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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Nobody: 10:19am On Jan 06, 2016 |
Boyooosa: so its OP's fault if his bae decides to get sex outside their relationship even after they both agreed to "no sex" b4 marriage what happened to "virtue and "value" the girl should be thankful dat op is willing to wait till dey get married b4 he starts "fetching water from her well" women been making men feel guilty for the mistakes they "women" make..... She gave in to another (smarter guy - lol) in the process and the guy helped me to dis-v her and dat spoil our relationship cos she couldnt come back to me with 'broken egg' and moreover she was LUST into that relationship. Unfortunately for her, the guy came up wit the animal in him and beat her severally b4 they broke up. She came back to me after their break up (she was confused, perplexed and helpless), we reconciled and I had my turn too (d reserved sexxx) but couldnt get along and broke up again for another 2 years. according to ur story...... the woman stands to loose more...... |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by obontami: 10:22am On Jan 06, 2016 |
Truckpusher:I dey tell you my brother When better huge prick begin fccck the girl she go forget the okobo na |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Eazikeyz(m): 10:25am On Jan 06, 2016 |
ifymagik:Make her understand your reason. If she can't, RUN for your life. |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by obontami: 10:25am On Jan 06, 2016 |
Chosen1984:guy forget that thing Nothing dey happen 1 Like |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Laredojohn(m): 10:29am On Jan 06, 2016 |
Op, you like her, you dnt want to loose her, u have ur principles... its left for u to chose, it's either u follow your principles and forget about her totally, definitely u will get someone else who will follow ur principle...she is merely a gf, so if she can't cope with u berra she goes and meet other guys who are ready to tear her, left, right and centre... |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Skmoda360(m): 10:32am On Jan 06, 2016 |
nnachukz:wise saying |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Truckpusher(m): 10:32am On Jan 06, 2016 |
elantraceey:I thought the 'no sex before marriage' thing was due to one's Christian teachings and value system - How come you can talk about your fantasies and even see it ? Na wao ! Nigerian Christians sha, so what difference does it make then after all if you look at someone with lustful eyes , you've commited the sin of fornication and adultery. Which bible Una dry read again. Abstinence due to religious conviction means total rejection of anything that will arouse your feelings under any circumstances - in fact you have to kill your feelings spiritually. |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Skmoda360(m): 10:34am On Jan 06, 2016 |
gamaliel121:so true... |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Skmoda360(m): 10:38am On Jan 06, 2016 |
yemoxyl:it's so ghen ghen. |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by AdeniyiA(m): 10:39am On Jan 06, 2016 |
Give me her number let me speak sense into her... Seriously the girl is a whõrē, if you eventually marry her and you're not around, she'd play away match. She's a devils agent sent to destroy your life and your self-control attribute. you'll live to regret it if you ever compromise on your stance... @ ifymagik |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Damikevin(m): 10:42am On Jan 06, 2016 |
[quote author=grad2012 post=41689496]Seriously I can't believe she's saying dat.well if she can't wait let her go cos dis one she is telling u that she will get it some where else, she sounds like a gal without self control and she might end up cheating on you.[/quoteWho knows if she get belle, she wan pin am on u, or she has one STD. Heed! |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by joanana(f): 10:48am On Jan 06, 2016 |
op in my opinion, please do not sleep with her. maintain your principle. If she loves u, she will wait, if not let her go. I hope the machine is in a very good condition becos she no wan hear story that touch after marriage ooo if that is her reason for asking |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by abimic(m): 10:50am On Jan 06, 2016 |
