There are many introverted guys that are just so special in diverse ways that are hardly understood by many of our modern-day Nigerian ladies...this could lead to what I call a misrepresentation of attitude and character!

Psychologically, as humans, we all possess behavioural traits such as introverted and extroverted qualities. That's God's creation and whoever thinks that God's creation was senseless in the first place should better have his or her head examined!!!

Below are some characters of introverted guys in relationships. Ladies, you need to understand your introverted partner...better than the way you think you do :

1) Most introverted guys are creative: Ladies, because he doesn't talk much or brag about his exploits doesn't mean he is just another regular guy down the street! I tell you today, there's so much cooking up in that head of his that you might not know or never know. If you take a closer and more critical look at the lives of many great inventors and artistes, you will discover that they exhibited or exhibit introverted qualities wayback even before they ever came close to fame!!! I am not in any way saying that all introverted guys are creative but what I am saying in essence is that the number of creative guys that are introverted and those that are extroverted can be compared to the fans of Manchester City and Kano Pillars!!! Study him carefully and observe his passion; you just might be an instrument to push him to greater heights! He would rather think of how to create or develop something than spend time with you at the cinema

2) They are mostly shy: Even introverted celebrities are shy most times without you knowing. An assumed snubbing by a celebrity in an event or show might not necessarily be real! The young man might just be too shy to stand face to face, meeting folks he has never met before. So when an introverted guy doesn't feel like hanging out with you and friends every weekend, don't be too critical. They don't often like being in public places

3) They often love good women for real: Introverted guys are not like their counterparts who are fond of going out, meeting new people, talking and demonstrating a lot! They are mostly quiet and think deeply. They would easily approach a woman only when they admire, value and want her. An extrovert guy might just feel like talking which is a nutural aspect of his personality; this might send a false signal to the lady that she's being loved for real!!!

4) They need personal space most times: Many introvert guys hardly enjoy staying with a lady consistently for too long. They would rather need privacy to themselves so that they could merry in some creative imaginations! If you are coming to his house, you must call him on phone first! Failure to do that equals you putting too much salt in an already well cooked pot of Egusi soup with assorted meats!

5) They hardly entertain 'make-up jealousy': Don't try to make an introverted guy fall more in love with you by trying to arouse the spirit of jealousy in him! You might end up killing the emotional attachment he has with you and the relationship eventually! A lady can do this by answering suspicious phone calls in his presence romantically, telling him tales of guys who admire her and the rest

It is true that humans are dynamic in nature but learning about their psychological traits helps a lot in coping with them!

I couldn't agree more.

NewSheriff:
I couldn't agree more.

That's thoughtful of you!

ChAi, i possess most of this qualities

so so many people i know fits into this List including the OP

Many girls think that introverted guys are weak, not knowing that it's the other way around.

adepeter26:
ChAi, i possess most of this qualities

Oga, wetin u mean na?

i join sha

cant luk at a girl's eyeballs

aim5:
Many girls think that introverted guys are weak, not knowing that it's the other way around.

You are correct! And that's a huge misconception! Some would want to take it as an advantage!

OkeEsibe:
i join sha

cant luk at a girl's eyeballs

You don't mean it!

Rapmoney:
You are correct! And that's a huge misconception! Some would want to take it as an advantage!

Exactly. Like me I'm very reclusive and private and some girls will say I'm boring. I think my height and figure compensates for my heavy introversion though, so I'm not a complete dud with the ladies.

You should consider making money off these thoughts like rapping about them, who knows you might make your self some rapmoney.

Rapmoney always on point and keeping it 100%.

Lemme be the first female to comment nah,
Am coming back sha

fulfillbill:
You should consider making money off these thoughts like rapping about them, who knows you might make your self some rapmoney.

Rapmoney always on point and keeping it 100%.

For this statement, I will not forget you online and offline!!!

Rapmoney:
Oga, wetin u mean na?

Here is wat i meant

aim5:
Many girls think that introverted guys are weak, not knowing that it's the other way around.

onstelly:
Lemme be the first female to comment nah,
Am coming back sha

Sister, deh nor dey give award na!

adepeter26:

Here is wat i meant

Ok yeah, I get you now!

Rapmoney:
Sister, deh nor dey give award na!

Lol I know
Introverts are cool but sometimes I just wish I could read their mind

Lalastica or what's that your name come and do your thing

No way,i'v gone down that lane before! Introverts are very hard ppl to deal with.My ex was so bad that he never went out with his friends a whole year,he hardly forgives,when i'm hanging out he frowns,he doesn't like my friends coming around. The only thing that interests him is reading and sex,everyother thing was irrelevant.

onstelly:

Lol I know
Introverts are cool but sometimes I just wish I could read their mind

You can't read his mind but you can study his traits

Rapmoney:
You can't read his mind but you can study his traits

Abi
Nice one
Thanks for the info

lovely17:
Lalastica or what's that your name come and do your thing

Lol! It is lalasticlala bro

They overcompensate by being overly boisterous (especially online) and acting tough (macho), meanwhile they're really nice guys deep inside.

Side Note: They think 'nice guy' sounds gay

petkruz:
No way,i'v gone down that lane before! Introverts are very hard ppl to deal with.My ex was so bad that he never went out with his friends a whole year,he hardly forgives,when i'm hanging out he frowns,he doesn't like my friends coming around. The only thing that interests him is reading and sex,everyother thing was irrelevant.

Sorry to say this...ur ex is not necessarily an introvert but lacked social skills! Having sex is not among the traits of introverted guys!

JimiCoker:
They overcompensate by being overly boisterous (especially online) and acting tough (macho), meanwhile they're really nice guys deep inside.

Side Note: They think 'nice guy' sounds gay

Says who na?

Rapmoney:
Says who na?

According to Dr. Mike Patton, a specialist on behavioral psychology. He conducted several studies which led to his hypothesis

Naijaboiy!!!!!

JimiCoker:

According to Dr. Mike Patton, a specialist on behavioral psychology. He conducted several studies which led to his hypothesis

Okay, I see! Professor Idemudia Uwase conducted a similar one too!

OP no lie.





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