Jolllyjoy:
i cucuma dey sideline dey observe ooo,btw,na he opinion be dat.we all are entitled to our own opinion you know but am kinda surprised tho,all i know is that condom is used for protection.,




no condom,no sex until maybe after marriage and the two parties inovled are tested hiv free even at that one cant really say for sure talkmore of ordinary b.f and g.f.

bqlekan:


you are not addressing the circumstances I gave.. but let me leave that to your conscience.

if you go through your posts, you've contradicted yourself

* you want us to abstain and still have unprotected sex even outside marriage..

@emboldened, I disagree with that totally

if I use latex for a lady I love, the message m passing is [\b]' I want you protected just like I want to. we both are not ready to raise kids, so this act between us is just a way of consuming our love for each other. I care for a perfect future for the both of us, a future with no STDS.'[b]

Abstinence>prevention>cure

as we can't abstain, we gotta prevent

flokii:


hmmm!

I understand you perfectly well.

either
1) they are not married and doesn't want to bear d consequences
2) he is sleeping with a prostitute or a runs girl
3)he's married and about to cheat
4)he sees free kitten on social media eg. Nairaland he wants to sharpaly smash

etc. etc.
C'mon married people don't need condom... either d husband or wife could get sterilized and datz all...
they can fvck all they want till end time who carez

Toks2008:


I will send a Christmas gift to you.

Now lets be real for once...if you feel you cant wait til marriage and you must sin as in fornicate at least it will take nothing to know the status of the guy and yours and yes we have other birth control pills or methods that can prevent pregnancy.

But then why the rush?must you make love by fire by force? if you really love each other go get married or stay away from sex.

Condom is a tool between a LovePeddler and her customers and any man who uses a condom on you is indirectly telling you your status.If una like make una abuse me or call me names...Awon omo oni doti

bqlekan:

gangan! koda ki chen-fu ma binu...

thanks for this little piece ma'am.. I hope he listens..

nonesense:
Nonsense

Toks2008:


For the first time someone reasonable understands my point.

misspicy:


which kin yeye useless opinion be that,he is confusing those immatured boys that don"t think straight and the foolish girls that falls for love in Tokyo and gets dumped and passed onto the next guy that will.still use this same i love you i trust you so i can't use condom lies

girl abstinense is a different topic entirely and if anyone want to contribute to this arrant nonsense of a thread we should be reasonable
because this OP is clearly interchanging and confusing abstinense with use of condom


even if a guy forgot to use condom a health conscious girl should require the use of condom for sex,unless she has alterior motives, its not only a guy that needs to be protected,girls protect themselves too coz this guys are not to be trusted,HIV can be contacted from other means apart from sex

in the case of pregnancy

making use of birth control pills or other family planning methods is not adviceable for a woman that has never given birth.....(google this i can't type much)

Jolllyjoy:
hehehehehe calling you names is out of it since you are only expressing yourself and what you think.



Well,i think condom is more reliable than other birth control method hence the preference.



Now,you will agree with me that,in this present generation,trusting people especially in b.f &g.f affair is extremely dangerous because even after the test you dnt know who that same guy wil sleep with the next minute ,little wonder a guy who is tested hiv- this month can be tested hiv+ next month even when he has a regular g.f hence the importance of condom can not be overemphasized.





The primary aim of condom is for protection,btw a guy can dig a gurl raw without any itom of affection for her,so i will urge you to have a rethink about this topic.



Abstainence is the best but in the abscence of that,dont forget condom can save one from a whole lot of stress.





Thank yhu.

Sijo01:


That's your moniker!


@op, I can't help but agree with you.

misspicy:

listen you say,the man/boy is so obssessed with his chauvinistic self that he will make sure he runs his life that way
now that is even his business its his life...



the problem am having is the useless 2+2 boys and girls that he has posted this thread before because this is a public forum and some ediots actually believes everything they see hook line and sinker

because it seems OP just created this thread for laughs...because all i see here is him preaching indirect abstinense,encouraging boys and girls to have without condom on the basis of innocent looks and trust and he is even encouraging the use of family planning method for woman who have not given birth before which can lead to infertility......

BRUH i just weak right now

profojah:
hmmm. I'm learning alot from jolllyjoy and misspicy here.