Seriously, it's better the man ask for Sex than the lady, I use to think ladies are more elastic and her saying she could get it elsewhere should make u nervous bro. What then would happen if u go abroad for your Masters and come to Nigeria in spans of 6 Months. Self Control is paramount, I doubt she truly can hold herself and don't be surprised of her past except she would hide some. Principle matters, a man without Principle will fall for anything and eventually cause his own demise. A broken principle is a broken character, iT would be hard to fix. If U start it with her, u would continue it till before marriage, that's how she would tell u she wants flesh to flesh to feel the warmth, I hope u won't say no then, because u have caused it, from there, unwanted pregnancy and the likes. As long as I know, she would keep conditioning u till u fall for her demands. No Sex thing Should be mutual and not one sided, make her see your reasons and if she persists, just give yourselves break for a while to think and let her have a rethink but if u are not the too adherent to principles, u can help her. I've dated a girl that, 4 years we had no Sex until afterwards though. Trust&understanding are the most important. |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by arodoyeb: 10:50am On Jan 06, 2016 |
U shouldnt break ur principles if u Knw u can bear it wen she get sex elsewhere or when she completely leave u for anoda man |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by adellam16(f): 10:53am On Jan 06, 2016 |
ifymagik:why do u people like to do copy n paste? After posting ur copied stories u won't respond to comments,so y bother? |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by dasparrow: 10:54am On Jan 06, 2016 |
@Post You better dump her ASAP. She is the type that will screw other men once you are out of town or if you are sick. Don't invite demons into your life by engaging in pre-marital sex. Fornication is a sin against God. Maybe the girl na ogbanje self. I repeat, dump her. |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by elantraceey(f): 10:56am On Jan 06, 2016 |
Truckpusher: Hahahaha, I expected this. There's barely any human that doesn't get aroused in this generation that you could see life porn in the street, all it boils down to is self-control, no wonder the Bible mentioned it as a fruit of the spirit signifying its importance. That's where constant renewal of your mind comes into play, when we became born again it was just our spirits that was changed, we have to put our bodies under subjection and renew our minds. So if you're thinking that Christians shouldn't or don't have sexual urges then you should have a rethink because it only reduces as you grow up spiritually. |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by EagleEyes001(m): 10:56am On Jan 06, 2016 |
the woman you really want to settle must be ready to support and follow your principle, to show she is going to stick with you for who you are and what you believe in because she loves you. If you give in to what she wants now, another day maybe she will ask you for another thing which contradicts your believe and if you don't, you know what will happen. |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by merit1988(f): 11:07am On Jan 06, 2016 |
Oh boy. Don't dull yaa sef. Give d chick what she want men. After all,she is ur future wife. |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Truckpusher(m): 11:09am On Jan 06, 2016 |
elantraceey:You've tactically avoided my question . Having sexual urge is for every living thing that reproduces which you can't control 100% unless with time due to belief system and other unseen emotional problems or one is simply down below the belt. Why would you want to see the peniss of your potential life partner and even talk about it thereby offending yourselves when you're not likely to indulge! - my question is : judging from biblical interpretation of sins that are sexual in nature - it is forbidden to do that and can be classified as perversion of course it is perversion and lust which the same bible hammered against . If you truly believe in God and live by the principles of Jesus Christ your Lord and savior and wants to keep to his words then there would be no need looking at it or talking about it until you're ready to consummate your union. Why look and fantasize ? I hope you're aware that some fornicators do not indulge in any form of penetration - They are perverts that prefer to make their partner at that moment a sex object and this is a fact - I know a particular guy that pay girls to be running around stark nakedd in his house doing all forms of erotic moves and dances but he will never mount anyone of them till they go. This is another fact. What is the difference between these type of guys I just mentioned and you that will look and talk about it without doing the deed? Where is the difference ? |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Egware007(m): 11:10am On Jan 06, 2016 |
She is demonic,U better follow the bible standard n enjoy ur future marriage,God will not give u a girl dat ll demand for sex...is the devil in disguise.. ifymagik: |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by UglyMe(f): 11:14am On Jan 06, 2016 |
Op in ur case so many things evolve. It could be she has been doing it behind u and along the line gets pregnant, now she wants u to bear the responsibility of impregnating her. Im not judging her bt just predicting. Which ever decision u want to make dont disobey God to obey man. Sex b4 marriage is a sin against God, so decide wisely. Gud luck |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Nobody: 11:17am On Jan 06, 2016 |
