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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Tosinville(m): 4:44pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Shortyy:but shortie, you don't really look like a virgin in yo profile picture but if you're then I'd love to be with you , only classic dudes like me go for classic stuffs, niggaz with low 2 Likes |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by chronique(m): 4:52pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Where in my post did I attribute bad characters,laziness,being naïve,and all other forms of bad characters to virgin girls? You see why I will always go for a lady with intellect any day,any time above a lady who's got just probably her virginity? You're so quick to call everything I wrote jargons and hogwash because I haven't painted non-virgins as hoes and virgins as angels,I presume. Do you have an idea what an illustration means? How do you expect me to get my readers to have a balanced view of both situations if I end up painting one part bad and the other good? You conveniently chose to ignore where I said it's a thing of pride for a lady to be a virgin,just because I gave an illustration that paints a virgin as good apart from being an intellectually sound person;does that mean all virgins are dull? The truth is that,when your are closed to reasoning from both sides,and already have a prejudiced opinion about an issue,nothing will make you see reasoning in any other angle from which an argument is brought forth. safarigirl: |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 4:58pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
IamLEGEND1:Nope. More like they have an 'experienced' mind. But waiting for someone special to share fully with. You can't convince me rga being a vurgin is not ideal. You just can't 1 Like |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by michaelwilli(m): 5:05pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
IamLEGEND1:I bet ur gf uses alum to keep tight. Olodo oshi |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by scentmarlc(m): 5:08pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Just like 'John the Baptist' in the bible, the man who foretold the birth of christ several years before, let me say ' I knew this day would come' . A day I would be forced directly or indirectly to say mind, in support or against VIRGINITY. VIRGINITY is a pride to all, both male and female. It is a virtue to be extolled not condemned. It depicts maturity, discipline and to a very large extent, 'Holiness' (To some churches , as if that's all holiness entails). In another way, it shows your level of endurance and character, a trait everyone should pray to exhibit. In a world full of contempt, vulgarism, pollution, sexual assaults, harassments, Nudity, lewdism et al., it then can be said of anyone who has been tribulated from birth by this temptations to have been able to abstain and maintain his/her dignity till marriage. This is my opinnion and should be respected. HOWEVER, Virginity has evolved in a lot of ways over the years. Its meaning could be likened to Dolly Partons "Coat of Many Colors" . The Word itself has been used as different part of speech - as an adjective , as a noun , as a Verb .... To say the least, I doubt if one can actually grab the full concept of a 'maiden' or a Virgin. Thanks to our sharp guys , many ladies have been tempted into sexual activeness at a very tender age and they themselves have learnt the rope so fast they know all the styles in the book. ( God dey sha ) . Social influence on our mentalities hasn't helped either. The songs we hear, the movies we watch - all na sex tape Now to where am going ! Life is too short to complicate matters of the 'down below' . It is either you want to remain 'chacha' or you want to be tokunbo ( God knows some tokunbo make sense die ) . I wrote an article on my blog few months back, precisely May 2015, titled "VIRGINS OF DOOM" (You can read it via https://scentmarlc./2015/05/12/virgins-of-doom/ ) and. I created a thread with the same title on Nairaland few days later ( Check the Thread here http://nairaland.com/2308824/virgins-doom ) . In it, I castigated ladies that has turned the word virgin into a self-acclaimed title (I can hear someone sayin 'just like shortyy' ) . A mere trophy to keep. Most of them do things that are worst of sex or at par with it like Mouth Gig, anal sex, MouthAction bla bla bla ( Don't wanna corrupt you guys ) . Then you begin to wonder after the Mouth Gig you asked to start the main film and she bolted 'like say she saw her dead grandma' . These set of people are Virgins of doom. Another set of culprits are those that are fortunate to meet a serious guy at a tender age. Based on agreement, they decided to stay off each other's pant till marriage (possibly after 5-8 years. Hunn ). The guy must have been so grateful to God to have found a lady with an esteemed self pride and felt 5-8years was just around the corner. 2 years gone by, the lady comes off age and begins to find our dear brother boring and inadventurous but wouldn't dare tell him 'Babie let's have sex' just to maintain her good girl image. Instead, she runz out to naijaboiy's hands and chop the koboko as much as she wants. ( U sef know say d guy dey loaded downstairs na ). To the main guy, she is still a virgin. Smh . These set of ladies are Virgins of doom. Another sets of DOOMED VIRGINs are those that can't do without smooching. To make up for their inability to have sex, they resort to obtaining a Bsc in smooching . 