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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by mazizitonene(m): 2:08am On Jan 25, 2016 |
op.......you are very.....infact i dont know what to call you......@ 21 you lack sense, people like you should commit abortion and die in the process lets have less oflos in the society. this post just successfully annoyed me and other sensible ppl. nonsense well op....................... 1 Like
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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by LILGWANZ(m): 3:09am On Jan 25, 2016 |
okontasamuel90:OMG see your face compared to the makup.JEEEZZ any girl wey i go marry go first wash face before we begin discuss anything.As for the matter on ground please id advice you find a reputable clinic and abort it,since wey we don dey tell you and time dey go OOOOOOOO ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by joshrare(m): 3:21am On Jan 25, 2016 |
debbysmyles: My dear op You are a big fool and a disgrace to womanhood You kept your virginity till date and yet loose it to a man that is not your husband and your fish brain forgot condoms @#30 Probably u never had a good reason for keeping it anyways... Sorry ooo 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Obiwannn: 3:25am On Jan 25, 2016 |
CaroLyner:how did you know all these things? |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by ChynoBEATS: 3:33am On Jan 25, 2016 |
debbysmyles: Nawa o... He wanted sex ,he had it, he released Now he doesnt want to be called a daddy... See ehn You better go and hold him ,Even if him like let Him shout ..oladem na gragra ....sheyi E dey sweet Its better he takes full responsibility cos abortion is illegal ..... AfterAll there are different Qualities of condom and the cheapest is 50naira Wo Go and Drag that niqqa ... debbysmyles: Story ... Mumsi will only yell for a while .... Nobody can kill his/her Daughter because she's preggy debbysmyles: Smh society kor sociality ni debbysmyles: Ehya pele .... You open your legs for him ,he got you preggy n you're here crying.... You better be serious cos youre not the 1st person .... |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by ChynoBEATS: 3:50am On Jan 25, 2016 |
CaroLyner: Chey caro ah! U want make dem start to chase you ![]() Dont mind Cbaby she's 23 ![]() |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by ChynoBEATS: 3:57am On Jan 25, 2016 |
debbysmyles: ![]() See you aint a kiddo you're a young lady stop being childish......... He cant do nada ...go and hold that niqqa |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by calcal: 4:12am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Born the baby, I help you take care. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by skyfullofstars(f): 4:24am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Well, I kept it, I'm 23. My baby has already been born, and the father doesn't want to recognize him. Women who have aborted their babies feel very sad about it and regret it, don't go for it. Keep your baby and be happy with him/her. I thought I was going to get married to my bf... 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Toks2008(m): 4:25am On Jan 25, 2016 |
debbysmyles: Dont even think of abortion. If he jilts you,trust me,you will see a very responsinle man who will love you. I met a lady today at a shopping mall yesterday who happen to be a benenise lady and she is such a lovely lady to behold. this lady happens to be in same shoes with you,she is pregnant for a guy who seem not to have interest in the pregnancy and she is also contemplating abortion. pls dont dare it.Trust me,many matured guys these days dont mind after ones so have no fear. This is why i say most guys in their 20s are unreliable because many of them are only interested in sex without the consequence. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by skyfullofstars(f): 4:26am On Jan 25, 2016 |
joshrare: Stop mistreating the lady. Mistreat instead the men that get women pregnant and don't take care of their children after. I know many of them, it's ridiculous. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by bolayei: 6:43am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Woman, you are 21 not 11...i mean what age is the legal age in nigeria? last time i checked it is 18... my advice is not to abort but if he insist on abortion still keep the baby but make sure he does not have a say in the baby's upbringing, in nigeria kids belong to mums if unmarried...it will be difficult at first but things will sort itself out debbysmyles: 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by bolayei: 6:57am On Jan 25, 2016 |
how old was your grand mother when she first conceived? Retard like you.. mazizitonene: |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Kalvan: 6:57am On Jan 25, 2016 |
How is it murder to remove a non-sentient lump of cells? You overly religious zombies crack me up. ![]() There are million of kids starving in Nigeria and Africa;why should the OP add one more child to that list?! You're advising her to bring an innocent child into this world to suffer! Wicked bastards! 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 6:58am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Obiwannn: You suggest she stay ignorant and red up like the op? |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 7:09am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Kalvan: You comment is right to a large extend. But what if She has the capacity (physically,mentally and emotionally )to take care of her child . Probably scared of parenting alone and need a little support ... Is your advice still going to be she abort? |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by seaga: 7:10am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Speechless3: Yes it's the better alternative and yes everyone deserves a second chance.I am not against that in anyway 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 7:20am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Debbysmyles, the question is what do you want? Do you want the child gone, but your scared only because of the prophesies you were told?.......... If this is the case, pastors give random prophesy and because you a lady the pastor prophesied that to you! You really don't have to keep the child then. And do not listen to this people bad mouthing you. Henceforth learn all you need to know about yourself as a lady. But if you really want to keep your child. Be strong and do keep you child. I can assure you. That child is going to be the best part of your life in a year, two or three! I can't assure you that you won't be stigmatized. But at the long run you will be fine. Be strong ma. And do what you think is best for you! |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Funminicrown: 7:38am On Jan 25, 2016 |
