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Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 7:52pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
I use God beg una, this is the REAL me. make una take me serious. Even if na only today. How do you guys deal with a spouse with "suspected" psychological problem. My girlfriend is like NEPA. At times she goes blackout or blank. During those times her reply to whatever am saying will be "OK, yes, no, nothing, am fine etc. She becomes so coldddd towards me. And I do try to ask if I did anything wrong or if someone offended her. It mostly happens when we apart from each other, right now she's at my place and her NEPA don take light again. I don ask questions tire, babe; "I fvck up? She said NO, "your best friend, chioma tell you say I fvck her? She said NO. Waten con be your problem?? She said "NOTING, am fine". At times she'll admit that I offended her, I'll apologise and we move on without stress, while other times she'll keep saying NOTHING and still act colds towards me for upto 4 days or more. During those times, I will have to become a clown just to make her smile and happy. Abeg I need una contribution, she's the only girl I have ever taken serious and marrying her soon is now my priority. We have been together for like a year plus. This her attitude that is affiliated to NEPA started very early in the relationship . Whenever it happens, I do think of distancing myself or limiting my calls to enable her get herself back on track, and It confuses me if she needs me most during those times or far from her. The blackout usually last 3 to 4days. NOTE; anytime she's not on her "blackout period", she showers too much love and affection on me, if on call, she wouldn't want me to end the call, if in physical, she wouldn't allow me step out of my door but to be in her arms all day. Una don experience such from ur boyfrind/girlfriend before? How did you deal with it?? Lalasticlala. I use God beg you. Save a relationship. |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by ClassCaptain(m): 8:00pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Stupidity ooo |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Erukumakanaki: 8:02pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
stupidity:
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Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by sinaj(f): 8:03pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
It could be temperamental issues. Mayb she is highly melancholic. Am like dat though, mood swings r unpredictable. Can go frm being cheerful to very cold within an hour Pls bear with her, Tiz nt her fault! 1 Like |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 8:04pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Probably just mood swings. In high spirits sometimes and low at other times. Op ask her about it when next she is in a good mood. I feel that way at times especially in the mornings and the more questions you ask, the more annoyed i get. So i tell my friends that whenever they find me in that mood, its best to ask only once and then leave me alone. |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 8:06pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
ClassCaptain:classcaptain abeg coordinate this thread for me. Am very serious here. |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 8:06pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Op u sef no ask d question seriously na. Everybody see o. After una go say 3rd party in marriage or relationship no good. D truth is if u're deeply in love with someone, affection or familiarity will not make u see the things u shd really see except someone points ur attention to it. U never see wife at all No be only money person need 4 marriage. U're in a relatnship with an emotional girl who doesn't understand that marriage is not about her feelings but that her partner's feelings is her responsibility. At least u already know that urself that's why u ask her if there's anything wrong. Well if u have counted d cost and u want to go with her na u go suffer am o. If it be say she don go thru a lot of psychological trauma from d way she was raised. But despite that, she hasn't learnt that marriage is not about herself but abt her partner. If u marry dis kyn gal na 3rd party go dey settle case 4 una every month. 4 Likes |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 8:07pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Erukumakanaki:waten be ur own na? I go wire you e-slap o. Lubbish |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by MzPecs(f): 8:07pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Disadvantage of being a stup'id person, as you can see, no one takes you serious. 2 Likes |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Go to Nepa office to report her case asap!!dey don dey use her destiny control light! 2 Likes |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 8:10pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
your girlfriend is like Zaria in The passport of mallam illah Call her and talk to her, Tell her your pains I know she will understand. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 8:13pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Diddyydiva:babe, seriously I don talk tire. On several occasion, I go preach long epistle on how her NEPA attitude can destroy our relationship. She nor dey hear. She started the new year with the same blackout. I jux tire |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 8:15pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
prettythicksme:babe, talk better thing na, u na girl, u suppose gimme the gist on the button to press if my babe OFF again. |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
MzPecs:how dare you insult me. Oya talk better thing wey relate to the thread before I vex pass this one I dey so. |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by girlhaley(f): 8:17pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Ok |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
stupidity:Continue to talk to her. she will listen someday |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
sinaj:like seriously?? you mean all those drama is part of her and a "girlie" stuff?? |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 8:19pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
I wonder why ure sounding like my bf 1 Like |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 8:22pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Suigeneris93:lol. Na so your NEPA dey trip off too?? 1 Like |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by falconey(m): 8:23pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
sinaj:So na federal government fault? 1 Like |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 8:24pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 8:27pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
falconey:lol.u funny |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by sinaj(f): 9:11pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
falconey:na GEJ fault |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Emac34: 10:39pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Diddyydiva:hw did u fyn dey book (passport of mallam illah)it was inspiring tho |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by cruzita(f): 10:47pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
anytime she blackout go on gen. |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 10:48pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
I swear I understand what you are saying. most times it could be because of something on her mind or most times u really offended her. what I do is that I try make her laugh. there was a time she was like that nd wasn't talking to me, all I did was play her best songs.. Thank God light been dey. Am talking of songs like thinking out loud and photograph by Ed sheeran with that song by Ellie goulding nd Loving you by trigmatic. When I was through she was just there shedding silent tears and telling me how she loved me nd I shouldn't hurt her again- How I hurt her? I still don't know. 1 Like |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
I think its mood swings... Usually normal wen girls are ovulating or practically close to their period date... Usually done girls don't show traits of mood swings but others are aggressive during that period Or she's always depressed But stupidity seems you crossed over with a basket of sense #i like that 1 Like |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 11:04pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
klassiquette:lol. Thanks for the comment jare. |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by JustOzito(f): 11:04pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Op its nt new. Am presently undergoing such dat since ystaday my guy has bin callin me bt i rfusd 2 pick his cal. Try and observe d time of d month dat it normaly occur. Women tend 2 ve mood swing days bfor or during their menstration. D gudnews is dat it last only 4 a few days. My 2 kobo |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 11:13pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
DeejayTafari:can you just imagine. Ladies are really complicated. I still don't understand why she doesn't open up and demand an apology if I am found guilty. This her drama gives me headache whenever it happens, coz am always playing back my memory to figure out what I did or said wrong to her. The worse part of it is when am out of town for days or weeks. It becomes an emotional torment to me. |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 11:18pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
JustOzito:like seriously!!! Its not fair na. We guys are the one suffering it. Since yesterday I have been asking my lady the "what happened" question. She got angry this evening bcoz it was becoming too much. During these times, do you want to be alone and far from him or his presence will makes you feel better? |
Re: Girlfriend With NEPA Attitude!!! Psycological Problem?? by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
RadicallyBlunt:thanks a lot. Noted# |
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