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Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by dBard: 8:03am On Dec 27, 2015

Probably has been....
Just saying undecided

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by passionate88: 8:03am On Dec 27, 2015

SexyStrawberry:
Mehn Op! u were too direct! hehehehehehehe, but her actions to me shows that she's guilty of something, lemme not say guilty of abortion o! hehehehehehe if na me u ask that question, I will definitely be shocked at first coz for u to ask me that thing, hmmmm e be like say my body don show u signs and u just want to confirm, lolzzzzzz but I will still answer u nonetheless, but anyway just apologise and give her time, she will come back to her senses.
We ladies are complex beings u know

apologise for what exactly?, if the girl has the right to ask the guy any question, why can't the guy ask the girl too?.

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by Nobody: 8:03am On Dec 27, 2015

it seems that nobody is seeing that the question has first assumed that the gal s not a virgin. Believe me op the reaction is going to vary from gal to gal. The gals reaction myt just be at the assumption grin

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by Tallesty1(m): 8:05am On Dec 27, 2015

MzPecs:

You think so?

The kinda answers i'll give you to any of your blunt questions will make stop being blunt!

There are things we hide from our partners because it "doesn't concern" them but those things pose serious risks that can ruin everything in the long run.

I asked a certain the kinda question this op asked, I think it was in our second year together.

She told me everything, how she got into the mess and all that, and then told me to search for her chat with a certain guy on one of her social accounts.

I did and everything was just as she told me.

It didn't change anything and when she noticed that I ain't gonna use her past to judge her future, she loved me more.

Months later, her best friend and room mate called me and asked if I was busy that she want to tell me something.

I thought the girl(my then bae grin

) was in a problem so I told her to go ahead that I am free.

Guess what? She spewed so many thrash, she started with how she noticed that I truly love the girl and have good plans for her. That she knew all the men she's been with and none of them loved her like I do and all that.

She no stop there oo," she started naming them for me.

But trust me nah...

She was like, "she dated this man[calls name]" and I would reply "Yea, the one that does this[I would tell her what the man does for a living].

When she noticed that I have heard bout them, she then said "are you als= aware that she once aborted a child"

I replied "Yea, and you're the only one she told about it because she trusts you and now you're betraying her".

She ended the call and blocked my number.

@emboldened, you will be too shocked to know what to say.

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Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by Nobody: 8:05am On Dec 27, 2015

MzPecs:

The reason I called him is that, a silly guy once asked my friend this question and she didn't consider him again..

Me thinks OP shouldn't have asked the question so soon. You don't throw such direct question to someone.

The girl might feel bad, she might have this feeling that, oh! Do I really look like someone who was pregnant before? Maybe my tummy is big or i'm not in shape for him to ask such question.

These thoughts will be going the girl's mind.

Oga, This your epistle is crap, very mawkish... Why was she so overly defensive, if guilty conscience wasn't pinching her. Its a question she could have laughed off, rather than been angry or prevaricate. The OP must have had his reasons for asking, who would I be in a relationship without asking my gal what I feel like.. For her to have reacted like that, then she is guilty of what been asked..

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Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by Tallesty1(m): 8:12am On Dec 27, 2015

misspicy:

Nice isn't it

well i don't think one should go about spewing one's past to everybody that ask,some people does not know how to handle secrets especially very bad ones.some guys use such as an avenue to blackmail.

Sweet

.

Yes! I agree with you to an extent tongue

.

You don't tell a guy/girl you met just two months ago ur dark side cause you don't know 'em yet.

But if I tell you my secret and you can't handle it then go nah! Haba, I am not ashamed of who I am and the dirty secrets are part of what made me the person I have become.

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Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by MzPecs(f): 8:12am On Dec 27, 2015

Tallesty1:
There are things we hide from our partners because it "doesn't concern" them but those things pose serious risks that can ruin everything in the long run.

I asked a certain the kinda question this op asked, I think it was in our second year together.

She told me everything, how she got into the mess and all that, and then told me to search for her chat with a certain guy on one of her social accounts.

I did and everything was just as she told me.

It didn't change anything and when she noticed that I ain't gonna use her past to judge her future, she loved me more.

Months later, her best friend and room mate called me and asked if I was busy that she want to tell me something.

I thought the girl(my then bae) was in a problem so I told her to go ahead that I am free.

Guess what? She spewed so many thrash, she started with how she noticed that I truly love the girl and have good plans for her. That she knew all the men she's been with and none of them loved her like I do and all that.

She no stop there oo," she started naming them for me.

But trust me nah...

She was like, "she dated this man[calls name]" and I would reply "Yea, the one that does this[I would tell her what the man does for a living].

When she noticed that I have heard bout them, she then said "are you als= aware that she once aborted a child"

I replied "Yea, and you're the only one she told about it because she trusts you and now you're betraying her".