5-hours is just like 10mins to them. ( Infact, they can kiss for africa ) . Sooner or later they get so addicted to romance such that when they eventually start doing the 'styles', it gets so intense for the unlucky guy to cope with. Abii which kyn yeye sex we wan have wey we go first use almost one hour romance body , abeg leave threash for lawma and dem wolewole joor . You don't need a soothesayer to tell you such girls do have sex in their dream Don't forget "Just the tippers" oooo . These set will even encourage you to put just the penis tip in their canal. The sensation that alone gives them can't be measured. Some will even offer to help you hold the shaft and rub the cap against their clitoris ; first in a circular motion, then slowly stroking it perpendicularly to simulate the cringing effect of thrusting ( don't let's go into details bikoo ) . Now tell me, if hymen were to be sold, these sets won't hesisitate to buy a full carton ahome just to have the flexibility of having sex and replacing the hymen back ( just like ladycare ) . The last set of doomed virgins are those that won't let us sleep 'cos they are priviledged to be a virgin (majority of which aint goodlooking ) . These types won't stop blabbing around in the hostels and would stop @ nothing until they know the virginity status of every one in the hostel. They are always like "Nkechi I hope you are still a virgin like me sha" Summary, virginity is not a title. Its not a concept. Its not an Idea. Its not a joke. Its not a trophy. Virgins should try to know they are absolute not in competition with anyone. Virginity is a virtue that comes by choice. And we all have that choice to make at one point or the other. Virginity is not a thing of the mind neither does it increase your intelligence. It doesn't add to your CV and I doubt if boost your account balance. But it does GIVE YOU SELF-PRIDE and COMPLETE PEACE OF MIND when you get married and if I must say, you likely gain more TRUST from your partner. Yet Nothing is GUARANTEED. Chikena. NOTE: I do not support male promiscuity or prostitution of whatever form neither have I paid less attention to male Virginity. Infact I wrote an article on my blog (March2015) titled "MALE VIRGINITY: An Honour Fading Into Oblivion" (Click here to read full texts of the article .. https://scentmarlc./2015/03/15/male-virginity-an-honour-fading-into-oblivion-2/ ) . In the post, I chastised the society for placing too much emphasy on female abstinence and undersensitizing the male folks on the need for remaining undefiled. Feel free to go through those links I dropped, its very likely you know my true position on this matter. So guys, sorry I bored you with my epistle. Na shortYy cause am Cc: @emusmith @estharfabian @ronald4lif @pwetychyka @misspicy @kinglekan @king01 @aminat508 @omotayor123 @tonyebarcanista @toks2008 @tosyne2much @wristbangle @midolian @montezz @twaci @tohpahz 8 Likes 5 Shares
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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by IamLEGEND1: 5:08pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
michaelwilli:k |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by michaelwilli(m): 5:15pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
All d fools here dat discredit virginity are definitely not married. They are single boyz who don't earn a living but want to hit every puny they come across. Get yourself a life and see if virginity doesn't matter to you. Awon smellos alainise oniranu. If u want ur virginity back, com n take it. 3 Likes |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by IamLEGEND1: 5:16pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
dovelike:what?!!!!!!! who said I was trying to convince you that being a virgin wasn't ideal? it's good,just makes zero difference to most people,me included (obviously). |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by SexyCeline(f): 5:17pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
emmyw:tnx |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by scentmarlc(m): 5:26pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
SexyCeline: My brother don't be fooled by the sudden innocence of all the babes on this thread. Go to sexuality section and you will see them jumping on any thread that has "sex" or "pennis" as the Keyword. I have learnt to stick with the truth - Virgin or No virgin. You gain nothing by fooling your boyfriend that you are a virgin when obviously you are not. And so far, I have not seen the correlation between character, attitude and virginity. Ironically, the egoistics types of virgins are the worst people to live with. I will always appreciate whoever, male or female that's remains a virgin till the wedding night but I will never discriminate or look down or on those who aint also. Like I said before, Life is too short. Y. O . L . O My 2cent bro So baba, |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 5:26pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
scentmarlc: |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by scentmarlc(m): 5:36pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
IamLEGEND1: Baba mii I dey with you in spirit. I just dey observe una proceedings with my HD camera |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by scentmarlc(m): 5:39pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 5:43pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Saying the pride of a woman is her virginity is the most disparaging, sexist and wrong statement ever. Reasons to Keep Ur Virginity: Primarily: Religion - And this should apply to both genders. If ur religion does not allow for fornication outside of marriage, then don't do it. Especially if u consider urself rly a Christian/Muslim (dunno what the Koran says sha, I'm just assuming). Remember this also means no cheating, so a "typical African man" that cheats on his wife occasionally is even wayyyy worse than a girl who's not a virgin. Key thing about this point, like I said is that it applies to both genders. Psychological - If you're not old enough or not ready or don't want Physically - health issues Every other reason is bogus and usually sexist garbage. "If you are a Christian, don't engage in premarital sex." That's a better topic than "Girls, keep your virginity" 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by scentmarlc(m): 5:50pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
