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Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 9:09pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Contrast marriage by unconsigned parents all in the name of money. I couldnt finished the reading bt both parents are d cause |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Daily12: 9:09pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Omotayor123: I'm not wicked and I'm not heartless it's just the way I feel 3 Likes |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 9:13pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
na wa o ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I pity ur wife I av ntin to say bt Just close ur eyes nd divorce wats is her dad cut expenses una no dey work ni ![]() Leave d babe Evil of d highest oda!!!!!!! |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Omotayor123(f): 9:14pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Daily12:Then change how you feel ASAP.... Anytime you feel like inflicting pain on her... 1. Remember God's commandment that says you should love, cherish and respect your wife. 2. Remember the Good memories you have shared together and 3.Remember the things she have done to make you happy. You don't need a Babalawo. The ball is in your court! |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Daily12: 9:19pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
halfrica: It's not that easy. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Daily12: 9:20pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Omotayor123: Ok thank you |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 9:22pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Daily12: Do it slowly nd steadily It works dats ow m handling mine B calm ok nd do it |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 9:27pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Daily12: Listen to me, I can help you, and before I can help you, I want you to trust me. Come on, you can trust me. Be honest about any question I ask you. That's the only way I would be able to help you. You are anonymous. No one is going to know your true identity, so you have nothing to fear. You said you smiled when you saw other women in pain. Why do you smile? Most times, people do not consciously know that they have a certain attraction to "something" until that desire or attraction is triggered. That's why I am asking you what actually triggered it. Try to remember. You know what? I don't believe all this sexual attraction to your wife being hurt started with your wife. But if you say it did, then when? When was the first time you felt this way? Do you have a compulsion to have sex with her as you inflict pain on her? Does the pleasure you derive from seeing her in pain, surpass the one you derive when having sex with her or imagining having sex with her. What's her reaction to all this. Does she plead with you to stop? Does her pleading with you to stop intensify the gratification you derive? 9 Likes |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Seculent: 9:36pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Cc. Lalasticlala, please move this to family section for more help. 1 Like |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 9:48pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
See, you didn't earn her love, you didn't earn this wife it just came to you. So you feel less a man and causing her pain makes you feel in charge, seeing her vulnerable excites you. You are feeling less a man because you have what u didn't earn and hurting her makes u feel manly. What you need is therapy, first confess to her or show her this post then both of you should start marriage counseling. Also put it in prayer. 2 Likes |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 9:54pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Oga, follow my advice. Go admit yourself in a psychiatrist home. You need a rehab |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by damola1: 9:58pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
You have a personal problem. Deal with it. Unfortunately you are also weak, since your parents determine your association. So, can you really deal with self? when others control self? |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 9:58pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Good thing you are beginning to love her and better you're seeking help. Too bad I can't help you but I'm sure you can help yourself. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by dacovajnr: 10:00pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
That's the problem with Rich parents..dem no want make poor man tap from their Riches...blame it on your parents #ForcedLove ![]() |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 10:01pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
You don't have any problem. Did she tell you she is not enjoying it. Or you are just assuming. She might even think you are not meeting up. I doubt if she doesn't like it. Most women like it that way. Aggressive Sex with more pain. That's why they say harder harder. And that is the reason she is staying and overlooking the other hurtful things you do. Keep it Up. Good for you two. x.x.x™ 2 Likes |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by dacovajnr: 10:01pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
That's the problem with Rich Folks ..dem no want make poor man tap from their Riches...blame it on your parents #ForcedLove ![]() |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by SeverusSnape(m): 10:01pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Pucaxo:Okay. I like your signature. "Heaven I need a hug" - R. Kelly (one of my favorite) ![]() @topic, OP you're a sadist. You engage in sadism, You need help. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by refiner(f): 10:01pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
hnmmm exactly dexam wif me.I do feel happy,,,I mean Vewi happy seeing anyone close to my hrt get hurt or angry.it gives some kind of joy.......is dis normal plz. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by jacy67(f): 10:03pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
It's a good thing you know what your problem is and really need a way out. There's a saying that when you kick a dog, one day, it will bite you. Talk to your wife, apologize to her that you don't mean to hurt her. From all what you've said, she loves you only you don't seem to realize that. Then go for marriage counseling, pray and work on yourself. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 10:04pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
thy dey follow u 4rm village ooo |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 10:06pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Na only God know where we wan start from to help you! Seriously ![]() Daily12: 1 Like |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by niceeric(m): 10:06pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Devil suppose come learn work for your side,OP |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by jacy67(f): 10:06pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
It's a good thing you know what your problem is and really need a way out. There's a saying that when you kick a dog, one day, it will bite you. Talk to your wife, apologize to her that you don't mean to hurt her. From all what you've said, she loves you only you don't seem to realize that. Then go for marriage counseling, pray and work on yourself. If you don't resolve this now, your wife will get used to your criticism and might show you the other side of her. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by localblood(m): 10:06pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Strahovski: You no help at all! Haba just advice,you dey type note full like say na CRS class you dey. Your solution don pass the guy problem self ![]() 1 Like |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by canalily(m): 10:08pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
That means u ar radio without battery or Tv without NEPA since the agony of ur wife turns u on ![]() |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by HaneefahRN(f): 10:08pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Daily12:It's official, u are a sadist. Since u've recognized ur problem and I blive ready to change, u're already on a good track. See a psychologist or better still a psychiatrist. NB: Pls let that poor woman go since it's obvious u don't love her, she is still young and wldd meet someone worthy of her not someone who feels pleasure from seeing her hurt and miserable. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 10:09pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Refiner. Yours is different. You are more like a Sadist. Do you also like and enjoy aggressive sex with excessive pain?. x.x.x™ 1 Like |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by trendphemmy(m): 10:11pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
sexual sadism |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by sexymoma(f): 10:11pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Daily12:do you know what I sensed... Your parent took away your youthful pleasure from you.. Like this is the time your energy for fun goes high Buh it seems cos of some hindrances, you couldn't explore... I guess you're 25 or 26 now shey... I bet you when you get to that stage... Like 29 30 you gonna regret every bit of your actions cos then your maturity would have been more than now... Me I bliv you aren't sick or u need a therapist... At this your age unmarried pple like you hurts single ladies too outside... It like a stage.. You'll be pass through it I Jos pray you won't hurt her to the extend of her laying curses on you... Nd hey don't think she doesn't know... She knows... 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Pucaxo(m): 10:13pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
SeverusSnape:Yea, was listening to it and I could really relate to that line ![]() ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by flokii: 10:14pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
waiting for the wife's version bfor I comment.. family matters get as e be 1 Like |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Missbizy(f): 10:16pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Both of you sud see a psychologist or marriage counsellor. |
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