evy1:
Same question i asked and someone quoted me that why am i not having pity on the girl.

Lol. Lots of pretenders on here. The best she can do now is abortion.

After all, some women here who comment, had already done abortion in the past and still get married.

DeeTus:
That tactics doesn't work anymore. An intelligent man who wants to marry you would surely know and then withdraw.

And she has everything you need in a woman but the only thing she did wrong was to avoid murder according to your intelligence.

Tell me more about intelligence.

debbysmyles:
Decker I appreciate but my mum has been warning me since about pregnancy,the main problem now is the guy is threatening to deny me and pregnancy if I don't abort it.

at least you will be a lesson to others out there. your unclothedness belongs to your husband not your boy friend.

if you abort it a million things could go wrong, from losing your life to losing your womb.

so, just jejely carry the pregnancy to term and give birth.

tell your parents. bear the shame, insults, ridicule and every other negativity that comes with it.

hunker down and bear it m'dear, life is just about to get very tough for you.

keep your head and your wit and you may still be able to make something worthwhile out of your life yet.

I wish you the best.

seaga:


Yes seems morally right,I personally don't subscribe to abortion. But then do you know how many ladies that ve done this and still kept their faces and still went on to live a normal life without baby mama stigma.I ve a lady at my office she's getting really old now, everyone she dates dump her immediately they know she has a child,really feel sorry for her, she really prays to be married but....

Dont you think men have a problem, a very big one for that matter?

Her mistake cannot be forgiven even when she chose the better alternative for herself and her child? Common.

Ask God for mercy, tell God to help you And the child, By all means keep the child and you'd thank me later.



Cheers

Speechless3:
And she has everything you need in a woman but the only thing she did wrong was to avoid murder according to your intelligence.

Tell me more about intelligence.

How did you know she's everything a man needs in life? Forget about that. I am not interested in that.

What i am utmost interested in, is solution. At worst, her man could marry her or take responsibility for his action.

DeeTus:
How did you know she's everything a man needs in life? Forget about that. I am not interested in that.

What i am utmost interested in, is solution. At worst, her man could marry her or take responsibility for his action.

ok

Michellla:
Hope this is not a fabricated story in a bid to be on frontpage.like you people get paid for it or something.
back to the topic.
Abortion Often Brings Shame, Heartache, and Deep Regret.. Most women who decide to have an abortion spend the rest of their lives regretting it.
Are you thinking about an abortion? I challenge you to visit with some woman who have had abortions. Ask them if they would do it again. Ask them if they have any regret.the answer you would get is NO.please dont abort.tell your parents about the baby.i just hope they are considerate....

I was believing her until she mentioned prophecy! Then I remembered have watched this movie before

U would hav tot of dis b4 having sex without CD..... At 21 dat ur meant to focus on ur studies. Ur there having sex..

debbysmyles:
My mum will never accept me,I'm scared right now.

pls any lady dat knws she's gonna post such tin shud also post wen she's dating and straffing d guy as well.

Tell ur parents and face d consequences. Cos if u abort d baby as ur scared now. U might loose ur life.

debbysmyles:
Pls I need advice,i just had to create a new account to avoid embrassment.
I'm 21yrs old and I had sex for the first time 1month ago,i was feeling sick so I decided to visit the doctor only to discover that i am pregnant.

I told my boyfriend and he suggested abortion..the problem is I don't want to abort the baby cos of fear.I kept my since till one ago because of different Phrophecy concerning pregnancy I must not abort if I do I will die.
I told my boyfriend everything but he insist I abort it if not he is going to abandon me to my fate.
My mum will kill me,society will crucify me,i have cried and cried,i don't know what to do.

Some guys are wicked upon all the promise of love.
I would have kept my virginity if I had known.

Or you would have asked your boyfriend to use a condom, so by now una for continue di flexing instead of you going through your current predicament. My advice to you is that take a decision for you and nobody else.

debbysmyles:
Pls I need advice,i just had to create a new account to avoid embrassment.
I'm 21yrs old and I had sex for the first time 1month ago,i was feeling sick so I decided to visit the doctor only to discover that i am pregnant.