misspicy: Hmmmmmmmmmmm..... Over to my Fellow Romance Honourables : What did you guys see to this motion raised by Hon. Misspicy? @emusmith @estharfabian @ronald4lif @pwetychyka @kinglekan @king01 @aminat508 @omotayor123 @tonyebarcanista @toks2008 @tosyne2much @wristbangle @midolian @montezz @twaci @tohpahz @twaci @iamlegend1 @sexyceline @mrsphyno |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
safarigirl: Hmmm, very okay listening to shag tales but no wan shag that shows you fantasize about it |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Prinsolala(m): 5:59pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
SexyCeline:secondary virgin...?.. Pls elaborate more!! |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Lawcurrent(m): 6:21pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
I support op. but We are living in a generation where people in
love are free to touch each others' private
parts but cannot touch each others' phones
because they're private"! |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by emmyw(m): 6:26pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
SexyCeline:You are welcome. |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 6:34pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
really |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 6:52pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
scentmarlc: See Note |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Luckygurl(f): 6:55pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
TheSonOfMark: Lol!! Honestly, I was kinda expecting to see her reply on this but truth be told it ain't any of my business @thread So much hate from both parties More like it’s a sort of competition on who’s better off between the virgins and the non virgins. Heck!! What’s up with the fierce struggle to paint yourself nice whilst looking down on the others who choose to live their lives differently from the way you do. It makes you feel good about yourself, huh Increases your account balance details I guess… Iranu!!!! I bet no one in this planet earth save your partner cares to know what your sexual status is So please!! For the non-virgins save us the boring details of your sexual excapades , the number of dicks you’ve allowed inside of you and how experienced you are in the act of sex And for the virgins, do us a favor too and stop boring us with the “my virginity is my pride” cliché What else do you have to offer in the relationship aside your been a virgin or perhaps your been a gateway to dicks of different sizes and shapes Live and let live bikonu!! Life is all about choices and you’ll live to reap the fruits of what you’ve sown whether good or bad. For a moment, sit back and ponder over your life and just forget about everyone else and the path they chose to tow. Errrmmmm!!!!!!! But I’ve got to add at this point, as matured humans (females especially), we’ve got to take full responsibility of our sexual life and how we choose to live it. Let’s not be influenced by peer or societal pressure. Do things not because you’re been coerced into doing them but cos you know what you’re doing is right and you can live with the full consequences of your actions….. EOD |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by TheSonOfMark(m): 7:06pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Luckygurl: The dimwitted hypocrite who goes by the moniker "Misspicy" sure couldn't reply but she admitted I exposed her via her status. Check the screenshot below.
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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by misspicy(f): 7:19pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Luckygurl:luckygurl you were expecting misspicy to reply a lunatic this new year,after my new year resolution not to entertain any E-fights? where I come from we don't exchange words with mad men,we run from them,a madman's spittle can make you mad,I can't afford to be infected with that deluded being's madness biko okay amma explain to you sweety misspicy's comment does not reflect her personal life,moi will not come on NL and be ranting about been a virgin or not,I comment to suite a thread,read that thread very well,(where the great son of mark is bursting and exposing misspicy) i was sarcastic on it,read my posts you will find threads I use the word "am a virgin" and threads I still talk about sex like a pro...ma'am am neither a virgin or a non virgin on nairaland biko,am here to catch fun,not to be tagged one of nairaland's virgin kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa I laugh in FOO language note moi will never reply a lunatic. |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Luckygurl(f): 7:27pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
misspicy: LMAO!! Now!! I won't be caught in betweeen this e shii!! It's all good though |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 7:32pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
really |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by emmansctx: 7:33pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
a woman has nothing to offer me except her VIRGINITY... it's just simply 1 Like |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by misspicy(f): 7:44pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Luckygurl:Darling I have first hand experience with E-BULLIES,and nairaland bullies are just learners sweedy misspicy is not a whiny whini girl,I allow mad people free display..... just watch me as I cause another headache for them soonest |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by misspicy(f): 7:49pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
CarlyX8:Did you call on me did you mention misspicy dude kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 8:56pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
MrsPhyno: Preach girl, preach! |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by easymanofdpeopl(m): 9:14pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Shortyy: A good response I like it. |
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by easymanofdpeopl(m): 9:32pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Luckygurl: Thank u for a nice advice |
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