She ended the call and blocked my number.

@emboldened, you will be too shocked to know what to say.

You have a point there..

If i've got nothing to hide then I wouldn't be shocked at your question.

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by Tallesty1(m): 8:22am On Dec 27, 2015

MzPecs:

You have a point there..

If i've got nothing to hide then I wouldn't be shocked at your question.

Better pikin.

I wouldn't be shocked even if I av.

Now sad

Do you have a boyfriend, man friend, boo or bae? angry

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by misspicy(f): 8:44am On Dec 27, 2015

Tallesty1:
Sweet.

Yes! I agree with you to an extent.

You don't tell a guy/girl you met just two months ago ur dark side cause you don't know 'em yet.

But if I tell you my secret and you can't handle it then go nah! Haba, I am not ashamed of who I am and the dirty secrets are part of what made me the person I have become.

lol,so how many people you wan tell your secret besides some secrets are too dirty for four ears to hear grin

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by Nobody: 8:46am On Dec 27, 2015

Cutehector:
Op u did well...

Misspicy, have u been pregnant before?
Mzpecs, have u been pregnant before?
Jolllyjoy, have u been pregnant before...?

Yes/No answers please

what kind of question is that? cheesy

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by Tallesty1(m): 8:48am On Dec 27, 2015

misspicy:

lol,so how many people you wan tell your secret besides some secrets are too dirty for four ears to hear

I don't have any secret that is too dirty for ears to hear, I honestly don't and I don't chop around so there's hardly a woman to tell a secret.

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by godwinony(m): 8:51am On Dec 27, 2015

The question wasn't too forward biko...the rate at which girls have sex these days is a thing of concern..

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by misspicy(f): 8:52am On Dec 27, 2015

Tallesty1:
I don't have any secret that is too dirty for ears to hear, I honestly don't and I don't chop around so there's hardly a woman to tell a secret.

and that is cool for you

remember we are all not the same,some people's past is so messed up,only a true love can handle it

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by Tallesty1(m): 8:54am On Dec 27, 2015

misspicy:

and that is cool for you

remember we are all not the same,some people's past is so messed up,only a true love can handle it

That makes their past a true love finder.

I focus only on the positives grin

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by igwe44(m): 8:59am On Dec 27, 2015

Op,nothing do you. I love that statement have you been pregnant before. My next babe go here this.

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Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by chigomiced: 9:43am On Dec 27, 2015

Samfigo1:
Hello everyone! I didn't want to bring this up but I can't just imagine how this question could make her so annoyed. Before I say the question, let me take you down the memory lane.
I started dating this girl for two months(I don't know if we're still dating, I'll tell you the reason why I say so), everything has been going on smoothly not until recently when we started asking each other questions. She has asked me so many questions, some of the questions are as follow:

My Babe: Have you dated before?

Me : Of course!

My Babe: Why did u break up?

Me: We didn't get along with each other, so we decided to call it quit.

My Babe: Oh I see....

She has asked me series of questions but I never asked her any.
One day precisely 3days ago, I decided to ask her this simple question that shouldn't take a minute to answer!
Have you been pregnant before? She paused and looked straight into my eyes and said What sort of question is that? What do l take her for? Am I saying she has done abortions before? She hissed, stood and left, since 2days now we've not called, sent text to each other.
Does the question sound absurd? why did she take it so personal? I have decided not to apologize because I don't think I have done wrong, that's why I said earlier that I don't know if we're still dating!

Her actions goes a long way to show dat she has sumtyn to hide

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by SexyStrawberry(f): 9:47am On Dec 27, 2015

passionate88:
apologise for what exactly?, if the girl has the right to ask the guy any question, why can't the guy ask the girl too?.

I understand ur point sha, but u know girls naaw, girls get wahala, but for her to react that way, something is definitely fishy

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by SexyStrawberry(f): 9:49am On Dec 27, 2015

chimkaire:
...you mean she lost her senses

Hahahahahahahahahahah............ Hey darling, that's not what I meant literally grin

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Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by capitolarena(m): 9:49am On Dec 27, 2015

Smooth operator...lol...nice one bro[Qquote author=MRBrownJ post=41373794]@Samfigo1
there is nothing wrong with the question you asked and, unless she was a virgin when you met her, i dont see why she should make a big deal out of it.

here is the msg you should send her:" [b]i asked you a simple question that was bothering my mind, and you jumped on your high horses and left, while talking NONSENSE! i believe in HONESTY and therefore if i want to ask you a question then i dont see why i shouldnt. i am sorry if the question offended you but i want/hope i can express myself with you FULLY, without having to second guess myself. i dont know what type of r/ship you want us to build here but i do sincerely hope that the day you want to ask me ANY question, you do so regardless of how i may feel. i dont have a crystal ball to know if you have ever done such a thing, and since this is important (to me), i want to make sure about it, and get this out the way, from the get go.

