ronald4lif:
Mr. Toks, did you had the pipe on when writing this piece? I mean like you were under the influence of that stuff?

classicB:
"What some married women dnt understand is, that their husband is having sex with other ladies out there doesnt make them less of a wife, lover, mother..., a man can actually love u and still have sex outside. This is because a real man have sex with his d!ck and not his emotions, meanline a woman having sex outside her marriage is slowly destroying it because most times women have sex not only with their vagina but also with their emotion that is why a cheating husband will not allow his wife cheat bck." As said by a married level mate.

daretodiffer:


Easy

classicB:

Cheating in my opinion can be categorised. There are some married men that cheat on their wives and make her understand that they actually have a mistress, these kind of men deny their wives her conjugal right, they deprive her of emotional attention and some other things. I can say men that belongs here do not love their wives. Meanwhile there are some married men that only "sleep outside" they do all they can to prevent their wives from knowing, these kind of people respect their wives enough, they dnt deny her of her right neither do they punish her emotionally.
Lemme tell about our driver, this man loves his wife so much that he is the one that buys her underwear cater for all her needs and so on, yet this man has a mistress, he belongs to the second category
I[b] dnt know why men cheat anyway.
But a man that loves u belongs with u no matter how many ladies he straffs per day youre his lover, his wife, the mother of his kids, i dnt know why some frustrated bitches shud bother u
Abeg if ur husby belong to the first category you r on ur own o [/b]

ronald4lif:


Lol. Allow Mr. Toks to dismiss my claim so I can point out the folly and utter aberrance in his write up. Don't let me spill out yet.

daretodiffer:
Wonders shall never end

So man get mind to say woman of a cheating partner is impatient

No one wan take responsibility again o

Oya let's keep passing it around

ststyreal:

Hahaha, I can only but laugh at your ignorance of my status

Neverquit:
Your post is kinda selfish though. Who said anything about the women cheating back as revenge?

Why not put yourself in her shoes to know what it feels like to be cheated on. So are you telling me that you are free to cheat because of the little or no consequences? What happened to upholding the vows you took before God & man?

And the sad thing is after some men cheats all over the globe (probably infected with all sort of STDs), they will expect the wife to welcome them back with open arms.

My main ish is treating each other with love and respect. Treat him/her the way you want to be treated.

Toks2008:


If you read the first point,i mentioned emphatically that a saint can turn to a demon and except there is a tag that is placed on every man's head to know which one will not turn a philanderer after marrying you,maybe your assertion of ladies not marrying a philanderer.

Any unmarried lady will never understand no matter how hard she tries to until she is married and faced with that hard fact that most men cheat on their wives and it is only the man who gets caught that takes the heat.

I tell ladies point blank,if you divorce your hubby cos he cheats on you,then you are not only dumb but clueless because there is no guaranty that the next ten men you come accross after that won't do worse,if you also chjeat on your man to get back at him then you are the queen of fools cos you are doing yourself more harm than good BUT IF YOU DIVORCE A GUY THAT CHEATS WITH IMPUNITY,I SUPPORT YOU...Because it is bad enough for a man to cheat on his wife but totally insane for him to do it to her face...

This is one fact many ladies will never come to terms with until they are faced with the harsh reality...LET THAT GUY BE,your marital or overall happines must never be dependent on a man's fidelity towards you...there is more to life than watching your hubby,or crying over the fact that he is seing other ladies...

Polygamy is not a sin so why kill yourself because your hubby decides to be with another lady when he can actually marry another lady.

For the guys, adultery is a sin and if you indulge in it then start preparing to spend your eternal life in hell but if you must indulge in this hell bound act,please respect that woman by going very far to mo sa fun e to avenue.

SAMBARRY:
if you're expecting it to open a thread and type something reasonable and edifying you're on a long thing

ronald4lif:


Lol. Allow Mr. Toks to dismiss my claim so I can point out the folly and utter aberrance in his write up. Don't let me spill out yet.

Rukkydelta:
My future hubby will not cheat on me, so why should i bother ?

daretodiffer:


Lolz

I want to see the end of this thread

sonofananimal:


many women have SAY what you just said!

daretodiffer:

Ode!

SAMBARRY:
he'll even disgust you with more folly

SAMBARRY:
lord have mercy
The joke is on you

ststyreal:

Abeg, enough of this husband cheating rubbish and the world clapping in approval of it. For Christ sake, if a man who have vowed before the altar of God and his people to remain faithful to his spouse on their wedding day, now went behind to default in the vow he willingly made before God to his wife, do u think such a man will go unpunished? Huh! You people should stop deceiving your self with a false consolation words like, "man is polygamous in nature or that man is born to cheat or DNA whatever", cos every word spoken must be accounted for, let alone a vow u made before d sanctuary of God' promising to be faithful to your partner. Well, as for me(not my portion though) cos God knows I can't stand a cheating husband, Nitori pe because, my own level of jealousy be like say e pass baba God own. Even though I have told God, that in as much as I remained faithful to my husband, any husband that decides to go unfaithful will always have curses hanged over his life. Enough of this cheating approval, any man who have the intention to cheat on his wife, should make it known to the woman prior to the wedding, if she can cope, fine, if not, she finds her way. Just as any woman marrying a Muslim man should have known the likelihood of the man marrying more wives because of the religion, such scenario is understandable, but not a man, who vowed to be faithful to me before God and his priest and people, now turned back to start cheating on me and u people expect me to swallow it and keep loving him, it is a lie! He will be receiving curses everyday of his life until he desist from such act.

Donpressman:
your status is irrelevant. Its either you are single and have this fantasy perfect marriage dreams or you are married and oblivious of your partner's cheating (datz if he does). You can't change a thing. Either ways what he told you is the plain truth. End of!

sonofananimal:
this WOMAN have come back with her wahala again!

happy new year!

and leave me alone

ststyreal:

Abeg, enough of this husband cheating rubbish and the world clapping in approval of it. For Christ sake, if a man who have vowed before the altar of God and his people to remain faithful to his spouse on their wedding day, now went behind to default in the vow he willingly made before God to his wife, do u think such a man will go unpunished? Huh! You people should stop deceiving your self with a false consolation words like, "man is polygamous in nature or that man is born to cheat or DNA whatever", cos every word spoken must be accounted for, let alone a vow u made before d sanctuary of God' promising to be faithful to your partner. Well, as for me(not my portion though) cos God knows I can't stand a cheating husband, Nitori pe because, my own level of jealousy be like say e pass baba God own. Even though I have told God, that in as much as I remained faithful to my husband, any husband that decides to go unfaithful will always have curses hanged over his life. Enough of this cheating approval, any man who have the intention to cheat on his wife, should make it known to the woman prior to the wedding, if she can cope, fine, if not, she finds her way. Just as any woman marrying a Muslim man should have known the likelihood of the man marrying more wives because of the religion, such scenario is understandable, but not a man, who vowed to be faithful to me before God and his priest and people, now turned back to start cheating on me and u people expect me to swallow it and keep loving him, it is a lie! He will be receiving curses everyday of his life until he desist from such act.

daretodiffer:


Happy new year

naijaboiy:
A man must cheat. I've come to realise and slowly accept that fact.

Take it or leave it.

chronique:
I pray for God to give you wisdom. By the time ou start placing curses on him and life starts becoming miserable for him,wouldn't ou partake in the misfortune? Instead of you to pray for him,you want to heap curses on him;do you know that those curses can later manifest in the life of his/your children? Wisdom is the principal thing;in all th gettings,get wisdom. This your post here,doesn't show/depict you as a woman who has wisdom to successfully run a home;no insults intended.