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Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by beingme(f): 9:40am On Jul 15, 2009 |
why would u marry someone u dont like? Why did u marry her? Sort urself out man |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by Kooksie: 10:19am On Jul 15, 2009 |
you obviously are not in love with her and i u think that you should probably leave her but i defiantly would still support the child and i would want to have a realtionship with the chil;d and i think that you would still be friends with the girl cause you have known each other for such a long time. |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by Bota: 3:16pm On Jul 15, 2009 |
You are just being immature. You already have this one, so now you are whining, you want someone else. Love is not all about how good she makes you feel, love is a decision. You need to sit up and face up to your responsibilities. You have laid your bed, so you must lie on it. Goodluck ! |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by vronnie(f): 5:26pm On Jul 15, 2009 |
Richard you have what some men would kill for , I think you should teach your wife about everything that you like encluding politics, sports and any other thing that you like not only will you have a good wife but she will be what you have taught her ,you already have her love so add all of those things togother and your family life will improve and please move into the same bedroom just pratice birth control until you guys are ready for more kids. In short Train your wife to your likings. |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by Fhemmmy: 6:49pm On Jul 15, 2009 |
vronnie: Wisely said |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by boy1(m): 9:10pm On Jul 15, 2009 |
vronnie:damn d poster must she like politics?i 4 one don't like discussing politics. d guy doesn't appreciate her.finito! |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by Nezan(m): 1:50pm On Jul 16, 2009 |
beingme:as simple as that |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by Fhemmmy: 1:52pm On Jul 16, 2009 |
Nezan: If it was that simple, he would have done that and never would have come for advice. |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by MrWaters: 4:28am On Jul 17, 2009 |
Damn!!! Why you impregnate her when u don't love her? Oh u just want a piece of her and now u have it. The prob is not LOVE but u don't like her!!! But why ar some guys such and hypocrites? |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by no1madman(m): 8:08am On Jul 17, 2009 |
mad!mad!mad! |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by suprted(m): 8:16am On Jul 17, 2009 |
shoulda wrapped it up first. |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by oriental01(f): 8:54am On Jul 17, 2009 |
was she attractive when u first slept with her? and now? i wonder y u forgot ur condom since u said she got some inner beauty,then work on dat, get close 2 her and make love 2 her. be matured,if u try and u don't feel anything,let her go. have it in mind "it's not easy 2 find a good wife". True talk you better get ready for worse if u let this one go, |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by aristocrat(m): 11:55am On Jul 17, 2009 |
the best advice i can offer to u as a friend is to let her go cos ur staying together can never work.but wait a minute how did u woe her wen u never felt anything 4her? omo guys are desperate in getting a lady but after dis dey turn to something else. good luk guy. |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by opuro(m): 12:46pm On Jul 17, 2009 |
Most men dont love their wife they just try to understand them. |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by Fhemmmy: 2:15pm On Jul 17, 2009 |
opuro: U mean marriage is now abt love but understanding? |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by aristocrat(m): 3:33pm On Jul 17, 2009 |
marriage is abt lov and understanding each other |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by nwaka80(f): 3:41pm On Jul 17, 2009 |
she is not worth giving your luv to but she's worth sleeping with just to satisfy your carnal desires. i just can't understand this; why will one even sleep with someone he doesn't have a feeling for to the point of getting her pregnant, thought they said sex is about feelings or were u on heat dat day? That's the reason why they manufacture CD in the firt place. |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by Fhemmmy: 3:53pm On Jul 17, 2009 |
aristocrat: thank you jare |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by Kx: 3:56pm On Jul 17, 2009 |
Guy,work on ur sef. For crying out loud, dis woman has remained faithful inspite of the difficult nites u ve put her thru. Am not convinced dat u aint the problem and not the poor woman. |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by prittigrrr(f): 9:33pm On Jul 17, 2009 |
Do people even bother reading the full posts? |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by Fhemmmy: 9:52pm On Jul 17, 2009 |
prittigrrr: i guess not |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by sley4life(m): 12:55am On Jul 18, 2009 |
u're an as$hole |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by tentacle45: 12:44pm On Jul 18, 2009 |
Had it been you are a Muslim it would have been very easy. first you will be punish for fornicating with someone not your wife and after that you still have the chance of marrying 3 other beautiful women you really love or you can divorce the woman for good. because if you don't love a woman and you are married to her in fact it is a calamity if you are force to stay with her for ever. |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by aristocrat(m): 6:00pm On Jul 21, 2009 |
my guy i beg go remarry. |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by Nobody: 6:58pm On Jul 21, 2009 |
poster if you know what's good for you, ignore all the bulldozers with questionable lives who always want others to be failures like them. And if you know you dont have a casanova heart, then stop listening to losers. And grow up, for goodness sake. Be a man and responsible. |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by richard10: 9:39am On Jul 22, 2009 |
@tpia thanks and 4 u all who have responded thank you all,well i am beginging to apply the maxim which says "if you dont marry the one you love then love the one you marry"i came across this in a book,i want to belive that things will work out good for me,those things i didnt like about my wife i am begining to accept cos there is nothing i can do about them than pray and encorage her to change. once again i have decided to accept my responsiblites so pls those insulting responses which i have noted from some members should pls stop,i know i messed up but then i have paid d price and still doing,i make sure my wife lacks nothing materially,i also take care of my inlaws very much,infact my faterinlaw said i am one of the most responsible son in laws he he has ever seen,so pls nobody should insult me here,i only stated my feelings which to me is not a sin,so please all da beefers get off my back,once again peace to you all |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by vronnie(f): 4:11am On Jul 23, 2009 |
Richard , You have made a wise decision and forget about all the haters.press on young man press on |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by aristocrat(m): 6:19pm On Jul 28, 2009 |
nice one |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by Fhemmmy: 6:29pm On Jul 28, 2009 |
richard10: You are a man. It takes a real man to accept his faults and made it right. You are a great man. Wish you the best, and pls, when you born pikin, name the child FEMI. |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by selencious(f): 11:18pm On Feb 09, 2010 |
Why have intimacy with her when you know u ain love her??(hisses) Now you stuck. Well, we all make mistakes. Talk to your parents and maybe your pastor about it. Its not worth living that way;im not a fan of divorce, but in ur case, I think it would result to a divorce. |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by MCLOVIN: 10:37pm On Feb 11, 2010 |
Poster Its easy for everyone to give advice, do this, do that. . .but you have to ask yourself '' do I have the will to work this out ?'' Even if your answer is yes , what about her ? Is she ready to meet you halfway ? If she's not you'll end up looking like a bigger mugg than at present. At the end of the day miracles can still happen so PRAY one does. |
Re: Please Help I Dont Love My Wife by viktuur(m): 8:10pm On Nov 07, 2013 |
HE LOVES HER already according to the WORD. Love is Kind-AGAPE, phileo and Heros will grow later! |
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