btw: many good women have had abortions after being raped by evil men, while others did so because of the ill circumstances they found themselves into... who am i to judge them? i wont, but i certainly want to be aware, AND decide, if i want to be with such person or not, because having a family is important to me, and many women have damaged womb due to the quack/charlatans that perform these illegal abortions.[/b] "[/quote]

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by princeemcee: 9:51am On Dec 27, 2015

@OP.. Nice one there..
I am gonna try this at home.
need a breathing space for sometimes

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by Ayt27(m): 10:06am On Dec 27, 2015

Samfigo1:
Hello everyone! I didn't want to bring this up but I can't just imagine how this question could make her so annoyed. Before I say the question, let me take you down the memory lane.
I started dating this girl for two months(I don't know if we're still dating, I'll tell you the reason why I say so), everything has been going on smoothly not until recently when we started asking each other questions. She has asked me so many questions, some of the questions are as follow:

My Babe: Have you dated before?

Me : Of course!

My Babe: Why did u break up?

Me: We didn't get along with each other, so we decided to call it quit.

My Babe: Oh I see....

She has asked me series of questions but I never asked her any.
One day precisely 3days ago, I decided to ask her this simple question that shouldn't take a minute to answer!
Have you been pregnant before? She paused and looked straight into my eyes and said What sort of question is that? What do l take her for? Am I saying she has done abortions before? She hissed, stood and left, since 2days now we've not called, sent text to each other.
Does the question sound absurd? why did she take it so personal? I have decided not to apologize because I don't think I have done wrong, that's why I said earlier that I don't know if we're still dating!

I'm 99% sure,she's been pregnant before, prolly had to terminate the foetus due to overwhelming circumstance.

Why the forming on her part now, if you later find out she'll start shedding crocodile tears.

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by MzPecs(f): 10:32am On Dec 27, 2015

Tallesty1:
Better pikin.

I wouldn't be shocked even if I av.

Now Do you have a boyfriend, man friend, boo or bae?

Now do you have a girlfriend, woman friend, boo or bae?

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by Tallesty1(m): 10:37am On Dec 27, 2015

MzPecs:

Now do you have a girlfriend, woman friend, boo or bae?

lols....

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by MrEverest(m): 10:37am On Dec 27, 2015

VampireeM:
For me I dont see anything wrong with the question you asked her. I feel guys should ask ladies they intend getting serious with that question. Am wondering why she is vexing that much if she doesnt ve a skeleton in her cupboard.. You did well samfigo1 and make sure she gives you an answer before you guys continue

Thank You! I have asked my woman all manner of questions like those he dated before me since I didnt meet her as a virgin, she told me the person, his name & how they broke up, she told me he was the only person she slept with b4 me & I believed her becos she was a secondary virgin the first time we made love. She asked me questions about my ex too. I also asked her if she has ever cheated on me & she said no but there was a time we broke up & she told me she went for a wedding yet I did not see a single picture from the wedding & she told me a guy was wooing her & even took her out! Your woman is guilty!

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by MzPecs(f): 11:26am On Dec 27, 2015

Tallesty1:
lols....

Answer me joooooor

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by Tallesty1(m): 11:30am On Dec 27, 2015

MzPecs:

Answer me joooooor

Abia.

You answer my own? undecided

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by MzPecs(f): 11:39am On Dec 27, 2015

Tallesty1:
Abia.

You answer my own?

Abia okwa ya?

okay, NO!

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by phabulous88(m): 11:46am On Dec 27, 2015

VampireeM:
For me I dont see anything wrong with the question you asked her. I feel guys should ask ladies they intend getting serious with that question. Am wondering why she is vexing that much if she doesnt ve a skeleton in her cupboard.. You did well samfigo1 and make sure she gives you an answer before you guys continue

My thots exactly. That girl is hiding something

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Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:07pm On Dec 27, 2015

There nothing wrong with your question.

And don't even consider apologizing.

An Innocent's, or a shameless liar's answer would have been along the lines of, "Heeeey, God forbid!"

Hey over-reaction is telling.

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by Nobody: 1:00pm On Dec 27, 2015

as for me ooo.I don't see any big deal inside oo becos me go ans am sharpaly esp wen I don't have any skeleton in my cupboard.anyway just ask her for forgiveness.

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by FlySly05: 1:50pm On Dec 27, 2015

With all these toddlers on NL. Its almost time yo quit.

Re: See The Question I Asked That Made Her Angry... by nigeriancuban: 2:17pm On Dec 27, 2015

op that's a nice question you asked her although you could have used a different form to present it but either ways if her conscience and past is clean then she wouldn't freak out.. guy trend carefully oo,these might be end time signs O,as some nairalanders would say...

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