Cesclxg:

As I said before, I really think it is a good bargain. A night of hot steamy sex for #40k. That's some people monthly salary. Mind u, I am not saying u sud do the act. Far from it. The Scientist in me is just weighing the scale. I do that alot. However, if u eventually do succumb to the pressure and end up taking the man up on the deal, take consolation in the fact that he says he loves you. Who knows, one night of sex may make u feel the same way about him too. Who knows, he cud end up being ur husband. God works in mysterious ways!

efficiencie:


I know your type...the-ends-justify-the-means kinda guy! Your morality is defined by a profit and loss statement. What brings you gain is good and whatever brings you loss is bad irrespective of the moral dangers of your gain and the societal importance of your loss...Well your type are in power in many countries of the world. They are the reason behind wars, famine, deception, destruction, genocide and all manner of evils the world is yet to know off...So if a lady puts herself in a position to be used and exploited for money then you will gladly pay to get what ordinarily money should not be able to buy? Well the likes of Dasuki are like that too. They plunder and pillage so that their position in the societal scheme is secured and so that their children and children's children will be ahead socially, physically and financially of their peer...

...well yeah, you've got a choice. A choice to see things the way you choose to see them, irrespective of who suffers or who survives...but when you are dead and long gone if you were given the opportunity to look back at the world that the likes of you have helped shaped, would you be proud of it?

safarigirl:
low doesn't even begin to describe them. scum of the earth is more appropriate

reminiscing:
We are all entitled to speak free but learn not to judge others.I have gone through almost all the comments and I've read a lot of things,most people calling me a beggar,greedy,and a gold digger.Well,i 'm not upset because life situations has a way of bringing tears or joy to the face of people.I am not the kind that beg for money,I was taught to be self dependent and that is why I can't ask people for money.
Most of you want me to pour out all d details of my family for you to understand my predicament but I only had the intention of coming here to express my feelings.You can judge me all you want if that will make you feel better but have it in mind that most times things happen for a reason.
Polite12 ,the fact that I had sex one time doesnt mean that I still languish in it.I am not better than prostitutes but I can't trade my body for 40k.

Ravenwolf:


Matter of fact everyone's morality is dictated by a potential profit or loss, you are not exempt.

Still within the context of "ways of achieving Sexual satisfaction/ intimacy", so you find it immoral to use your looks or personality to get sex? If you don't, why do you kick so vehemently against using your money to get sex. One thing comes to mind; Double standards!!


As long as you are a Human, you can never be truly morally perfect.

slap1:
How much are you supposed to sleep with him for? Why does he have to give you the money? From the little you posted, I can surmise you also want to use the guy the same way he wants to use you.

Call Mesut Özil.

Cesclxg:

As I said before, I really think it is a good bargain. A night of hot steamy sex for #40k. That's some people monthly salary. Mind u, I am not saying u sud do the act. Far from it. The Scientist in me is just weighing the scale. I do that alot. However, if u eventually do succumb to the pressure and end up taking the man up on the deal, take consolation in the fact that he says he loves you. Who knows, one night of sex may make u feel the same way about him too. Who knows, he cud end up being ur husband. God works in mysterious ways!

misspicy:

Please answer this few questions

1)are you related to this man?

2)what type of circumstances did you meet with him

3)what is your relationship with him

see lady it is high time y'all realise that manna does not fall from heaven,how can you in this present day and age think that a full blooded man will just carry his hard earned money and pour it on you,when
1)he is not your boyfriend

2)he is not your sugar daddy

3)he is not a mugu

4)he is not stupid

5)he is not even related to you

don't you know that greedy girls have made it hard for a man to help other girls that really needs help?who wants to be seen as a mugu?
E be like say you be learner

I know you are expecting supernatural help from above,then you must be sensitive to the things of the spirit not just expect every man out there to drop their hard earned money on you like its your birth right
imagine asking a man for money just one month after meeting him? and you posted this on nairaland? lmao

Ravenwolf:


Matter of fact everyone's morality is dictated by a potential profit or loss, you are not exempt.

Still within the context of "ways of achieving Sexual satisfaction/ intimacy", so you find it immoral to use your looks or personality to get sex? If you don't, why do you kick so vehemently against using your money to get sex. One thing comes to mind; Double standards!!


As long as you are a Human, you can never be truly morally perfect.

armadeo:



Let me put it simply for him to understand.


You don't see the world the way it is you only see it the way you are.

Efficiencie if you can use your tongue to lure a female why can't another use his cash. You are all arriving at the same destination wether by road or by train. Everything is limited to your point of view. Enlarge your scope.

armadeo:



Let me put it simply for him to understand.


You don't see the world the way it is you only see it the way you are.

Efficiencie if you can use your tongue to lure a female why can't another use his cash. You are all arriving at the same destination wether by road or by train. Everything is limited to your point of view. Enlarge your scope.

armadeo:



Let me put it simply for him to understand.


You don't see the world the way it is you only see it the way you are.

Efficiencie if you can use your tongue to lure a female why can't another use his cash. You are all arriving at the same destination wether by road or by train. Everything is limited to your point of view. Enlarge your scope.

reminiscing:

I asked him if I could come and work for him and then he said he has enough workers.