DeeTus:Go and read Proverb 26:4. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by foriz4u(m): 7:41am On Jan 25, 2016 |
debbysmyles:hahaha...sorry I just can't help but laught at ur last line... watin dey Swt dey bitter its a pity u just no...young girls of nowadays... A small oi go just come tell una one small word una go carry am for head like he's d only guy on earth. well, my dear, I won't lie to u ooo...abortion.o good ooo...I'm a guy, I've done like 3-4 n I don't feel proud abt it...it still hunt me even up till now...having a baby is not easy too...it could go as long as destroying a lot of ur dream, ambition n career but notwithstanding, its d best oprion...what will b will b...u have made a mistaken tag 'mistake No1.' don't commit mistake No2 by opting for an abortion. keep d baby u will scale tru. people have pass tru that route n came out of it victoriously, u too can. may God help u. amen. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 7:46am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Funminicrown:Hey, good morning. ![]() Why are you so angry? The key here is to sound a bit playful and not too serious. Don't be upset. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by macho44(m): 7:54am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Gbyte:Beyond Reasonable doubt, Uve spoken well, but yet still d deed has been done, She's pregnant already and any attempt to abort that poor innocent child would leave her worse for it. As regards to ur case. Sure, Very few men would wanna Wife a woman with kids, but we all make mistakes, its part of the learning Curve. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by elderken(m): 8:07am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Go tell his mum, that her son is ready to become papa born. Boy. Whatever happens Do Not ABORT that pregnancy. Guess what? Ten years from today, you'll be proud you didn't. Inspite of your mum killing you, she'll love and respect you, Inspite of the shame and abuse society will haul at you. You alone will decide if it will Break your, or make you stronger. Next time, learn to close your legs, from this he goat boys. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by 0gbeni(m): 8:16am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Sorry about your situation OP.. just shows that your bf does not love you, he's only after your body.... Don't allow anyone to tell you to keep or abort the baby, afterall.. more than 85% of the men telling you to keep the baby will never marry an 'after-one' woman and a unwanted baby negatively affects a woman's education and career.. on the other hand, abortion is still illegal in Nigeria and a poorly executed abortion could lead to the loss of your womb/and or life.. Tell your mum asap and disregard those religious nonsense.. May God be with you |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Strahovski1(m): 8:28am On Jan 25, 2016 |
OLUJOSHINS: Lol call a spade a spade Call a hoe a hoe. ..bdont support what is wrong. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by akagson: 8:31am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Dirkcoyt:I think this speaker spoke well. In as much as there are downsides to abortion, you may have to resort to that option because you and your boyfriend are not prepared for what has befallen you. Bringing that innocent child into this world to come and suffer isn't the best idea. But you'd have to live with the consequences of your carelessness. Wrap that d!ck up always. Never allow anyone slip that sh!t into you without wrapping it up. I don't know much but I know there are abortion pills — if what you're afraid of is surgery. Not all abortions have to do with tearing your womb, depending on how old the pregnancy is. With abortion pills, I think you'd be fine. But be prepared also for the pains because I learnt that it's usually very painful. The pills would flush your womb of the foetus. Have a nice day. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by mapet: 8:46am On Jan 25, 2016 |
AlexCk: @ OP, I praise your courage for bringing this out. I will advise you do what the poster above says. It can't be any worse. Fast forward 5years from now, you could be in a better position than you imagined |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by onweson(m): 8:57am On Jan 25, 2016 |
My beloved sister, it is obvious you have committed a terrible sin by engaging in pre-marital knowledge of a man which is fornication. Repent now and confess your sin. I seriously warn you against caving to the devilish demand of the man for abortion; remember abortion is murder. Say no to that, grow the pregnancy and you will safely put to bed. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by OAUTemitayo: 9:14am On Jan 25, 2016 |
CaroLyner:I hope you have not already started doing it |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by OLUJOSHINS(m): 9:16am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Strahovski1: so U've never made a mistake? |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by OAUTemitayo: 9:25am On Jan 25, 2016 |
OP Let me give you an advice. Tell your BF's mother and father. The mother will accept it and take good care of you if the family is a responsible one. Don't ever try to abort it. I just don't understand some guys, don't do it if you are not ready. if any girl mistakenly got pregnant for me, then I will marry her with full conviction because I cannot have sex with someone I don't love. Don't abort it |
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