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Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by kengodson: 6:19am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Daily12:OP, u funny oo, i go help call police for you |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by lampardizik(m): 6:20am On Dec 10, 2015 |
I think you should tell her as awful as all this sounds it's the least she deserves! |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by prisiluv(f): 6:22am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Strahovski:hmmm...Dnt u tink dats kinda suggestive nd inciting? u're right abt many tins u said tho... |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by prisiluv(f): 6:24am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Hmmmm...Dis issue is best solved by a psychologist or psychiatrist.See one if u realy love her like you claim... |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Akakwa: 6:24am On Dec 10, 2015 |
i think itz all ur wife's fault,let her give u some space, she doesn't need to tolerate u all the time,she should value herself, sometime she should show annoyance, let her find a way to make u jealous, it can trigger the love |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by tweetsme(m): 6:25am On Dec 10, 2015 |
[quote author=Strahovski post=40850585]Hmmm i have read the whole stuff and OP, i think i can reproduce what you are going through. Normally i would make a trash comment and port to the next thread but from what you wrote, i can see some sincerity and willingness to solve the issue. So i would help you First, Your wife! She is young(She is 22 now) , her emotions are heightened up and this is a big deal for her considering where she is coming from(Her Family). I presume she does everything you want, when you misbehave she would still be the one to apologize and i can also sense that she is in love with you. Trust me, she is a girl, her father is not a problem! Do you think she does not have another bank account where the boys are sending her money? (Another set of "toasters", so if she wants out, she would get out! I have dealt with cases like this during my days. She loves you man, and you are taking advantage of it because it turns you on.. So follow these steps and see how it turns out: - Communicate with her: Confess your crimes and tell her how it turns you on. Confess you do it intentionally. And observe her response(Dont be surprised she knows already) If you dont fix it, in the future, she might be using the hurt/pain to get things from you because "It brings you closer to her" - Consult a marriage Counselor or Therapist: You need some counseling! You need to know that she is your wife and not an object of pleasure! - Start feeling her pain: Make her pain your pain! When you start feeling her pain, you wont be the pain anymore. - Find another way to please yourself: Yup, it can be a video game(You are a young dude), poker, or a friday night out with your wife every week. - Make her the boss when it comes to sex: You do it her way! Not your way! At least for now *wink* - Find out what turns her on: Its time she is the one turning on not you! You have had enough. Because all that is turning on in her is her pain. - Be closer: Watch movies together, go on weekend time out, attend church programs together.. make her feel loved. So Op, when you have tried it for about 3 - 6 months you would re-wire out of the idea that you should hurt her first. Hope i helped You can update me on the situation and i would be happy to help. Send me a mail, i will give you a call! hmmm [/quote you are really mature. You are good |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 6:25am On Dec 10, 2015 |
SmartMugu: Lol. Please don't compare the OP with those guys. Those guys you mentioned are sexual sadists of the most extreme kind. I am suprised you would even try to compare the OP with them. Haha. These guys didn't get turned on by just seeing the women in pain. They were turned on by fantasies of killing and necrophilia. That's something on a whole other level. The OP's case is just mild. Although the OP likes seeing his wife in pain, it's more of a soft core kind, I bet he can't bear thinking of torturing her to the point of her death. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by fairygeh(f): 6:28am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Daily12:What I thought you only liked seeing your wife in pains and it's still understandable to an extent till I saw this. Meeeen,you need help .grab it fast |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 6:35am On Dec 10, 2015 |
http://jacknjillive.com/therapy/ Daily12 go through this link and consult a therapist for free You will be fine |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 6:36am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Daily12:guy have u tried disscusing it with your wife? Two heads are better than one |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by kakashi12(m): 6:38am On Dec 10, 2015 |
I think u should talk to a counselor. Put ur self in ur wife's shoes will u like if you were the one in her shoes n visit jacknjilllive.com |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by kulekaa(m): 6:38am On Dec 10, 2015 |
U r notin but an end time husband |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Imdachick(f): 6:44am On Dec 10, 2015 |
