MrsPhyno:

lol, touche. We don't have a culture in particular sha, but we have a general Nigerian culture. At least, I know of someone that got water poured on them while "PDAing'.

NewSheriff:
Shut the fvck up and get out of my sight.

Who wants to fight you? I don't fight pússy ass niggs.

NewSheriff:
Good thing you haven't derailed this thread with your sillý chit-chats. Keep it up.

Most of the times, the lovers displaying affection don't even hear the comments or notice the eyes (if any). People don't really care these days.

Michellla:

lmao .maybe if its dark or something i could,but not broad day light unless...

Lol...the only time people like you will kiss freely without being afraid of stares is your wedding.

Michellla:
its easier said than done jare.

naijaboiy:

Water ke?

NewSheriff:
Shut the fvck up and get out of my sight.

Who wants to fight you? I don't fight pússy ass niggs.

MrsPhyno:

lol, touche. We don't have a culture in particular sha, but we have a general Nigerian culture. At least, I know of someone that got water poured on them while "PDAing'.

MrsPhyno:

See jolllyjoy knows too

old women no dey play wit does kain tins, and if they know ur parents, na die u take die so

MrsPhyno:

See jolllyjoy knows too

old women no dey play wit does kain tins, and if they know ur parents, na die u take die so

I know those old women don't joke sha.

Even if you hold a girl's hand and pass them na problem. They will call the girl all sorts of names.

naijaboiy:

Lol...the only time people like you will kiss freely without being afraid of stares is your wedding.

STFUareyouGod:

Michellla:

so they say.the only time i see people kissing now is in school,but deff not outside school.lets say market place for one would love to see you try that

Nubian113:


Welcome back sheriff

YourMain:


Ehm lol I guess hugs and kisses are okay. But honestly I don't want to be seeing your tongues in public. It's disgusting.

We can all be ladies in the street but freaks in the bed...

Michellla:

nah i could do it at night. Students care less these days

Aaah! If it's in school students don't care.

I've seen so much of PDA here,whether day or night.

NewSheriff:
If you still have any modicum of purity left in your heart, you'll know I'm only rebuking you for your own good.

Bye, till next time.

NewSheriff:
In school kwa? I see people kiss in traffic almost everyday. I see people kiss in eateries. I have a close female friend that doesn't mind kissing her boyfriend anywhere, anytime and she hasn't told me of any embarrassing experience.

Lol market place? Still no biggie. I'll only make sure them oldies aren't much there.

NewSheriff:
I haven't been to those countries you mentioned. My previous comment was based on what I learnt from Muslim friends here in Nigeria (though majority of them don't follow it). I just thought it'll be totally enforced in a 'Muslim country'.

ipledge10:
my main

NewSheriff:
Thanks dimples.

Decker:
Nigerians are too religious. Our basic ideas of how we are to act in public is majorly formed as a result of our religious and cultural incinations and belief systems. So we tend to believe in a certain amount of decency in our everyday life and we don't see this expected level of decency projected through public display of affection.

Because of this, most Nigerians tend to have this mentality of perceiving PDAs as being socially and morally wrong. Not everyone has this mentality though.

All this starts from the home, I think. 90% of Nigerian homes have one religious rooting or the other. Right from childhood the average Nigerian child is told that kissing or smooching a girl in public is wrong, and the child is forced to believe this, and as he grows, he breeds this idea.

And even when he is of age and has a mind of his own, because of his childhood upbringing and early association of PDAs as being wrong, displaying affection publicly or being intimate in public, still feels somewhat odd to him.

But few Nigerians are able to break off from this silly idea. Me for one, I don't see anything wrong with PDAs.

STFUareyouGod:
stop being obsessed with me. Don't you get it, I'm STRAIGHT!

naijaboiy:

Aaah! If it's in school students don't care.

I've seen so much of PDA here,whether day or night.

STFUareyouGod:
when I'm done posting your private msgs here, you'll regret ever picking fight with me

NewSheriff:
Dafuq! Poured water? that's crazy!

Was it in front of someone's compound? In the village?

MrsPhyno:

Decker with an extremely rational explanation as usual. Thank you.

But the thing is like, I think this surpasses religion. After all the people who are "afraid" to kiss or whatever in public still do wayyyy worse behind closed doors, or in clubs or whatever. So is it more of shame factor? Cause they certainly aren't afraid of God, cause God hypothetical doesn't care whether u kiss on Third Mainland Bridge or in your bedroom.... Essentially, I doubt they are guided by morals lol. Just a cultural thing, maybe?

Michellla:

lol why the precaution since you got so much confidence You wouldnt dare