I do? Source: http://www.bellanaija.com/2015/11/18/aunty-bella-mr-sex-starved-marriage/ |
Re: Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by chocolateme(f): 11:01am On Nov 19, 2015 |
Go for marriage counseling and start afresh. Google on tips to revive a dying marriage. Change some of your normal and usual approaches towards intimacy. |
Re: Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by RexKexMilann: 11:06am On Nov 19, 2015 |
He can put up with it & Continue cheating OR He can file For Divorce. The choice is His'. 1 Like |
Re: Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by cold(m): 11:10am On Nov 19, 2015 |
Once a lady has lost her libido that's it. It's gone for good. You're chasing a lost cause. Try other alternatives or suffer in silence |
Re: Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by Nobody: 11:14am On Nov 19, 2015 |
Lo! i'd Suggest You keep it cool.. Everything shouldn't revolve around "SEX"... Atleast the cuddles And Hugs should be Enough... |
Re: Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by Nobody: 11:20am On Nov 19, 2015 |
Estharfabian:Did you say enough? she has to find her mojo for the sake of her marriage (if she still values it) and her man. We're talking of married couples, young ones for that matter. Sex is as important to the marriage as anything else. let's not act the saint here 2 Likes |
Re: Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by Edehsman(m): 11:23am On Nov 19, 2015 |
ur wife is having maleria.and lacks sexual drive. |
Re: Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by Nobody: 1:36pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
joanana: Hello Jo, I'm out of work for now and part my not being idle routine is to listen to some messages, so I was trying to get some of TD Jakes and I got ur thread via google. Do you still have his messages? |
Re: Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by joanana(f): 2:18pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Eyekandi: Yes I do. I will send the link to you. |
Re: Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by joanana(f): 2:21pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Eyekandi: Yes I do. I will send the link to you. https://www.nairaland.com/1353840/bishop-t-d-jakes-7steps Use this link. If you need more I will send it to you |
Re: Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by lahit14(m): 2:29pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Estharfabian: If u had a cock and in your 30's or 40's u wouldn't be saying dis so dear I don't really blame u 1 Like |
Re: Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by cruzita(f): 2:32pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
chai I feel for u bro.why don't u guys consult a counsellor.they might help.my opinion |
Re: Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by BuddhaPalm(m): 2:37pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
cold: She hasn't lost her libido. She's no longer attracted to him. 1 Like |
Re: Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by Ray360: 2:42pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
hmm |
Re: Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by lahit14(m): 2:54pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Hmmm!!! U guies really need help man! Just few years of marriage, u sure she faithful? Why da hell would she deprive you of ur conjugals. Damn! N ur sayn u don't wana cheat? Ur a good loving husband. U hav to tell som1, seein a therapist might not be so bad, her mothr could help too. Hypothetically if I'm profering this as an advice, whc technically am not but if I were in ur shoes, thr'll be no peace in dat haus, so becaus its causing quarrel u'v decided to stop askn her for it, step up man, she's ur wife. Am not sayin turn ur wife to ur slave but she should undrstand dats exactly wht she's turnin u into. Life indeed a mistery! Men dat sleep arround thr wives would be crying evryday beging dem for sex see bettr man now wife de Bleep up. |
Re: Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by Nobody: 3:36pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
joanana: Thanks dear, I can't still seem to access it, could I get it directly from you? |
Re: Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by Nobody: 3:51pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Stories that touch the Liver. |
Re: Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by obontami: 10:39am On Nov 26, 2016 |
Buy her spanish fly. She will literally break your dick into two. |
Re: Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by NET1(m): 11:47pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
sorry to announce it to you, but your wife is CHEATING ON YOU. .NET |
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