Sexxkillz:
I personally do not think you have anything to lose. It's a simple yes or no. Take your chances and see what comes out of it. Call her and find out where she is and go visit her, especially now that she is ill.

Above all, it'll show her that you truly care about her health, and not her riches or physical appearance.

Diddyydiva:
Meet the lady nah , you have nothing to lose.

If she says yes , fine
If she doesn't, life goes on.



Be courageous bro

frakdon:
thanks bro, after reading your comment I had to call her not long ago, well, she is in onitsha now, and I asked her if we can see this weekend, she said she have no idea yet, well I told her, I'll still call her again....

Sexxkillz:
She may try putting you off from seeing her in that state. Gently insist you want to see her and ascertain she's ok from her accident. Never ever mention that you want to see her because you want to discuss if your relationship would still be possible. Show a genuine concern in her well being first, and then other things would naturally follow.

If she agrees to meet, buy simple stuff when going, like fruits. Nothing extravagant. And never spend more than 30 mins with her, even if she insists. Use that opportunity to get another date!

frakdon:
alright, of course, well I'd with my sister's
Number when next I call her again, then I'll talk more with her, sigh* should I call her tomorrow ?

frakdon:
yeah, you are very right...called her this night and she said that she is in onitsha now, I asked her, that could we see this weekend she said she doesn't know yet, I said okay that I'll still call her again, that might be on Friday...
I can't even combine words to say to her like before, because I don't know where I dey go with her, maybe seeing her will decide, how I live with her....you get?
Thanks anyway!

Sexxkillz:
Yes of course.

Diddyydiva:
I wish you luck bro.


The kingdom of God sufferth violent, only the violent takes it by force



with sexkillz second advice, you are good to go

herboshedhe:
[color=#770077][/color]Eleyigidi gan nii o

frakdon:
thanks smiles* I salute! God bless*

Diddyydiva:
you are welcome

Sexxkillz:
Yes of course.

frakdon:
well, I called her again for 3 days now I got no reply, wetin man go do, but to look ahead and like she said she's got just tomorrow to stay here and then return to her base.... Make I go make money, may be that did me in....
Hmmm! Thanks anyway...

Sexxkillz:
Text her and ask about her health. In this case, you have to exhaust all means to get through to her until it's obvious to the blind that she isn't interested.

If she replies your text flatly, and doesn't mention the missed calls you left her, that may be a sign to move on. But, until then, exhaust all options.

frakdon:
I have asked her about her health already, nothing from her, I don't know what she wants me to do,again sometimes I wonder why can't people be honest, with things like this, truly sad you know....
I am pained, because I expected yes, I expected better stuffs from her than this hide and seek.....kai!

Sexxkillz:
Seize contact for a while. If she doesn't make an attempt to contact you, let her go.

joliyp:
hmmm

Sexxkillz:
I personally do not think you have anything to lose. It's a simple yes or no. Take your chances and see what comes out of it. Call her and find out where she is and go visit her, especially now that she is ill.

Above all, it'll show her that you truly care about her health, and not her riches or physical appearance.

repogirl:
Frakdon, you are clearly over thinking things and it seems you're also suffering a blow to your self esteem as a result of your financial challenges.

Call her, visit her or go on a date and see where this leads. Don't over think it, just take it as it comes.

You are jumping into dangerous conclusions when you are not even in her head.

For her to agree to a meeting with you clearly means you might stand a chance with her.

So...just see where it goes.

Hope this helps.

P.S. you're not disturbing me, I'm very glad to be of help. Goodluck!

frakdon:
yeah, thanks..
Well, I'd called her last night, but I would want to tell you what we discussed privately?
Let me send an email to you?

repogirl:
okay then.