MrsChima:


You must be Yoruba?

lefulefu:

bros a number of them have dis militant outlook and i no agree with u on dat oo.its not all feminist who were maltreated by men in the past....ooo.some of them just prefer to be dat way.anyway i pray for the day naija will have a female presido but i wouldnt hope for her to be a feminist coz she go just line all the men for firing squard dey shoot them

MrsChima:


I was instructed by my e-husband to refrain from feminist talk on this thread but I will answer you on another thread.

MrsChima:


I was instructed by my e-husband to refrain from feminist talk on this thread but I will answer you on another thread.

jrerico1:
Am Urhobo, I better remain single that staying with am impudent woman, so I'll leave

icedbeatz:

TRANSLATION = I have no reasonable reason to disprove this for now. Hahahahahaha alright dear.

MrsChima:


Boo can you tame your eyebrows? You are cute.

blackpanther25:
Definitely from the West. These niggas get orgasms from beating women

SemuhleB:
Am not generalising that's why I am asking but by some of the comments it seems it's okay to beat women. No man can ever beat me and get away with it

SemuhleB:
Am not generalising that's why I am asking but by some of the comments it seems it's okay to beat women. No man can ever beat me and get away with it

all4naija:

You are really a barbarian. Primitive man brought out of the cave. You need to move back in there.

RoyalPearl:
I never knew there would be a day where I would agree with you about something.

logica:
Do you suffer from premature orgasm or what? Last time I checked, you didn't start the thread.

RoyalPearl:
I never knew there would be a day where I would agree with you about something.

all4naija:
You've agreed with me a lot of times before. This an exaggeration.

blackpanther25:
Hey beautiful. It's been a long time. How you doing? Don't mind those primitive Yolobas. That's how they are. Women beaters. If you ever have to date a Nigerian. Don't go for Yoloba or you will be singing all Nigerian men are bad .

MrsChima:

That is your dream huh?

SemuhleB:
Am not generalising that's why I am asking but by some of the comments it seems it's okay to beat women. No man can ever beat me and get away with it

icedbeatz:

Not at all but your reality.

icedbeatz:

Hahshahahahahahahahaha Mrschima the crazy aged woman Hahahahahaha relax before I call your doctor ok?
Mrschima I'll love to see equality on both sexes but sadly it can never ever ever be achieved. I'm a realist and that's my perception, the female will either be above the male (e.g u.s, u.k and more) or the male above the female and I have many reasons to back that up.
1. God never planned it to be that way, he created woman to be a man's helper and lover for the man to love, protect, care and provide for. a man's better half and never to be equal but if any of you have anything opposing to this religiously bring it.
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2. can any of you name a country where both sexes have equal rights after so many years this feminism thing started?
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3. if it's achievable why are certain responsibilities are assigned to men and vice versa?
well y'all feminists can continue having a blast.
@ronald 4lif can sex equality be achieved?

ronald4lif:


I guess you mean gender equality?. Well, I don't think the can ever be an even and exact egalitarianism on a household but its attainable on other ramifications of life. In a family is unrealistic. There can only be a close to equality in a household for one person has to have an edge. There's a problem when the man attempt to have enormous powers which could lead to subjugating the woman and making her a subordinate.

So to your question if the can be a gender equality - it's yes and no. Yes, in political, corporations, jobs opportunity and socio-economic strata but no in a household. A household can only be closed to equalness but I don't think functionalities can ever be even.

MrsChima:


There are households where both the man and woman shares equal footing in the home Many of them are still married 30 years strong. Yes, when it comes to emergency situations the man will make an executive decision however for the most part the husband consult with the wife before decisions are made. It is a team effort that succeed the family and not dictatorship as many men seems to run their household by.

It can be done and it has been done. You don't want to and that's okay.

ronald4lif:


What does the emboldened tell you?. It's in tandem with my postulation and we all know it's a combine effort to have a successful home. My point, however, is that there are situations where someone is expected to cheerlead and make drastic decisions in the family and this is where the man takes leadership.

There are some instances and decision making the woman cheerleads too but in most cases the man steer the ship. Equal footing is unrealistic in a household all the time. How can there be 'even' equality when a man still makes most decisions?. Close to it yes, but not exact.

SemuhleB:
Stop hating now boo. I don't see myself superior to men. But as equals. In fact I love strong black manly men who take charge and can lead
Am not looking to be a man or replace a man but there is no ways I will support women beating. It just ain't right

sexylogan:


Any man who beats a woman is unworthy of her love.

SemuhleB:
Okay so here goes. I have a few Nigerian male friends and a couple of days ago this is what one of them said to me " Here in South Africa you women are too free". Every little beating then you call the police. In Nigeria if a police came the first thing they would ask you is what is your relationship between the lady, and if it's your Gf/wife the police would leave you to continue. Beatings is how you keep women in check.

After hearing this I was appalled but then I began to understand why a lot of Nigerian men beat their girlfriends and wife's here. So is it really a cultural thing, that it is okay for men to beat women? Do the police really not do anything about this?

SemuhleB:
Okay so here goes. I have a few Nigerian male friends and a couple of days ago this is what one of them said to me " Here in South Africa you women are too free". Every little beating then you call the police. In Nigeria if a police came the first thing they would ask you is what is your relationship between the lady, and if it's your Gf/wife the police would leave you to continue. Beatings is how you keep women in check.

After hearing this I was appalled but then I began to understand why a lot of Nigerian men beat their girlfriends and wife's here. So is it really a cultural thing, that it is okay for men to beat women? Do the police really not do anything about this?

A40:

Lol this chic what is your agenda? Physical abuse is prevalent everywhere na? No be for your obodo southie Amputee shoot him girlfriend. Haha pls chill oo

SemuhleB:


I see you going through my posts
On a serious note it was just a question. Off course there is physical abuse everywhere but it just seemed like it's more cultural and accepted by ya'll. I mean if the police had to see a man beating a woman the guy would immediately be arrested no questions ask. Don't take it personal just asking. A friend who dated a Nigerian guy was always threatened to be beaten like it was nothing. He told her if he sees her with another guy he will best her. If she doesn't stop with the 'attitude" he will be at her

A40:

Lol cos you're a pretty young chica Assuming that's you on the profile. And I'd like to know your gripe with Naija men and see if I can perhaps cure you of it.

Violence against women is fairly common in Sub Saharan Africa even in your darling SA I'm sure if we check the stats of rape and domestic abuse it would be very little separating both countries (Naija/SA) the focus should be on how it can be eradicated and not who indulges in it more because I don't see what difference it makes.

And no it is not normal for Nigerian Men to beat Nigerian women. I have never beaten my woman and I am completely against men beating a woman. Or any sort of violence in a relationship

SemuhleB:
Honestly I don't have anything against Nigerians. I have some as friends and I think you guys are funny. It's just dating wise is just a no no for me that's all