Goodboiyy: New year, New me... Lol |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by horpeepor: 11:17am On Jan 06, 2016 |
Send me her num lemme help u |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by bjcole(m): 11:19am On Jan 06, 2016 |
Marriage is honourable and bed undefiled but whoremongers and fornicators God shall judge. Don't think twice on pre-marital sex brother, you will be better off and celebrated too. A lot of people want to be like you but just find it difficult to abstain, keep it up and you will be proud of yourself. |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by francdec4(m): 11:25am On Jan 06, 2016 |
Hi bro just listen to me. I was there about a year ago and I want you to listen to me clearly. DO NOT DO IT. The girl I dated then was what you described as beauty personified. I really love her but cos I am against pre marital sex and encouraged her for us to wait and that if I have waited for 32 years we can just wait alittle more to our wedding. She later told me she can't wait any longer and I let her go. Now I was reliable informed that even why she was pretending to be waiting for me most of the nights I call her she was even sleeping with another guy who later called me to apologise that she was always with her when we talk on phone. She is serving now and I just hope per chance its not the same girl your talking about. Just stand firm and even if she walks be cool you will surely get who Worth's your time trust me. Conditional loves is not the best. My word my opinion. Cheers ifymagik: 1 Like |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by horpeepor: 11:26am On Jan 06, 2016 |
Abi your dick no dey work again ni |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by elantraceey(f): 11:36am On Jan 06, 2016 |
Truckpusher: lol, let something first , when i said we talk about doesn't mean we'll talk explicitly about the act of lovemaking, it simply meant that we'll discuss some things we like and dislike for example, if He's fantasies about anal sex, I'll simply tell him I can never indulge in it, its just to gain common grounds to avoid unnecessary quarrels during marriage and as for checking it out , I was just kidding And by the way its something that will most likely happen once and probably during courtship. |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Godrep: 11:50am On Jan 06, 2016 |
My heart bleeds just reading some people's comments here.I keep praying for God to personally reveal himself to every youth in my generation.If you are truly God's child you won't do the very things,he asks you not to do.OP,please go and read 1Thessalonians 4.Your decision not to have premarital sex shouldn't be based on morality but because God doesn't permit it.Sin seems to be sweet it has repercussions but God is sweeter.Mind you am a youth myself.Don't be deceived and join the bandwagon. I can boldly tell you that lady is not your rightful partner.Please do not succumb to temptation o.Run as fast as you can.please,make up your mind to obey God rather than please men.Insults will come,you will called old school but please I beg of you,don't go against God to please men.The end result of doing that will be very disastrous.Please,pardon me if this seems to be too long. |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Truckpusher(m): 12:07pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
elantraceey:Ok o . |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Chimdiebere(m): 12:20pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
NewSheriff:chop knuckle abeg! |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by ogbonnajude507: 12:30pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
To all those calling the supposed fiance or girl friend of the op a hoe because she asked for sex,you all are an unrepentant hypocrites,if u have not asked for sex before or rather indulge in sexual relationship,be the first to cast a stone.before u criticize her u must apply both logical reasoning and biblical auction.abraham maslow classified human need into hierachy of 3,which are primary,secondary and tertiary and in the primary need u find food,shelter,clothing and sex which must be satisfied.what more do u expect from a full grown woman who has tasted the forbideen fruit?pls op if u dont want to indulge in premarital sex no problem with that but dont mind those telling you that your woman is not a wife material she is only asking for something humanely possibly but a sin in the sight of the lord.if u ask me what i think, explain to her quoting the bible while it is wrong to do it but if she insist on doing it,just tell her u cant help her and if she goes ahead to cheat on you that will be the end of you guys. 1 Like |
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