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Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by menix(m): 10:16pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Uwa Mmebi Husband.. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by profmallory(m): 10:18pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Here is my Opinion on this issue. A lot of people are turned on by pain, either pain to themselves or pain inflicted on others. In fact i know for sure that my wife gets turned on when ever I am angry, why?, i probably will never know. I still cant comprehend it till today. I would like to think its the feeling of been powerful enough to make another human weep s in your case that turns you on, and perhaps in my wife the feeling of been dominated by another human. One thing is that we are turned on sexually individually by weird things. Now in your case I think its wrong deriving any form of joy hurting someone. Your wife might like the whole play out and she might not, I suggest you ask if she hs noticed the trend and what her opinion is. If you want to change I suggest you turn to Christ, cause I believe at some point your desire to hurt your wife might turn into physical violence. I believe when you at at peace within you will make your wife happier and inturn your marriage would be a home of laughter and not sadness and crying. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Confessng: 10:19pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Never underestimate the power of confession Tell her exactly what it is , or let her read this post, let her understand that you are tired of it and want to change , then both of u agree on a trigger word , so when u are hurting her she just says it to remind you that you are hurting her , the trigger word can be as simple as page saying PAIN or as unique as she saying baby peaches and cream , just something to help you stop that behavior at that point , she obviously loves you else she would have told her folks how badly you are treating her , it's time to man up and face the fact that real men treat women right Am happy for you though cos the first step really is knowing there is a problem and seeking help Kudos to you for that Daily12: 1 Like |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by dapsonlou(m): 10:20pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
The Problem you are having is Maturity, you have someone who you can mistreat with no repercussions, I suspect one of your Parent treated you that way growing up. Change Now so you and you Wife can grow Old together, young love is the best. If not by the time your wife is 25 all the things she lack from you she shall surely get it from another man. No one is a fool forever, she will only take it if her family is poor and yourself is rich, either way she will find comfort in another man. Every woman wants to be loved, be the one who give it to your Wife not Bolaji from Secondary school 1 Like |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by austino3050(m): 10:20pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
this one na zee world |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by onyowo(f): 10:20pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
KimBerlyie:. U r sooooo on point..u spoke my mind |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by obaao(m): 10:22pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Just sent a mail to you. Can we talk privately? You can inbox me on showerland@gmail.com |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by sniper77(m): 10:22pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
I will advise you see a shrink. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by refiner(f): 10:22pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
StiffDick: sadist?nt dat I Dnt lik seeing people happy oo,,,,I Lov makin people more happier nd I deriv joy in giving Buh d problm dere is dat I lov doin finx dat I knw Vewi well dat Wil annoy or hurt someone Vewi close to me like my boo.anytime I see him angry nd insulting me I Lov smilin |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 10:23pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
I think I can kinda relate and I very much empathise with you, your tone is quite sincere and it'll be a shame to lose such a nice girl because you're unable to find another outlet for your aggression. First, even though this may sound counter intuitive, you need to let her know that you're not ignorant of the pain you're causing her; let her know it's because you derive some pleasure from it which you now realize is perverse in nature. Your girl loves you that's probably why she's still with you or else regardless of what her dad says she'ld have been off a long while ago, the result of your owning up to her might be that she stops validating your perversion or she actually starts buying into it, either way you come out a better person. You should also look for an outlet for pent up aggression, I will advise you to spend less time in the house, go and do something outside, burn out most of that youthful energy before returning to the loving embrace of your wife...I know you're young and as a man myself, I can't imagine being tied down to a girl at 25, but it is what it is, you have a head start over most of us, make the best use of it. All the best dude, don't lose that chick, you'll appreciate her even more as you grow older. 2 Likes |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 10:23pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Estharfabian:A cold heineken 4 yhu... |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by repogirl(f): 10:26pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
The OP needs serious HEP ![]() The first step is knowing you need help sha and a willingness to change which you already have... See a shrink, that's the best advice I can give you. 1 Like |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by BetaSexLife: 10:26pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
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Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Pidggin(f): 10:26pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Why not seek for solution from a psychiatric doctor? You have mental health issues that can be addressed if you do the needful. 1 Like |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 10:27pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
bros no vex ooo. you they crazy like seriously, my father have such opportunity and pass to me not experience this bad good country problem na woman go b problem...... no way look for school and learn how to treat a WOMAN |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 10:27pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Refiner? Do you love it and smile when he Diicks you aggressively too with much pain like the Op apart from the anger and insult? x.x.x™ |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by FISAYOADEX(m): 10:29pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Op, the condition you are suffering from is called SADOMASOCHISM in psychiatry. It is a type of paraphilia. And like you rightly wrote, you need urgent help. Kindly find your way to a mental health clinic to consult a psychiatrist and a psychologist. In case you need more clarification, you can let me know. God bless you. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Banter1(m): 10:29pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Daily12:story |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 10:29pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
KashyBaby:Isn't it Obvious he knows that already? He needs advice and not confirmation of what he just admitted.... |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by refiner(f): 10:31pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
StiffDick: sorry luv,,,,never had sex before.so I wuldnt knw |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 10:31pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by cynhamscakes(f): 10:32pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
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Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Eddyspicy(m): 10:32pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Your actions are SADISTIC and you are a SADIST! It's hard for me to comment on issues but this your story really touches me. I can't even stand it when my g.f feels pains or cry not 2 talk of my WIFE! Try and visit ur village herbalist for celestial deliverance with correct koboko beating. Thank me next year. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by harristo(m): 10:34pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Daily12: If what you said here is true, then I suspect that woman must be an ogbanje. She must be the one responsible for all this. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by AlPeter: 10:35pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Strahovski: Daily12, dude this is the best answer you can get...... Take everything in this advise it will help. And I think you should let her really know you've fallen in love with her..... |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 10:36pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
you said you know you need help, yet u come to Nairaland. sorry there are no shrinks on here. will be better if you check yourself into a facility and get treatment otherwise, one day you will realise that you have killed your wife. see a psychologist or a psychiatrist and get help. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 10:36pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Refiner. Good for you if you have never had sex. Bet you will like it aggressive with excessive pains based on your preference when you start Swindling Diicks. Good luck with your virginity. Anything else you can message me. x.x.x™ |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by zinachidi(m): 10:36pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Estharfabian:smh, so is this the advice u have to offer him? |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by ccollins(m): 10:37pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
KashyBaby:sweetheart, no calls, no emails,, you just snub since makes me feel tired.. my phone can't use whatapp |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 10:39pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
zinachidi:His condition has no Cure... ![]() He needs the devil himself... ![]() |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 10:41pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
If this were to be US or UK, I recommend u see a shrink but here in Nigeria, go visit a deliverance pastor because u are sick/ possessed. 1 Like |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by zinachidi(m): 10:42pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Estharfabian:i don't grab wah u meant by this. |
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