Misogynist2014:
Your parents must be hopelessly poor.

efficiencie:
As a people, who love peace, hate wars, cherish brotherhood and stand for justice we are to be sacrificial even in the face of mockery...Jesus Christ was called a mugu by the very same people he came to save and today many of the people who call on him for peace, safety and success were once robbers, whores, killers, deceivers, blasphemers and the likes...If Christ were to take the advice many have advanced here, he would have destroyed the world again, as he did Sodom and Gomorrah, even before now...

...and for the atheists that do not accept the existence of Christ, i say if the true price of knowledge were imposed in every school and for every book you will never be knowledgeable enough to stand faced-off against an invisible being whose existence, according to you, is in dispute...your knowledge is the sacrifice of another irrespective of what is paid to get knowledge...Sacrifice is at the heart of all of man's achievements.

If Faraday must be paid for his discovery, by now virtually all of us would bear Faraday as surnames. If Einstein and the scientists on the Manhattan project had not ended the war with the atom bomb, Hitler would have had access to that weapon sooner than later and installed himself and the all time emperor of the world...while i agree, profit is the driver commerce yet i acknowledge that though the ingenuity of man yields profit, profit is gross understatement of a befitting reward for sheer ingenuity and altruistic purposes often underlie this gross understatement...

In other words; sacrifice, altruism and benevolence are essentially drivers of ingenuity as well...Bro you can get all the sex you want and not destroy what you cannot create just to get temporal pleasure...

doveda:


People help others all the time without knowing them!

Cesclxg:

What is the use of ur money if u can use it to get what u want even if that commodity is sex. The truth is even the rich use their money to get sex even if they do not consciously plan it that way. The Mere fact that u are rich or wealthy makes most girls want to give u sex even without u asking because of what they hope to get from u. It is just common sense...

efficiencie:


...did you read my post at all...i concluded that with words you can lure a dumb lady or a willing lady...and in both situations sex is consensual and blissful...but when you coerce a person who is in desperate need, using you wealth and power, Oh c'mon...It's easy to call the OP all kinds of names but i tell you, you'll feel unimaginable and unforgettable pangs of pain when you give up a priceless possession for a temporal assistance...

I am not a saint, as defined by the world, i am someone that lives by his conscience...and i wonder how i will be comfortable sleeping with a lady who really does not want the intercourse but brings herself too low to accept it all for the money...bro, i am not an angel but i'll never do that...

reminiscing:

He asked me why I Dont go to school often when the school is in session. I told him that for now I only go to school wen I have enough t.p.He then asked me why I wasn't staying in d hostel rather than come from where I stay which is far,I told him I couldn't get a space because there was no money to do so.He then promised to help...

reminiscing:

Thanks a lot.I was very shocked that he barely knows me and he is asking for sex

flokii:
doveda abi wetin you call ursef... e be like say something dey insyd this matter wey you wan gain.... abi why you wan dieee ontop another pesin matter

shey na by force to do charity ni?... d guy talk say he own get conditions then d OP can quietly walk away unless she has evil intentions herself...


and just so you know... a woman would hardly assist her.. if you doubt, ask her to meet one

btw are you related to a former president cos you be woman wrapper

jusRadical:



And you barely know him but you are asking him of money or you agreed for him to help you.


Face your studies and leave men alone.

efficiencie:


...and imagine a world where no one cares who dies and who lives but all we care about is what we gain...is that not the world we are in today? Many of you talking and spouting all manner of crap can do so because a rich man hasn't walked into your relationships, order the kidnapping of your girlfriend (because he's rich and powerful) and have you fan him while he pounds your highly cherished girlfriend to stupor...many of you are narrow minded and only see the flow of events from your hedonistic perspective...

armadeo:



Let me put it simply for him to understand.


You don't see the world the way it is you only see it the way you are.

Efficiencie if you can use your tongue to lure a female why can't another use his cash. You are all arriving at the same destination wether by road or by train. Everything is limited to your point of view. Enlarge your scope.

efficiencie:


...those ladies are willing to do the trade...a lady whose sees her body as a commodity will readily offer it up for sale but in this case the man in question offered to help and this drew the lady's attention only for him to declare his real intention...gold diggers are so easy to tell, for they literally have it written on their foreheads and this makes them the easy commodity to purchase but in the case of the OP she reveals she's not down for that...and if she were she wouldn't be here in the first place...

...and bro, if you stand for the view that anything can and ought to be exchanged for money, then you should be happy with the way the world is today...because i assure you, the world is the way it is today because of the conflict of interests, the interests of persons who believe that more wealth, fame and power is better than less at any cost be it the cost of human lives, peace and sanity.

armadeo:



You are still looking at this from a very narrow perspective. Is it because it involves sex? What if a situation arises that an individual is offered cash for his/her kidney due to lack what would you say.

She was made an offer and she refused. What's the big deal cos she was at a disadvantage? Everything is about offers you either accept or refuse. It's your choice. People work shitty jobs they hate because they have no choice.

When you go for a bank loan and they ask for an arm and a leg why don't you tell them to be benevolent.

I am not in agreement with what the guy did but it's his choice let him also be. We cannot judge him from our own perspective cause he also has his perspective

mradjoy:
Maje ko gba adugbo e koja o, no give am chop at all o it is very dangerous. Stupid man.

Why can't some men just help without asking for anything in return?
I'm sure this same man wouldn't want same to happen to his daughter na.