I told my boyfriend and he suggested abortion..the problem is I don't want to abort the baby cos of fear.I kept my since till one ago because of different Phrophecy concerning pregnancy I must not abort if I do I will die.
I told my boyfriend everything but he insist I abort it if not he is going to abandon me to my fate.
My mum will kill me,society will crucify me,i have cried and cried,i don't know what to do.

Some guys are wicked upon all the promise of love.
I would have kept my virginity if I had known.

It's late to cry over spilt milk, you're 21 and at this point in time you don't need a child, abortion might be the inhumane thing to do , but it's the right option, you can ask for forgiveness after.. Most people don't understand how your life will change after this if you have that child.. You have your life to live, you made a mistake and it shouldn't ruin your life

debbysmyles:
Decker I appreciate but my mum has been warning me since about pregnancy,the main problem now is the guy is threatening to deny me and pregnancy if I don't abort it.

Any denial by your boyfriend doesn't change the fact that he is the father of your child so don't worry about that. Take a decision that you are comfortable with.

Goshiii:
Or you would have asked your boyfriend to use a condom, so by now una for continue di flexing instead of you going through your current predicament. My advice to you is that take a decision for you and nobody else.

A condom could break during passion. Doubling it is the best thing to do.

Bae wait for the pregnancy to b above.8 weeks,then d $ c can be done, it will not take up to 30 minutes and u would b fine d next day,u might experience dizziness after d suction due to the use of local anesthesia and u will need someone to encourage u during the process, surgical abortion is way better and safer then medical abortion (I.e the use of misoprotol and misoprotel ) this is an emotional period for u, all those shouting "keep the baby" do u know how much for baby food, can she bear the stigma and shame, u all are saying he could be the next Obama*****u forgot that he can also be the next anini or shekau @debbysmyles

@op, u alone know the kind of family u come from,hv seen senerio where parents can deny u and you will forced to marry the father who already hate u by then.
You will regret keeping the baby and might hate him

Eh eh! All dz pple calling pregnancy a mistake sha

Babies are cute

debbysmyles:
Pls I need advice,i just had to create a new account to avoid embrassment.
I'm 21yrs old and I had sex for the first time 1month ago,i was feeling sick so I decided to visit the doctor only to discover that i am pregnant.

I told my boyfriend and he suggested abortion..the problem is I don't want to abort the baby cos of fear.I kept my since till one ago because of different Phrophecy concerning pregnancy I must not abort if I do I will die.
I told my boyfriend everything but he insist I abort it if not he is going to abandon me to my fate.
My mum will kill me,society will crucify me,i have cried and cried,i don't know what to do.

Some guys are wicked upon all the promise of love.
I would have kept my virginity if I had known.

Hope u're a fyn gal, I ccld take the responsibilities.

I know many people are only advising u based on the sanity they need to preach in public buh my dear.....if you personally don't feel comfortable keeping d child get a professional to do D&C people do it alot.....forget prophecy don't let that brings fear into your heart, d devil only take advantage of your fears.....it not yet a baby it just a clot blood.... ve so lotta female friends that did it and it just a day internal pain....giving birth to d child that ll be an icon of sadness is not ideal cuz u won't be able to kill d child later....buh if ur mind did not abort don't do it...make u no talk say na me convince u......this is a candid advise no one ll say here

it will profit u to keep it and avoid aborting it,if the current ooni of ife aborted his daughter, at the age he did it,then he won't had a graduate now,also with regards to pasuma daughter he gave a car on her birthday, same with Clarence Peters the rave of the moment music video director, pls save ur live and the baby.

myners007:
dont insult cos u are no better. I know for sure that u ve been involved in abortion in one way or the other. Dont throw stone while living in a house made of Glass

You know for sure... don't support what is not right. Don't try to make it seem normal like it happens to everybody. For your info I've never been involved in any abortion because I'm a responsible man. I do not mess around unlike you who assumes everyone is aborting babies at 21.

To those supporting trash and to the shameless op.. know this: Abortion is bad thing.. It's not normal. You are a lady getting pregnant at 21 for a boyfriend not even a husband and coming to complain like it's not your fault... you must be a hoe. No explanation.

debbysmyles:
Pls I need advice,i just had to create a new account to avoid embrassment.
I'm 21yrs old and I had sex for the first time 1month ago,i was feeling sick so I decided to visit the doctor only to discover that i am pregnant.