Jolllyjoy:
hmmmm@immature boys,a guy who isnt matured should not bother having sex at all.(like they will listen).


Love is one of the tactics used by guys to lure gullible gurls into bed without any form of protection.


Btw,i wouldnt av say it better,kudos,if gurls like make dem dey do without protection by the time they are faced with unwanted pregnany dem go knw hw fa abi no be gurl wen guy proffess undying love for dey hospital cos of man so?





Whatever they choosed to believe is their choice.

bqlekan:
as in ehn.. I pity the lots of those who reads sh*ts on here and follows blindly.. The dude should be stopped from spreading craps like this..

profojah:
hmmm. I'm learning alot from jolllyjoy and misspicy here.

misspicy:

Do you have any contribution?

Jolllyjoy:
hmmmm@immature boys,a guy who isnt matured should not bother having sex at all.(like they will listen).


Love is one of the tactics used by guys to lure gullible gurls into bed without any form of protection.


Btw,i wouldnt av say it better,kudos,if gurls like make dem dey do without protection by the time they are faced with unwanted pregnany dem go knw hw fa abi no be gurl wen guy proffess undying love for dey hospital cos of man so?





Whatever they choosed to believe is their choice.

misspicy:

No need to stop him biko

any reasonable human being that values their lives and do not joke with their health will not make use of such baseless excuse to spread HIV and unwanted pregnancies and uncared for children up and down



Decency,morality, and trust is a different topic that should not in anyway be linked to the use of condom


if you want to be decent and morality upright do notengage in sex till marriage

if you think the use of condom is demeaning keep yourself from sex till marriage


instead of spreading hogwash and diseases in the name of decency

any body who engages in sex is not likely to get married to their first sexual partner and such they can contact STDs if they go by this useless.morals induced thread

profojah:

I'm here to learn.. I'm a novice

misspicy:

I understand......always the human pleaser




sorry i don't talk to be tagged decent or seen as innocent i say it as i see it

you all are not going to marry me or give me as a bride to your family members

all what that will earn me is likes and being your NL buddy.....sorry to burst their bubble am not here to make useless buddies

Lol. . All I will say is Sex is good, All the time.

Anyways, my mum is even reading your post and she said I should come and introduce you to her . When are u meeting her?

Jolllyjoy:
@toks2008


condom is used for protection and i personally think,a guy who care about you will insist on using it since it more reliable,pills can fail but the possibility of condom breakage is thin if properly used.




What you wrote there is one of the tactics used by guys on gullible gurls all in d name of b.f and g.f afffair.
.



Abstainence is still the best.

profojah:

Lol. . All I will say is Sex is good, All the time.

Anyways, my mum is even reading your post and she said I should come and introduce you to her . When are u meeting her?

misspicy:

lol
pretence is your Hobby


depends on the reason for the invite o


mummy are you inviting me for marriage talks?

I don't pretend.. You always see my post that I talk raw and blunt.. But on this particular topic, I'm a learner..


Yeah maybe for marriage. I showed her your pix also and she was like "Mu omo arewa yi wale kia kia"

profojah:

I don't pretend.. You always see my post that I talk raw and blunt.. But on this particular topic, I'm a learner..


Yeah maybe for marriage. I showed her your pix also and she was like "Mu omo arewa yi wale kia kia"

misspicy:


Ojah you are no Novice this am sure of but i understand why you mute...dont worry


am excited about something am finding it difficult to sleep

if its about marriage mummy help me talk to Ojah to wait for me a little bit biko.....

Lol .. abeg tell me why I mute abeg.. Seriously I'm learning.

@bolded, kindly gist me pls. Probably maybe on the chatroom or anywhere.. I really wanna know why she's excited.

Mummy said I should give you time as you insisted but when you're ready, lemme know

nonesense:
Nonsense

profojah:

Lol .. abeg tell me why I mute abeg.. Seriously I'm learning.

@bolded, kindly gist me pls. Probably maybe on the chatroom or anywhere.. I really wanna know why she's excited.

Mummy said I should give you time as you insisted but when you're ready, lemme know

misspicy:

lets drop that part bruh


kikikiki,i cant gist you that one on nairaland biko

okay thank you mummy God keep you for me

profojah:

Are u on whatsapp/bbm ?.. Can we gist there?