donj84:Don't get me wrong Mr. All I've said so far is that the op's solution isn't far from him. Yes I wouldve suggested a psychologist but in this case he knows his wrongs, so why involve a third party into family and marriage affairs? I said that because I've seen cases where a psychologist made the case even worse for a family than good. But if he can still try one then no stress but I'll always object tho. He knows his problems, he can pen them down in a secret book and start working on a process of changing each act. My quote "the only person that can change yourself it's you". 1 Like |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by zebszebs: 6:54am On Dec 10, 2015 |
@OP You are nothing but a sick bastard and possibly a looser in real life. She is just a child you fool!!!! just a child!!! |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by 99foxxy(f): 6:57am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Some guys are like that , i no of one who says his babe's cry turns him on. But pls consider her feelings and treat her as a wife and not like a piece of trash.... |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Lukibaby(m): 7:01am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Daily12: |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by shipnclear: 7:05am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Pray over it and make changes. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by fairygeh(f): 7:06am On Dec 10, 2015 |
missyadorable:Which gutters did this fool crawl out from? You are a beast |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by ADEBAYOKS(m): 7:09am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Daily12:The day a mad man is mad that day he has becoes hill. All u need to do is tell ur wife and noth of lift voice of prayers to God. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by doveda: 7:21am On Dec 10, 2015 |
StiffDick: Who the hell are you? You think I am afraid of cutting limbs, tongue and peniis just to do your fun hurting another person? Someone complained of hurting his wife and you are asking him not to worry because she might actually like it. It is either you are a imbeciile or a sexist pig who treat women based on some BS. 1 Like |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by cletus10: 7:21am On Dec 10, 2015 |
My advice for u is dat stay wth her wth she wont 2 give birth u wil repect her. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by doveda: 7:22am On Dec 10, 2015 |
fairygeh: Are you new on Nairaland? |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by MANAGER2020(m): 7:22am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Proverbs 18:22 Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD. pls my Bro, don't use ur hand to bring cause yo urself. the cementalisation of ur parents av already take place just forget d past n continue wit d present. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by doveda: 7:33am On Dec 10, 2015 |
cc RoyalRoy Seun Can you please have a look at StiffDick's dp? Well, it is a picture of his phallus. Ewww! |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 7:35am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Doveda. I will take your comment as a joke. Of all the comments here, how come it's mine you are picking on? I don't have to exchange words with you cos this thread will not contain us both when I start with you. If I put you on my radar, you will need to put a Teflon hard hat on. When you see a long 9, then you will know you are into what you not prepared for. I guarantee you a body bag and first class ticket to Lucifer. But before then you will see your maker. Be warned. x.x.x™ |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by doveda: 7:37am On Dec 10, 2015 |
NovusHomo: There is no mention of his wife consenting to it. If it is consensual, no wahala but it isn't. Stop implying what isn't into his explanation, especially in a country where it is normal for a woman to be abused |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by fart: 7:38am On Dec 10, 2015 |
you are mentally disturbed and if I knew who you were, I would kill you. |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by doveda: 7:39am On Dec 10, 2015 |
StiffDick: You are a clown! Wait...Let me laugh small 1 Like |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Nobody: 7:42am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Doveda. Don't fu-uck with me..cos I don't fu-uck with you. Stay out of my way. x.x.x.™ |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Missmossy(f): 7:42am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Holy heavens!!! What's this This is so malicious, she married you @ 19 in the prime of her youth. That's not enough reason to cherish her. Your both parents have lost it incase they don't know. To do such in this 21st century i wonder what will happen when she starts having kids you would torment her and the kids right ?? Such a psycho!! |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by jonnieoneng: 7:46am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Solidkay:You have said my mind.....In addition If u still have reservations about wat ur parents are making u to do u need to know that ur life doesn't belong to them.If u do not actually love this girl it is best u get out niw be4 it is too late or be4 she makes a bad friend who will school her on how to deal with you |
Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by Seventeen(f): 7:47am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Why dont i believe ds story?..... Not that it isnt possible oo, but some ppl just enjoy and take pleasure in reading d numerous comments dat follow their made up stories. Its also kind of a high. |
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