I told my boyfriend and he suggested abortion..the problem is I don't want to abort the baby cos of fear.I kept my since till one ago because of different Phrophecy concerning pregnancy I must not abort if I do I will die.
I told my boyfriend everything but he insist I abort it if not he is going to abandon me to my fate.
My mum will kill me,society will crucify me,i have cried and cried,i don't know what to do.

Some guys are wicked upon all the promise of love.
I would have kept my virginity if I had known.

keep d preggy dont waste ur life. The shame u may face is temporary. Be wise.

Babez..there is nothing you can do about this issue except you prefer to die while aborting thereby bring pain and grieve to your family. I will suggest you tell your mum about it, yes its going to be a hard one but u have to try. The highest she would do is cry, beat u and feel disappointed. But life goes on, it has happened period. People will definitely talk as usual but don't mind them, its your mess so you gat to clean it up. The pain and shame is just for 9month and after then you become you again....For the guy,(they are always fond of running away) r for Godsake, you had unprotected sex wit a Lady, what were you excepting in return...?..a plasma TV or home theatre...thats why I keep saying(the fact that you sleep in a garage does not make you a car)not every guy you see on trouser is worth calling a man.....my dear, just let him be since he is not interested in d pregnancy, he's just been irresponsible and not matured enough to man up to the challenge facing him....You have two choices, its either you face the shame and become the mother of a great personality(nobody knows tomorrow) or.....you listen to some people and end up as a murderer...make your decision wisely. I hope you learn a lesson.

If everyone here are saying keep it, don't abort.. Abeg where are those that have aborted? Anyway don't abort too.

debbysmyles:
Pls I need advice,i just had to create a new account to avoid embrassment.
I'm 21yrs old and I had sex for the first time 1month ago,i was feeling sick so I decided to visit the doctor only to discover that i am pregnant.

I told my boyfriend and he suggested abortion..the problem is I don't want to abort the baby cos of fear.I kept my since till one ago because of different Phrophecy concerning pregnancy I must not abort if I do I will die.
I told my boyfriend everything but he insist I abort it if not he is going to abandon me to my fate.
My mum will kill me,society will crucify me,i have cried and cried,i don't know what to do.

Some guys are wicked upon all the promise of love.
I would have kept my virginity if I had known.

Do you know where he resides? If yes, simply tell your Mum and match down to his house, and tell his mum your hanky pankys, has lead to a 9 month course!!!

NB: If you don't inform his parents, he would simply keep getting ladies pregnant and keep getting away with it, at the expense of this ladies womb and wellbeing!!

I would advise you to leave it. The Lord would provide for your need to take care of this baby.

Strahovski1:
Trash... serves you right. Getting pregnant at 21. When you were fuc!king you did not know you would use use a condom?

Lucky you created created a new account.

As a result of your silliness, you are about to kill an innocent life via abortion simply because you were not careful to use a condom or perhaps you are just a hoe.

Piece of trash...

this nigga should be banned pls

debbysmyles:
Decker I appreciate but my mum has been warning me since about pregnancy,the main problem now is the guy is threatening to deny me and pregnancy if I don't abort it.

bae, He is not threatening U. He is simply telling U of his plan B.



He WILL deny It,
Old friends will mock U,
Church members will insult thunder & lightning out of U,
Back bitters will crucify U,
Hypocrites will curse U


so brace for impact my dear.
Its gonna be a painful ride


but cheer Urself with the fact that a new Human is growing in U,
Look up to the beautiful, yellow face U will see after visiting the labour room,

Prepare Urself for the life of a super woman

debbysmyles:
My mum will never accept me,I'm scared right now.

She will dear



dats Y she is Ur mother.



Ur sweet mother.



but be prepared to play by Her rules ooooo

if U dare swerve a bit, she will attack U like lightening

falconey:
Crap

ahn ahn, falconey is now a woman?

Dudeweedlmao:
If you keep the baby and your mum disowns you like you said, now what?

You're gonna come back here and ask for a place to stay?
This same people telling you to keep it wont even look twice at that thread.

speak for Urself.

They enjoy in secret and complain in public.
Kontinu.
Wish you quadruplets